{"id":69512,"date":"2020-05-28T11:50:28","date_gmt":"2020-05-28T11:50:28","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=69512"},"modified":"2021-08-12T10:12:46","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T10:12:46","slug":"si-estas-ocupado-recibiendo-bendiciones-no-te-queda-tiempo-para-guardar-rencores","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/si-estas-ocupado-recibiendo-bendiciones-no-te-queda-tiempo-para-guardar-rencores\/","title":{"rendered":"Si est\u00e1s ocupado recogiendo bendiciones, no te queda tiempo para guardar rencores"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Dicen que atraes lo que piensas, lo que b\u00e1sicamente significa que eres responsable de las cosas que te ocurren.<\/p>\n<p>Well, I disagree. I say that you can\u2019t control your surroundings.<\/p>\n<p>You can\u2019t control everything that\u2019s happening to and going on around you. As much as you try, bad things will happen.<\/p>\n<p>Puedes ser la persona m\u00e1s cuidadosa del mundo pero <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/fake-love\/toxic-relationship\/5-cosas-que-la-gente-toxica-destruye\/\">gente t\u00f3xica<\/a> te sorprender\u00e1.<\/p>\n<p>They will find a way to lure you into their spider\u2019s web.<\/p>\n<p>Puedes proteger tu coraz\u00f3n con todas tus fuerzas pero, de alg\u00fan modo, se romper\u00e1 en pedazos.<\/p>\n<p>Por muy cari\u00f1oso y atento que seas, siempre habr\u00e1 gente que te utilizar\u00e1.<\/p>\n<p>Personas que no te tratar\u00e1n como te mereces y personas que te romper\u00e1n el coraz\u00f3n.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-69565 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/beautiful-girl-sitting-near-the-window.jpg\" alt=\"Hermosa chica morena sentada cerca de la ventana\" width=\"800\" height=\"500\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/beautiful-girl-sitting-near-the-window.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/beautiful-girl-sitting-near-the-window-300x188.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/beautiful-girl-sitting-near-the-window-768x480.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Whether we accept it or not, life is not always fair. There are some things you simply can\u2019t run away from.<\/p>\n<p>Sin embargo, <strong>even though you can\u2019t control the world around you, you can control the way you react.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong> Even though you can\u2019t control people\u2019s behavior, you have the power to control yourself.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>En definitiva, todo depende de ti.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Puedes decidir si dejar que una cosa mala arruine toda tu vida, si una persona t\u00f3xica arruinar\u00e1 todas tus relaciones potenciales y si una cosa negativa destruir\u00e1 toda la positividad.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>\u00bfEstar\u00e1s triste por el fracaso de tu relaci\u00f3n?<\/p>\n<p>Or you will be happy that you got rid of the man who obviously wasn\u2019t meant to be yours?<\/p>\n<p>\u00bfVer\u00e1s tu <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/love\/como-afrontar-el-desamor\/\">desamor<\/a> como el fin del mundo? \u00bfO estar\u00e1s agradecido por las lecciones que te ha ense\u00f1ado?<\/p>\n<p>\u00bfEstar\u00e1s destrozado por no haber conseguido ese ascenso que tanto deseabas?<\/p>\n<p>\u00bfO estar\u00e1s agradecido por tener un trabajo que pone comida en la mesa, que es un privilegio con el que muchos s\u00f3lo sue\u00f1an?<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-69568 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/happy-gratefull-woman.jpg\" alt=\"Mujer feliz y agradecida con vestido amarillo\" width=\"800\" height=\"500\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/happy-gratefull-woman.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/happy-gratefull-woman-300x188.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/happy-gratefull-woman-768x480.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>La elecci\u00f3n es suya.<\/p>\n<p>Let\u2019s look at things from this perspective: if you had 1440 dollars but someone took away one dollar, would you throw away the rest? I\u2019m sure you wouldn\u2019t even contemplate it.<\/p>\n<p>Well, one day has 1440 minutes. Therefore, every time you allow one minute of sadness and negativity to ruin your entire day, you\u2019re actually doing the thing mentioned above.<\/p>\n<p>You\u2019re wasting the rest of your minutes. And, I\u2019m sure you\u2019ll agree that time is much more valuable than money.<\/p>\n<p>As\u00ed que.., <strong>I\u2019m begging you to change your focus. <\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/psychology\/overthinking\/los-pensadores-silenciosos-matan-las-relaciones-stop\/\">Dejar de pensar demasiado<\/a> todo lo malo que ocurre a tu alrededor y conc\u00e9ntrate en lo bueno.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Don\u2019t allow a moment of sadness to destroy your happiness. Don\u2019t allow one tear to ruin all of your potential laughter and smiles.<\/p>\n<p><strong>En lugar de centrarte en tus maldiciones, conc\u00e9ntrate en tus bendiciones. <\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>Agradece todas las cosas buenas y las personas positivas que tienes en tu vida en lugar de malgastar tu energ\u00eda en lo negativo.