{"id":70459,"date":"2020-05-19T12:33:53","date_gmt":"2020-05-19T12:33:53","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=70459"},"modified":"2022-04-27T12:00:51","modified_gmt":"2022-04-27T12:00:51","slug":"razones-por-las-que-nunca-has-tenido-novia","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/razones-por-las-que-nunca-has-tenido-novia\/","title":{"rendered":"18 sinceras razones por las que nunca has tenido novia"},"content":{"rendered":"

You might think that you’re the only guy in the world who’s never had a girlfriend, but trust me \u2013 there are a million men out there who are in the same situation as you.<\/p>\n

All of you have one thing in common: you’re trying to find the la chica de tus sue\u00f1os<\/a>, you\u2019re having no success whatsoever, but you can’t seem to figure out why.<\/p>\n

Well, we’re here to help. Here are 18 brutally honest reasons why you’ve never had a girlfriend and how you can change that.<\/p>\n

1. You\u2019re a shy guy<\/h2>\n

\"hombre<\/p>\n

One of the first reasons why you don\u2019t have any relationship experience might be because of your shy nature. Shyness can be quite cute, even in a man, but the truth is that girls rarely fall for it at first, until they get to know you.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s not that you\u2019re just a chico t\u00edmido<\/a> when it comes to women: you\u2019re simply like this all the time, which makes it impossible for girls to notice you.<\/p>\n

Yes, it\u2019s the 21st century and there is nothing strange about a girl making the first move, but whether we like to admit it or not, it is usually expected that guys will approach women.<\/p>\n

Unfortunately, you don\u2019t have the courage to do something like this. So, even when you like a girl, all you can do is dream about her from a safe distance.<\/p>\n

Well, let me tell you that women aren\u2019t mind readers, as much as they\u2019d like to be. No girl will know that you\u2019re into her if you don\u2019t make a move.<\/p>\n

The truth is that girls who approach guys are rare. In most cases, they wait for you to do something about it and you\u2019re doing absolutely nothing.<\/p>\n

Lo entiendo: la timidez forma parte de tu personalidad. Nadie te est\u00e1 diciendo que cambies tu esencia para ser m\u00e1s simp\u00e1tico al sexo opuesto.<\/p>\n

However, if not having a girlfriend is bothering you (and it obviously is), you\u2019ll have to make some adjustments. Throw away your shield and break some barriers if you\u2019re looking for success.<\/p>\n

As much as you would like it, the right girl won\u2019t magically come to you. Instead you\u2019ll have to work to get her.<\/p>\n

2. You\u2019re too pushy<\/h2>\n

\"hombre<\/p>\n

On the other hand, if you\u2019re not shy, you might behave in completely the opposite way. The truth is that you might be too pushy, which is also not a good tactic when it comes to hitting on girls.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s one thing to be the kind of guy who shows that he knows what he wants and is not afraid to get it. This is an appealing quality for all men out there.<\/p>\n

However, it is something else if you don\u2019t respect women\u2019s boundaries and if you go after them too hard. In this case, they might think of you as some kind of creep or a stalker, which is not the image you want to have.<\/p>\n

S\u00ed, la mayor\u00eda de las mujeres quieren compromiso. Quieren un novio que las ame y que quiera un relaci\u00f3n seria<\/a> con ellos.<\/p>\n

Nevertheless, things like this take time. You can\u2019t talk about marriage, kids, or moving in together on the first date because that will chase almost every girl away.<\/p>\n

Remember that you can\u2019t have everything all at once. When you meet a girl you like, don\u2019t be too pushy.<\/p>\n

En lugar de forzar sus l\u00edmites y avanzar demasiado deprisa, deje que el tiempo haga su magia. T\u00f3mese las cosas con calma y vea ad\u00f3nde le llevan.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t pressure girls into doing something they don\u2019t want. This is especially the case when it comes to sleeping together or taking some big steps towards your future together.<\/p>\n

I know that you\u2019ve never had a girlfriend and that you\u2019re eager to finally find one but trust me: this is not the way to go.<\/p>\n

Try not to overthink everything and for once, relax and go with the flow. Don\u2019t burden yourself with what might happen and learn to enjoy each moment.<\/p>\n

