{"id":7005,"date":"2020-05-17T13:17:14","date_gmt":"2020-05-17T13:17:14","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=7005"},"modified":"2021-08-31T07:09:13","modified_gmt":"2021-08-31T07:09:13","slug":"no-puedo-seguir-luchando-haz-el-amor","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/no-puedo-seguir-luchando-haz-el-amor\/","title":{"rendered":"No Puedo Seguir Luchando Para Que Me Quieras"},"content":{"rendered":"

'Querida' Ex,<\/b><\/p>\n

I am done! This time, I quit. There is no more meaning in fighting for someone who will never be mine. In fact, when I look back I can see that you always were everybody else\u2019s except mine. <\/span><\/p>\n

Y eso duele. Duele tanto que realmente puedo sentir dolor f\u00edsico. Cada vez que dec\u00edas algo que me dol\u00eda sent\u00eda como si alguien me diera un pu\u00f1etazo en el est\u00f3mago y me expulsara todo el aire. <\/span><\/p>\n

En un momento me sorprend\u00eda a m\u00ed misma sin respirar mientras nuevos pensamientos se agolpaban en mi cabeza: <\/span><\/p>\n

How could he do this? Doesn\u2019t he love me?<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

Y luego volv\u00eda a la realidad, luchando por tomar aire e intentando quedar bien delante de toda esa gente.<\/span><\/p>\n

You see, a woman in love shouldn\u2019t feel that way. She should feel like someone who doesn\u2019t have any problems in her life. She should feel that the love for her partner is so deep that an ocean would be jealous of it. <\/span><\/p>\n

She should feel the peace that all those people in love feel. But with you that wasn\u2019t the case. I felt all the bad things and if I was about to enjoy a day with my loved ones, you would come and destroy it all. <\/span><\/p>\n

You destroyed my happiness like it was a house of cards. You made me suffer like nobody before you did. While I was with you, I couldn\u2019t recognize myself anymore. <\/span><\/p>\n

I was a totally different person – the one who begs for a little bit of love, the one who doesn\u2019t want to be abandoned.<\/span><\/p>\n

S\u00ed, pas\u00e9 por el infierno y de vuelta contigo, pero en todo eso, Aprend\u00ed a quererme. <\/a>Aprend\u00ed que soy digno y mucho m\u00e1s de lo que nunca me han reconocido.<\/span><\/p>\n

Aprend\u00ed que con el hombre adecuado pod\u00eda ser feliz y estar satisfecha como todas las dem\u00e1s mujeres.<\/span><\/p>\n

Y una vez que me di cuenta de eso, dej\u00e9 de luchar por ti.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

Because there wasn\u2019t any sense in keeping something that was already dead. Our love was dead from the moment you didn\u2019t choose me. <\/span><\/p>\n

Nuestro amor muri\u00f3 esa noche, cuando la elegiste a ella antes que a m\u00ed<\/a>Esa misma noche sent\u00ed que mi coraz\u00f3n se romp\u00eda en mil pedazos y que se quedar\u00eda as\u00ed para siempre. <\/span><\/p>\n

I don\u2019t know if I will ever be the same me. I don\u2019t know if I will ever be able to love someone like I loved you. <\/span><\/p>\n

Sabes, cuando est\u00e1s roto, eso es casi una misi\u00f3n imposible.<\/span><\/p>\n

Despu\u00e9s de que lo rompieras, recog\u00ed todos esos pedazos de mi coraz\u00f3n que yac\u00edan frente a ti. Los cog\u00ed y ego\u00edstamente los guard\u00e9 s\u00f3lo para m\u00ed. Intent\u00e9 tanto recuperarme de este dolor que me causaste. <\/span><\/p>\n

Pero de alguna manera siento que nunca ser\u00e9 la antigua yo. Tal vez eso sea bueno, porque ahora nunca dejar\u00e9 que ning\u00fan otro hombre me lleve. <\/span><\/p>\n

Tal vez sea m\u00e1s fuerte y s\u00f3lo tal vez no vuelva a caer en la misma situaci\u00f3n.  <\/span><\/p>\n

In the end, I am not the first one and I won\u2019t be the last one to have bad luck in love.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

Pero espero volver a ser la de antes. Cuando pase el tiempo y te haya superado, espero encontrar a alguien que me trate como me merezco.<\/span><\/p>\n

I made up my mind: I will be happy in a relationship or I won\u2019t be a part of one. That\u2019s a lesson I learned in a tough way. <\/span><\/p>\n

Y nadie puede quitarme esa experiencia.<\/span><\/p>\n

I just want to tell you one more thing: I loved you with all my heart! You meant the world to me but unfortunately you didn\u2019t know to cherish what we had. <\/span><\/p>\n

Y si alguna vez te preguntas por qu\u00e9 dej\u00e9 de luchar por ti, que sepas esto: <\/span><\/p>\n

T\u00da elegiste dejar de luchar por m\u00ed y si fuiste tan est\u00fapido como para marcharte, entonces yo fui lo suficientemente inteligente como para dejarte marchar.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

Con cero amor,<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

Uno que merece mucho m\u00e1s<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

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