{"id":69001,"date":"2020-05-08T15:17:53","date_gmt":"2020-05-08T15:17:53","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=69001"},"modified":"2021-08-11T10:34:53","modified_gmt":"2021-08-11T10:34:53","slug":"por-que-no-les-gusto-a-las-chicas-8-razones-principales","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/por-que-no-les-gusto-a-las-chicas-8-razones-principales\/","title":{"rendered":"\u00bfPor qu\u00e9 no les gusto a las chicas? Las 8 razones m\u00e1s sinceras"},"content":{"rendered":"

If you’re secretly wondering Why don’t girls like me<\/em>? but you can’t seem to find a legit answer, you’re in the right place.<\/p>\n

I’m going to be completely honest with you and share major turn-offs that repel a lot of women (without you even knowing). If you want to save your dating life, keep reading. You really need to hear this.<\/p>\n

Firstly, most women don’t like that whole bad boy \/ nice guy cliche. You don’t need to be either one to successfully flirt your way into their hearts.<\/p>\n

\"hombre<\/p>\n

I’m telling you this as a woman who knows this firsthand, so listen carefully. My only goal here is to help you get that first date and make it to the second.<\/p>\n

Aren’t you tired of online dating (swipe left, swipe right\u2026 For me, dating apps just don’t do it anymore<\/em>) y de no encontrar pareja ni en los sitios web de citas ni en las citas cara a cara?<\/p>\n

There are so many red flags interfering with your love life right now, and you’re none the wiser. So here’s some dating advice that will actually help you make a difference. Take notes!<\/p>\n

V\u00e9ase tambi\u00e9n: C\u00f3mo pedir una cita a una chica: 13 sencillos pasos para el \u00e9xito<\/a><\/p>\n

What’s Wrong With Me?<\/em><\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n

1. Tu actitud es TODO un desastre<\/h2>\n

\"hombre<\/p>\n

La actitud lo es TODO. No hay nada que me ahuyente de un chico como una actitud quejumbrosa y negativa, un constante victimismo y una autoestima extremadamente baja.<\/p>\n

Come on, buddy. We all have our issues. That doesn’t mean you should project them onto the fabulous women you date!<\/p>\n

If you feel like you’re constantly in the friend zone, maybe there’s a reason. Are you always complaining about superficial things? Do you always have a problem for every solution? Are you jaded and frustrated by everything and everyone?<\/p>\n

You’d be surprised (or not really) how much a lousy attitude chases away any sign of sexual tension.<\/p>\n

Si quieres atraer a mujeres atractivas, cambia tu forma de pensar. Si quieres dejar de sentirte como un chico de instituto, empieza a responsabilizarte de tus actos.<\/p>\n

You don’t need a dating coach to tell you how to be a good dude. You already know!<\/p>\n

Be kind, be grateful, don’t complain, and try to find some positivity even when it’s hard! Girls love guys who can put a smile on their face. Just ask your female friends!<\/p>\n

2. Sus habilidades de comunicaci\u00f3n necesitan un trabajo serio<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Most guys simply SUCK at communicating. Texting isn’t enough \u2013 you need to be able to properly have a conversation with your lady.<\/p>\n

You can’t just back out when it gets hard. You can’t just shut down when you’re feeling low. You can’t let her handle the hard parts because you don’t know how to tell her what you want.<\/p>\n

Communicate even when you’re mad. Call her even when she tells you she doesn’t want to hear from you (noticia: \u00a1s\u00ed, lo hace!<\/em>) so don’t play a game \u2013 just be a man.<\/p>\n

Women love good communication. We love to know what you’re thinking. We love to talk about how to spend our free time together.<\/p>\n

We don’t need grand gestures and excessive proclamations of love (doesn’t hurt though). We just want to hear you say what’s on your mind. We’d rather have a fight then let the silence creep in and break us apart.<\/p>\n

My advice: Learn how to talk. Don’t expect her to read your mind. Express your feelings, be vocal about your likes and dislikes, and don’t let her make all the decisions.<\/p>\n

Text messages are an important part of a relationship, but a lot of guys don’t know that without proper one-one-one communication, you’ll never get the girl.<\/p>\n

V\u00e9ase tambi\u00e9n: Esperando Por Citas De Amor: 130 Que Demuestran Que Merece La Pena Esperar Por Amor<\/a><\/p>\n