3. You\u2019re looking for perfection<\/h2>\n

\"hombre<\/p>\n

You\u2019re a guy with your own set of values and qualities. Therefore, you have the right to have some standards and factores decisivos<\/a>.<\/p>\n

You know what you\u2019re looking for and you don\u2019t want to settle for anything less than you deserve. After all, you shouldn\u2019t be with the first girl who crosses your path just for the sake of having a relationship.<\/p>\n

Sin embargo, puede que seas demasiado exigente con las mujeres. En ese caso, te resultar\u00e1 bastante dif\u00edcil, por no decir imposible, encontrar a la chica adecuada.<\/p>\n

Let\u2019s be honest here: despite all of your good points, the truth is that you\u2019re not perfect. You have your flaws and you expect everyone around you, including your potential dates, to accept you for who you are.<\/p>\n

Knowing that, the question of why you keep on looking for the perfect girl arises. Take off your rose tinted glasses and face the fact that you\u2019ll never find the girl of your dreams who fits each one of your criteria.<\/p>\n

This goes for physical looks as well as for personality traits. Stop writing off girls who don\u2019t look like top models from magazine covers and who don\u2019t have a PhD in science.<\/p>\n

Instead, give them a chance. I\u2019m not saying that you have to end up with someone who didn\u2019t knock you off your feet at first but what\u2019s the harm in at least trying?<\/p>\n

Whether you want to accept it or not, the truth is that you\u2019re unlikely to find the girl of your dreams: A girl who has the perfect body proportions, who is incredibly beautiful, shares your interests, loves you unconditionally, and is your match made in heaven.<\/p>\n

In fact, most people end up with someone who is perfectly imperfect for them. That\u2019s the entire magic of love relationships.<\/p>\n

Besides, it is important to be aware of yourself. If you\u2019re only hitting on girls who are clearly out of your league, you won\u2019t have much luck.<\/p>\n

4. You\u2019re not social enough<\/h2>\n

\"hombre<\/p>\n

En la era de las citas modernas, hay muchas oportunidades para encontrar novia<\/a>. Existen redes sociales, sitios de citas en l\u00ednea, aplicaciones de citas, etc.<\/p>\n

Basically, a lot of people have found their forever person without even leaving their couch. It\u2019s not like in the old days where you actually had to go hunting for women, going to clubs and waiting for a chance to approach a girl face to face.<\/p>\n

However, although there are many ways of meeting the opposite sex, even when you\u2019re an introvertido<\/a> o un solitario, lo cierto es que sus habilidades sociales siguen siendo bastante significativas.<\/p>\n

Therefore, if you\u2019re not social, your chances of finding the love of your life decrease. I\u2019m not saying that you should be doing things you don\u2019t enjoy just to find a girlfriend, but you should definitely try hanging out around people more.<\/p>\n

For example, in contrast to loners, outgoing guys always meet more people. They\u2019re open to new experiences and don\u2019t have trouble communicating with strangers.<\/p>\n

Tambi\u00e9n puede ayudarte ampliar tu c\u00edrculo de amigos. Pueden servirte de compinches cuando veas a una chica que te gusta, pueden presentarte a algunos de sus buenos amigos o concertarte una cita a ciegas.<\/p>\n

Adem\u00e1s, estas habilidades sociales de las que podr\u00edas carecer te ser\u00e1n muy \u00fatiles cuando hables con mujeres. A las chicas les gustan sobre todo los chicos que est\u00e1n rodeados de gente y que, obviamente, se sienten c\u00f3modos estando en lugares concurridos.<\/p>\n

I get it: you\u2019re a loner and there is absolutely nothing wrong with that. However, you must accept that this might be the reason for your lack of romantic experience.<\/p>\n

5. You\u2019re clingy<\/h2>\n

\"hombre<\/p>\n

Cuando preguntas a una chica cu\u00e1l ser\u00eda su tipo de hombre perfecto, la mayor\u00eda de ellas probablemente dar\u00e1 una respuesta similar.<\/p>\n

They will usually tell you that they want a boyfriend who gives them all their attention, who only has eyes for them, who will prioritize them over everyone else, who will text them and call them all the time, and who isn\u2019t scared to be vulnerable and romantic.<\/p>\n

