{"id":68398,"date":"2020-05-13T16:05:07","date_gmt":"2020-05-13T16:05:07","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=68398"},"modified":"2021-09-10T09:37:30","modified_gmt":"2021-09-10T09:37:30","slug":"relacion-a-larga-distancia","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/relacion-a-larga-distancia\/","title":{"rendered":"13 cosas que hay que saber antes de iniciar una relaci\u00f3n a distancia"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>\u00bfSabes lo que dicen de \"ojos que no ven, coraz\u00f3n que no siente\"?<\/p>\n<p>Aunque mucha gente cree en este dicho, una de las frases m\u00e1s famosas sobre c\u00f3mo empezar una relaci\u00f3n a distancia nos ense\u00f1a algo completamente distinto. Dice as\u00ed:<\/p>\n<p>\u2018<a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/true-love\/coupled-up\/9-senales-amor-verdadero-hombre\/\">Amor verdadero<\/a> doesn\u2019t mean being inseparable. It means being separated and nothing changes\u2019.<\/p>\n<p>Well, this is exactly what you should focus on if you\u2019re about to begin a relationship long distance.<\/p>\n<p>Sin embargo, a pesar de su lado rom\u00e1ntico, mantener una RLD no es todo sol y arco iris.<\/p>\n<p>De hecho, suele ser estresante y dif\u00edcil de manejar.<\/p>\n<p>However, that\u2019s why we\u2019re here; to tell you everything you need to know before starting a long distance relationship.<\/p>\n<p>Abr\u00f3chate el cintur\u00f3n, sigue leyendo y \u00e1rmate de mucha paciencia. Mucha suerte.<\/p>\n<h2>1. Ser\u00e1 diferente de todas tus otras relaciones<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-68468 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/young-woman-texting-on-phone.jpg\" alt=\"Mujer joven con vestido rojo enviando mensajes de texto por tel\u00e9fono\" width=\"800\" height=\"525\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/young-woman-texting-on-phone.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/young-woman-texting-on-phone-300x197.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/young-woman-texting-on-phone-768x504.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>I won\u2019t lie to you; being in a long distance relationship is nowhere similar to being in a \u2018regular\u2019 relationship.<\/p>\n<p>Therefore, you might have had a bunch of boyfriends or girlfriends before but trust me, in this relationship, it will feel like you\u2019re doing everything for the first time ever.<\/p>\n<p>I\u2019m not saying that you should magically forget all about your previous experiences when it comes to romance.<\/p>\n<p>Sin embargo, prep\u00e1rate para que esta vez las cosas sean diferentes.<\/p>\n<p>First of all, be aware of the fact that this journey won\u2019t be easy. I\u2019m not saying this to scare you off.<\/p>\n<p>En lugar de eso, s\u00f3lo quiero que est\u00e9s preparado al cien por cien para lo que viene despu\u00e9s.<\/p>\n<p>Tomar la decisi\u00f3n de iniciar una relaci\u00f3n a distancia es una elecci\u00f3n dif\u00edcil y conlleva numerosas responsabilidades.<\/p>\n<p>Sin embargo, mantenerlo con \u00e9xito y sano al mismo tiempo es a\u00fan m\u00e1s dif\u00edcil.<\/p>\n<p>Tanto t\u00fa como tu pareja tendr\u00e9is que hacer muchos sacrificios para que vuestra relaci\u00f3n a distancia funcione correctamente.<\/p>\n<p>In many situations, you\u2019ll feel like a little, lost child without anyone to guide you.<\/p>\n<p>However, all of this doesn\u2019t mean that long distance relationships aren\u2019t worth it.<\/p>\n<p>S\u00ed, esto te traer\u00e1 muchos problemas, de eso no hay duda.<\/p>\n<p>However, if the love is real and if what you two have is meant to last, I promise you that you\u2019ll succeed in preserving your romance.<\/p>\n<p>This means that you\u2019ll have to decide whether this is something you\u2019re ready for.<\/p>\n<p>I\u2019m not saying that you can guarantee that you\u2019ll spend the rest of your life with this person. After all, you can never know what the future brings.<\/p>\n<p>Sin embargo, hay que pensar bien las cosas y decidir si esta persona merece todas las dificultades que inevitablemente surgir\u00e1n.<\/p>\n<p>Y lo que es m\u00e1s importante, tienes que averiguar si es alguien con quien quieres empezar este viaje.<\/p>\n<p>Don\u2019t worry, you won\u2019t be the bad guy if you give up now.<\/p>\n<p>After all, it\u2019s better to be honest and back out in time than to <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/relationship\/es-culpa-suya-por-enganarte-pero-es-culpa-tuya-por-dejarle\/\">seguir<\/a> ambos durante medio a\u00f1o s\u00f3lo para darte cuenta de que este tipo de romance no es para ti.<\/p>\n<h2>2. Sometimes you\u2019ll feel alone<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-68469 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/sad-woman-sitting-on-the-window.jpg\" alt=\"Triste y solitaria mujer afroamericana sentada en la ventana\" width=\"800\" height=\"504\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/sad-woman-sitting-on-the-window.