{"id":6907,"date":"2019-10-16T13:24:28","date_gmt":"2019-10-16T13:24:28","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=6907"},"modified":"2021-08-11T10:54:00","modified_gmt":"2021-08-11T10:54:00","slug":"perdido-no-elegido","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/perdido-no-elegido\/","title":{"rendered":"Me perdiste cuando no me elegiste"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Ya est\u00e1, has conseguido lo que quer\u00edas y me has perdido para siempre. A\u00fan recuerdo aquel d\u00eda en que te esforzabas por elegir entre ella y yo.<\/p>\n<p>\u00bfY recuerdas lo que te dije?<\/p>\n<p><strong>That you should choose her because if you ever loved me you wouldn\u2019t have to make any decision.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>As\u00ed que deja de fingir que te importo ahora. Tu indecisi\u00f3n es una decisi\u00f3n. Y he tomado una decisi\u00f3n. <a href=\"https:\/\/www.huffingtonpost.com\/shannon-colleary\/post_9797_b_7813314.html\" rel=\"noopener\">I don\u2019t want a toxic man next to me.<\/a><\/p>\n<p>I don\u2019t want a guy who can\u2019t decide what he wants in life. I want someone who is down to earth, the one who has eyes for me only and the one who will be my support.<\/p>\n<p>Y todo eso, lo hab\u00eda estado buscando en ti pero nunca pudiste proporcion\u00e1rmelo.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Yo era la chica que m\u00e1s necesitabas pero, al mismo tiempo, era a la que hac\u00edas da\u00f1o una y otra vez.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>You couldn\u2019t accept the fact that you had loved me once so you kept pushing me from you. In those days when you kept coming back to me, you were actually running away from me, but at that time you couldn\u2019t realize that.<\/p>\n<p>En un momento me mostrabas todo tu amor y en el siguiente, mostrabas tu verdadera cara. Eras un gilipollas disfrazado y yo estaba tan borracha de amor como para comprar toda tu mierda.<\/p>\n<p>Y lo peor de todo fue que <a href=\"https:\/\/medium.com\/the-mission\/40-things-about-life-i-wish-i-could-travel-back-in-time-and-tell-myself-e52f2effa3ab\" rel=\"noopener\">Estaba all\u00ed cada vez que volv\u00edas.<\/a><\/p>\n<p><strong>Tal vez seas un buen hombre, pero fuiste uno malo para m\u00ed.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>I am just mad at myself for staying with you all this time. I couldn\u2019t believe that you were breaking my heart piece by piece, every single day.<\/p>\n<p>Y te lo permit\u00eda porque estaba locamente enamorada de ti. Despu\u00e9s de todo lo que hemos pasado, me entristece que me hayas roto y que nunca me recupere.<\/p>\n<p>But in all this pain I couldn\u2019t believe that someone else could love me, as imperfect as I am.<\/p>\n<p>Yes, I have someone new in my life. It took me so much time to realize that I wasn\u2019t guilty of that disaster that happened to us.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Aprend\u00ed que aunque est\u00e9 rota, con el hombre adecuado puedo arreglarme.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Tal vez no completamente, pero lo suficiente como para confiar en la gente y enamorarse de nuevo.<\/p>\n<p>Tu primer error fue dejarme. Y el segundo fue hacerme creer que no podr\u00eda sobrevivir sin ti. As\u00ed que, de alguna manera, quiero darte las gracias por demostrarme que puedo hacerlo mucho mejor.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.theodysseyonline.com\/treat-woman-101\" rel=\"noopener\">Me mostraste como una mujer NUNCA debe ser tratada<\/a>. You showed me that you weren\u2019t the right man for me and I am glad that I finally realized that. In the end, I just want to say why I never tried to beg you not to leave me.<\/p>\n<p>Ver\u00e1s, aunque te amaba con todo mi coraz\u00f3n, era lo suficientemente orgulloso como para no pedirte que te quedaras conmigo.<\/p>\n<p><strong>El mundo es grande y tengo mucho que ofrecer. L\u00e1stima que te hayas dado cuenta demasiado tarde.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-51324\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/10\/herway.net-8.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"735\" height=\"1102\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/10\/herway.net-8.jpg 735w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/10\/herway.net-8-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/10\/herway.net-8-683x1024.jpg 683w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 735px) 100vw, 735px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Here you go now, you got what you wanted, and you lost me forever. I still remember that day when you were struggling to choose between me and her. And do you remember what I said to you? That you should choose her because if you ever loved me you wouldn\u2019t have to make any&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":40,"featured_media":6909,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29618],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-6907","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-moving-on"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29618,"label":"moving on"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/10\/thanh-tran-334583.jpg",800,533,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tara Brown","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/tara-brown\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29618,"name":"moving on","slug":"moving-on","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29618,"taxonomy":"category","description":"When nothing else works - inspiring stories about moving on are bound to help you let go of people and situations you never thought you could live without.\r\n","parent":38,"count":200,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29618,"category_count":200,"category_description":"When nothing else works - inspiring stories about moving on are bound to help you let go of people and situations you never thought you could live without.\r\n","cat_name":"moving on","category_nicename":"moving-on","category_parent":38}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/6907","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/40"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=6907"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/6907\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/6909"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=6907"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=6907"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=6907"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}