Well, even though all of this sounds great in theory, in practice things are pretty different. Yes, girls dig all that stuff but only later on when you’re in a serious relationship.<\/p>\n

De hecho, si act\u00faas as\u00ed desde el momento en que conoces a una chica nueva, es probable que ella te considere demasiado pegajoso. A pesar de lo que puedas pensar, esa no es una cualidad atractiva en un hombre.<\/p>\n

When you fall for a new girl, don\u2019t be needy because if you are, she is unlikely to ever become your girlfriend. Instead, she\u2019ll think of you as desperate and she might even see your behavior as a chance to play with you.<\/p>\n

I\u2019m not saying that you should stop being a good guy and start acting like a douchebag just to gustarle a una chica<\/a>. However, don\u2019t treat her like she\u2019s the center of your Universe from day one either.<\/p>\n

Remember that everyone needs space and this girl is no different. As much as you\u2019re into her, don\u2019t ask her to spend all of her free time with you.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t gamble your entire life\u2019s happiness on her and on the future of your potential relationship.<\/p>\n

Also, don\u2019t suffocate her. Don\u2019t try caging her because she\u2019ll just see you as an overly tipo celoso posesivo<\/a> de la que necesita huir lo antes posible.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s one thing to show this girl that you\u2019re interested in her. However, it is completely different if you are all over her and if you act like she is your only chance of ever finding love.<\/p>\n

Trust me on this one: girls smell desperation from a mile away. So please, don\u2019t send that vibe if you want to find a girlfriend.<\/p>\n

6. Se siente inseguro debido a su falta de experiencia<\/h2>\n

\"hombre<\/p>\n

Cuando llegas a cierta edad, se espera que tengas al menos alg\u00fan tipo de experiencia rom\u00e1ntica. Al fin y al cabo, todos tus buenos amigos han tenido relaciones m\u00e1s o menos largas y, mires donde mires, s\u00f3lo se ven parejas felices.<\/p>\n

However, you\u2019re not one of those people. You think that there are some signs a guy has never had a girlfriend and that you display each one of them.<\/p>\n

So, you feel like you\u2019re falling behind. Subconsciously, you think that everyone knows your dirty little secret and that they can tell that you\u2019ve never had a relationship the moment they look at you.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s like you missed a stage of your life. You\u2019re all grown up but you simply never went through this romantic phase.<\/p>\n

Nevertheless, don\u2019t allow your lack of experience to ruin your future. You can\u2019t change the past and go back in time so don\u2019t let this fact determine the course of your life.<\/p>\n

Remember: when you start hitting on a girl, there is no way she can know that she\u2019ll be your first girlfriend if you happen to click. She might see you as shy and insecure but she can never be sure about your past experiences.<\/p>\n

So, don\u2019t bring that topic up in the beginning.<\/p>\n

Instead, work on your confidence and act like dating a girl is something you\u2019ve been doing on a regular basis ever since you can remember. Even if someone turns you down, don\u2019t allow fear of rejection to paralyze you.<\/p>\n

Sigue adelante, porque al final tu enfoque y l\u00edneas para ligar<\/a> funcionar\u00e1.<\/p>\n

Later on, when you do find a girlfriend and see that things are getting serious, you can tell her the truth. Trust me: she will feel special and flattered and she\u2019ll probably find all of this cute.<\/p>\n

Hasta entonces, haz todo lo posible por librarte del inseguridades<\/a> que te est\u00e1n frenando.<\/p>\n

7. Juegas demasiado seguro<\/h2>\n

\"hombre<\/p>\n

You\u2019ve already been told not to be too pushy when it comes to hitting on girls. However, according to most consejos sobre citas<\/a>ser demasiado seguro tampoco es el camino a seguir.<\/p>\n

This means that you won\u2019t make a move until you\u2019re completely certain of a girl\u2019s feelings for you. You won\u2019t hit on her unless you\u2019re one hundred percent positive that she\u2019ll give you a positive answer.<\/p>\n

Lo ideal ser\u00eda que las cosas funcionaran as\u00ed. Sin embargo, en la mayor\u00eda de los casos, la realidad de las citas es muy distinta.<\/p>\n

La verdad es que, en la mayor\u00eda de los casos, hay que arriesgarse.<\/p>\n

You see a girl you\u2019re into but you don\u2019t know whether she feels the same way. Well, you\u2019ll never know until you try, right?<\/p>\n