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/sad-woman-sitting-on-the-window-300x189.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/sad-woman-sitting-on-the-window-768x484.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>You\u2019ve come to the number one thing you should know before starting a long distance relationship.<\/p>\n<p>It means that, despite all of the obstacles, you\u2019ve come to terms with yourself and your loved one.<\/p>\n<p>You\u2019ve both clearly made a decision to give your story a shot.<\/p>\n<p>Well, if that is the case, the first thing you need to know is that there will be times when you\u2019ll <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/relationship\/no-te-mereces-un-chico-que-te-haga-sentir-sola-en-una-relacion\/\">sentirse solo<\/a>especialmente en tiempos dif\u00edciles.<\/p>\n<p>When you\u2019re in a relationship with someone who lives in the same city as you do or in an hour\u2019s drive away, this person is constantly physically present in your life.<\/p>\n<p>Sal\u00eds por la noche y pas\u00e1is mucho tiempo juntos.<\/p>\n<p>Por t\u00e9rmino medio, este tipo de parejas se ven unas cuantas veces a la semana.<\/p>\n<p>However, things won\u2019t go that way once you start a long distance relationship in which you and your partner live in different cities.<\/p>\n<p>De hecho, pasar\u00e9is m\u00e1s tiempo separados que juntos.<\/p>\n<p>When you\u2019re in a \u2018regular\u2019 relationship, your partner is usually a short drive away from you.<\/p>\n<p>You can call them to come over whenever you\u2019re feeling down, you can go by their house to see them just for a few moments when you miss them and they can run to you whenever you want them around.<\/p>\n<p>However, when you\u2019re in a long-term relationship, you won\u2019t have your significant other next to you when you need them the most; at least, not physically.<\/p>\n<p>Also, be aware that you\u2019ll spend many of the important dates by yourself.<\/p>\n<p>You probably won\u2019t manage to arrange a get-together every <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/life\/deseos-de-cumpleanos-para-la-hermana\/\">cumplea\u00f1os<\/a>, Valentine\u2019s Day or anniversary and you\u2019ll be going without your plus-one to some weddings and other important events.<\/p>\n<p>Even though you\u2019re taken and in a committed relationship, sometimes you\u2019ll feel more single than ever.<\/p>\n<p>Adem\u00e1s, aqu\u00ed no hay espontaneidad. Al menos, no a la que acostumbran las parejas normales.<\/p>\n<p>Your partner can\u2019t appear in front of your window just to see you, they can\u2019t surprise you for a quick lunch on your break from work and you can\u2019t go out for a night drive which will last half an hour to clear your thoughts when you\u2019re both busy.<\/p>\n<p>You and your long-distance boyfriend or girlfriend will have to see each other according to a strict schedule so you\u2019ll have to plan your date nights in advance.<\/p>\n<h2>3. Necesitas establecer algunas reglas b\u00e1sicas<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-68472 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/person-holding-brown-card.jpg\" alt=\"Persona sosteniendo una tarjeta marr\u00f3n con el texto There are rules escrito en ella\" width=\"800\" height=\"502\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/person-holding-brown-card.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/person-holding-brown-card-300x188.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/person-holding-brown-card-768x482.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Uno de los consejos m\u00e1s importantes para una RLD es establecer unas reglas b\u00e1sicas desde el principio de la relaci\u00f3n.<\/p>\n<p>Of course, this applies to all other romances as well. However, something like is especially significant in relationships in which you two are not constantly present in each other\u2019s lives.<\/p>\n<p>First of all, you have to be clear about what\u2019s acceptable for each one of you.<\/p>\n<p>It is important to note that you\u2019ll both have to have social lives outside of your relationship.<\/p>\n<p>I\u2019m not saying that you should allow your partner to control your entire existence but you have to determine what\u2019s okay and what\u2019s not.<\/p>\n<p>Por ejemplo, si debe saber d\u00f3nde y con qui\u00e9n est\u00e1 la otra persona en todo momento y si se notificar\u00e1 mutuamente d\u00f3nde pasa todo el tiempo sin ella o no.<\/p>\n<p>Esto es importante si quiere evitar <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/relationship\/formas-de-combatir-los-celos\/\">celos<\/a> de convertirse en un problema.<\/p>\n<p>I\u2019m not saying that people in long-term relationships are more unfaithful than the rest of the world but a lack of trust in this case is much more common.<\/p>\n<p>After all, you have no idea what the other person is doing in their city. As far as you\u2019re concerned, they could have a secret life you have no clue about.