3. \u00bfQu\u00e9 estilo de vida llevas?<\/h2>\n

\"<\/p>\n

This may not seem like a big issue, but it definitely can be. The kind of life you’re living tells a girl a lot about what kind of guy you are.<\/p>\n

Por ejemplo, \u00bfpasas la mayor parte del tiempo jugando a videojuegos y a la Xbox con tu mejor amigo? \u00bfTe da pereza cocinar, as\u00ed que pides comida a domicilio hasta arruinarte?<\/p>\n

Is your place a complete pigsty because you can’t get yourself to pause the game to clean up every once in a while?<\/p>\n

Girls notice this, and guess what? We’re not fans of this lifestyle. You need to have at least one mature bone in your body. Your priorities cannot be playing games and lounging around in your underwear.<\/p>\n

At some point, you just need to grow up. Unless you’re looking for a mere hookup, things have got to change.<\/p>\n

If you want to enter a serious relationship, you need to change your life for the better. Not for her \u2013 for yourself! The moment you start doing necessary adjustments, you’ll see how much happier you’ll feel.<\/p>\n

Ninguna mujer querr\u00e1 venir a tu desordenado piso de soltero a jugar y comer pasta de hace tres d\u00edas. Si quieres conquistar a la chica, \u00a1mueve el culo y haz algo al respecto!<\/p>\n

4. You’re sexting her right off the bat<\/h2>\n

\"hombre<\/p>\n

I honestly don’t know how any guy could think that this is something we’d ever be into.<\/p>\n

\u00bfQui\u00e9n quiere un di*k pick despu\u00e9s de una primera cita? \u00bfQui\u00e9n quiere o\u00edr tus guarradas despu\u00e9s de conocerse durante cinco d\u00edas?<\/p>\n

\u00a1Con calma, chicos! Si quieres alejarla con \u00e9xito, entonces, por supuesto, sigue adelante con la foto guarra. Pero si quieres llegar a una segunda cita, tal vez quieras pisar el freno.<\/p>\n

It’s one thing if the woman is clear in her intention that she just wants a hookup. Then you’re good. But if a serious relationship is something you’re into, back it up.<\/p>\n

There’s a time and place for everything. You’ll get to that part once you’ve established trust and a certain dose of intimacy.<\/p>\n

The girl needs to feel comfortable and safe with you before she tells you what she’d like to do to you.<\/p>\n

And with time, trust me, you’ll be thankful you listened to me. For now, keep it PG and take it slowly. All things come to those who wait!<\/p>\n

V\u00e9ase tambi\u00e9n: Citas de Metas de Relaciones: 85 frases que describen a la perfecci\u00f3n tu amor ideal<\/a><\/p>\n

5. You’re going into it completely the wrong way<\/h2>\n

\"hombre<\/p>\n

Let me elaborate. If your intention is to desperately get this girl to really like you, you’re just setting yourself up for failure.<\/p>\n

Even worse, if your only intention is to get her in the sack, don’t even bother. But do you know what might actually give you a chance for success? Being yourself.<\/p>\n

Yendo con la pura intenci\u00f3n de establecer una conexi\u00f3n genuina. El ser humano es muy sencillo si lo piensas.<\/p>\n

All we really want is to find someone we vibe with and who gets us. And with that in mind, don’t you think that setting firm (superficial) goals beforehand lessens your success rate?<\/p>\n

Rel\u00e1jate. En lugar de recurrir a Google para resolver tu problema de c\u00f3mo met\u00e9rtela en la cama en cinco sencillos pasos, quiz\u00e1 deber\u00edas intentar conquistarla intelectualmente primero.<\/p>\n

You’d be shocked how sexy we find a dude with actual brain cells. Not that I’m judging or anything. But when all you seem to want is to get her naked, how can you expect her to think of you differently?<\/p>\n

Show her that you care about her mind as much as her body, and you’re giving her a reason to keep seeing you.<\/p>\n

6. Your self-esteem is at an all-time low\u2026<\/h2>\n

\"hombre<\/p>\n

When your overall sense of self-worth is really low, it’s hard to date you \u2013 plain and simple.<\/p>\n

It’s okay to have your issues and it’s okay to feel a little lost at times. But if you’re making your girl feel like she constantly has to reassure you and push you forward, you need to realize that it’s too heavy a burden to carry.<\/p>\n

Don’t do that to anyone. It’s okay if you’re not ready to date. But if you’re adamant to find the one, then be sure to give her the best of you.<\/p>\n

