{"id":71428,"date":"2020-05-13T15:49:05","date_gmt":"2020-05-13T15:49:05","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=71428"},"modified":"2021-08-12T12:45:40","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T12:45:40","slug":"diferencias-entre-el-amor-verdadero-y-el-apego","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/diferencias-entre-el-amor-verdadero-y-el-apego\/","title":{"rendered":"7 grandes diferencias entre el amor verdadero y el apego"},"content":{"rendered":"

Cuando se habla de relaciones hoy en d\u00eda, mucha gente confunde el amor con estar apegado a otra persona. Sin embargo, la diferencia entre ambos es enorme.<\/span><\/p>\n

Se puede amar de verdad a alguien sin estar apegado a esa persona. Sin embargo, a veces el amor puede <\/span>conducen al apego<\/span><\/a> y esos sentimientos encontrados pueden llegar a ser muy confusos.<\/span><\/p>\n

First, you should know that true love will never make you feel anxious and depressed. That right kind of love \u2013 pure and true love \u2013 feels easy and it makes you feel good all the time.<\/b><\/p>\n

True love is hard to find, but once you do, you’ll never let it go.<\/b><\/p>\n

That’s why it’s so easy to mistake attachment for love. It also makes you feel good because your partner is fulfilling all your needs, but you’ll see that it’s not going to last.<\/span><\/p>\n

Entonces, \u00bfc\u00f3mo puedes saber si sientes verdadero amor o s\u00f3lo est\u00e1s apegado a tu pareja?<\/span><\/p>\n

1. El amor es incondicional, el apego es todo condiciones<\/h2>\n

\"hombre<\/p>\n

Una persona que te quiere de verdad siempre te querr\u00e1 igual, pase lo que pase. Nunca te dejar\u00e1n, por dura que sea la situaci\u00f3n.<\/span><\/p>\n

True love is loving someone without expecting anything in return. It’s when you love someone without any limitations and boundaries.<\/span><\/p>\n

When you accept someone for who they are \u2013 even fall in love with their imperfections.<\/span><\/p>\n

Well, it’s the only way love should feel. While on the other hand, attachment is quite the opposite. You set many boundaries for your partner. You have conditions they need to follow.<\/span><\/p>\n

You start stalking them on social media because you don’t want them to communicate with other people and you start deciding they can and cannot hang out with.<\/span><\/p>\n

Tu relaci\u00f3n se vuelve t\u00f3xica, con tantos l\u00edmites y limitaciones.<\/span><\/p>\n

2. El amor es desinteresado, el apego es ego\u00edsta<\/h2>\n

\"hombre<\/p>\n

When you truly love someone, you’ll do whatever it takes to make that person happy, because <\/span>su felicidad es<\/span><\/a> m\u00e1s importantes para ti que las tuyas propias. Sus necesidades y su bienestar se convierten en su m\u00e1xima prioridad.<\/span><\/p>\n

When you’re attached to someone, however, everything revolves around you. You become dependent on your partner. And you’re in the relationship just to meet your own needs.<\/span><\/p>\n

3. Love helps you grow, attachment won’t encourage your personal development<\/h2>\n

\"hombre<\/p>\n

When someone truly loves you, they’ll support you in everything you do. They’ll inspire you to follow your dreams. They’ll constantly make you work on yourself to become the best version of yourself.<\/span><\/p>\n

Being attached to someone makes you feel afraid of that person’s growth. You’re scared that it can make them rethink your relationship and that they might leave you.  <\/span><\/p>\n

4. El amor no tiene fin, el apego es temporal<\/h2>\n

\"hombre<\/p>\n

El amor verdadero es eterno. La persona adecuada te hace sentir tan bien que s\u00f3lo piensas en querer pasar el resto de tu vida con ella.<\/span><\/p>\n

Aunque os pele\u00e9is de vez en cuando (lo cual es perfectamente normal), sab\u00e9is que nada puede separaros.<\/span><\/p>\n

On the other hand, when we get emotionally attached to someone, it happens too easily, and that’s why it can’t last. You become bored with that relationship, and the feeling of attachment can fade surprisingly fast.<\/span><\/p>\n

5. El amor te hace mejor persona, el apego te hace superficial<\/h2>\n

\"hombre<\/p>\n

When you’re in love, you become more understanding, gentle, and thoughtful. It’ll have a positive effect on your life.<\/b><\/p>\n

You’ll have a more optimistic perspective. It’ll also motivate and inspire you to work on yourself.<\/b><\/p>\n

On the flip side, you get attached to someone only because you see certain benefits from that relationship. It’s all about what your partner can do for you; you don’t care about their needs.<\/span><\/p>\n

It’s shallow and it’s going to affect all your future relationships.<\/span><\/p>\n

6. El amor te acepta tal como eres, el apego intenta cambiarte<\/h2>\n

\"hombre<\/p>\n

Una persona que te quiere de verdad te querr\u00e1 tal y como eres. Aceptar\u00e1 todas tus imperfecciones y te querr\u00e1 a\u00fan m\u00e1s. Nunca intentar\u00e1 cambiar nada de ti.<\/span><\/p>\n

When you’re emotionally attached to someone, you’ll try to change all the parts of them that you don’t like. <\/span><\/p>\n

You’ll try to change them in a way that will make you happy, because in the end, you being happy is all that matters.   <\/span><\/p>\n

7. El amor es hacer concesiones, el apego es anteponer siempre tus necesidades<\/h2>\n

\"hombre<\/p>\n

When you fall in love with someone, you learn to make compromises. It’s the foundation of every healthy relationship.<\/span><\/p>\n

You want to make your partner happy and that means that you’ll have to swallow your pride sometimes and put your partner\u2019s needs ahead of your own. <\/span><\/p>\n

On the other hand, if you’re merely attached to someone, <\/span>que desea controlar<\/span><\/a> that person and that’s why you’re never prepared to find the middle ground on anything.<\/span><\/p>\n

Estar unido a alguien puede llenar el vac\u00edo en tu vida, pero nunca puede hacerte verdaderamente feliz.  <\/b><\/p>\n

Pero el amor es la emoci\u00f3n m\u00e1s especial y poderosa que mejora tu vida en todos los sentidos posibles.<\/b><\/p>\n

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When it comes to relationships today, many people confuse love with being attached to another person. Although, the difference between those two is huge. You can truly love someone without being attached to that person. However, sometimes love can lead to attachment and those mixed feelings can become so confusing. First, you should know that…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":53,"featured_media":71429,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29614],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-71428","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-love-talks"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29614,"label":"love talks"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/7-Major-Differences-Between-True-Love-And-Attachment.jpg",800,534,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Ariel Quinn","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/ariel\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29614,"name":"love talks","slug":"love-talks","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29614,"taxonomy":"category","description":"What is love? How does it affect us? How to know someone loves you or show someone you love them? What types of love are there? Learn all that and much more.","parent":38,"count":426,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29614,"category_count":426,"category_description":"What is love? How does it affect us? How to know someone loves you or show someone you love them? What types of love are there? Learn all that and much more.","cat_name":"love talks","category_nicename":"love-talks","category_parent":38}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/71428","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/53"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=71428"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/71428\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/71429"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=71428"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=71428"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=71428"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}