<\/p>\n<p>La segunda cuesti\u00f3n que sin duda debe acordarse es la hora y la organizaci\u00f3n de las reuniones. \u00bfQui\u00e9n visitar\u00e1 a qui\u00e9n?<\/p>\n<p>\u00bfCon qu\u00e9 frecuencia os ver\u00e9is? \u00bfHay algunas fechas importantes a lo largo del a\u00f1o en las que quieres que tu pareja est\u00e9 a tu lado?<\/p>\n<p>\u00bfCon qu\u00e9 frecuencia deber\u00edais hablar por tel\u00e9fono? \u00bfC\u00f3mo funcionar\u00e1 vuestra relaci\u00f3n a distancia?<\/p>\n<p>I know that you might think that all of these rules will kill the spontaneity; after all, it\u2019s anything but romantic to have a scheduled goodnight Skype or Facetime video chat every evening.<\/p>\n<p>Sin embargo, si quieres que las cosas funcionen, estas reglas b\u00e1sicas son obligatorias.<\/p>\n<h2>4. La comunicaci\u00f3n es clave<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-72590 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/woman-talking-on-phone.jpg\" alt=\"Mujer feliz hablando por el m\u00f3vil cerca de una ventana\" width=\"800\" height=\"501\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/woman-talking-on-phone.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/woman-talking-on-phone-300x188.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/woman-talking-on-phone-768x481.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>La comunicaci\u00f3n es crucial en toda relaci\u00f3n, especialmente en las rom\u00e1nticas.<\/p>\n<p>Sin embargo, cuando se trata de amor a distancia, es el factor n\u00famero uno del que depende su \u00e9xito.<\/p>\n<p>You see, couples like this don\u2019t have the \u2018regular\u2019 things everyone else in love has. In fact, they only depend on the talking part and if that doesn\u2019t work, nothing else will either.<\/p>\n<p>Ante todo, tienes que convertirte en un excelente oyente, aunque no lo hayas sido antes.<\/p>\n<p>You\u2019ll need to learn how to understand whatever your partner is trying to tell you.<\/p>\n<p>Tienes que permitirles que digan lo que piensan y que te hablen de sus sentimientos, pensamientos, deseos y miedos.<\/p>\n<p>When they\u2019re the one talking, there is no interrupting and imposing your own opinion.<\/p>\n<p>Another thing you\u2019ll have to work on is your <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/psychology\/personality-types\/8-formas-diferentes-de-amar-para-los-empaticos\/\">habilidades emp\u00e1ticas<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>Sometimes it\u2019s hard to fully comprehend the person sitting next to you, let alone someone you\u2019re talking to over the phone or someone you\u2019re texting or emailing; after all, this person is not physically present by your side.<\/p>\n<p>You can\u2019t monitor their behavior and it will take you a lot more time to truly understand their points of view regarding certain things.<\/p>\n<p>Besides, to become an excellent listener overnight, you\u2019ll also have to improve your talking skills.<\/p>\n<p>Recuerda que \u00e9sta no es el tipo de relaci\u00f3n en la que puedes reconciliarte ese d\u00eda o cuando tu pareja te abraza.<\/p>\n<p>Therefore, it\u2019s time to forget about ignoring them when you\u2019re angry. There is no <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/relationship\/6-metodos-infalibles-para-hacer-frente-al-ghosting\/\">fantasma<\/a> y sin tratamiento de silencio.<\/p>\n<p>Nada de agresiones pasivas ni juegos mentales similares. S\u00e9 que cada una de estas cosas parecen inofensivas al principio y son tristemente una parte de cada relaci\u00f3n moderna.<\/p>\n<p>Sin embargo, en tu caso, no ser honesto y no ser capaz de comunicarte sanamente puede ser fatal para tu historia de amor.<\/p>\n<p>You won\u2019t wake up next to your partner the next morning after you ignored them last night.<\/p>\n<p>Si decides no responder a los mensajes de texto que te env\u00edan despu\u00e9s de una discusi\u00f3n, un d\u00eda las cosas pueden quedarse as\u00ed y puede que nunca os reconcili\u00e9is.<\/p>\n<p>Therefore, it\u2019s crucial to be completely honest about your thoughts and emotions.<\/p>\n<p>Remember that your partner doesn\u2019t have the possibility to conclude anything about your feelings besides what you openly tell them.<\/p>\n<h2>5. El dinero puede convertirse en un problema<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-68478 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/money-jar.jpg\" alt=\"Jarra de dinero volcada\" width=\"800\" height=\"502\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/money-jar.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/money-jar-300x188.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/money-jar-768x482.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>El dinero deber\u00eda ser lo menos importante en las relaciones.<\/p>\n<p>Where love is real, you\u2019ll stay next to each other through the greatest wealth and the worst poverty.