{"id":7068,"date":"2017-10-19T08:42:42","date_gmt":"2017-10-19T08:42:42","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=7068"},"modified":"2021-08-12T11:08:48","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T11:08:48","slug":"10-senales-de-bandera-roja-narcisista-abusado","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/10-senales-de-bandera-roja-narcisista-abusado\/","title":{"rendered":"10 se\u00f1ales de alarma de que est\u00e1s siendo maltratada por un narcisista"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Una vida con un narcisista no es una vida. Es sobrevivir. Son tan malvados y juegan juegos mentales para conseguir su v\u00edctima en sus trampas.<\/p>\n<p>Toda mujer enamorada prefiere creer a un narcisista, pensando que la ama, en lugar de creer a su familia y amigos. Pero, \u00bfqu\u00e9 pasa cuando las cosas se complican? \u00bfC\u00f3mo se sale de esa pesadilla?<\/p>\n<p>Si no est\u00e1s del todo seguro de que tu pareja te est\u00e9 maltratando, aqu\u00ed tienes algunas se\u00f1ales de alarma a las que debes prestar atenci\u00f3n. Puede que las cosas est\u00e9n mucho peor de lo que crees.<\/p>\n<h2><span style=\"font-size: 14pt;\">1. Est\u00e1 siendo superior en su relaci\u00f3n<\/span><\/h2>\n<p>Si su pareja piensa que \u00e9l es el l\u00edder en su relaci\u00f3n y que sus emociones e ideas no son importantes, puede estar seguro de que est\u00e1 tratando con un narcisista.<\/p>\n<p>He wants his word to be final and you don\u2019t get to decide about all those important things in your lives. He thinks that you are worth less and he treats you badly because of that.<\/p>\n<p>If you see even a hint that he is starting to behave like this, leave him without thinking. You don\u2019t deserve a man who will mistreat and belittle you. You are unique and special just the way you are, so never settle for less than you deserve.<\/p>\n<p><strong>V\u00e9ase tambi\u00e9n:<\/strong>\u00a0<a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/relationship\/girls-falling-bad-boys-3-juegos-mentales-que-nos-juegan-los-narcisistas\/\">A todas las chicas que se enamoran de chicos malos: Estos son 3 juegos mentales que los narcisistas juegan con nosotras<\/a><\/p>\n<h2><span style=\"font-size: 14pt;\">2. Te ignora<\/span><\/h2>\n<p>\u00bfAlguna vez has sorprendido a tu chico jugando con su tel\u00e9fono mientras le contabas tu horrible d\u00eda en el trabajo? Si la respuesta es s\u00ed, puedes estar segura de que est\u00e1s tratando con un narcisista.<\/p>\n<p>He simply doesn\u2019t care about your needs and your emotions. He has just lost interest in you and he wants you to find out about that in an ugly way. Whatever you do, don\u2019t accept that what he is doing is normal.<\/p>\n<p>Un verdadero <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/love\/hombre-voluntad-mujer-realmente-ama\/\">chico que ama de verdad a su mujer<\/a> nunca la tratar\u00e1 as\u00ed.<\/p>\n<h2><span style=\"font-size: 14pt;\">3. Te sientes in\u00fatil<\/span><\/h2>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.elitedaily.com\/dating\/13-signs-youre-toxic-relationship-ruining-life\/966801\" rel=\"noopener\">Si formas parte de una relaci\u00f3n t\u00f3xica<\/a>, you will know that by your partner\u2019s behavior. Every narcissist will mistreat you and won\u2019t care about your emotions. If you are feeling worthless in a relationship like that, you should leave.<\/p>\n<p>Don\u2019t suffer while being in love, because love is not about that. Love is the purest and the most beautiful thing in the world and you should not be feeling that way. Otherwise, it doesn\u2019t make any sense.<\/p>\n<h2><span style=\"font-size: 14pt;\">4. Lloras a diario<\/span><\/h2>\n<p>When living with a narcissist guy, every day will be sad. They will make excuses for the shit they do and you will end up in tears. They simply live to make your life agony and you won\u2019t have any other choice but to cry your heart out.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-7097 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/10\/dahiana-candelo-36591.jpg\" alt=\"Mujer llorando\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/10\/dahiana-candelo-36591.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/10\/dahiana-candelo-36591-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/10\/dahiana-candelo-36591-768x512.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/10\/dahiana-candelo-36591-180x120.jpg 180w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/10\/dahiana-candelo-36591-262x175.jpg 262w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>But please stop and think for a second. Is that a life that is worth living? Do you really want to raise your kids in a toxic relationship like you are experiencing now? I don\u2019t think so.<\/p>\n<p>So, before things get even worse, pack your bags and leave him. Once you are gone, he will miss you but that doesn\u2019t mean that you will accept him back.<\/p>\n<h2><span style=\"font-size: 14pt;\">5. Ya no eres la misma persona<\/span><\/h2>\n<p>Cuando est\u00e1s bajo el control de un hombre narcisista durante mucho tiempo, en realidad te pierdes a ti misma. Te olvidas de lo que es estar alegre y de c\u00f3mo re\u00edr.<\/p>\n<p>Every day that you spend with him you spend in a constant worry that he will do some harm to you. You don\u2019t want to irritate him by your behavior, so you do things that he likes. And in all that mess, when you look in the mirror, you don\u2019t recognize yourself anymore.