{"id":7082,"date":"2017-10-19T08:46:54","date_gmt":"2017-10-19T08:46:54","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=7082"},"modified":"2021-08-12T11:08:13","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T11:08:13","slug":"sucede-dejar-una-relacion-emocionalmente-abusiva","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/sucede-dejar-una-relacion-emocionalmente-abusiva\/","title":{"rendered":"Esto es lo que ocurre cuando dejas una relaci\u00f3n emocionalmente abusiva"},"content":{"rendered":"

Nadie te lo dice nunca. Nadie te lo advierte. Todos tienen algo que decir mientras est\u00e1s en este tipo de relaci\u00f3n, pero todos callan cuando te liberas de una. <\/span><\/p>\n

It\u2019s not that easy. One should expect happiness and joy. No one expects fear, confusion, and the inability to continue living your life\u2014to pick up where you left off before you met him.<\/span><\/p>\n

Nadie te dice nunca cu\u00e1nto duele. Nadie te dice cu\u00e1nto tardan en cicatrizar las heridas.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

When you meet someone new, you are afraid. You are scared to death that history will repeat itself. You try to humor him even though he doesn\u2019t want you to do that.<\/span><\/p>\n

You apologize for every little thing. You apologize for the things you\u2019re guilty and not guilty of. He doesn\u2019t want you to do that. <\/span><\/p>\n

No one ever tells you that you don\u2019t have to do it. No one ever tells you how hard is to snap out of what you\u2019ve been going through. No one ever tells you that it takes guts to heal completely.<\/span><\/p>\n

Necesitar\u00e1s encontrar la fuerza para levantarte de nuevo. Revivir\u00e1s esos momentos horribles de los que te hizo part\u00edcipe. Te despertar\u00e1s en mitad de la noche y tu coraz\u00f3n latir\u00e1 tan fuerte, como si quisiera salirse de tu pecho. <\/span><\/p>\n

Ver\u00e1s a alguien que te recuerda a \u00e9l. Te llevar\u00e1 de vuelta. Ser\u00e1 tan real, como si la pesadilla estuviera sucediendo de nuevo. <\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

Te sentir\u00e1s roto porque estar\u00e1s roto. Llorar\u00e1s a l\u00e1grima viva. Gritar\u00e1s de dolor emocional. <\/span><\/p>\n

You will feel drained because you will be drained. He\u2019s the one who sucked the life out of you. You gave him all you had. And what did you get in return? Nothing except pain. And more pain.<\/span><\/p>\n

You will be negative because that\u2019s the only feeling you know. You forgot what it was like to be happy. It will be hard to get out of that vicious circle of negativity. You want to escape it, but you need it because you\u2019re used to it. It becomes like a drug to you. You keep craving for more.  <\/span><\/p>\n

You never knew what it was like to be loved. You never had that. You wouldn\u2019t recognize real love even if it hit you right in the face. You will doubt each and every person who comes near you and you will destroy their every attempt to flirt with you. You will do this out of fear. Out of fear of getting hurt.<\/span><\/p>\n

Tendr\u00e1s que ser fuerte durante mucho tiempo. Tendr\u00e1s que ser fuerte hasta que recojas los pedazos rotos de lo que quede de ti y los vuelvas a juntar para seguir construyendo la versi\u00f3n de ti mismo que siempre quisiste ser.  <\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

When you start a new relationship, you will feel lost. You won\u2019t be used to this new \u2018normal treatment\u2019. You won\u2019t be used to kind words and understanding. You won\u2019t be used to being treated with respect. Your voice will actually matter for the first time in a long time. <\/span><\/p>\n

It will take a while for you to relax and trust this person. But that won\u2019t matter as he will wait for you. He will give you space to heal. He will help you heal.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

V\u00e9ase tambi\u00e9n: <\/strong>To Her Current Narcissistic Boyfriend \u2013 If I Were You I Would Never Hurt Her<\/a><\/p>\n

You will be waiting for the perfect storm. You will be waiting for him to lose it at anytime. You know your ex was nice and loving when he wanted to be\u2014when you didn\u2019t complain and did everything his way. You are scared this guy is the same. <\/span><\/p>\n

Pero, \u00bfsabes qu\u00e9? La tormenta perfecta nunca va a llegar. No es el mismo.     <\/span><\/p>\n

Nadie te dice nunca lo jodido que es sobrevivir a todo esto. Nadie te dice nunca que esta es la parte dif\u00edcil. Nadie te dice nunca que curarse duele; duele como el demonio. <\/span><\/p>\n

There are so many things you won\u2019t be told. You\u2019ll have to fight for yourself. You\u2019ll have to put yourself first. You\u2019ll have to cry. You\u2019ll have to hurt.<\/span><\/p>\n

Pero te curar\u00e1s. Te pondr\u00e1s mejor.<\/span><\/p>\n

\"Esto<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

No one ever tells you this. No one warns you. They all have something to say while you\u2019re in this kind of a relationship, but they all keep quiet when you break free from one. It\u2019s not that easy. One should expect happiness and joy. No one expects fear, confusion, and the inability to continue…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":21,"featured_media":7100,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29632],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-7082","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-abuse-and-trauma"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29632,"label":"abuse & trauma"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/10\/morgan-sessions-6256.jpg",800,567,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Maria Parker","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/maria\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29632,"name":"abuse & trauma","slug":"abuse-and-trauma","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29632,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Learn the signs of emotional and physical abuse and how to protect yourself from toxic patterns in relationships with your partner, friends or family.","parent":22911,"count":138,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29632,"category_count":138,"category_description":"Learn the signs of emotional and physical abuse and how to protect yourself from toxic patterns in relationships with your partner, friends or family.","cat_name":"abuse & trauma","category_nicename":"abuse-and-trauma","category_parent":22911}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/7082","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/21"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=7082"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/7082\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/7100"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=7082"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=7082"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=7082"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}