<\/p>\n<p>Sin embargo, lamentablemente, en <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/true-love\/coupled-up\/relacion-a-distancia-prueba-definitiva-amor\/\">relaciones a larga distancia<\/a>el dinero puede convertirse en un grave problema.<\/p>\n<p>Para ser precisos, la falta de dinero puede suponer un obst\u00e1culo aparentemente insalvable para el futuro de su relaci\u00f3n.<\/p>\n<p>Mantener una RLD es caro. Adem\u00e1s de tiempo y energ\u00eda, tambi\u00e9n necesitas dinero para ver a tu pareja, que puede estar viviendo al otro lado del pa\u00eds o incluso en otro continente.<\/p>\n<p>De hecho, hay parejas que se pasan todo un a\u00f1o ahorrando lo suficiente para comprar billetes de avi\u00f3n y poder visitar a su pareja en verano.<\/p>\n<p>I won\u2019t lie to you; something like this requires a lot of sacrifice.<\/p>\n<p>There will be times when you\u2019ll probably question your decision.<\/p>\n<p>You might not see it now but there will come a moment when you\u2019ll ask yourself why you needed all of this when you could have led a much easier life.<\/p>\n<p>Adem\u00e1s, otro problema que tiene que ver con el dinero es tu futuro.<\/p>\n<p>Si pens\u00e1is iros a vivir juntos en alg\u00fan momento, ambos necesit\u00e1is una fuente de ingresos estable para dar este paso.<\/p>\n<p>Sin embargo, si los dos ten\u00e9is vuestras vidas resueltas en ciudades diferentes, la cosa se complica un poco.<\/p>\n<p>Al fin y al cabo, significa que uno de los dos tiene que dejar su trabajo y buscar uno nuevo en otro sitio.<\/p>\n<p>Para muchas parejas, todo esto parece demasiado. No est\u00e1n preparados para adentrarse en lo desconocido y depender emocionalmente de su pareja hasta que se asienten.<\/p>\n<p>That is perfectly okay. It means that you\u2019re mature enough to think about other things besides this enormous love that you two share.<\/p>\n<p>After all, no matter how romantic you are, you can\u2019t live out of love, right? Nevertheless, I want to give you hope.<\/p>\n<p>If what you two have is real and meant to be, I promise you that you\u2019ll find a way out of this problem as well.<\/p>\n<h2>6. Deb\u00e9is daros espacio mutuamente<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-68479 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/happy-woman-texting.jpg\" alt=\"Mujer feliz enviando mensajes de texto en su tel\u00e9fono con copa de vino en la otra mano\" width=\"800\" height=\"502\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/happy-woman-texting.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/happy-woman-texting-300x188.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/happy-woman-texting-768x482.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Okay, so when you read the title of this section, you\u2019ll think of it as the most unnecessary piece of advice you got here.<\/p>\n<p>Al fin y al cabo, t\u00fa y tu pareja viv\u00eds separados, apenas os veis cara a cara y toda vuestra relaci\u00f3n consiste principalmente en llamadas telef\u00f3nicas y <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/messages\/texts\/100-adorables-y-dulces-mensajes-de-amor-para-enviar-a-tu-novio\/\">mensajes de texto<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>Despite that, I\u2019m advising you to <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/fake-love\/brokenhearted\/por-que-los-hombres-necesitan-espacio-en-una-relacion-y-como-afrontarlo\/\">darse espacio mutuamente<\/a>. Suena rid\u00edculo, \u00bfverdad?<\/p>\n<p>Well, it\u2019s actually not, if you look at things from a different point of view. What you need to give each other is some cyber space.<\/p>\n<p>S\u00e9 que quieres pasar todo tu tiempo libre enviando mensajes de texto a tu ser querido, viendo su cara a trav\u00e9s de una webcam o escuchando su voz por tel\u00e9fono.<\/p>\n<p>Nevertheless, there is a chance of you two suffocating each other even without being physically present in one another\u2019s lives as well.<\/p>\n<p>For example, don\u2019t expect them to talk to you all the time when they\u2019re online. Don\u2019t push them to reduce their entire online activity to being in your relationship.<\/p>\n<p>Don\u2019t be needy and clingy. Don\u2019t obsess over every single thing they post on social media, don\u2019t stalk their online status and don\u2019t create a drama when they leave you on read.<\/p>\n<p>Te guste admitirlo o no, esta persona tiene una vida propia fuera de vuestra relaci\u00f3n.<\/p>\n<p>Tienen familia y amigos y, lo que es m\u00e1s importante, se les debe permitir tener algo de tiempo personal.<\/p>\n<p>So, please don\u2019t freak out if your partner is not in the mood to chat with you 24\/7.<\/p>\n<p>In that case, you\u2019ll only chase them away from you because nobody likes to feel like they\u2019re being too pressured to do anything.<\/p>\n<p>Acepta el hecho de que, en un momento dado, puede que prefieran desplazarse sin rumbo por las redes sociales o ver Netflix y relajarse solos.