A las chicas les gusta que las persigan. A veces se hacen las dif\u00edciles solo para poner a prueba tu inter\u00e9s por ellas.<\/p>\n

Nunca hay que ser demasiado insistente, porque no siempre significa no, pero hay que tener el valor suficiente para lanzarse a lo desconocido, a pesar de no saber cu\u00e1l ser\u00e1 el resultado.<\/p>\n

Trust me: even if a girl turns you down, she\u2019ll admire your bravery and respect you for it.<\/p>\n

When you like a certain woman, don\u2019t wait for the perfect moment to kiss her or ask her out on a date. I\u2019m not saying that you should do something inappropriate but if you wait too long, your chance will be gone.<\/p>\n

For example, how many times have you laid eyes on a girl you like in a club only for her to leave before you\u2019ve plucked up the courage to go over and say something?<\/p>\n

Hay que crear un ambiente en el que se pueda mover ficha<\/a>. I won\u2019t lie to you: nobody can guarantee that a certain woman won\u2019t turn you down.<\/p>\n

However, at least you\u2019ll know you tried. Besides, even your failures are a valuable experience and will help you in the future.<\/p>\n

8. Pareces un jugador<\/h2>\n

\"reuni\u00f3n<\/p>\n

Has it ever crossed your mind that women don\u2019t want to become your girlfriend because they don\u2019t take you seriously?<\/p>\n

Is it possible that you\u2019ve spent your entire life up until now having causal relationships but never an actual girlfriend? So now when you really want a serious relationship, everyone sees you as a jugador<\/a> que est\u00e1 a punto de romperles el coraz\u00f3n?<\/p>\n

If this is the case, it\u2019s time to change your tactics. You see, no girl wants to give you a chance if she thinks that you\u2019re only after one thing.<\/p>\n

Therefore, you have to convince the object of your affection that you\u2019re really in love with her and that you have no intention of walking away from her as soon as you get what you want.<\/p>\n

The best way for this special someone to realize that you\u2019re serious is to stop playing. Stop chasing other women and make sure she sees she is the only one you\u2019re interested in.<\/p>\n

9. Te rindes f\u00e1cilmente<\/h2>\n

\"hombre<\/p>\n

There is no doubt about one thing and I will forever repeat it to you: girls like to be chased. However, at the same time, they don\u2019t like being chased too much, which will also be discussed.<\/p>\n

Practically, it\u2019s your job to find the perfect balance. On the one hand, you can\u2019t be too needy but on the other, you have to show a certain amount of interest for this girl to even be aware of your emotions.<\/p>\n

Significa que rendirse demasiado pronto no es una opci\u00f3n. Sin embargo, eso es exactamente lo que haces.<\/p>\n

In fact, in most cases, you give up before you\u2019ve even tried. So, how can you expect to change your relationship status under these circumstances?<\/p>\n

The point is that you\u2019re a quitter when it comes to girls. Your level of confianza en s\u00ed mismo<\/a> es incre\u00edblemente bajo y te rindes al primer obst\u00e1culo o se\u00f1al de inconveniente.<\/p>\n

Well, let me tell you that dating doesn\u2019t really work that way. In fact, developing a healthy relationship is a process which takes time, energy, patience, and effort.<\/p>\n

Therefore, you can\u2019t lose all of your hopes and dreams just because a few girls have turned you down. That doesn\u2019t mean that you shouldn\u2019t keep on trying to find the right one.<\/p>\n

Also, just because a certain woman you\u2019re interested in has failed to give you the exact feedback you were expecting, it doesn\u2019t mean that everything is lost with her.<\/p>\n

Just because she didn\u2019t jump directly into your arms the moment you started talking, it doesn\u2019t mean that she doesn\u2019t plan on giving you a chance.<\/p>\n

Just because she doesn\u2019t text you back the second you contact her or she couldn\u2019t go out with you the first time you invited her, it doesn\u2019t mean that you should give up on her.<\/p>\n

Be consistent and persistent. Of course, there are some situations where the only choice you have is to walk away with dignity, but it\u2019s your job to evaluate when you should try harder and when it\u2019s right to give up.<\/p>\n