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Most importantly: forget about the past. Yes, you can and should learn from it but you can\u2019t change it.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-69572 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/woman-with-hands-up.jpg\" alt=\"Mujer rubia rezando con las manos en alto al aire libre\" width=\"800\" height=\"500\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/woman-with-hands-up.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/woman-with-hands-up-300x188.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/woman-with-hands-up-768x480.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>No tiene ning\u00fan sentido guardar rencor. No tiene sentido repetir en tu cabeza situaciones anteriores.<\/p>\n<p>No tiene sentido pensar en todos los \"y si...\". No tiene sentido estar enfadado y resentido por algunos acontecimientos que salieron como salieron.<\/p>\n<p>The truth is that you can\u2019t do anything about it now \u2013 besides allowing your past to ruin both your present and the future.<\/p>\n<p>Mira a tu alrededor:<strong> Seguro que hay muchas cosas por las que deber\u00edas estar agradecido. <\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>Hay muchas personas que deber\u00edas considerarte afortunado de tener en tu vida.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>Conc\u00e9ntrate en estas cosas.<\/strong> Conc\u00e9ntrate en tus bendiciones y en las peque\u00f1as cosas que pueden hacerte feliz.<\/p>\n<p>Don\u2019t get me wrong: I\u2019m not trying to minimize whatever pain you might be feeling.<\/p>\n<p>I\u2019m not trying to tell you that you\u2019re not allowed to be angry or sad.<\/p>\n<p>I\u2019m just trying to remind you that <strong>hay gente ah\u00ed fuera a la que le encantar\u00eda tener tus d\u00edas malos.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>People who are struggling in battles you can\u2019t even imagine and who would give everything to have your worries and hardships.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-69585 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/if-you-are-busy-catching-blessings-there-is-no-time-left-for-holding-grudges-pinterest.jpg\" alt=\"Si Est\u00e1s Ocupado Recibiendo Bendiciones, No Te Queda Tiempo Para Guardar Rencores pinterest\" width=\"1000\" height=\"1500\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/if-you-are-busy-catching-blessings-there-is-no-time-left-for-holding-grudges-pinterest.jpg 1000w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/if-you-are-busy-catching-blessings-there-is-no-time-left-for-holding-grudges-pinterest-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/if-you-are-busy-catching-blessings-there-is-no-time-left-for-holding-grudges-pinterest-683x1024.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/if-you-are-busy-catching-blessings-there-is-no-time-left-for-holding-grudges-pinterest-768x1152.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1000px) 100vw, 1000px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>They say that you attract what you think, which basically means you\u2019re responsible for the things that happen to you. Well, I disagree. I say that you can\u2019t control your surroundings. You can\u2019t control everything that\u2019s happening to and going on around you. As much as you try, bad things will happen. You can be&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":53,"featured_media":69556,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29616],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-69512","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-spirituality"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29616,"label":"spirituality"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/if-you-are-busy-catching-blessings-there-is-no-time-left-for-holding-grudges.jpg",800,500,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Ariel Quinn","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/ariel\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29616,"name":"spirituality","slug":"spirituality","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29616,"taxonomy":"category","description":"If you feel like you need help staying in touch with your spirituality and higher self, this is where you'll find all the inspiration and strength you lack.","parent":38,"count":147,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29616,"category_count":147,"category_description":"If you feel like you need help staying in touch with your spirituality and higher self, this is where you'll find all the inspiration and strength you lack.","cat_name":"spirituality","category_nicename":"spirituality","category_parent":38}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/69512","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/53"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=69512"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/69512\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/69556"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=69512"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=69512"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=69512"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}