<\/p>\n<p>On the other hand, if you feel their lack of attention, it\u2019s something you should definitely point out.<\/p>\n<p>Just try finding a balance between ignoring each other and being at one another\u2019s throats all the time.<\/p>\n<h2>7. Debe tener un plan de futuro<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-68481 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/smiling-woman-texting.jpg\" alt=\"Mujer sonriente con top naranja enviando mensajes por tel\u00e9fono\" width=\"800\" height=\"500\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/smiling-woman-texting.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/smiling-woman-texting-300x188.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/smiling-woman-texting-768x480.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s one thing if your relationship is <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/relationship\/8-razones-por-las-que-tu-hombre-no-te-toma-nada-en-serio\/\">no es serio<\/a>. In that case, it is perfectly okay if you and your loved one don\u2019t have any plans for settling down in the future.<\/p>\n<p>De este modo, podr\u00e9is seguir vi\u00e9ndoos unas cuantas veces al a\u00f1o sin ning\u00fan compromiso hasta que uno de los dos se aburra o encuentre a alguien m\u00e1s cercano.<\/p>\n<p>On the other hand, if you really love each other and think that this is the real deal, I assume that you don\u2019t want to remain long distance partners for the rest of your lives.<\/p>\n<p>Sobre todo si piensas casarte y tener hijos.<\/p>\n<p>S\u00ed, hay matrimonios que viven en distintos lugares del mundo, pero criar a los hijos as\u00ed es casi imposible.<\/p>\n<p>Adem\u00e1s, este tipo de arreglo es incre\u00edblemente caro, dif\u00edcil de mantener y suele estar reservado a los famosos.<\/p>\n<p>Por lo tanto, si usted es un tipo medio de pareja a larga distancia, supongo que usted y su media naranja tienen esperanzas de acabar viviendo juntos.<\/p>\n<p>Pues bien, este tipo de cosas requieren una planificaci\u00f3n detallada y no son tan f\u00e1ciles de conseguir.<\/p>\n<p>Por supuesto, nadie te est\u00e1 diciendo que debas empezar a hablar de estos temas desde el primer d\u00eda de tu relaci\u00f3n.<\/p>\n<p>After all, you still don\u2019t know where things are headed and how long you two will stick together.<\/p>\n<p>Sin embargo, una vez que veas que tu romance se est\u00e1 volviendo serio, estos son definitivamente los temas que tienes que empezar a discutir lo antes posible.<\/p>\n<p>I\u2019m sure you both have some vision of arranging your relationship in the future and now is the time to reach a compromise.<\/p>\n<p>Para que estos sue\u00f1os no se queden s\u00f3lo en <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/relationship\/no-mas-palabras-dulces-y-promesas-vanas-quiero-honestidad-y-esfuerzo\/\">palabras vac\u00edas<\/a>, it\u2019s important to plan them in detail.<\/p>\n<p>\u00bfD\u00f3nde vivir\u00e9is los dos? \u00bfDejar\u00e1 alguno de los dos su lugar de residencia actual o buscar\u00e1 una tercera ciudad?<\/p>\n<p>\u00bfCu\u00e1ndo tiene previsto que ocurra todo esto? \u00bfCu\u00e1l es la fecha final en la que vuestro amor a distancia deber\u00eda tener su resoluci\u00f3n definitiva?<\/p>\n<p>Set a goal and work toward it with joint efforts if you\u2019re really serious about this relationship.<\/p>\n<h2>8. El contacto f\u00edsico es limitado<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-68482 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/man-and-woman-sitting-back-to-back.jpg\" alt=\"Hombre y mujer sentados espalda con espalda cerca de una gran ventana\" width=\"800\" height=\"500\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/man-and-woman-sitting-back-to-back.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/man-and-woman-sitting-back-to-back-300x188.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/man-and-woman-sitting-back-to-back-768x480.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Uno de los primeros problemas a los que se enfrentan muchas parejas a distancia tras un par de meses de romance es la falta de contacto f\u00edsico.<\/p>\n<p>Even though this might not seem so important when love is real, it actually can represent a big deal if you don\u2019t know what you\u2019re getting yourself into.<\/p>\n<p>I\u2019m not talking about sleeping next to each other here. I\u2019m talking about a lack of closeness and physical presence as well.<\/p>\n<p>If you\u2019re starting a long distance relationship, be aware that you won\u2019t have your boyfriend or girlfriend to kiss you whenever you feel like it.<\/p>\n<p>You won\u2019t be able to find comfort in their soothing arms when you\u2019re feeling low and you won\u2019t have the pleasure of waking up to seeing their sleepy face every morning.<\/p>\n<p>You don\u2019t have many possibilities other couples think as normal and usually take for granted. There is no walking with each other, holding hands.