{"id":69285,"date":"2020-05-08T15:20:40","date_gmt":"2020-05-08T15:20:40","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=69285"},"modified":"2022-05-24T07:49:54","modified_gmt":"2022-05-24T07:49:54","slug":"que-quieren-los-chicos-cualidades-atractivas-que-ansian","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/que-quieren-los-chicos-cualidades-atractivas-que-ansian\/","title":{"rendered":"Lo que quieren los chicos: 10 cualidades atractivas que todos anhelan en secreto"},"content":{"rendered":"

Hay muchas preguntas sobre la vida amorosa que siguen sin respuesta, pero la mayor de todas es qu\u00e9 quieren los chicos de una chica.<\/p>\n

\u00bfQu\u00e9 es lo que hace atractiva a una chica? \u00bfEs su aspecto o hay algo m\u00e1s?<\/p>\n

\u00bfBastan tu atuendo perfecto y tu peinado fastuoso para captar su atenci\u00f3n y hacer que te deseen con todas sus fuerzas?<\/p>\n

Pues s\u00ed. Ser\u00eda una mentirosa si te dijera lo contrario. Los chicos son seres visuales y tu aspecto es sin duda una de las primeras cosas en las que se fijan.<\/p>\n

Pero lo que hace que quieran cortejarte, luchar por ti y morir por ti es tu personalidad.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Un atuendo de infarto y un pelo precioso no son nada sin una actitud que grite: S\u00e9 lo que quiero, lo que me gusta y lo que necesito. S\u00e9 c\u00f3mo divertirme y disfrutar de la vida al m\u00e1ximo.<\/em><\/p>\n

Lo que los chicos realmente quieren en una chica<\/h2>\n

Here is the ultimate list of attractive qualities boys secretly crave (and it’s more than just good looks):<\/p>\n

1. Una chica con una actitud positiva<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

One of the most important things guys want in a girl is her positive outlook! Let’s be honest. No one wants to be with a girl or anyone else who is totally pessimistic about life.<\/p>\n

Una actitud positiva es el arma m\u00e1s poderosa de toda chica y ser\u00eda una pena no utilizarla en tu favor. Ser capaz de ver las cosas desde una perspectiva diferente e inspiradora es muy excitante.<\/p>\n

Boys want a girl who is capable of finding a silver lining in every negative situation. That is how you’ll ganar su coraz\u00f3n<\/a>. <\/p>\n

Por ejemplo, cuando ocurre algo malo, en lugar de gritar y perder la cabeza, las chicas con una actitud positiva utilizan chistes sarc\u00e1sticos<\/a> y re\u00edrme de toda la situaci\u00f3n.<\/p>\n

And there’s nothing more powerful than that. A girl who is able to brighten up every room she enters is every guy’s dream!<\/p>\n

2. Una chica que puede mantener conversaciones significativas<\/h2>\n

\"chica<\/p>\n

Durante mucho tiempo pens\u00e9 que lo que quer\u00edan los chicos era una chica guapa que asintiera autom\u00e1ticamente a cada una de sus palabras. Pensaba que solo les interesaban los videojuegos, los coches r\u00e1pidos y las t\u00edas buenas.<\/p>\n

A decir verdad, todav\u00eda hay chicos a los que s\u00f3lo les interesa todo eso, pero a los chicos de verdad les interesan las conversaciones significativas. Quieren una chica que pueda mantener una conversaci\u00f3n inspiradora y significativa y que no tenga miedo de expresar su opini\u00f3n.<\/p>\n

But, don’t get me wrong. This doesn’t mean that boys are only interested in girls whose only literary insights are based on having read a collection of young adult books.<\/p>\n

Quieren una chica que no tenga miedo de contradecirles y decir lo que realmente quiere decir sobre un determinado asunto.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

There’s nothing more fun and entertaining than having an extensive conversation in the small hours (be it via phone or in person).<\/p>\n

