{"id":7228,"date":"2020-08-20T12:39:12","date_gmt":"2020-08-20T12:39:12","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=7228"},"modified":"2022-02-10T02:01:05","modified_gmt":"2022-02-10T02:01:05","slug":"no-le-dejaste-otra-opcion-que-renunciar-a-ti","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/no-le-dejaste-otra-opcion-que-renunciar-a-ti\/","title":{"rendered":"No le dejaste otra opci\u00f3n que renunciar a ti."},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Te dio todo lo que ten\u00eda. \u00bfY qu\u00e9 hiciste t\u00fa? No le diste absolutamente nada a cambio.<\/p>\n<p>You used her trust so many times that she couldn\u2019t trust you anymore. It was impossible. You failed. You failed hard.<\/p>\n<p>Te perdiste el hecho de que ella hizo un esfuerzo extra por ti. Cada vez.<\/p>\n<p>Mover\u00eda monta\u00f1as por ti. Siempre te elegir\u00eda a ti antes que a s\u00ed misma. Y a\u00fan as\u00ed, no le diste nada.<\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s not a surprise she had to give up on you. You know that she did all the work in your relationship. She was the one who kept it alive.<\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s like you were just a coincidental spectator instead of a main actor in the whole thing. Why would anybody take that?<\/p>\n<p><b><i>Ella te dio toda la atenci\u00f3n y el afecto que ten\u00eda. Se asegur\u00f3 de que lo tuvieras todo. <\/i><\/b><\/p>\n<p><b><i>Te dio un beso de despedida cuando saliste de casa y a\u00fan as\u00ed, la pusiste en \u00faltimo lugar. <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/relationship\/sabia-ultimo-beso-beso-mas-fuerte\/\">Nunca recibi\u00f3 un beso de despedida.<\/a><\/i><\/b><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-113150\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/sad-woman-lying-on-the-couch.jpg\" alt=\"mujer triste tumbada en el sof\u00e1\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/sad-woman-lying-on-the-couch.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/sad-woman-lying-on-the-couch-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/sad-woman-lying-on-the-couch-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/sad-woman-lying-on-the-couch-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/sad-woman-lying-on-the-couch-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/sad-woman-lying-on-the-couch-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/sad-woman-lying-on-the-couch-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/sad-woman-lying-on-the-couch-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>You took advantage of her kindness. You spat on her kind words and loving gestures because you didn\u2019t respect her.<\/p>\n<p>You should have taken her in your arms and never let her go. That\u2019s how she treated you. And you deserved none of it.<\/p>\n<p><b><i>She never met a person more selfish than you. How could you let yourself lose the one thing that made you a better man &#8211; her?<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n<p>Slowly, you were becoming her burden. She could no longer carry you on her back. Her bones started to crack. She couldn\u2019t take it.<\/p>\n<p>Although she kept giving you second chances, you kept blowing them off. You destroyed them one by one and you wouldn\u2019t stop because you were sure you\u2019d get another chance.<\/p>\n<p>You knew she was good-hearted and she wouldn\u2019t leave you just like that and unfortunately, you took advantage of that.<\/p>\n<p>She would give up on you, though, because you gave her more sadness than happiness. That\u2019s the kind of life she didn\u2019t want to live.<\/p>\n<p>What\u2019s even sadder is that she actually thought for a second that all of this was her fault. She thought she hadn\u2019t had enough patience and understanding for you.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-113151\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/sad-woman-wearing-jeans-shirt.jpg\" alt=\"mujer triste con camisa vaquera\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/sad-woman-wearing-jeans-shirt.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/sad-woman-wearing-jeans-shirt-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/sad-woman-wearing-jeans-shirt-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/sad-woman-wearing-jeans-shirt-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/sad-woman-wearing-jeans-shirt-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/sad-woman-wearing-jeans-shirt-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/sad-woman-wearing-jeans-shirt-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/sad-woman-wearing-jeans-shirt-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Es usted quien <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/relationship\/screw-making-think-shes-unlovable-one\/\">made her think she wasn\u2019t good enough. <\/a><\/p>\n<p><b><i>Fuiste tan valiente y confiado. Realmente pensaste <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/y-pensaste-que-nunca-se-iria-pero-adivina-lo-que-hizo\/\">she didn\u2019t have the guts to leave you<\/a>. <\/i><\/b><\/p>\n<p><b><i>Realmente pensaste que ella seguir\u00eda d\u00e1ndote oportunidades. \u00bfDe verdad estabas tan seguro? Pues deber\u00edas hab\u00e9rtelo pensado mejor.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n<p>Because, this time it was, \u201cBye-bye, see ya never!\u201d She had been putting up with you up until this point.<\/p>\n<p>She now won\u2019t be giving you any more shots because she knows you don\u2019t want to change. You don\u2019t want to grow and mature. She doesn\u2019t need that by her side.<\/p>\n<p>Ella te abandon\u00f3 porque eras un gilipollas que la daba por sentada y pensaba que pod\u00edas salirte con la tuya.<\/p>\n<p>All you gave her were empty words and false promises which didn\u2019t mean anything.<\/p>\n<p>Ya no. Ella confi\u00f3 completamente en ti y t\u00fa le fallaste. Todo lo que hiciste fue decepcionarla, una y otra vez.