<\/p>\n<p>Nada de abrazos ni de oler el hermoso aroma de su pelo. De hecho, en las relaciones a distancia, cada una de estas cosas se convierte en un lujo.<\/p>\n<p>Se convierte en algo con lo que pasas semanas o incluso meses so\u00f1ando.<\/p>\n<p>Adem\u00e1s, el hecho de que el contacto f\u00edsico sea limitado a veces aleja a las personas.<\/p>\n<p>Al fin y al cabo, todos tenemos instintos primarios y eso incluye el impulso de estar f\u00edsicamente cerca de nuestros seres queridos y poder tocarlos.<\/p>\n<p>I won\u2019t lie to you; this is a test for all long distance couples. Some people simply can\u2019t stand it and the part in which they miss their partner so much to the point where they decide to call it quits.<\/p>\n<p>However, if you\u2019re both strong enough, you\u2019ll see all of this as nothing but another stepstone toward your final destination.<\/p>\n<p>Estar separados f\u00edsicamente os acercar\u00e1 espiritualmente y echaros de menos os har\u00e1 apreciar a\u00fan m\u00e1s los momentos que pas\u00e9is juntos.<\/p>\n<h2>9. Deben compartir intereses comunes<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-68483 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/even-if-we-are-apart-message.jpg\" alt=\"Aunque estemos separados siempre estar\u00e9 contigo mensaje escrito en pizarra negra\" width=\"800\" height=\"504\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/even-if-we-are-apart-message.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/even-if-we-are-apart-message-300x189.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/even-if-we-are-apart-message-768x484.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Being in this type of relationship will be even harder if you two don\u2019t share common interests.<\/p>\n<p>Even though I\u2019m not saying that<a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/love\/razones-para-salir-con-tu-polo-opuesto\/\"> opuestos<\/a> can\u2019t attract and last together, not being similar to your partner will give you more hard times when you\u2019re not together.<\/p>\n<p>After all, you have little physical contact. You have no or only a few mutual friends, you don\u2019t go together to events and you don\u2019t share your daily routines.<\/p>\n<p>Entonces, \u00bfde qu\u00e9 queda hablar? Bueno, tambi\u00e9n tengo una soluci\u00f3n para esto.<\/p>\n<p>For starters, engage in each other\u2019s interests. If your partner is a football fan, watch a game they\u2019re watching so you can comment on it later.<\/p>\n<p>Lean juntos un libro y hablen de \u00e9l. Empiecen a aprender juntos un nuevo idioma o practiquen juntos un deporte (cada uno en su lado del mundo).<\/p>\n<p>Hit the gym and become each other\u2019s motivation to get fit. Even if you two have different tastes in music, books, movies or art, try finding common ground.<\/p>\n<p>You see where I\u2019m going with this, right? Basically, even if you\u2019re not into the same things your partner is, show interest in them.<\/p>\n<p>I\u2019m not saying that you should lie about your preferences to have a topic to talk about with them.<\/p>\n<p>Sin embargo, por el bien de tu amor y por el bien de vuestra relaci\u00f3n, haz algunas cosas que les hagan felices y espera el mismo trato a cambio.<\/p>\n<h2>10. Hay que ser creativo<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-68494 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/tattooed-woman-with-blue-hair-in-black-t-shirt.jpg\" alt=\"Mujer tatuada con el pelo azul en camiseta negra cerca de la pared de ladrillo\" width=\"800\" height=\"500\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/tattooed-woman-with-blue-hair-in-black-t-shirt.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/tattooed-woman-with-blue-hair-in-black-t-shirt-300x188.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/tattooed-woman-with-blue-hair-in-black-t-shirt-768x480.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Among the other skills you\u2019ll have to adopt to make your long distance relationship work, creativity is also one of them.<\/p>\n<p>When you have a \u2018regular\u2019 relationship, after a while, you forget about imagination.<\/p>\n<p>Dejas de planear todas tus citas con antelaci\u00f3n y la mayor\u00eda de ellas se convierten en ir a tomar un caf\u00e9 a tu cafeter\u00eda favorita o Netflix and chill.<\/p>\n<p>However, when it comes to an LDR, this is no longer an option. That\u2019s why you\u2019ll both have to become extra creative about your dates.<\/p>\n<p>If you\u2019re at the beginning of your romance, it\u2019s more than enough to talk on the phone with your loved one, to text them all the time and to see them over Skype video chat.<\/p>\n<p>Sin embargo, te guste admitirlo o no, esto puede llegar a aburrirte al cabo de un par de meses.<\/p>\n<p>Del mismo modo que otras parejas caen en la rutina, estos mensajes de texto y llamadas telef\u00f3nicas tambi\u00e9n se convertir\u00e1n en tu rutina.