Lo que un chico realmente quiere es una chica a la que pueda llamar en mitad de la noche y hablar de extraterrestres, teor\u00edas de la conspiraci\u00f3n, el sentido de la vida y todas las dem\u00e1s cosas interesantes y poco convencionales.<\/p>\n

As\u00ed que, en lugar de asentir a cada una de sus palabras y esperar a que inicien una conversaci\u00f3n profunda, sorpr\u00e9ndeles con una colecci\u00f3n de temas interesantes.<\/p>\n

Express your curiosity and don’t be afraid to give your opinion even on topics that are considered to be boyish.<\/p>\n

Cuanto m\u00e1s flexible e imaginativo seas, m\u00e1s provechosa (y entretenida) ser\u00e1 la conversaci\u00f3n.<\/p>\n

3. Una chica apasionada por la vida<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

There’s nothing more boring than a couch potato who is not interested in anything except watching Netflix (this goes for both guys and girls).<\/p>\n

And there’s nothing more exciting than a person who is passionate about life in its every aspect. And boys want that girl!<\/p>\n

They don’t want a girl who will be texting them 24\/7 or spending all of her free time with them only. They want a girl who has her own life because that’s sexy and hot as hell!<\/p>\n

Por eso, uno de los mejores consejos para una relaci\u00f3n es sin duda \u00e9ste: Explorar cosas, disfrutar de la vida<\/strong><\/p>\n

Guys want a girl who is passionate about doing interesting things in life like drawing, singing, dancing, cooking, etc. There’s nothing more hot than seeing a girl with that sparkle in her eyes when she talks about something she enjoys doing.<\/p>\n

That’s the kind of girl guys want to be with! They want to enter your beautiful, interesting world and they want to hear every little thing about something you’re passionate about.<\/p>\n

Because passion is the essence of life and without it, we wouldn’t be able to differentiate ourselves. Being passionate means living a life that is filled with excitement and curiosity!<\/p>\n

V\u00e9ase tambi\u00e9n: 7 cosas que los hombres quieren de ti m\u00e1s que sexo<\/a><\/p>\n

4. 4. Una chica segura de s\u00ed misma (pero no maliciosa)<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Muchas chicas confunden este tema debido a la imagen distorsionada que ofrecen los medios de comunicaci\u00f3n. Recuerdas a todas esas adolescentes de instituto de las pel\u00edculas y series de televisi\u00f3n?<\/p>\n

La gran mayor\u00eda de ellas son representadas como zorras y, de alguna manera, consiguen seducir siempre a ese chico adolescente tan atractivo.<\/p>\n

Los medios de comunicaci\u00f3n convierten deliberadamente a esas chicas en ep\u00edtomes de confianza en s\u00ed mismo<\/a>, but all I see is bitchy behavior that shouldn’t be praised. And if you ask any guy out there, they will tell you the same thing!<\/p>\n

Guys want a girl who is self-confident yet not bitchy. And in today’s times, there’s a thin line between the two.<\/p>\n

Tener confianza en uno mismo significa aceptarse por lo que realmente se es, apreciarse y trabajar para convertirse en la mejor versi\u00f3n de uno mismo.<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n

Significa respetarse a uno mismo y exigir respeto a los dem\u00e1s. Significa afrontar las cosas de forma educada e inteligente.<\/p>\n

Quieren una chica que grite confianza con cada una de sus palabras y no s\u00f3lo con su cuerpo.<\/p>\n

Guys want a girl who knows how to leave them breathless with her thinking and not only appearance. So, be that girl \u2013 there’s nothing more beautiful than that!<\/p>\n

5. Una chica que abraza su belleza natural<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

En tiempos como estos, el acento se pone en lo artificial.<\/p>\n

Media is bombarding young women (and young men) with their artificial definition of “real beauty” that consists of a perfect makeup (for girls) and a perfect body.<\/p>\n

