{"id":70653,"date":"2020-05-13T15:44:35","date_gmt":"2020-05-13T15:44:35","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=70653"},"modified":"2022-02-10T12:42:39","modified_gmt":"2022-02-10T12:42:39","slug":"pensando-en-enviar-un-mensaje-de-texto-a-tu-ex","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/pensando-en-enviar-un-mensaje-de-texto-a-tu-ex\/","title":{"rendered":"\u00bfDebo llamar a mi ex? Lee esto si est\u00e1s pensando en enviar un mensaje de texto a tu ex"},"content":{"rendered":"

\u00bfEst\u00e1s teniendo un <\/span>mal rato<\/span> \u00bfdejar atr\u00e1s la ruptura? \u00bfEcha de menos a su <\/span>ex-novio<\/span>? \u00bfEst\u00e1 pensando en llamar o <\/span>mensajes de texto<\/span> \u00bf\u00c9l? <\/span><\/p>\n

S\u00e9 que <\/span>estar solo<\/span> <\/a>puede hacerte pensar en tu ex y en tu relaci\u00f3n pasada. A veces, incluso empezamos a pensar que echamos de menos a nuestro <\/span>ex pareja<\/span> and actually, all we can think about is, “\u00bfDebo llamar a mi ex<\/a>?” <\/span><\/p>\n

I know it’s hard because he was also your <\/span>mejor amigo<\/span> and you thought that he was your soulmate and that you\u2019d be together for the rest of your lives.<\/span><\/p>\n

Sin embargo, una cosa que debes saber es que a un ex se le llama ex por algo.<\/span><\/p>\n

If you were meant to be together, you wouldn’t have broken up in the <\/span>primer puesto<\/span> y si de verdad est\u00e1is destinados a estar juntos, el destino acabar\u00e1 uni\u00e9ndoos, pase lo que pase. <\/span><\/p>\n

Either way, you have nothing to worry about. Time will show whether or not he deserves your heart. Be patient and wait. Just because you miss him, it doesn’t mean that you need that man in your life.<\/span><\/p>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

YOU are the only person you deserve in your life. That’s why you have to be careful. You may lose yourself in chasing a man who never deserved you in the <\/b>primer puesto<\/b>. <\/b><\/p>\n

You have to be strong and let him go or you’ll be left with another <\/span>desamor<\/span>. Resp\u00e9tate lo suficiente como para saber cu\u00e1ndo debes marcharte. <\/span><\/p>\n

Que <\/span>relaci\u00f3n t\u00f3xica<\/span> was ruining your life and only you know how much he hurt you. Although you haven’t fully recovered yet, only you know how painful your healing process was.<\/span><\/p>\n

En <\/span>lo \u00faltimo<\/span> lo que necesitas ahora es reavivar esa relaci\u00f3n y darle otra oportunidad al hombre que casi destruye tu vida. <\/span><\/p>\n

You shouldn’t send him <\/span>mensajes de texto<\/span> o ll\u00e1mele. Por una <\/span>periodo de tiempo<\/span>tienes que cortar toda comunicaci\u00f3n que tuvieras con \u00e9l. <\/span>Una larga historia<\/span> corto, tienes que seguir el <\/span>norma de no contacto<\/span>.<\/span><\/p>\n

La regla del no contacto<\/span> always works. It’s the only way you’ll make him understand how much he hurt you. Ignoring your ex will drive him crazy and it’ll make him regret losing you. <\/span><\/p>\n

Never call or text your ex if…<\/h2>\n

1. You’re drunk<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

You’re angry at your ex for the way he treated you while you were in a relationship. After a few drinks, you finally get the courage to tell him everything you couldn’t tell when you broke up. <\/span><\/p>\n

Quieres darle un <\/span>llamada telef\u00f3nica<\/span> y dile que fue un imb\u00e9cil y que perdi\u00f3 a la \u00fanica chica que te amaba sin importar nada. <\/span><\/p>\n

S\u00e9 que se merece o\u00edrlo y que te har\u00eda sentir mejor en ese momento. Aun as\u00ed, tienes que saber una cosa importante.<\/span><\/p>\n

Drunk-texting is the worst thing you can do. It is going to help you feel better at that moment and the next morning, once you have sobered up, you’ll instantly regret it. <\/span><\/p>\n

2. You’re lonely<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Many people are scared of being alone, especially after their long-term relationship has ended. It’s perfectly normal to feel that way but again, you need time to emotionally process it all. <\/span><\/p>\n