<\/p>\n<p>That\u2019s why you need some innovative <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/relationship\/20-ideas-increibles-para-salir-por-la-noche\/\">ideas para citas<\/a> para hacer tu relaci\u00f3n m\u00e1s interesante.<\/p>\n<p>Por ejemplo, pod\u00e9is salir a cenar (cada uno en su ciudad). Coged vuestros tel\u00e9fonos y ponedlos en la mesa de enfrente.<\/p>\n<p>Pretend that you\u2019re together and that this is a fancy dinner date. Dress up like you\u2019re really going out for a romantic get-together with your significant other.<\/p>\n<p>This can become a regular thing when it comes to concerts, clubbing or sports events. Don\u2019t worry about people looking at you strangely.<\/p>\n<p>Cr\u00e9eme, a la mayor\u00eda les parecer\u00e1 incre\u00edblemente bonito. Adem\u00e1s, tu felicidad es tu prioridad n\u00famero uno. As\u00ed que, \u00bfa qui\u00e9n le importan unas cuantas miradas raras?<\/p>\n<p>Adem\u00e1s, \u00bfrecuerdas esos libros que deber\u00edais leer juntos? Pues puedes organizar tu propio club de lectura.<\/p>\n<p>Set one night in the month where you\u2019ll discuss what you\u2019ve read. I\u2019m sure you\u2019ll agree that this is an awesome date idea for long distance couples.<\/p>\n<p>After all, you don\u2019t have to feel like you\u2019re an outcast at all the events you go to without your plus-one. Take your partner with you by phone and send them a piece of atmosphere over the camera.<\/p>\n<p>The same goes for physical touch. You can\u2019t sleep or cuddle together but you can put your phone next to your pillow and listen to each other\u2019s peaceful breathing.<\/p>\n<h2>11. Debe alegar en persona<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-68497 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/couple-fighting-while-sitting.jpg\" alt=\"Pareja peleando sentada en un sof\u00e1\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/couple-fighting-while-sitting.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/couple-fighting-while-sitting-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/couple-fighting-while-sitting-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Let\u2019s get one thing straight\u2014all couples fight, without exception.<\/p>\n<p>Those who tell you otherwise are either lying in an attempt to present their relationship as perfect as it can be or they don\u2019t care for each other to the point where they don\u2019t even put any extra effort into resolving their issues.<\/p>\n<p>Por lo tanto, sin duda, usted y su pareja a distancia tambi\u00e9n se pelear\u00e1n.<\/p>\n<p>Sin embargo, lo importante aqu\u00ed es hacer un esfuerzo adicional para dejar estas peleas para cuando os ve\u00e1is en persona.<\/p>\n<p>I\u2019m not saying that you should sweep things under the carpet just to maintain your relationship long distance.<\/p>\n<p>En lugar de eso, trabajad en vuestros problemas, pero cuando se trate de discusiones serias que son esenciales para el futuro de vuestra relaci\u00f3n, resolvedlas mir\u00e1ndoos cara a cara.<\/p>\n<p>Adem\u00e1s, tambi\u00e9n deber\u00edas establecer algunas reglas b\u00e1sicas a la hora de pelear.<\/p>\n<p>No se cuelga el tel\u00e9fono hasta que se habla de todo lo que hay que hablar.<\/p>\n<p>Y lo que es m\u00e1s importante, no hay <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/relationship\/textos-de-ruptura\/\">rupturas por mensajes de texto<\/a>correos electr\u00f3nicos o llamadas telef\u00f3nicas.<\/p>\n<p>If one of you wants to get out of the relationship, you\u2019ll have to be brave enough to tell the other person that straightforwardly. After all, this is fair.<\/p>\n<p>You\u2019ll have to admit that it\u2019s quite different talking in person.<\/p>\n<p>You sense the person\u2019s vibe, you see their nonverbal gestures and body language signs, hear the tone of their voice and you can touch them and feel whatever their feeling with more ease.<\/p>\n<h2>12. Jealousy can be a problem\u2026<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-68499 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/beautiful-girl-sitting-on-the-window.jpg\" alt=\"Preciosa chica sentada en la ventana pintando con el dedo un coraz\u00f3n sobre cristal\" width=\"800\" height=\"503\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/beautiful-girl-sitting-on-the-window.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/beautiful-girl-sitting-on-the-window-300x189.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/beautiful-girl-sitting-on-the-window-768x483.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Una cierta cantidad de mono <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/relationship\/9-formas-en-que-los-celos-destruyen-una-relacion\/\">celos<\/a> es perfectamente natural en toda relaci\u00f3n rom\u00e1ntica.<\/p>\n<p>When you love another person, it is normal that you can\u2019t remain indifferent to the possibility of them being with someone else. It is reasonable that you\u2019re scared of losing them.