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-113152\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/sad-woman-sitting-on-the-couch-and-thinking.jpg\" alt=\"mujer triste sentada en el sof\u00e1 y pensando\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/sad-woman-sitting-on-the-couch-and-thinking.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/sad-woman-sitting-on-the-couch-and-thinking-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/sad-woman-sitting-on-the-couch-and-thinking-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/sad-woman-sitting-on-the-couch-and-thinking-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/sad-woman-sitting-on-the-couch-and-thinking-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/sad-woman-sitting-on-the-couch-and-thinking-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/sad-woman-sitting-on-the-couch-and-thinking-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/sad-woman-sitting-on-the-couch-and-thinking-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>She gave up on you because she didn\u2019t have a choice. You took her to a dead-end street.<\/p>\n<p>La acorralaste y realmente no tuvo otra opci\u00f3n que irse. Te dio tiempo para que te recompusieras.<\/p>\n<p>She had warned you several times that things weren\u2019t going to work this way.<\/p>\n<p>Pero diste por sentadas sus palabras y acciones y seguiste haciendo las cosas a tu manera sin consultarla, ni a ella ni a nadie.<\/p>\n<p>Pusiste cero esfuerzo en hacer que lo vuestro funcionara, y aun as\u00ed disfrutaste estando con ella. \u00bfC\u00f3mo pod\u00edas esperar algo m\u00e1s que <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/love\/finalmente-se-marcho\/\">\u00bfque se vaya?<\/a><\/p>\n<p>In the grown-up world, things don\u2019t function the way you think they should.<\/p>\n<p>En el mundo de los adultos, se necesitan muchos sacrificios y renuncias para mejorar una relaci\u00f3n y hacer m\u00e1s feliz a tu pareja. En otras palabras, hacen falta dos para bailar un tango.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-113153\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/sad-woman-with-glasses-sitting-by-the-window.jpg\" alt=\"mujer triste con gafas sentada junto a la ventana\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/sad-woman-with-glasses-sitting-by-the-window.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/sad-woman-with-glasses-sitting-by-the-window-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/sad-woman-with-glasses-sitting-by-the-window-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/sad-woman-with-glasses-sitting-by-the-window-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/sad-woman-with-glasses-sitting-by-the-window-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/sad-woman-with-glasses-sitting-by-the-window-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/sad-woman-with-glasses-sitting-by-the-window-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/sad-woman-with-glasses-sitting-by-the-window-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><b><i>She gave up because she realized that she mattered. She won\u2019t be spending her life on losers and idiots like you. <\/i><\/b><\/p>\n<p><b><i>She won\u2019t be spending her life on someone who isn\u2019t worthy of her. Even if she loves you still, she won\u2019t be doing the same old things to herself anymore. <\/i><\/b><\/p>\n<p><b><i>Finalmente se pondr\u00e1 a s\u00ed misma en primer lugar porque puede hacerlo. <\/i><\/b><\/p>\n<p>Por fin se ha dado cuenta de que puede encontrar a otra persona que la quiera como se merece.<\/p>\n<p>Puede encontrar a alguien que la trate como ella lo trata a \u00e9l.<\/p>\n<p>Puede encontrar a alguien que sea su igual.<\/p>\n<p>She doesn\u2019t want to give up on you, but you gave her no other choice.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/ya-no-te-quiere-de-vuelta\/\">She\u2019s sorry, but goodbye<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-113149\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/You-Left-Her-No-Choice-But-To-Give-Up-On-You-pinterest.jpg\" alt=\"No le dejaste otra opci\u00f3n que renunciar a ti.\" width=\"1000\" height=\"1500\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/You-Left-Her-No-Choice-But-To-Give-Up-On-You-pinterest.jpg 1000w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/You-Left-Her-No-Choice-But-To-Give-Up-On-You-pinterest-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/You-Left-Her-No-Choice-But-To-Give-Up-On-You-pinterest-683x1024.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/You-Left-Her-No-Choice-But-To-Give-Up-On-You-pinterest-768x1152.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/You-Left-Her-No-Choice-But-To-Give-Up-On-You-pinterest-150x225.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1000px) 100vw, 1000px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>She gave you all she had. And what did you do? You gave her absolutely nothing in return. You used her trust so many times that she couldn\u2019t trust you anymore. It was impossible. You failed. You failed hard. You missed the fact she went the extra mile for you. Every single time. She would&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":56,"featured_media":113154,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29639],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-7228","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-understanding-women"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29639,"label":"understanding women"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/You-Left-Her-No-Choice-But-To-Give-Up-On-You-1024x684.jpg",1024,684,true],"author_info":{"display_name":"Katie Burns","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/katie\/"},"comment_info":1,"category_info":[{"term_id":29639,"name":"understanding women","slug":"understanding-women","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29639,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Women are not that complicated once you learn to understand them, seduce them and treat them the way they deserve. 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