{"id":71410,"date":"2020-05-13T15:47:57","date_gmt":"2020-05-13T15:47:57","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=71410"},"modified":"2022-02-10T01:50:02","modified_gmt":"2022-02-10T01:50:02","slug":"ser-soltero-nunca-puede-causar-tanta-soledad-como-estar-en-la-relacion-equivocada","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/ser-soltero-nunca-puede-causar-tanta-soledad-como-estar-en-la-relacion-equivocada\/","title":{"rendered":"Estar soltero nunca puede causar tanta soledad como estar en la relaci\u00f3n equivocada"},"content":{"rendered":"

\u00bfPor qu\u00e9 se considera que estar soltero es lo m\u00e1s solitario que puede estar una persona cuando estar en la relaci\u00f3n equivocada te aporta mucha m\u00e1s soledad?<\/span><\/p>\n

Sentirse solo no tiene nada que ver con estar solo.<\/b> D\u00e9jeme que se lo explique.<\/span><\/p>\n

A few weeks ago I met my high school friend for coffee. I knew she was still single and I was kind of expecting her to be looking for love and honestly, a part of me thought she still didn\u2019t have it all.<\/span><\/p>\n

Pens\u00e9 en todas las noches solitarias que pasa sola, deseando tener a alguien con quien compartir su vida.<\/span><\/p>\n

Boy was I wrong. We reconnected and have been meeting occasionally and every single word I\u2019ve heard come out of her mouth proved to me just how happy and fulfilled her life is.<\/span><\/p>\n

Es una mujer fuerte, feroz e intr\u00e9pida que mir\u00f3 a la vida a los ojos y decidi\u00f3 no conformarse nunca con menos de lo que se merece.<\/b><\/p>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

She is content with being who she is and doesn\u2019t need a man to prove her worth, especially not the wrong man.<\/span><\/p>\n

Deciding to never let anyone mess with her head and draw her into a vicious cycle of lying, ignoring and cheating was the best choice she\u2019s ever made.<\/span><\/p>\n

Me demostr\u00f3 que estar soltero no tiene nada que ver con estar solo. <\/span><\/p>\n

I have so many other friends who are in relationships that do them no good. Aren\u2019t they more lonely than she is?<\/span><\/p>\n

Tienen parejas que les prestan muy poca atenci\u00f3n a ellos y a sus necesidades. Oficialmente est\u00e1n con alguien, pero en realidad est\u00e1n muy solos.<\/span><\/p>\n

Being with a person who doesn\u2019t know how to make you happy or, even worse, doesn\u2019t at all care about making you happy is the loneliest a person can ever be.<\/b><\/p>\n

S\u00ed, est\u00e1s en una relaci\u00f3n y se supone que las cosas tienen que ser perfectas porque estar en una relaci\u00f3n significa tener una persona con la que hablar, una persona que te cuide, una persona que te quiera, te respete y te aprecie.<\/span><\/p>\n

Lamentablemente, muchas personas est\u00e1n en la relaci\u00f3n equivocada. Muchas personas se culpan por querer mucho m\u00e1s de su pareja, pensando que son emocionalmente codiciosos, mientras que en realidad, sus necesidades nunca se cumplen.<\/span><\/p>\n

Every single one of us has a right to love and be loved in return. What happens when the person who\u2019s supposed to love us does everything but?<\/b><\/p>\n

It\u2019s still hard for me to understand why but I can see clearly now that there are very few couples who are just right for each other.<\/span><\/p>\n

I get it. You\u2019re alone. Te sientes solo<\/a>. Piensas que cualquier afecto humano y cualquier peque\u00f1a atenci\u00f3n es mejor que nada. El tiempo pasa y las migajas de amor que te da tu pareja te hacen sentir m\u00e1s solo que nunca.<\/span><\/p>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

You make yourself believe that you\u2019re the one asking too much. It\u2019s easier for you to think that you only need to wish for less and you\u2019ll be happier with what you\u2019ve got.<\/span><\/p>\n

This concept works when it comes to material things\u2014be happy with what you\u2019ve got. When it comes to love, this can never be the case.<\/span><\/p>\n

Mereces que te amen perfectamente. Mereces que te amen apasionadamente. Mereces tener una pareja que tenga miedo de perderte. <\/b><\/p>\n

You deserve to have a partner who will only have eyes for you. You deserve to have a partner whose love for you will be bigger than anything else he\u2019s ever felt.<\/b><\/p>\n

No deber\u00edas tener miedo de estar soltero. Deber\u00edas tener miedo de sentirte solo. <\/b>Being in a relationship doesn\u2019t guarantee the loneliness goes away.<\/span><\/p>\n

It\u2019s okay to be single. It\u2019s more than okay, it can be perfect for you. <\/span><\/p>\n

Date la oportunidad de encontrar a la persona adecuada. Mientras tanto, disfruta de tu propia compa\u00f1\u00eda. <\/span><\/p>\n

Estar soltero es mejor que estar en la relaci\u00f3n equivocada.<\/b> Te da la oportunidad de conocerte mejor, de disfrutar del tiempo con tus amigos, de aprender que tu felicidad viene de dentro.<\/span><\/p>\n

No one will ever be able to fill every little hole in the story of your life, you\u2019re the only one who can do that.<\/span><\/p>\n

Stop losing time feeling abandoned while you\u2019re officially taken and know you should be cherished. Don\u2019t let your fear of loneliness in the single life stop you from giving yourself a chance to have a life you deserve. <\/span><\/p>\n

Leave. You don\u2019t belong there.<\/span><\/p>\n

You\u2019ve already reached the worst level of loneliness in your bad relationship, you can only go up from here.<\/span><\/p>\n

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Why is being single considered to be the loneliest a person can be when being in the wrong relationship brings you so much more loneliness? Being lonely is so not about being alone. Let me explain. A few weeks ago I met my high school friend for coffee. I knew she was still single and…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":22,"featured_media":71411,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29645],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-71410","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-being-single"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29645,"label":"being single"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/Being-Single-Can-Never-Cause-As-Much-Loneliness-As-Being-In-The-Wrong-Relationship.jpg",800,534,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tina Navarro","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/tatiana\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29645,"name":"being single","slug":"being-single","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29645,"taxonomy":"category","description":"How to rock being single? Or how to (and why you should) stop worrying about what others will think of your love status? Here's exactly how.","parent":29643,"count":114,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29645,"category_count":114,"category_description":"How to rock being single? Or how to (and why you should) stop worrying about what others will think of your love status? Here's exactly how.","cat_name":"being single","category_nicename":"being-single","category_parent":29643}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/71410","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/22"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=71410"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/71410\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/71411"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=71410"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=71410"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=71410"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}