<\/p>\n<p>Sin embargo, este temor se intensifica a\u00fan m\u00e1s cuando se pasa la mayor parte del tiempo lejos el uno del otro.<\/p>\n<p>Lo cierto es que las personas tienden a ser m\u00e1s infieles en las relaciones a distancia.<\/p>\n<p>Al fin y al cabo, crecen espiritualmente al margen de la persona que est\u00e1 f\u00edsicamente alejada de ellos.<\/p>\n<p>Besides, in these circumstances, it\u2019s much easier to fall in love with someone new.<\/p>\n<p>You miss your significant other, you miss them being gentle with you and you miss their kisses, so you run into a third person\u2019s arms.<\/p>\n<p>Don\u2019t get me wrong; I\u2019m not trying to justify affairs here.<\/p>\n<p>Si te das cuenta de que te has desenamorado de tu pareja o si te empieza a gustar otra persona, tienes que confes\u00e1rselo antes de empezar una nueva relaci\u00f3n.<\/p>\n<p>Nevertheless, what I\u2019m trying to tell you is that, knowing all of this, jealousy is a common issue between long distance couples.<\/p>\n<p>After all, you have no control over your boyfriend or girlfriend\u2019s actions or behavior.<\/p>\n<p>You don\u2019t know if they are flirting with someone else or if they even have another secret relationship.<\/p>\n<h2>13. \u2026 but trust is essential<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-68500 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/trust-text-on-brown-surface.jpg\" alt=\"Texto de confianza escrito sobre una superficie marr\u00f3n\" width=\"800\" height=\"501\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/trust-text-on-brown-surface.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/trust-text-on-brown-surface-300x188.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/trust-text-on-brown-surface-768x481.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>In fact, the only thing you do have is their word. You can\u2019t check up on them when you suspect something and you don\u2019t get to spend most of your partner\u2019s free time with them.<\/p>\n<p>Por lo tanto, s\u00f3lo tiene que confiar en <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/relationship\/6-cosas-que-hace-que-demuestran-que-puedes-confiar-plenamente-en-el\/\">confiando en ellos<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>Whether you like to admit it or not, believing in your significant other\u2019s words will have to do it and it will have to be enough. Otherwise, you\u2019ll make your relationship a living nightmare for both of you.<\/p>\n<p>Al fin y al cabo, lo \u00faltimo que quieres es pasarte el d\u00eda haciendo lo posible por acosar a tu novio o novia.<\/p>\n<p>You don\u2019t want to make a bunch of fake Facebook or Instagram profiles where you\u2019ll add all of his friends and check their tags, likes and photos.<\/p>\n<p>You don\u2019t want to install <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/relationship\/preguntas-para-tinder\/\">Tinder<\/a> u otras aplicaciones de citas en l\u00ednea para comprobar si es fiel.<\/p>\n<p>Looking at things like this, there is certainly a way to control your partner\u2019s movement.<\/p>\n<p>However, living like this won\u2019t get you anywhere and it will only bring trouble to the both of you. Instead, the best thing to do is to relax.<\/p>\n<p>No tiene sentido obsesionarse con algunas cosas que pueden ocurrir.<\/p>\n<p>Lo que tiene que ser, ser\u00e1. La \u00fanica opci\u00f3n que tienes aqu\u00ed es confiar en alguien que elegiste para ser tu persona para siempre.<\/p>\n<p>On the other hand, if you can\u2019t seem to trust them, maybe it\u2019s time to ask yourself whether you two have a future together in the first place and if starting a long distance relationship was the right choice.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-68505 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/13-things-to-know-before-starting-a-long-distance-relationship-pinterest.jpg\" alt=\"13 cosas que debes saber antes de empezar una relaci\u00f3n a distancia pinterest\" width=\"1000\" height=\"1500\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/13-things-to-know-before-starting-a-long-distance-relationship-pinterest.jpg 1000w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/13-things-to-know-before-starting-a-long-distance-relationship-pinterest-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/13-things-to-know-before-starting-a-long-distance-relationship-pinterest-683x1024.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/13-things-to-know-before-starting-a-long-distance-relationship-pinterest-768x1152.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1000px) 100vw, 1000px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>You know how they say out of sight, out of mind? Even though many people believe this saying, one of the most famous starting a long distance relationship quotes teaches us something completely different. It says: \u2018True love doesn\u2019t mean being inseparable. It means being separated and nothing changes\u2019. 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