{"id":70360,"date":"2020-05-15T13:53:29","date_gmt":"2020-05-15T13:53:29","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=70360"},"modified":"2021-08-12T12:49:27","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T12:49:27","slug":"si-te-tachan-de-pegajosa-demasiadas-veces","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/si-te-tachan-de-pegajosa-demasiadas-veces\/","title":{"rendered":"Si Te Han Tachado Demasiadas Veces De Pegajosa, Tienes Que O\u00edr Estas 6 Cosas"},"content":{"rendered":"

A nadie le gusta o\u00edr esto, pero la verdad es que m\u00e1s de uno de tus novios te ha llamado pegajosa en el pasado.<\/p>\n

Even though you probably find this insulting, it\u2019s clear that you have a problem with neediness, and here is everything you need to know about it.<\/p>\n

1. Luchar y mendigar amor no es lo mismo<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

People will tell you to fight for love. That is somewhat true; even though real love happens by itself, a healthy relationship certainly needs to be worked on and it doesn\u2019t build itself overnight.<\/p>\n

Sin embargo, hay una diferencia crucial entre luchando por el amor y suplicando por \u00e9l<\/a> and when you\u2019re clingy, you\u2019re actually begging for someone to care for you.<\/p>\n

You\u2019ll have to admit that there is nothing dignified about this.<\/p>\n

You don\u2019t need a man you\u2019ll force to be with you. You shouldn\u2019t want him to not leave you because he feels sorry for you or because he thinks you have nowhere else to go.<\/p>\n

2. You can\u2019t stop a man from leaving you<\/h2>\n

\"hombre<\/p>\n

He aqu\u00ed una cruda verdad: si su la relaci\u00f3n est\u00e1 condenada al fracaso<\/a>no hay absolutamente nada que puedas hacer al respecto.<\/p>\n

If the man you\u2019re dating wants to dump you, you can\u2019t stop him from doing so, as much as you try.<\/p>\n

Por lo tanto, la conclusi\u00f3n es que no tiene ning\u00fan sentido ser pegajoso. Lo que tiene que suceder suceder\u00e1 y no hay forma de evitarlo de esta u otra manera.<\/p>\n

So, instead of constantly overthinking and doing everything in your power to keep a man by your side, let him be. Besides, do you really want him to stay with you, knowing that out of pity, he hasn\u2019t left?<\/p>\n

3. El aferramiento ahuyenta a la gente<\/h2>\n

\"grupo<\/p>\n

Te entiendo; cuando amas a alguien, quieres que est\u00e9 constantemente cerca de ti.<\/p>\n

You don\u2019t have the need to spend any of your free time with your friends and family and all you want is to look at this guy\u2019s beautiful face.<\/p>\n

However, let me tell you a secret. This kind of behavior won\u2019t draw him closer to you. In fact, it will actually just chase him away.<\/p>\n

This is true for all people out there and especially for men. When you\u2019re all over a guy, he won\u2019t see that as a sign of your enormous affection for him.<\/p>\n

Instead, he\u2019ll see it as a red flag and an alarming sign to run away for his life.<\/p>\n

Simplemente se sienten asfixiados y amenazados en este tipo de situaciones y normalmente se consigue el efecto contrario de lo que se quer\u00eda conseguir inicialmente.<\/p>\n

4. Your happiness shouldn\u2019t depend on someone else<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

The bottom line here is that you\u2019re clingy out of the fear of losing the person you love.<\/p>\n

This is something nobody should judge you for. After all, as soon as you care for someone, it\u2019s pretty natural that you don\u2019t want to be without them.<\/p>\n

However, in your case, that fear paralyzes you and prevents you from thinking straight. You\u2019re convinced that your happiness depends on your boyfriend, which is certainly not the case.<\/p>\n

Recuerda que necesitas ser feliz por ti mismo, con o sin pareja. S\u00f3lo entonces tu comportamiento necesitado llegar\u00e1 a su fin.<\/p>\n

5. Hay una diferencia entre comportamiento cari\u00f1oso y comportamiento necesitado<\/h2>\n

\"hombre<\/p>\n

Aunque debes hacer todo lo posible por no ser pegajoso, ten en cuenta tambi\u00e9n que en las citas modernas, algunas cosas normales se consideran demasiado necesitadas.<\/p>\n

Sin embargo, perm\u00edtanme decirles que hay una gran diferencia entre comportamiento cari\u00f1oso y pegajoso<\/a>.<\/p>\n

You see, you\u2019re not needy for wanting affection and attention. You\u2019re not needy for considering it natural to hear from your boyfriend every day or to see him a few times a week.<\/p>\n

You\u2019re not clingy for having the need to spend time with him. You\u2019re not clingy for wanting commitment and dedication.<\/p>\n

6. The right person won\u2019t think of you as clingy<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

On the other hand, if you do all of the above and you know that you\u2019re not exaggerating but you\u2019re still being called clingy, maybe it\u2019s time to reconsider your choice of partner.<\/p>\n

Al fin y al cabo, puede que no est\u00e9s necesitado en absoluto. Cuando encuentres a la persona adecuada, apreciar\u00e1 todo lo que hagas por ella.<\/p>\n

Se considerar\u00e1 afortunado por tener una chica que le quiere como t\u00fa.<\/p>\n

\"Si<\/p>\n

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