For a good while, that man was a huge part of your life and you loved him with all your heart. Now that he has left, you’re left with a void, some emptiness inside you. <\/span><\/p>\n

S\u00e9 que <\/span>el a\u00f1o pasado<\/span> everything was different, you were in love but things have changed and you have to accept it. Tell yourself: \u201cOkay, <\/span>rompimos<\/span>, it’s over now, I have to let it go and finally move on.\u201d <\/span><\/p>\n

Don’t confuse that feeling of loneliness with wanting your <\/span>ex-novio de vuelta<\/span> and missing him. It’s not the same and deep down, you know that. <\/span><\/p>\n

3. Has o\u00eddo que tiene una nueva novia<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Descubrir que tu ex tiene una nueva novia o peor a\u00fan, que ha vuelto con su <\/span>ex-novia<\/span>puede ser muy dif\u00edcil para ti, sobre todo si a\u00fan sientes algo por \u00e9l. <\/span><\/p>\n

It can make you think that the break-up was a mistake because you think you’ll end up alone in the long-term. But trust me, it’s just a temporary feeling because that news surprised you. <\/span><\/p>\n

You might even be jealous or angry at him because he was able to forget you and move on so quickly. Don’t immediately dial his phone number.<\/span><\/p>\n

Cool down and work through those feelings before you do anything you’ll later regret. <\/span><\/p>\n

4. Vuestros amigos comunes dicen que \u00e9l tambi\u00e9n te echa de menos<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Don’t fall for that right away because it might be one of his games and tactics to get you to call him first. <\/span><\/p>\n

It’s not probably the first<\/span> tiempo<\/span> que ha jugado contigo.<\/span><\/p>\n

Puede que le diga a tu <\/span>amigos comunes<\/span> that the break-up was a mistake and that he misses you or that he can’t live <\/span>sin ti<\/span> but he is doing that because he knows that they’ll tell you and that you’ll believe them. <\/span><\/p>\n

However, think about it. If he truly can’t live <\/span>sin ti<\/span>, why can’t he call you or ask you to <\/span>reunirse<\/span> y dec\u00edrtelo en persona? <\/span><\/p>\n

Maybe his stubborn pride is important to him and that’s why he doesn’t want to text first, maybe he is afraid of your reaction, but either way, he doesn’t deserve you. <\/span><\/p>\n

\u00bfDebo llamar a mi ex?<\/h2>\n

Todos somos <\/span>seres humanos<\/span> and we all make mistakes. That’s why we should all be able to forgive others for their mistakes. I firmly believe that every person deserves a second chance, maybe sometimes even a third one. <\/span><\/p>\n

A man who truly loves you will make the most out of a second chance, doing everything he can to prove to you that you did the right thing by giving him another chance. But that’s it. <\/span><\/p>\n

You shouldn’t give him endless chances because he doesn’t deserve them at all. If he doesn’t take the second chance seriously, that means that he doesn’t care whether or not you’ll be together. <\/span><\/p>\n

However, if you are thinking that you\u2019ll <\/span>env\u00eda un mensaje a tu ex<\/span>, here are some questions you must ask yourself before you do that. They might help you to decide if that’s a good idea.<\/span><\/p>\n

1. \u00bfC\u00f3mo os conocisteis?<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

La forma en que empezasteis la relaci\u00f3n es importante. Si os liasteis en una fiesta (probablemente borrachos), vuestra relaci\u00f3n estaba condenada al fracaso desde el principio. <\/span><\/p>\n

Si os hab\u00e9is conocido en Facebook o alg\u00fan otro <\/span>redes sociales<\/span> y luego acord\u00f3 <\/span>reunirse<\/span> in person and after a while decided to start dating, you shouldn’t send him a text because he is probably chatting with some other girls right now. <\/span><\/p>\n

Si erais amigos antes de enrollaros y quieres seguir si\u00e9ndolo despu\u00e9s de la ruptura, siempre puedes enviarle un mensaje y preguntarle c\u00f3mo le va.<\/span><\/p>\n

2. \u00bfPor qu\u00e9 rompisteis?<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Cheating, lying, abusive behavior and a lack of support are truly some of the most unforgivable reasons for a break-up and if one of those is your case, you shouldn’t <\/span>env\u00eda un mensaje a tu ex<\/span>No importa cu\u00e1nto le eches de menos. <\/span><\/p>\n

Nevertheless, if you broke up because of some stupid little fight, it’s probably a good idea to call your ex (especially if the fight was your fault).<\/span><\/p>\n

