{"id":7209,"date":"2023-09-27T12:14:00","date_gmt":"2023-09-27T12:14:00","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=7209"},"modified":"2023-09-28T12:47:42","modified_gmt":"2023-09-28T12:47:42","slug":"se-busca-dejar-de-esperar","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/se-busca-dejar-de-esperar\/","title":{"rendered":"Deja de Esperarle: Si \u00c9l Quisiera Estar Contigo, Estar\u00eda Contigo"},"content":{"rendered":"

I know that you are experiencing a hard time of your life. I know that it hurts when your loved one doesn\u2019t want to choose you. But hey, in all that mess, you need to think of yourself first.<\/p>\n

Why would you wait for someone who doesn\u2019t even take care of your feelings?<\/p>\n

\u00bfPor qu\u00e9 perder su valioso tiempo con alguien que no merece la pena esperar?<\/p>\n

As\u00ed que.., deja de esperarle<\/a>como si quisiera estar contigo, estar\u00eda contigo<\/a>.<\/p>\n

There aren\u2019t excuses good enough for what he was doing to you.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

He deliberately chose to give up on you. He didn\u2019t even try to fight for you. Instead, he was fighting with you every single time.<\/p>\n

That crap that he couldn\u2019t choose between you and her is a such crap. Don\u2019t you see that \u00bfsu indecisi\u00f3n era una decisi\u00f3n?<\/a><\/p>\n

And if he really wanted to choose one of you, you should have told him that he should choose her, because if he ever loved you, he wouldn\u2019t be thinking about choosing one of you.<\/p>\n

\u00c9l ya sab\u00eda que te har\u00edas da\u00f1o en este proceso, pero sigui\u00f3 con su juego.<\/p>\n

Quer\u00eda tener un ratito contigo y cuando se cansaba se iba con ella.<\/p>\n

\"hombre<\/p>\n

Well, buddy, things don\u2019t function that way. You can\u2019t play for both of the teams.<\/p>\n

You need to make a decision and not play with someone\u2019s feelings.<\/p>\n

S\u00f3lo espero que te des cuenta de que no es digno de tu amor y atenci\u00f3n.<\/i><\/b>.<\/p>\n

Puedes verlo por todas las cosas que te ha hecho. As\u00ed que, por favor, esc\u00fachame y deshazte de \u00e9l. Hazlo r\u00e1pido para que duela menos.<\/p>\n

Do it like you are taking off a Band-Aid from your skin – one sharp move and it is gone. That is the only way you will feel less pain.<\/p>\n

I am not saying that you won\u2019t suffer at all. There will be days and weeks when you will feel like a piece of crap because of him.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

Habr\u00e1 d\u00edas en los que querr\u00e1 llamarle y pedirle que lo intente de nuevo.<\/p>\n

Entonces te dar\u00e1s cuenta de que al hacer eso, est\u00e1s a punto de rogarle que est\u00e9 contigo y that\u2019s not the love you deserve. <\/a><\/p>\n

Habr\u00e1 cosas que te recordar\u00e1n a \u00e9l, como vuestra canci\u00f3n favorita que os hizo bailar a los dos en mitad de la noche, completamente mojados por la lluvia que ca\u00eda sin piedad sobre vuestros cuerpos.<\/p>\n

Habr\u00e1 un hombre que tendr\u00e1 el mismo olor que \u00e9l, de modo que te dar\u00e1s la vuelta para atraparlo e intentar\u00e1s respirar ese dulce aroma que a\u00fan te da fr\u00edo.<\/p>\n

Ahora, ten en cuenta todas estas cosas cuando pienses en odiarle.<\/p>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

\u00bfAlguna vez te demostr\u00f3 que se sent\u00eda as\u00ed? \u00bfAlguna vez te dese\u00f3 y mir\u00f3 a todas las chicas que se parec\u00edan a ti?<\/p>\n

I bet he didn\u2019t, because otherwise he wouldn\u2019t have to make this decision now. He was selfish enough to think about himself and his feelings only.<\/p>\n

Nunca te llam\u00f3 para ver c\u00f3mo estabas. Nunca te pregunt\u00f3 si te sent\u00edas bien.<\/p>\n

Simplemente desapareci\u00f3 de tu vida como si nunca hubiera formado parte de ella. Y eso apesta.<\/p>\n

Pero apesta a\u00fan m\u00e1s que tengas que lidiar con el hecho de que nunca te am\u00f3 lo suficiente como para hacer que funcione.<\/p>\n

I know that everything I say won\u2019t be enough for you.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

Mis palabras s\u00f3lo pueden empujarte a pensar de nuevo en tu vida. S\u00f3lo puedo intentar hacerte creer que no fuiste culpable de lo que pas\u00f3.<\/p>\n

\u00c9l era culpable de todo y t\u00fa s\u00f3lo eras la persona adecuada en el momento equivocado.<\/p>\n

So, don\u2019t cry over spilled milk now. He harmed you but you are a strong woman and you will soon get over him.<\/p>\n

Si \u00e9l fue tan est\u00fapido como para irse, t\u00fa deber\u00edas ser lo suficientemente inteligente como para d\u00e9jalo ir.<\/a><\/p>\n

\"novia<\/p>\n

No es el hombre que te mereces. Solo fue una lecci\u00f3n de vida que te ense\u00f1\u00f3 qu\u00e9 tipo de trato no debes volver a permitir.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t forget that in all this mess you actually learned how amazing and a unique person you are.<\/p>\n

But since he didn\u2019t think about you in this way, he just chose to let you go.<\/p>\n

In the end, if he ever realizes what kind of person he had next to himself and if he tries to get back to you, don\u2019t let him back into your life.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

Se tom\u00f3 una decisi\u00f3n hace mucho tiempo. \u00a1Si quisiera estar contigo, estar\u00eda contigo!<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

\"Deja<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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