{"id":68511,"date":"2020-05-13T16:05:52","date_gmt":"2020-05-13T16:05:52","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=68511"},"modified":"2022-01-05T15:52:52","modified_gmt":"2022-01-05T15:52:52","slug":"7-errores-de-ruptura","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/7-errores-de-ruptura\/","title":{"rendered":"7 errores de ruptura que no debes cometer bajo ninguna circunstancia"},"content":{"rendered":"

Las rupturas son dolorosas, pero a veces son inevitables. A veces, la \u00fanica decisi\u00f3n correcta es poner fin a la relaci\u00f3n con tu pareja.<\/p>\n

Luego viene la parte dif\u00edcil. Tienes que pensar en la forma m\u00e1s f\u00e1cil de dec\u00edrselo a la otra persona.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Ten siempre en cuenta que debes ser delicado con ellos porque puedes romperles el coraz\u00f3n<\/a>.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Nunca hay una forma correcta de romper con alguien.<\/p>\n

Las personas tienen diferentes motivos para terminar con su pareja y eso hace que todas las rupturas tambi\u00e9n sean diferentes.<\/p>\n

Sin embargo, hay ciertas cosas que siempre lo har\u00e1n a\u00fan m\u00e1s dif\u00edcil.<\/p>\n

1. Don’t use the “it’s not you, it’s me” excuse<\/h2>\n

\"Pareja<\/p>\n

This is probably the lamest excuse ever. Perhaps it really is you, but you aren’t breaking up with yourself, you\u2019re breaking up with another person and you owe them an explanation.<\/p>\n

Parece mentira. Nadie creer\u00e1 nunca que el hecho de que les dejes no tiene nada que ver con ellos.<\/p>\n

They’ll be confused and it will greatly affect their self-esteem.<\/p>\n

Using this awful line won’t help to make your breakup any less painful.<\/p>\n

En lugar de eso, deber\u00edas hablar sinceramente con tu pareja y explicarle por qu\u00e9 necesitas poner fin a las cosas.<\/p>\n

2. Don’t wait too long<\/h2>\n

\"manos<\/p>\n

Puede que hayas dejado de querer a tu pareja, pero a\u00fan te importa y quieres romper con ella de la forma menos dolorosa posible.<\/p>\n

Pero parece que nunca encuentras el momento adecuado para hacerlo.<\/p>\n

Cada vez que planeas romper, algo ocurre y crees que las cosas mejorar\u00e1n.<\/strong><\/p>\n

La cruda realidad es que posponer la ruptura nunca la har\u00e1 m\u00e1s f\u00e1cil.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Postponing it won’t help anyone. You should only put it off if you aren’t completely sure whether breaking up is your only option.<\/p>\n

3. Don’t break up via text message<\/h2>\n

\"Chica<\/p>\n

NUNCA debes romper con alguien a trav\u00e9s de un mensaje de texto.<\/p>\n

Sean cuales sean las circunstancias, las rupturas siempre tienen que ser en persona.<\/p>\n

No s\u00f3lo herir m\u00e1s a tu pareja<\/a>, but you’ll also show them that you don’t respect them at all.<\/p>\n

Adem\u00e1s, tienes que darles la oportunidad de preguntarte qu\u00e9 ha ido mal. Sin embargo, si aun as\u00ed decides romper con ellos por mensaje de texto, aqu\u00ed tienes la lista de mensajes de texto de ruptura<\/a> que puede resultarle \u00fatil.<\/p>\n

4. Don’t justify your feelings<\/h2>\n

\"Hombre<\/p>\n

S\u00ed, debes explicarle a la otra persona la raz\u00f3n por la que has roto con ella. Pero tienes derecho a dejar de querer a alguien y nunca debes intentar justificar que tus sentimientos han cambiado.<\/p>\n

Lo \u00fanico que tienes que hacer es ser sincero con tu pareja y contarle c\u00f3mo est\u00e1n las cosas. <\/strong><\/p>\n

It’s better to end things on time than to be stuck in a relationship with someone you don’t love anymore.<\/strong><\/p>\n

5. Don’t think about your mutual friends<\/h2>\n

\"Mujer<\/p>\n

Temes separarte de tu pareja porque frecuent\u00e1is los mismos c\u00edrculos.<\/p>\n

You think that if you end the relationship, all your friends will take your partner’s side or it would be awkward for them to hang out with both of you. You are afraid that you might be lonely.<\/p>\n

Don’t worry if some of them decide not to hang out with you anymore.<\/p>\n

Amigos de verdad<\/a> will always be there for you. They’ll be a great support for both of you, to get over it as soon as possible.<\/p>\n

6. Don’t suggest staying friends<\/h2>\n

\"Primer<\/p>\n

Cr\u00e9eme, la persona a la que han dejado nunca quiere seguir siendo amiga de su pareja inmediatamente despu\u00e9s de la ruptura.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Don’t even think of suggesting that.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Necesitan tiempo para llorar y curarse porque la ruptura les ha hecho da\u00f1o.<\/p>\n

Maybe once they move on, they’ll be ready to be friends with you, but they’ll need time to heal properly first.<\/p>\n

It is the lamest comfort ever. It’s like you said: You can’t date me but you can be friends with me<\/em>.<\/p>\n

And those “friendships” are the most awkward ones.<\/p>\n

7. Don’t immediately start dating someone new<\/h2>\n

\"Hombre<\/p>\n

If you start dating someone new right after the breakup, your partner might think that you’ve cheated them with that person while still in a relationship with them.<\/p>\n

Tambi\u00e9n necesitas algo de tiempo tras el fin de la relaci\u00f3n. Presta m\u00e1s atenci\u00f3n a tus sue\u00f1os y objetivos.<\/p>\n

Siempre es mala idea precipitarse en una nueva relaci\u00f3n.<\/p>\n

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