<\/p>\n<p>There isn\u2019t that glow in your eyes, your skin is pale and your eyes are big and red because of constant crying.<\/p>\n<p>Remember, this situation is something that you can\u2019t let continue anymore, so if you still care about your dreams and your life, do yourself a favor and kick him out of your life.<\/p>\n<p><strong>V\u00e9ase tambi\u00e9n:\u00a0<\/strong><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/relationship\/cada-chica-alguna-vez-perdio-hombre-narcisista\/\">A todas las chicas que se han perdido por un hombre narcisista...<\/a><\/p>\n<h2><span style=\"font-size: 14pt;\">6. No est\u00e1s tan entusiasmado como antes<\/span><\/h2>\n<p>\u00bfRecuerdas aquellos d\u00edas en los que estabas por todas partes? \u00bfRecuerdas cuando eras la persona m\u00e1s ruidosa de la habitaci\u00f3n, ri\u00e9ndote tan alto que los de fuera podr\u00edan haberte o\u00eddo?<\/p>\n<p>S\u00ed, s\u00e9 que lo recuerdas y, por desgracia, ya no eres as\u00ed. Tu vida con un hombre t\u00f3xico te transform\u00f3 en otra persona.<\/p>\n<p>Now, you are a woman who doesn\u2019t take care of herself anymore. The one who doesn\u2019t take a shower or who doesn\u2019t clean or cook. You are everything that you didn\u2019t think you would become one day.<\/p>\n<p>S\u00f3lo espero que te llegue ese momento rel\u00e1mpago en la cabeza en el que te des cuenta de que este tipo de vida no es lo que te mereces.<\/p>\n<h2><span style=\"font-size: 14pt;\">7. Tiene miedo de su pareja<\/span><\/h2>\n<p>When you are with a narcissist, you can\u2019t function normally at all. You are stressed that he might hurt you physically or emotionally. When he reaches his hands toward you, you don\u2019t know if he is trying to hug you or to hit you.<\/p>\n<p>Y cr\u00e9eme, vivir con esta cantidad de estr\u00e9s en tu vida es cualquier cosa menos normal.<\/p>\n<p>So, next time you don\u2019t feel so comfortable with him, talk to him openly and tell him that you are not someone who will put up with his shit.<\/p>\n<h2><span style=\"font-size: 14pt;\">8. Sientes que nadie oye tu voz<\/span><\/h2>\n<p>Te sientes tan mal en tu propia piel que te pasar\u00edas el d\u00eda llorando y maldiciendo tu mala suerte. Si alguna vez te has sentido as\u00ed, puedes estar segura de que un hombre al que llamas tu amado te est\u00e1 haciendo todas estas cosas desagradables.<\/p>\n<p>\u00c9l es el responsable de todas las cosas malas que est\u00e1s experimentando en tu vida. <a href=\"https:\/\/www.psychologytoday.com\/blog\/understand-other-people\/201506\/feeling-stuck-in-the-relationship\" rel=\"noopener\">Te sientes atrapado en una relaci\u00f3n<\/a> as\u00ed, pensando que el l\u00edo es culpa tuya. No, no es culpa tuya y nunca lo ser\u00e1.<\/p>\n<p>Simplemente tuviste la mala suerte de tropezar con un imb\u00e9cil que hizo de tu vida un infierno. As\u00ed que, si todav\u00eda quieres ser la antigua t\u00fa, a\u00fan est\u00e1s a tiempo. Con una voluntad fuerte y el coraz\u00f3n en la manga, puedes conseguir todo lo que te propongas.<\/p>\n<h2><span style=\"font-size: 14pt;\">9. Te sientes loco<\/span><\/h2>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/relationship\/6-cosas-que-los-hombres-te-hacen-sentir-como-una-loca\/\">Un narcisista intentar\u00e1 ponerte en rid\u00edculo.<\/a> Intentar\u00e1 convencerte de algunas cosas que no son como \u00e9l las representa. Es s\u00f3lo sus juegos mentales que est\u00e1 jugando con todas sus v\u00edctimas para que pueda controlarlos.<\/p>\n<p>Si ves algo as\u00ed, debes saber que es una gran bandera roja. D\u00e9jalo mientras puedas, porque no es el hombre que vale la pena esperar.<\/p>\n<p>He is just an asshole disguised as your lover but if you don\u2019t play smart he could hurt you badly.<\/p>\n<h2><span style=\"font-size: 14pt;\">10. He has a \u2018my way or no way\u2019 attitude<\/span><\/h2>\n<p>Todos los narcisistas son iguales. Quieren controlar a otras personas, convenci\u00e9ndolas todo el tiempo de que tienen derecho a hacerlo.<\/p>\n<p>If your man starts to tell you that some things will be his way or no way, you can tell him that you are currently in the mood of \u2018my way or the highway\u2019.<\/p>\n<p>Si es la mitad de listo de lo que dice, se dar\u00e1 cuenta de que acabar\u00e1 mordiendo el polvo.<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>A life with a narcissist is not a life. It is surviving. They are so wicked and they play mind games to get their victim in their traps. Every woman in love will rather believe a narcissist, thinking that he loves her, instead of believing her family and friends. But what about when things get&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":21,"featured_media":7096,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29633],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-7068","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-narcissism"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29633,"label":"narcissism"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/10\/pexels-photo-247903.jpeg",800,578,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Maria Parker","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/maria\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29633,"name":"narcissism","slug":"narcissism","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29633,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Mind games and manipulations are narcissist's favorite controlling tactics. 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