{"id":6841,"date":"2020-07-11T11:29:45","date_gmt":"2020-07-11T11:29:45","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=6841"},"modified":"2022-02-28T11:04:08","modified_gmt":"2022-02-28T11:04:08","slug":"10-malditas-buenas-razones-por-las-que-finalmente-se-fue","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/10-malditas-buenas-razones-por-las-que-finalmente-se-fue\/","title":{"rendered":"10 malditas buenas razones por las que ella finalmente lo dej\u00f3"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Estabas ciego para ver todas esas se\u00f1ales que ella te enviaba llam\u00e1ndote para que la rescataras.<\/p>\n<p>Ella quer\u00eda desesperadamente salvar vuestra relaci\u00f3n y vuestro amor. Pero t\u00fa nunca la escuchaste porque estabas preocupado por otras cosas. Y esa indiferencia rompi\u00f3 su fr\u00e1gil coraz\u00f3n. Una y otra vez.<\/p>\n<p>Entonces, en un momento, decidi\u00f3 alejarse de ti. Decidi\u00f3 evitar que arruinaras su vida.<\/p>\n<p>Y si alguna vez te preguntas <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/quedan-13-razones\/\">por qu\u00e9 se fue<\/a> esto es lo que dir\u00eda:<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline reset\">Te dej\u00f3 por falta de amor.<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-104454\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/unhappy-couple-sitting-on-the-couch.jpg\" alt=\"pareja infeliz sentada en el sof\u00e1\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/unhappy-couple-sitting-on-the-couch.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/unhappy-couple-sitting-on-the-couch-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/unhappy-couple-sitting-on-the-couch-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/unhappy-couple-sitting-on-the-couch-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/unhappy-couple-sitting-on-the-couch-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Todo lo que siempre ha querido es que la ames como ella te am\u00f3. Ella era <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/love\/10-undeniable-signs-hes-truly-madly-deeply-love\/\">profundamente, locamente y sin limitaciones enamorado de ti<\/a>. Pero sentiste algo diferente.<\/p>\n<p>Para ti, el amor era algo que ocurr\u00eda cuando te conven\u00eda, con mucho c\u00e1lculo.<\/p>\n<p>Tu amor era falso y cuando se dio cuenta, decidi\u00f3 quemar los puentes entre los dos.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Se fue porque ten\u00eda que luchar por tu atenci\u00f3n.<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-104455\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/sad-woman-standing-in-front-of-man-in-nature.jpg\" alt=\"mujer triste de pie frente al hombre en la naturaleza\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/sad-woman-standing-in-front-of-man-in-nature.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/sad-woman-standing-in-front-of-man-in-nature-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/sad-woman-standing-in-front-of-man-in-nature-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/sad-woman-standing-in-front-of-man-in-nature-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/sad-woman-standing-in-front-of-man-in-nature-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Sufr\u00eda cada vez que le prestabas m\u00e1s atenci\u00f3n a cualquier otra chica sentada a tu lado que a ella. Y jurabas que era la persona m\u00e1s importante de tu vida.<\/p>\n<p>Is that the right way to treat the person you love the most? I don\u2019t think so. Thank God, she figured that out in time and decided to move on.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Se fue por abuso emocional.<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-104456\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/sad-young-woman-sitting-on-the-couch-and-holding-for-head.jpg\" alt=\"joven triste sentada en el sof\u00e1 y sosteniendo para la cabeza\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/sad-young-woman-sitting-on-the-couch-and-holding-for-head.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/sad-young-woman-sitting-on-the-couch-and-holding-for-head-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/sad-young-woman-sitting-on-the-couch-and-holding-for-head-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/sad-young-woman-sitting-on-the-couch-and-holding-for-head-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/sad-young-woman-sitting-on-the-couch-and-holding-for-head-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>She couldn\u2019t stand you abusing her anymore. She couldn\u2019t continue living with the toxic man you turned into, so she decided to escape that toxic relationship.<\/p>\n<p>Y cuando finalmente te dej\u00f3, se volvi\u00f3 verdaderamente feliz.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Se fue por falta de respeto.<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-104457\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/man-arguing-with-crying-woman.jpg\" alt=\"hombre discutiendo con mujer llorando\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/man-arguing-with-crying-woman.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/man-arguing-with-crying-woman-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/man-arguing-with-crying-woman-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/man-arguing-with-crying-woman-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/man-arguing-with-crying-woman-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>She didn\u2019t want to fight you every single day. But for you, fighting was like saying \u2018Hi\u2019\u2014a totally normal thing that you practiced every day.<\/p>\n<p>Sin cansarte, s\u00f3lo quer\u00edas verla muerta emocionalmente, sin fuerzas para levantarse y luchar por s\u00ed misma.<\/p>\n<p>Al huir, se salv\u00f3 de la destrucci\u00f3n.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Te dej\u00f3 porque la ignoraste.<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-104458\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/man-ignoring-woman-and-typing-on-the-phone.jpg\" alt=\"hombre ignorando a mujer y escribiendo en el tel\u00e9fono\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/man-ignoring-woman-and-typing-on-the-phone.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/man-ignoring-woman-and-typing-on-the-phone-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/man-ignoring-woman-and-typing-on-the-phone-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/man-ignoring-woman-and-typing-on-the-phone-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/man-ignoring-woman-and-typing-on-the-phone-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>You simply didn\u2019t treat her like a woman you love. You treated her like someone you had just met and like someone you didn\u2019t have any obligation to talk to.<\/p>\n<p>Sab\u00eda que se merece algo mejor y que su concepto del amor es totalmente distinto a todo lo que le has mostrado hasta ahora.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Se fue porque se dio cuenta de que merec\u00eda algo m\u00e1s que una casi relaci\u00f3n.<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-104459\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/young-serious-woman-staring-at-distance.jpg\" alt=\"mujer joven y seria mirando a lo lejos\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/young-serious-woman-staring-at-distance.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/young-serious-woman-staring-at-distance-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/young-serious-woman-staring-at-distance-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/young-serious-woman-staring-at-distance-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/young-serious-woman-staring-at-distance-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Finalmente se dio cuenta de que nunca le dar\u00e1s el amor que necesita desesperadamente. Ella sab\u00eda que un hombre roto como t\u00fa nunca ser\u00e1 capaz de dar su coraz\u00f3n a ella.