Y, de alguna manera, para conseguirlo, siempre tienes que comprar ese producto que te har\u00e1 parecer m\u00e1s guapa y, como resultado, sentirte m\u00e1s guapa.<\/p>\n

But, boys don’t want that. They don’t really want perfection.<\/p>\n

What boys want more than anything in this world is a girl who appreciates her natural beauty instead of following someone else’s beauty rules.<\/p>\n

A little bit of blush, mascara, and lipstick or lip balm are enough to accentuate every girl’s natural beauty. Guys don’t really dig all those heavy makeup facades.<\/p>\n

Parecen artificiales y definitivamente no son una opci\u00f3n para todos los d\u00edas.<\/p>\n

A guy wants to see that a girl is feeling comfortable in her own body. So what if you gained some extra pounds? If you’re working on it, there’s nothing to be ashamed of.<\/p>\n

Every body is a beautiful body, no matter its size, and that’s the most valuable message the media fails at delivering. Every face is a beautiful face, no matter its flaws.<\/p>\n

De hecho, los defectos son lo que te hace verdaderamente \u00fanico e interesante.<\/p>\n

And that’s exactly what guys want to see. They want to memorize something that’s special about you and a makeup mask that corrects every imperfection will definitely not help them with that.<\/p>\n

V\u00e9ase tambi\u00e9n: C\u00f3mo abrazar tu belleza real (y ahora la que imponen los medios)<\/a><\/p>\n

6. Una chica con modales<\/h2>\n

\"hombre<\/p>\n

Otra cosa que muchas chicas olvidan es la diferencia real entre actitud y modales. S\u00ed, puede que a los chicos les atraiga tu actitud, \u00a1pero tus modales son lo que les mantiene enganchados!<\/p>\n

The ability to know how to behave in every situation, the way of talking, walking and doing things say a lot about us. To make it easier for you to understand, here’s a quick example:<\/p>\n

You’re in a restaurant and the waiter brings you the wrong order. What do you say to him?<\/p>\n

\u00bfExpresas tu descontento y dices algo insultante o condescendiente?<\/p>\n

\u00bfO le dices que comprendes la situaci\u00f3n y que le pasa a todo el mundo?<\/p>\n

Expresar insatisfacci\u00f3n mostrar\u00e1 su valent\u00eda (por no decir actitud de zorra<\/a>pero la comprensi\u00f3n demostrar\u00e1 que tienes modales y sabes mantener la calma en cualquier situaci\u00f3n.<\/p>\n

Mostrar comprensi\u00f3n y aprecio, y afrontar las cosas con elegancia es totalmente sexy.<\/strong><\/p>\n

The easiest thing a woman can do is show her bitchy side and demand an apology (even when she’s not right). This kind of behavior is a huge turn off and it’s just not inviting.<\/p>\n

It took me a while, but I learned that everything can be solved with patience and understanding. If you’re not sure what to do in a certain moment, it’s better to do nothing than something really stupid and then regret it.<\/p>\n

7. Una chica que sabe cuidar de s\u00ed misma<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Just like women want a man who knows how to take care of himself, the same goes for them. They don’t want perfection, but simply a girl who prioritizes self-care.<\/p>\n

Esto incluye cuidar su aspecto (pero sin pasarse), saber lidiar con gente de mierda y no pedir ayuda a gritos ante el primer obst\u00e1culo. Quieren una chica que no se limite a cruzarse de brazos y esperar a que el problema se solucione solo.<\/p>\n

Quieren una chica que se arremangue y haga algo al respecto en lugar de limitarse a esperar. Las chicas que van por la vida como verdaderos soldados son las mayores musas de todos los artistas del mundo, y tambi\u00e9n son una verdadera inspiraci\u00f3n para los chicos.<\/p>\n

The biggest fear that every guy has is being with a girl who is too needy or naggy. When you’re too needy, you’re sending a message that you’re not capable of taking care of yourself and you need constant assistance.<\/p>\n