We are all a little messed up \u2013 so what? We just make it work and take it day by day. But forcing your issues onto someone who just entered your life is wrong and heavy.<\/p>\n

Help yourself get better by talking to your best friends and letting them help you. Your girl deserves someone who won’t constantly need approval.<\/p>\n

It’s okay to not feel okay! Just don’t let it ruin your chances of finding love.<\/p>\n

V\u00e9ase tambi\u00e9n: Te quiero m\u00e1s que a ti Citas y refranes sacados del coraz\u00f3n<\/a><\/p>\n

7. \u2026or you’re a bit too cocky<\/h2>\n

\"joven<\/p>\n

Similar to the previous issue, there is such a thing as being too self-assured. Like I stated in the very beginning: You don’t need to be Mr. Nice Guy all the time, nor do you need to play the bad boy part.<\/p>\n

For me, a mix between those two is perfect! But don’t overdo it.<\/p>\n

Don’t be the type of guy who gives off too strong of a body language. Don’t make her feel like you’re too full of yourself, even if you mira<\/em> como un mill\u00f3n de d\u00f3lares.<\/p>\n

Estar demasiado metido en ti mismo har\u00e1 que cualquier chica se canse de ti muy pronto. En lugar de eso, \u00bfpor qu\u00e9 no intentas un enfoque diferente?<\/p>\n

Be confident, but not too confident. Make sure she knows where you stand, but never make her feel like she’s wrong if she doesn’t agree.<\/p>\n

Always show a bit of humility and genuine effort. It’s okay to feel good about yourself, as long as you don’t forget to make her feel that way too!<\/p>\n

La confianza es ESENCIAL. Solo hay que saber d\u00f3nde est\u00e1 el l\u00edmite y asegurarse de no pasarse nunca a la chuler\u00eda.<\/p>\n

8. You simply don’t take care of yourself<\/h2>\n

\"hombre<\/p>\n

I cannot stress enough how VITAL it is to take care of your body, mind, and soul. All three are equally as important, so let’s start with the body.<\/p>\n

You want the girl to see you’re a man who puts effort into grooming himself. That means showering, shaving (every once in a while), taking good care of your hair, and wearing presentable clothes.<\/p>\n

Una chica quiere ver a un chico que parece que realmente le importa el cuidado de s\u00ed mismo. Tan simple, pero tan crucial.<\/p>\n

Secondly, you need to think about how you want her to see you intellectually. Are you the type of guy who just doesn’t care about anything? Do world issues not interest you?<\/p>\n

\"hombre<\/p>\n

Let me be frank. That’s a bit of a turn-off. You need to be aware of what’s going on in the world and have an opinion.<\/p>\n

Women don’t like dealing with guys who just don’t give a shit.<\/p>\n

And finally, being a good person shouldn’t even have to be mentioned, but here we are.<\/p>\n

Tu alma es un reflejo de lo que eres como persona. Ser amable y gentil te llevar\u00e1 lejos.<\/p>\n

Caring about your family and friends shows her that you’d be a good family man one day. Show her you’ve got real values and I promise you’ll never have to wonder why girls don\u2019t like you ever again.<\/p>\n

V\u00e9ase tambi\u00e9n: C\u00f3mo arreglar un matrimonio roto: Un plan de rescate en 15 pasos<\/a><\/p>\n

So\u2026 How Do I Get The Girl?<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Siendo el tipo de hombre con el que te gustar\u00eda que tu hija saliera alg\u00fan d\u00eda. Dejando tus problemas en la puerta y d\u00e1ndole una buena raz\u00f3n para quedarse.<\/p>\n

Most guys will flirt their way through the beginning stages of a relationship and think that’s enough to make her stay. But newsflash \u2013 your actions are the deciding factor, no<\/em> \u00a1tu encanto!<\/p>\n

So since we’re being completely honest here, here are my two cents. Stop wondering Why don’t girls like me?<\/em> \u00a1y empieza a hacer cambios si quieres que las cosas cambien!<\/p>\n

If you’ve checked most of the boxes above, you’ve got your work cut out for you. But if you’re adamant to get your happily ever after, you won’t mind changing your problematic ways.<\/p>\n

Jim Rohn lo dijo mejor: \u201cIf you really want to do something, you’ll find a way. If you don’t, you’ll find an excuse.\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n

V\u00e9ase tambi\u00e9n: Mi ex quiere que vuelva: 15 cosas que debes hacer al respecto<\/a><\/p>\n

\"Por<\/p>\n

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