At first, you might have trouble assessing the situation. In that case, ask your best friend for help and with time, you\u2019ll be able to do it by yourself.<\/p>\n

10. Pones a las chicas en un pedestal<\/h2>\n

\"un<\/p>\n

Girls like to be treated as real life princesses: there is no doubt about that. However, this doesn\u2019t mean that you should put them on a pedestal.<\/p>\n

Una cosa es respetar a la chica con la que quieres salir. Ves su val\u00eda y nunca har\u00edas nada que pudiera insultarla.<\/p>\n

Eso es impresionante y sin duda te hace un hombre de verdad y material novio<\/a>. Sin embargo, idealizar a las mujeres nunca es bueno para tu futura vida amorosa.<\/p>\n

Cuando te empieza a gustar una chica, enseguida la percibes como mucho mejor de lo que es en realidad. Solo ves sus lados buenos, mientras que t\u00fa ves tus imperfecciones y defectos.<\/p>\n

Naturally, when you put things like this, you can\u2019t help but think that you don\u2019t stand a chance with her. You devalue yourself and wonder why a girl like her would want to be with a guy like you.<\/p>\n

Well, that approach couldn\u2019t be more wrong. You\u2019re automatically putting yourself beneath her and that kind of arrangement will never work out for the best.<\/p>\n

Remember that this woman you\u2019re into is just a human being, the same as you. She has her own flaws and is made out of flesh and blood.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t be intimidated by her and don\u2019t be scared to stand in front of her. Trust me: if you put her on a pedestal and start acting as her inferior, she\u2019ll notice it and start perceiving you as an insecure little boy.<\/p>\n

11. Tiene un lenguaje corporal pobre<\/h2>\n

\"hombre<\/p>\n

One of the main reasons why many guys never have a girlfriend isn\u2019t hidden in their communication or social skills. In fact, it\u2019s their lenguaje corporal<\/a> que es el problema.<\/p>\n

Ver\u00e1s, la mayor\u00eda de las chicas te escanear\u00e1n incluso antes de que intercambi\u00e9is nombres y os conozc\u00e1is oficialmente. Cuando se trata de citas, las se\u00f1ales no verbales y los signos del lenguaje corporal son lo primero que puede ayudarte a romper la barrera antes de dar el primer paso.<\/p>\n

Aunque no pasa nada si te acercas a las mujeres de improviso, tus posibilidades de \u00e9xito aumentar\u00e1n si te preparas con estos gestos no verbales.<\/p>\n

However, you\u2019re not very skillful when it comes to this.<\/p>\n

First and foremost, when you walk into the room, you act like you would rather be somewhere else. It\u2019s like you want to hide from the rest of the world and go unobserved.<\/p>\n

Also, you don\u2019t give the impression of being a happy person. You don\u2019t laugh and smile a lot and in most cases you have a grumpy face, all of which makes people think that you\u2019re a negative person.<\/p>\n

When you like a girl, you don\u2019t try to establish eye contact. Not only that: even if a girl is clearly checking you out, you will look away instead of staring right back at her.<\/p>\n

When you\u2019re talking with a woman you\u2019re into, you don\u2019t have the courage to look her directly in the eyes. You are not brave enough to sit next to the girl you like, let alone make some accidental physical contact.<\/p>\n

Al principio, puede pensar que todas estas cosas son bastante irrelevantes. Sin embargo, cr\u00e9eme cuando te digo que un buen lenguaje corporal puede hacer la mitad del trabajo.<\/p>\n

12. You don\u2019t take care of your looks<\/h2>\n

\"hombre<\/p>\n

When it comes to physical looks, most people will tell you that guys pay attention to a girl\u2019s appearance more than the other way around.<\/p>\n

Bueno, siento ser yo quien rompa tu burbuja, pero a pesar de la opini\u00f3n popular, las cosas son m\u00e1s o menos iguales para ambos sexos.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t get me wrong: this is not me saying that looks are the only thing that matters for most girls.<\/p>\n

In fact, you can be the most handsome man in the world but if you don\u2019t have anything else to offer, it\u2019s likely that you\u2019ll never have a girl who really loves you.<\/p>\n

However, it takes time for two people to get to know each other. So, you can\u2019t expect a girl to give you her phone number because you\u2019re a decent guy or a kind person.<\/p>\n