3. \u00bfCu\u00e1ndo fue la \u00faltima vez que te dijo que te quer\u00eda?<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Esto es verdaderamente importante. Trate de recordar cuando el <\/span>\u00faltima vez<\/span> fue que dijo <\/span>te quer\u00eda<\/span><\/a> o se preocupaba profundamente por ti. \u00bfC\u00f3mo se comport\u00f3 despu\u00e9s? \u00bfSus acciones siguieron a sus palabras? <\/span><\/p>\n

Pi\u00e9nsalo detenidamente y luego decide si debes llamarle o no.<\/span><\/p>\n

4. \u00bfLe sigues queriendo como el primer d\u00eda?<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Antes de hacer nada, tienes que preguntarte si lo que sientes es amor o algo que sientes por costumbre.<\/span><\/p>\n

Maybe you can’t accept the idea of the break-up just because you got used to that person and that’s why it’s hard for you to let go.<\/span><\/p>\n

5. \u00bfEras mucho m\u00e1s feliz en la relaci\u00f3n con \u00e9l o ahora?<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Piensa en el tiempo que pasaste en la relaci\u00f3n con \u00e9l. Piensa en todas esas veces que te sorprendi\u00f3 y te hizo feliz.<\/span><\/p>\n

Think about all those times he hurt you and all the nights you couldn’t sleep because you had a fight. <\/span><\/p>\n

Now, say honestly whether you’re happier now that you’re alone or while you were dating him.<\/span><\/p>\n

6. \u00bfEst\u00e1s pensando en iniciar una nueva relaci\u00f3n con otra persona?<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Si has conocido a alguien nuevo y empiezas a pensar que tal vez podr\u00edais empezar una <\/span>nueva relaci\u00f3n<\/span> with that man, that means that you’re ready to move on and that you shouldn’t <\/span>env\u00eda un mensaje a tu ex<\/span> and give him hope that you’re thinking about getting back together.<\/span><\/p>\n

7. \u00bfHa borrado todas las fotos que ten\u00eda contigo en sus redes sociales?<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Si borr\u00f3 todas tus fotograf\u00edas en su <\/span>redes sociales<\/span>significa que esta vez ha terminado contigo de verdad y que est\u00e1 listo para un nuevo comienzo. <\/span><\/p>\n

Accept his decision and don’t bother him by sending him a text that you’re missing him. It’ll only make you look desperate.<\/span><\/p>\n

8. \u00bfEs tu primera ruptura?<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Si este es el <\/span>primera vez<\/span> you broke up, then you’ll probably reconcile because first fights and break-ups are almost always misunderstandings. <\/span><\/p>\n

Adem\u00e1s, si es tu primer combate, tienes que darle una segunda oportunidad y volver a empezar desde el principio.<\/span><\/p>\n

9. \u00bfCu\u00e1nto tiempo ha pasado desde la ruptura?<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Don’t call him right after you’ve broken up. Give him and yourself some time. Think about the reason for your break-up. <\/span><\/p>\n

There is no need to hurry. If he loves you, he’ll also give you some space and he’ll wait for you.<\/span><\/p>\n

10. \u00bfEst\u00e1s segura de que puedes perdonarle y olvidar que te hizo da\u00f1o?<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

If you are going to reconcile with him, you must be ready to do so because otherwise you’ll only make things worse.<\/span><\/p>\n

You’ll mention his mistakes all the time and that’s how you’ll make him break up with you again but this time, it’ll be for good. <\/span><\/p>\n

If you want to text him that you’ve forgiven him, then you must also be ready to forget what happened and leave it in the past.<\/span><\/p>\n

11. Are you sure you’re thinking rationally?<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

I know it’s hard and you are missing him like crazy but you shouldn’t let your emotions control you. You have to think rationally about giving him a second chance. <\/span><\/p>\n

Si dejas que tus emociones decidan por ti, puede que te vuelvan a romper el coraz\u00f3n. <\/span><\/p>\n

Qu\u00e9 hacer en lugar de llamar a tu ex novio<\/h2>\n

He aqu\u00ed algunas cosas que puede hacer una vez que empiece a pensar en c\u00f3mo conseguir que su <\/span>ex vuelta<\/span>. Abre tu mundo a nuevas posibilidades. <\/span><\/p>\n

Deja el tel\u00e9fono en paz<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

If you’re thinking about <\/span>mensajes de texto<\/span> tu ex, guarda tu tel\u00e9fono durante al menos <\/span>un d\u00eda<\/span>. P\u00eddele a tu amigo que te organice una peque\u00f1a intervenci\u00f3n cada vez que empieces a pensar en ello.<\/span><\/p>\n

