{"id":6991,"date":"2020-05-17T12:25:33","date_gmt":"2020-05-17T12:25:33","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=6991"},"modified":"2021-08-12T12:29:58","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T12:29:58","slug":"cuando-le-das-todo-a-un-hombre-y-aun-asi-no-tiene-la-decencia-de-elegirte","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/cuando-le-das-todo-a-un-hombre-y-aun-asi-no-tiene-la-decencia-de-elegirte\/","title":{"rendered":"Cuando le das todo a un hombre y a\u00fan as\u00ed no tiene la decencia de elegirte"},"content":{"rendered":"

Un hombre de verdad<\/a> nunca te dejar\u00e1 adivinar el papel que pretende desempe\u00f1ar en tu vida.<\/p>\n

Un hombre de verdad siempre es sincero sobre el papel que quiere que desempe\u00f1es en su vida.<\/p>\n

Only a toxic man plays with a woman\u2019s feelings.<\/p>\n

S\u00f3lo un hombre t\u00f3xico tiene la osad\u00eda de sacar lo mejor de una mujer y luego dejarla tirada.<\/p>\n

S\u00f3lo Dios sabe a cu\u00e1ntas mujeres han dejado en la estacada en lo que llevan de vida. Y s\u00f3lo Dios sabe a cu\u00e1ntas mujeres han dejado en la estacada muchas veces en su vida.<\/p>\n

Just because there are women who are ready to wear their hearts on their sleeves, just because there are women who are more than ready to choose one man and devote themselves wholly to him, that isn\u2019t a green light to use them and then just leave them as if they were the most irrelevant thing in your life.<\/p>\n

\"hombre<\/p>\n

\u00bfDe d\u00f3nde sacan el coraz\u00f3n los hombres que abandonan a este tipo de mujeres? \u00bfY c\u00f3mo duermen por la noche este tipo de hombres?<\/p>\n

\u00bfC\u00f3mo duermen por la noche sabiendo que han roto el coraz\u00f3n de las mujeres que esperaban ser elegidas, que merec\u00edan ser elegidas?<\/p>\n

Las excusas m\u00e1s cobardes siempre proceden de hombres que no est\u00e1n dispuestos a asumir responsabilidades por sus actos.<\/strong><\/p>\n

How many times have you heard, \u201cShe was the one who wanted to give me her all, but I never asked for it!\u201d? This is a load of crap, excuse my French.<\/p>\n

If he didn\u2019t want anything from you, he should’ve made sure you were aware of that.<\/a><\/p>\n

If he didn\u2019t want to use you as he said, he should have stopped taking your kindness, because in his acceptance of your kindness and all the things you did for him was a silent promise that you two were meant to be something more.<\/p>\n

\"hermosa<\/p>\n

When a real man wants you, he\u2019s upfront about it. When a real man has no interest in you, he\u2019s also upfront about it and would never send you mixed signals. <\/strong><\/p>\n

Only a coward, a poor excuse for a man, would lead you on for a long time without any intention of being with you. But it\u2019s not your fault, as he mastered this kind of game a long time ago.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Le diste tus a\u00f1os<\/strong>. What you had going on wasn\u2019t just blink and it\u2019s over. It was so much more than that. It was days, weeks, months, years of your time and of your hope.<\/p>\n

Fueron muchas noches en vela en las que esperaste a ser elegida y en las que hubo muchos indicios de que lo merec\u00edas, pero su decisi\u00f3n final nunca lleg\u00f3.<\/p>\n

Le diste tu amor.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Le diste tu sonrisa, tu risa, tu mano y tu coraz\u00f3n. Estuviste a su lado.<\/p>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Eras capaz de intuir cu\u00e1ndo algo iba mal en su vida y siempre sab\u00edas qu\u00e9 decir en un momento determinado.<\/p>\n

Siempre estabas dispuesto a salvarle cuando acud\u00eda a ti, herido por el mundo.<\/p>\n

No importaba lo que necesitara, t\u00fa lo ten\u00edas. Incluso cuando a veces no ten\u00eda ni idea de lo que necesitaba, t\u00fa lo sab\u00edas por \u00e9l.<\/p>\n