After all, she has no clue about that and it\u2019s not a reason for her to like you.<\/p>\n

Por lo tanto, si quieres que las chicas te den m\u00e1s oportunidades, lo primero que tienes que hacer es atraerlas hacia ti. La \u00fanica manera de hacerlo es estar guapo y hacerte lo m\u00e1s atractivo f\u00edsicamente posible.<\/p>\n

Knowing all of this, it\u2019s possible that one of the reasons why you can\u2019t seem to find a girlfriend is the fact that you don\u2019t care about your looks as much as you should.<\/p>\n

No, this doesn\u2019t mean that you should look like you\u2019ve just stepped off the cover of a fashion magazine. You don\u2019t have to undergo some wild plastic surgeries or aesthetic procedures to become more likeable to girls.<\/p>\n

Sin embargo, tienes que cuidar tu higiene personal. Tienes que oler bien, ducharte con regularidad y prestar atenci\u00f3n a tu aliento.<\/p>\n

Si tienes barba, debes mantenerla cuidada. Tienes que cepill\u00e1rtela y lav\u00e1rtela con regularidad.<\/p>\n

Estar\u00eda bien ir al gimnasio, ya que a las chicas les vuelven locas los chicos que est\u00e1n en forma. Empieza a hacer ejercicio o practica alg\u00fan otro tipo de actividad f\u00edsica.<\/p>\n

When it comes to your clothes, this is something you should work on as well. Make sure it\u2019s always clean and ironed and most importantly: dress for the occasion.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t walk around in your old sweatpants or a stained T-shirt, expecting girls to fall at your feet. Don\u2019t dress like a clown and as if you\u2019ve put on the first thing that came out of your closet either.<\/p>\n

If you\u2019re not much of a fashion person, just stick to the basics. Don\u2019t experiment with styles and colors if you\u2019re not sure how to combine them.<\/p>\n

13. You\u2019re not dominant<\/h2>\n

\"hombre<\/p>\n

Les guste admitirlo o no, lo cierto es que a las mujeres les encanta hombres alfa<\/a>. De hecho, la mayor\u00eda de los chicos que nunca han tenido novia son en realidad machos beta, gamma o delta mientras que chicos alfa<\/a> rara vez se enfrentan a este tipo de problema.<\/p>\n

I\u2019m not saying that you should treat your girlfriend as if she is inferior to you. Remember that you two are completely equal in your relationship and you\u2019re not above her in any way.<\/p>\n

Sin embargo, hay una diferencia entre tomar las riendas y actuar como si tu chica fuera una ciudadana de segunda clase por el mero hecho de ser mujer.<\/p>\n

Well, that is exactly what you lack: initiative. You don\u2019t act like enough of a man and that could be the reason for your inability to find a girlfriend.<\/p>\n

Women like men who know what and who they want. Men who are confident and who act brave, even when they\u2019re not.<\/p>\n

They like men who are born leaders of the pack. Men everyone else follows and listens to. Men who \u201cwear the pants\u201d in the relationship.<\/p>\n

S\u00ed, lo s\u00e9, esto no tiene mucha l\u00f3gica. Sin embargo, las mujeres que persiguen a los hombres dominantes es en realidad su instinto primario.<\/p>\n

Inconscientemente, quieren tener una relaci\u00f3n seria con una pareja que pueda protegerles cuando lo necesiten. Alguien en quien puedan confiar y alguien que pueda mantenerlos, si es necesario.<\/p>\n

Therefore, if you send off the vibe of an incompetent man who can\u2019t get the job done, most women sadly won\u2019t see you as boyfriend material.<\/p>\n

14. Te friendzonean<\/h2>\n

\"tres<\/p>\n

La pesadilla n\u00famero uno de todos los hombres: estar atrapado en la friendzone<\/a>. In your case, this is not something you\u2019re just afraid of \u2013 it has been your reality ever since you can remember.<\/p>\n

The reason why you\u2019ve never had a girlfriend is because you\u2019ve had a lot of female friends. Ironic, right?<\/p>\n

Desde el instituto, has sido el chico rodeado de m\u00e1s chicas. Por desgracia, ninguna de esas chicas te ve\u00eda como algo m\u00e1s que un mejor amigo.<\/p>\n

