{"id":6839,"date":"2020-07-16T10:36:41","date_gmt":"2020-07-16T10:36:41","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=6839"},"modified":"2022-03-02T00:12:33","modified_gmt":"2022-03-02T00:12:33","slug":"no-complicado-buscado","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/no-complicado-buscado\/","title":{"rendered":"No es tan complicado - Si quisiera estar contigo, estar\u00eda contigo"},"content":{"rendered":"

Es algo que duele mucho saber, pero hay que admitir que siempre es mejor ser herido por la verdad que consolado con mentiras.<\/p>\n

Porque, tarde o temprano, la verdad<\/a> saldr\u00e1 y si sale m\u00e1s tarde doler\u00e1 mucho m\u00e1s de lo que doler\u00eda si saliera antes. Y la verdad es que:<\/p>\n

It\u2019s not that complicated actually. Si quisiera estar contigo, estar\u00eda contigo.<\/a>.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

I know it\u2019s much easier to believe it\u2019s just complicated. I know it hurts a little less to blame it on the timing, to blame it on anything else, just so you wouldn\u2019t have to blame it on him.<\/p>\n

That\u2019s why you kept waiting for so long.<\/p>\n

That\u2019s why hope never left your side and that\u2019s why you were able to make yourself believe that one day it just wouldn\u2019t be complicated anymore and that finally, the waiting would be worthwhile.<\/p>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

As\u00ed es exactamente como seguiste rompi\u00e9ndote pieza a pieza. Porque nunca dejar\u00eda de ser complicado con \u00e9l.<\/p>\n

Esto podr\u00eda ir por muchos caminos.<\/p>\n

Podr\u00eda ser un gilipollas que s\u00f3lo necesita utilizarte para dar celos a alguien o tal vez s\u00f3lo sea un hombre t\u00f3xico<\/a> que necesita a alguien en quien proyectar sus inseguridades. Tal vez s\u00f3lo eras un simple accesorio para ocupar su tiempo.<\/p>\n

Lo peor ser\u00eda que fuera un buen tipo al que tuvieras que dejar marchar.<\/p>\n

He could be the person who makes you feel good about yourself but doesn\u2019t really feel the same way you do. Or he could like you, but still not think you\u2019re the one.<\/p>\n

It could be that he\u2019d be with you if there wasn\u2019t this other person with him.<\/p>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Regardless of what the scenario is, if he wanted you, he wouldn\u2019t need to think about it, and if he really wanted to be with you, it would just be instinct for him to choose you.<\/p>\n

And since you\u2019re thinking it\u2019s complicated while it seems he has no intention of choosing you, you might have to face the ugly reality:<\/p>\n

It\u2019s not that complicated actually. If he wanted to be with you, he would be with you.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

It\u2019s time to stop making excuses for him and justifying his actions.<\/a><\/p>\n

Piensa en ti mismo por un segundo y en c\u00f3mo te comportas. \u00bfEs realmente tan complicada tu vida? Si quisieras a alguien, \u00bfpondr\u00edas excusas o luchar\u00edas por \u00e9l?<\/p>\n

You wouldn\u2019t allow somebody who you want in your life to think he\u2019s not your priority or that you wouldn\u2019t allow anything to stand in your way and there is nothing stopping him from doing the same.<\/p>\n

Espera su falta de voluntad, por supuesto.<\/p>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

There are two ways that you can allow this to go and no matter which one you choose, you\u2019re going to get heartbroken either way.<\/p>\n

Pero el lado positivo es que puedes elegir romperte el coraz\u00f3n una sola vez en lugar de rompi\u00e9ndolo una y otra vez<\/a>.<\/p>\n

You will keep breaking your heart if you keep justifying his actions. You\u2019ll keep breaking your heart if you keep choosing a man who isn\u2019t likely to choose you. <\/strong><\/p>\n

You\u2019ll keep breaking your heart if you keep waiting for the one you\u2019re almost sure won\u2019t ever come to you in the way you\u2019d like him to.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Pero s\u00f3lo te rompes el coraz\u00f3n una vez si decides ser sincero contigo mismo. S\u00f3lo te rompes el coraz\u00f3n una vez si decides no enga\u00f1arte m\u00e1s.<\/p>\n

S\u00f3lo te rompes una vez si te eliges a ti mismo como prioridad. R\u00f3mpete el coraz\u00f3n solo esta vez y sigue adelante despu\u00e9s de aceptar:<\/p>\n

It\u2019s not that complicated. If he wanted to be with you, he would be with you.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

\"No<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

This is something that hurts like hell to know, but you have to admit to yourself that it\u2019s always better to be hurt by the truth than comforted with lies. Because, sooner or later, the truth will come out and if it comes out later it will hurt much more than it would if it…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":42,"featured_media":104032,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29646],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-6839","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-understanding-men"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29646,"label":"understanding men"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/Its-Not-That-Complicated-If-He-Wanted-To-Be-With-You-He-Would-Be-With-You.jpg",800,532,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Selma June","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/selmajune\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29646,"name":"understanding men","slug":"understanding-men","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29646,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Wondering about what's going on inside his head? Or do you need explanations for his actions? Learn to understand men, and your life will become easier.","parent":29643,"count":570,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29646,"category_count":570,"category_description":"Wondering about what's going on inside his head? Or do you need explanations for his actions? Learn to understand men, and your life will become easier.","cat_name":"understanding men","category_nicename":"understanding-men","category_parent":29643}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/6839","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/42"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=6839"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/6839\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/104032"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=6839"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=6839"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=6839"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}