Deja que coja tu tel\u00e9fono y dile que, pase lo que pase, no debe d\u00e1rtelo durante al menos <\/span>un d\u00eda<\/span>. <\/span><\/p>\n

Also tell your siblings that they must not give you their phones if you ask them. That’s the only way you’ll be sure that you won\u2019t call or text him. <\/span><\/p>\n

Pierde su n\u00famero y bloqu\u00e9ale en tus redes sociales<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

You know how people say out of sight, out of mind? That’s why the <\/span>norma de no contacto<\/span><\/a> is so awesome. Looking at his photos and posts on Facebook or Instagram won’t bring you any good. <\/span><\/p>\n

Bloqu\u00e9alo en todas tus <\/span>redes sociales<\/span> cuentas. Cierra esa puerta. Adem\u00e1s, borra su n\u00famero de tel\u00e9fono. De hecho, borrar todos sus textos y <\/span>llamada telef\u00f3nica<\/span> history so you can’t find his number in your phone at all.<\/span><\/p>\n

Deshazte de las fotos que tienes con tu ex<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

You broke up and you have to deal with that fact. Leave him where he belongs and that’s in the past. <\/span><\/p>\n

Borrar sus fotos es el primer paso para conseguirlo. Conservar fotos de su <\/span>ex-novio<\/span> es una mala idea porque mirarlos una y otra vez puede hacer que lo eches a\u00fan m\u00e1s de menos.<\/span><\/p>\n

Tambi\u00e9n puede hacerte hacer lo peor y eso ser\u00eda <\/span>env\u00eda un mensaje a tu ex<\/span> that you’re missing him and that you want to get back together. <\/span><\/p>\n

Sal con tus amigos<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Don’t look at your phone all day hoping that he’ll send you a text because that text will never come. Go out and have fun. Enjoy being with your friends. Do the things you like. Stop thinking about him. <\/span><\/p>\n

Tienes que <\/span>reconstruya su <\/span>autoestima<\/span><\/a> y sanar de la <\/span>angustia<\/span> de la ruptura y tus amigos son las \u00fanicas personas que pueden ayudarte con eso.<\/span><\/p>\n

They\u2019ll do everything they can to make you feel better and hanging out with them will make you forget that you wanted to send your ex a text in the <\/span>primer puesto<\/span>. <\/span><\/p>\n

C\u00e9ntrate en tu trabajo o formaci\u00f3n<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Centrarte en tus tareas y obligaciones cotidianas te ayudar\u00e1 a olvidarte de \u00e9l y de la ruptura durante un tiempo. <\/span><\/p>\n

El trabajo es siempre la mejor distracci\u00f3n para hacer frente a la <\/span>angustia<\/span> despu\u00e9s de una ruptura. C\u00e9ntrate en tu carrera. Trabaja en tus sue\u00f1os y objetivos.<\/span><\/p>\n

Tienes que comprometerte al m\u00e1ximo en el trabajo y trabajar duro para tener \u00e9xito y demostrarle a tu ex lo que perdi\u00f3. El \u00e9xito es siempre la mejor venganza. <\/span><\/p>\n

Trabaja en ti mismo <\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Terminar una relaci\u00f3n es duro para todo el mundo y puede ser especialmente duro para tu autoestima y puede dejarte con menos <\/span>autoestima<\/span>.<\/span><\/p>\n

That’s why you should be especially careful after a break-up and give yourself enough time to heal. <\/span><\/p>\n

If you aren’t aware of your worth, you’ll think that you aren’t good enough and that you will never again find a man who will love you. <\/span><\/p>\n

You have to boost your self-confidence and understand your personal value. You have to learn that some things were meant to happen and that it wasn’t your fault.<\/span><\/p>\n

You have to know that it’s his loss because he was the one who lost a person who loved him more than she loved herself. <\/span><\/p>\n

Para terminar<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

You have to know that no matter how painful missing your ex is, you aren’t alone. Many other people are also having a hard<\/span> tiempo<\/span> despu\u00e9s de una ruptura. <\/span><\/p>\n

Life is a journey and you shouldn’t focus too much on only one part of it. “Should I call my ex?” is a dilemma but in order to move on with your life properly, you have to decide whether it’s a good thing or not and give it closure. <\/b><\/p>\n

Seguro que tienes asuntos pendientes con tu ex, pero cr\u00e9eme, la mejor decisi\u00f3n que puedes tomar es <\/span>d\u00e9jalo en el pasado<\/span><\/a>. It’s what he truly deserves.<\/span><\/p>\n

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