T\u00fa, en cambio, estabas enamorado de la mayor\u00eda.<\/p>\n

Entonces, \u00bfpor qu\u00e9 es as\u00ed? \u00bfPor qu\u00e9 las chicas te ponen en la zona de amigos?<\/p>\n

They obviously think of you as a good person and value your personality traits. Otherwise they wouldn\u2019t consider you their friend.<\/p>\n

Al fin y al cabo, todas tus amigas no paran de decirte que lo dar\u00edan todo por encontrar a un buen chico como t\u00fa. Ah\u00ed est\u00e1s, delante de ellas y, sin embargo, ninguna te ha tenido en cuenta.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s not your looks either because there is no chance that not one girl in your life hasn\u2019t considered you to be cute if nothing else.<\/p>\n

Por lo tanto, debe ser algo en tu actitud.<\/p>\n

Well, the truth is that you probably start off on the wrong foot. When you like a girl, you don\u2019t flirt with her and you don\u2019t make your intentions clear right away.<\/p>\n

You\u2019re paralyzed by the fear of rejection so you enter her life as a friend. However, the problem is that you keep that status forever.<\/p>\n

Despu\u00e9s de alg\u00fan tiempo, te metes tan profundamente en el friendzone<\/a> que admitir tus sentimientos rom\u00e1nticos significar\u00eda perder a esa persona para siempre. As\u00ed que te conformas con migajas y prefieres tenerla en tu vida de una forma u otra.<\/p>\n

Te suena familiar, \u00bfverdad?<\/p>\n

Well in that case, it\u2019s time to change your attitude. Stop being a shoulder for women to cry on.<\/p>\n

Stop being their comforter and someone they come to when they need relationship advice. Stop talking to them about other men and don\u2019t participar en temas de chicas<\/a> como maquillaje o ropa.<\/p>\n

Show them that you\u2019re a man and that it\u2019s about time they start seeing you as one.<\/p>\n

15. You don\u2019t have a lot to offer<\/h2>\n

\"hombre<\/p>\n

When you ask yourself why you\u2019ve never had a girlfriend, you usually blame the opposite sex or modern dating, which really can be frustrating. However, has it ever crossed your mind that it\u2019s not them \u2013 it\u2019s you?<\/p>\n

Maybe you don\u2019t have a lot to offer to girls.<\/p>\n

When you hear this, the first thing you think of is probably money. You assume that girls don\u2019t like you because you\u2019re not rich enough to make all of their dreams come true.<\/p>\n

However, I\u2019m not just talking about that. Yes, at a certain age you should be financially independent and have ambitions to prosper even further.<\/p>\n

Nevertheless, I\u2019m talking about other things. About your personality and other skills.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t get me wrong: I\u2019m not saying that you have no worth. I\u2019m just advising you to start with some self improvement before putting yourself in the dating pool.<\/p>\n

Adem\u00e1s de trabajar en tu apariencia, trabaja tambi\u00e9n en tu interior. Trabaja en tu educaci\u00f3n, tu espiritualidad y tu salud emocional y mental.<\/p>\n

Trabaja en tu autoconfianza y en convertirte en mejor persona. Convi\u00e9rtete en la mejor versi\u00f3n posible de ti mismo.<\/p>\n

Convi\u00e9rtete en buen chico<\/a> before searching for a good girl. Use all of your potential so girls around you see that you have a lot to offer and that you\u2019re in a position to ask for a lot as well.<\/p>\n

16. You\u2019re frustrated<\/h2>\n

\"hombre<\/p>\n

Mires donde mires, los tipos que tratan a las mujeres como basura, que son infieles y que juegan con sus corazones y mentes son los que m\u00e1s mujeres consiguen.<\/p>\n

La mayor\u00eda de tus amigos se quejan de los gilipollas que no paran de romperles el coraz\u00f3n pero, al final, la mayor\u00eda se reconcilian con ellos despu\u00e9s de la ruptura.<\/p>\n

Por otro lado, est\u00e1s t\u00fa. T\u00fa, un buen chico<\/a>que nunca ha hecho da\u00f1o a nadie y que tratar\u00eda a cada chica como a una reina.<\/p>\n