But, when you know how to stand up for yourself and deal with both good and shitty things in life on your own, you become a boss in every guy’s eyes. They admire you and salute your determination and bravery.<\/p>\n

V\u00e9ase tambi\u00e9n: <\/span>10 cosas que los hombres quieren de su novia perfecta<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n

8. Una chica que sabe expresarse<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

\u00c9sta est\u00e1 estrechamente relacionada con la pasi\u00f3n por la vida. As\u00ed que lo que los chicos quieren es una chica que sepa expresarse en todos los aspectos de su vida.<\/p>\n

Esto incluye tener un estilo propio (en lugar de seguir ciegamente las tendencias), tener aficiones y pasiones interesantes, y saber expresarse a trav\u00e9s de ellas.<\/p>\n

Expresarte tambi\u00e9n significa saber decir lo que realmente quieres decir. Todo esto es como una marca de tu personalidad, algo que te hace ser t\u00fa mismo.<\/p>\n

F\u00edjate en que el acento est\u00e1 puesto en ti. Saber expresarte significa saber presentar tus propios pensamientos, ideales y sue\u00f1os.<\/p>\n

When you know how to do that, there’s not a single boy in the world who will be able to stay indifferent to it.<\/p>\n

9. Una chica que les haga re\u00edr<\/h2>\n

\"hombre<\/p>\n

Gone are the days when only boys were expected to make girls laugh. We’re living in modern times where female comedians are no longer a rarity.<\/p>\n

But, this doesn’t mean that boys expect girls to be professional stand-ups. A guy wants a girl who can hazle re\u00edr<\/a> con su peculiar forma de pensar, su divertida manera de contar historias y sus bromas.<\/p>\n

More than a blowjob (although they won\u2019t admit it), they want a girl who understands their jokes too. They want to know that they’ve succeeded in making you laugh because it means they can make you happy.<\/p>\n

Yes, they want to know that you’re content and happy in their company. If you’re able to make them laugh and if you laugh at their jokes, you’re able to make them develop a secret crush on your smile.<\/p>\n

Guys don’t want a girl who will only wait on them to bring some brightness into a conversation.<\/p>\n

Hay muchas formas en las que una chica puede animar una conversaci\u00f3n con un poco de humor, y una de ellas es a trav\u00e9s de memes y chistes divertidos.<\/p>\n

10. Una chica de mente abierta<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Muchas chicas piensan que los chicos s\u00f3lo interesados en ligar<\/a>Pero la mayor\u00eda de ellos est\u00e1n interesados en salir con una chica guapa y abierta que les inspire y motive.<\/p>\n

Est\u00e1n interesados en conocerla mejor porque su mundo parece ser uno de los lugares m\u00e1s apasionantes del planeta.<\/p>\n

They want a girl who won’t discard every new idea without even giving it a chance or without even trying to understand it. What boys want is a girl who knows what she wants and who is not afraid to broaden her horizons.<\/p>\n

Quieren una chica a la que le entusiasme hacer cosas interesantes y divertidas y no quedarse sentada como un vegetal humano.<\/p>\n

Joking aside, there’s nothing wrong with chill nights from time to time, but the real essence of open-mindedness lies in being willing to try new things and evolving.<\/p>\n

Los chicos quieren que s\u00e9 t\u00fa mismo<\/a>!<\/h2>\n

Y, por \u00faltimo, \u00a1lo que los chicos quieren es que seas t\u00fa misma! Lo \u00faltimo que quiere un chico es una chica que se averg\u00fcence de s\u00ed misma, de sus sue\u00f1os y de sus principios.<\/p>\n

They want to see your unique personality, which is the only thing that can make them miss you a lot when you’re not around. So, strive to be your best self, but never perfect!<\/p>\n

V\u00e9ase tambi\u00e9n: \u00bfQu\u00e9 buscan los hombres en una mujer? 25 rasgos de la chica de tus sue\u00f1os<\/a><\/p>\n

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