T\u00fa fuiste su estrella gu\u00eda en la vida. T\u00fa fuiste quien le ayud\u00f3 a llegar al lugar donde se encuentra ahora.<\/p>\n

Invertiste tanto en \u00e9l<\/a> \u00bfy qu\u00e9 obtuviste al final? Una bolsa llena de nada.<\/p>\n

He never asked for any of what you gave him, but he never said he didn\u2019t want it either.<\/strong><\/p>\n

\"pareja<\/p>\n

Nunca te pidi\u00f3 nada en voz alta, pero aun as\u00ed esperaba que le dieras lo que necesitaba.<\/strong><\/p>\n

La \u00fanica raz\u00f3n por la que nunca lo dec\u00eda en voz alta era para poder mantener la conciencia limpia cuando ocurr\u00edan esas cosas.<\/strong><\/p>\n

He wanted to be \u2018clean\u2019 when you came to him to charge him for all the good you did for him.<\/p>\n

When you came knocking and asking for more in life, when you asked him to give you what you deserved and what you\u2019d been giving to him all this time, he didn\u2019t have the decency to give it to you.<\/p>\n

He didn\u2019t have the decency to choose you and when you got fed up, he distanced himself by saying he never asked you for anything.<\/p>\n

He didn\u2019t ask for it, but he sure as hell expected it.<\/p>\n

\"pareja<\/p>\n

\u00bfQu\u00e9 quiere una mujer tan devota, tan dotada, tan amable y tan cari\u00f1osa como t\u00fa de semejante excusa de hombre?<\/strong><\/p>\n

Let\u2019s be straight up, shall we? If he had any intention of choosing you, you would have been chosen by now.<\/p>\n

If he wanted to reward you for your loyalty and for all the times you were there for him when nobody else was, for all those times you chose him over yourself, it would be a done deal by now. But he didn\u2019t.<\/p>\n

Lo peor de todo es que t\u00fa mismo eres consciente de ello, pero sigues neg\u00e1ndote a aceptarlo.<\/p>\n

Eres una mujer inteligente.<\/a> Te permitiste esta vez no ser est\u00fapida, sino dejarte llevar por tu coraz\u00f3n y por la esperanza de que un d\u00eda \u00e9l viera lo que vales y te valorara por lo que eras y por lo que hiciste por \u00e9l.<\/p>\n

You hoped that he was a better man than he had shown you and you kept giving until the point where there was nothing more than you could give. And yet he didn\u2019t have the decency to choose you.<\/p>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

En lugar de elegirte \u00e9l, decidi\u00f3 no hacerlo.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Decidi\u00f3 ser cobarde y ego\u00edsta y se neg\u00f3 a comprometerse. Quer\u00eda estar abierto a todas las opciones que hab\u00eda.<\/p>\n

But that was far from what you deserved or from what suited you. He secretly hoped that you\u2019d eventually miss him so much and that you\u2019d be ready to settle for less.<\/p>\n

What he failed to realize is that once a woman like you leaves, no matter how much pain she might endure, she\u2019s never coming back.<\/p>\n

The only thing left for you to do is to prove to him what you\u2019re made of.<\/strong><\/p>\n

You owe it to yourself to choose yourself when he doesn\u2019t have the decency to do it. You owe it to yourself to stop giving all of you to somebody who doesn\u2019t value you.<\/p>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

You owe it to yourself to stop being exploited by a man who\u2019s not really a man, but just a poor excuse for one.<\/p>\n

As\u00ed que el\u00edgete a ti mismo. Elige ser tu propio h\u00e9roe. Elige salvarte de la relaci\u00f3n t\u00f3xica y elige no conformarte con menos.<\/p>\n

A woman like you deserves the world and if the man you want isn\u2019t going to give it to you, then stop wanting him.<\/p>\n

Because there is somebody worthy of you and there is somebody who\u2019ll value you for who you are.<\/p>\n

Hay un hombre de verdad ah\u00ed fuera que te dar\u00e1 un lugar en su vida. Deja de elegir no ser elegido.<\/a><\/strong><\/p>\n

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