However, despite all of this, you\u2019re the one who has never had a girlfriend while these dudes have women chasing them. So, you can\u2019t help but feel frustrated about this.<\/p>\n

It’s been like this ever since high school and nothing seems to have changed now you\u2019re an adult.<\/p>\n

Where is the justice here? Why is this happening, when you\u2019re the nicest guy alive who deserves to have the best girlfriend ever?<\/p>\n

Well, even though I completely understand your point of view, this frustration might be one of the reasons why you can\u2019t seem to have a romantic relationship.<\/p>\n

Pareces amargado, negativo y, por tanto, desesperado. Naturalmente, estas no son las cualidades que gustan a las chicas.<\/p>\n

Por favor, deshazte de este tipo de emociones. Otros chicos no son la causa de tu infeliz vida amorosa.<\/p>\n

Al fin y al cabo, nadie puede robarte tu suerte y tu fe. Deja de compararte con los dem\u00e1s y c\u00e9ntrate en tu propio futuro.<\/p>\n

17. You\u2019re too available<\/h2>\n

\"hombre<\/p>\n

According to some dating advice, another source of your problem might be the fact that you\u2019re too available.<\/p>\n

I\u2019m not talking about your solo<\/a> status here \u2013 I\u2019m talking about the fact that the girl you like feels like she can have you whenever she feels like it. And the worst part is that she is absolutely right.<\/p>\n

This quality of yours goes hand in hand with desperation. You\u2019re so eager to have a girlfriend that you don\u2019t plan on missing out on the slightest chance of having one.<\/p>\n

Por lo tanto, corres siempre que ella te llama. Siempre est\u00e1s ah\u00ed, esperando pacientemente a que aparezca y te d\u00e9 migajas de su atenci\u00f3n.<\/p>\n

When you meet a new girl, everything happens on her terms. You\u2019re never too busy to see her, you respond to her text messages immediately, and you are always in the mood to talk to her.<\/p>\n

Incluso cuando tienes otros planes, los cancelas para poder incluirla en tu agenda.<\/p>\n

Well, let me tell you that this creates a counterproductive effect. The girl you like will definitely see how crazy you are for her but instead of appreciating it, she\u2019ll probably use it against you.<\/p>\n

Te dar\u00e1 por sentado y empezar\u00e1 a verte como su plan de respaldo. Alguien a quien siempre puede volver una vez que se quede sin otras opciones.<\/p>\n

Ver\u00e1, para un mujer que realmente se enamore de ti<\/a>Tiene que tener miedo de perderte. Tiene que sentir tu ausencia para echarte de menos y darse cuenta de que te quiere en su vida.<\/p>\n

However, you\u2019re not giving girls that chance. You\u2019re always there, at their fingertips and they don\u2019t feel the need to give you the status of being their boyfriend.<\/p>\n

18. Te emocionas demasiado pronto<\/h2>\n

\"hombre<\/p>\n

Estar en contacto con tus sentimientos es incre\u00edble, especialmente para un hombre. Ser abierto al respecto es a\u00fan mejor.<\/p>\n

However, this doesn\u2019t mean that you should wear your heart on your sleeve because this could be the reason why you’ve never had a girlfriend. It doesn\u2019t mean that you should reveal your soul to every girl who crosses your path.<\/p>\n

You see, women will always tell you that they like emotional guys. However, that doesn\u2019t include you telling a girl you love her on the first date.<\/p>\n

This is exactly what you do. You\u2019re too honest about your feelings and you invest yourself entirely from the very start.<\/p>\n

This is especially true when you feel like you\u2019re perder a la chica que te gusta<\/a>. You won\u2019t hesitate to tell her that she is breaking your heart or make some other love declarations.<\/p>\n

Sin embargo, rara vez consigues el efecto deseado. En lugar de eso, sueles ahuyentarla con todo esto.<\/p>\n

As\u00ed que en lugar de ponerte demasiado emocional demasiado pronto, deja que ella adivine si te importa o no. Hazla pensar y hazla dudar de tus sentimientos.<\/p>\n

A primera vista, todo esto podr\u00eda parecer juego<\/a>. However, sometimes this is necessary if you want to get under a girl\u2019s skin.<\/p>\n

As\u00ed se hace invitar a salir a una chica y convertirla en tu novia<\/a>.<\/p>\n

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