<\/p>\n<p>She knew that he was not capable of letting the demons from his past go. And that\u2019s why she decided to move on and make a decent life for herself.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Se fue porque se dio cuenta de que una relaci\u00f3n no es una calle de sentido \u00fanico.<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-104460\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/worried-woman-sitting-on-the-couch-in-deep-thoughts.jpg\" alt=\"mujer preocupada sentada en el sof\u00e1 sumida en profundos pensamientos\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/worried-woman-sitting-on-the-couch-in-deep-thoughts.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/worried-woman-sitting-on-the-couch-in-deep-thoughts-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/worried-woman-sitting-on-the-couch-in-deep-thoughts-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/worried-woman-sitting-on-the-couch-in-deep-thoughts-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/worried-woman-sitting-on-the-couch-in-deep-thoughts-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Sab\u00eda que ambos socios ten\u00edan que hacer un esfuerzo<a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/friendship\/las-amistades-no-duran-una-temporada\/\"> para que el amor dure.<\/a> Pero no le diste nada de lo que ella ansiaba y eso hizo que todo su mundo se viniera abajo.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Se fue porque le diste todas las razones para hacerlo.<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-104461\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/sad-woman-standing-under-umbrella.jpg\" alt=\"mujer triste bajo un paraguas\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/sad-woman-standing-under-umbrella.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/sad-woman-standing-under-umbrella-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/sad-woman-standing-under-umbrella-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/sad-woman-standing-under-umbrella-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/sad-woman-standing-under-umbrella-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>La trataste como una mierda en vez de amarla y respetarla. Porque ella era una mujer para amar pero estabas demasiado maldito ciego para ver eso.<\/p>\n<p>Y s\u00f3lo por eso, nunca podr\u00e1s volver a tocarla.<\/p>\n<p>Nunca podr\u00e1s hacer el amor con ella. Nunca podr\u00e1s verla dormir. Y todo por tu culpa.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Se fue porque se dio cuenta de que es digna.<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-104462\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/calm-woman-enjoying-on-the-fresh-air.jpg\" alt=\"mujer tranquila disfrutando del aire fresco\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/calm-woman-enjoying-on-the-fresh-air.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/calm-woman-enjoying-on-the-fresh-air-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/calm-woman-enjoying-on-the-fresh-air-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/calm-woman-enjoying-on-the-fresh-air-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/calm-woman-enjoying-on-the-fresh-air-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Ella se despert\u00f3 un d\u00eda y se dio cuenta de que le dec\u00edas mentiras sobre todo. Dej\u00f3 de creer que ya no val\u00eda la pena.<\/p>\n<p>Vio c\u00f3mo otras personas la trataban con amor y respeto y por fin se dio cuenta de que ella es m\u00e1s que suficiente.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">&nbsp;She left because she didn\u2019t want to be controlled anymore.<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-104463\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/serious-woman-looking-away.jpg\" alt=\"mujer seria que mira hacia otro lado\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/serious-woman-looking-away.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/serious-woman-looking-away-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/serious-woman-looking-away-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/serious-woman-looking-away-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/serious-woman-looking-away-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>She didn\u2019t want to be someone you would tell what to do and where to go. She had her own life and she wanted to enjoy it to the fullest.<\/p>\n<p>She was not blindly in love anymore, and she decided to make the first move toward a new life\u2014one without the agony she had been living in for so long time.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-104453\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/10-Damn-Good-Reasons-Why-She-Finally-Left-Him-pinterest.jpg\" alt=\"10 malditas buenas razones por las que ella finalmente lo dej\u00f3\" width=\"735\" height=\"1102\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/10-Damn-Good-Reasons-Why-She-Finally-Left-Him-pinterest.jpg 735w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/10-Damn-Good-Reasons-Why-She-Finally-Left-Him-pinterest-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/10-Damn-Good-Reasons-Why-She-Finally-Left-Him-pinterest-683x1024.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/10-Damn-Good-Reasons-Why-She-Finally-Left-Him-pinterest-150x225.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 735px) 100vw, 735px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>You were blind to see all those signals that she sent you calling you to rescue her. She desperately wanted to save your relationship and your love. But you never listened because you were preoccupied with other things. And that indifference broke her fragile heart. Over and over again. Then, in one moment, she decided&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":40,"featured_media":104464,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29618],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-6841","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-moving-on"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29618,"label":"moving on"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/10-Damn-Good-Reasons-Why-She-Finally-Left-Him.jpg",800,533,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tara Brown","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/tara-brown\/"},"comment_info":2,"category_info":[{"term_id":29618,"name":"moving on","slug":"moving-on","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29618,"taxonomy":"category","description":"When nothing else works - inspiring stories about moving on are bound to help you let go of people and situations you never thought you could live without.\r\n","parent":38,"count":200,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29618,"category_count":200,"category_description":"When nothing else works - inspiring stories about moving on are bound to help you let go of people and situations you never thought you could live without.\r\n","cat_name":"moving on","category_nicename":"moving-on","category_parent":38}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/6841","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/40"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=6841"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/6841\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/104464"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=6841"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=6841"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=6841"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}