{"id":72353,"date":"2020-05-20T11:21:57","date_gmt":"2020-05-20T11:21:57","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=72353"},"modified":"2022-01-12T22:36:23","modified_gmt":"2022-01-12T22:36:23","slug":"resulto-ser-todo-lo-que-dijo-que-no-seria","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/resulto-ser-todo-lo-que-dijo-que-no-seria\/","title":{"rendered":"Result\u00f3 ser todo lo que dijo que no ser\u00eda"},"content":{"rendered":"

Cuando eres una persona que lo da todo por la persona a la que ama, sabes lo doloroso que es perder a esa persona a causa de una confianza rota.<\/span><\/p>\n

A relationship is about working on something together. That\u2019s the only thing I wanted. Someone I could count on to have my back and make me feel safe and happy.<\/span><\/p>\n

Quer\u00eda que mi hombre fuera una base s\u00f3lida sobre la que pudiera construir mi vida. Quer\u00eda tener un amante y un amigo en la misma persona. Quer\u00eda amarle como a nadie.<\/span><\/p>\n

Ni que decir tiene que me decepcion\u00e9 cuando nada de eso ocurri\u00f3.<\/span><\/p>\n

El hombre que cre\u00eda conocer no era nada de lo que dec\u00eda ser.<\/span><\/p>\n

He made me believe he was the one for me. He took extra steps to ensure I fell for him hard. He made me believe he loved me… and that was the scariest part because I believed\u2014and he lied.<\/span><\/p>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

I was the most vulnerable with a man who used me. I opened my heart to someone who didn\u2019t care about it.<\/span><\/p>\n

Nunca he entendido por qu\u00e9 nos atraen las cosas y las personas que hacen lo contrario de lo que queremos. \u00bfEs para aprender sobre las cosas de las que carecemos?<\/span><\/p>\n

Whatever the reason, I still can\u2019t believe I ever believed his lies and helped him build his fake world with himself as the center while everyone else, including me, was orbiting around his needs.<\/span><\/p>\n

Ya s\u00e9 que me llevar\u00e1<\/span> a\u00f1os<\/span><\/i> para empezar a confiar en los hombres e incluso en m\u00ed misma.<\/span><\/p>\n

Tard\u00e9 alg\u00fan tiempo en darme cuenta de todos los juegos mentales que jugaba conmigo y de las formas en que me enga\u00f1aba. A medida que pasa el tiempo, me doy cuenta a\u00fan m\u00e1s.<\/span><\/p>\n

La forma en que hizo que todos sus defectos fueran culpa m\u00eda fue una de las mentiras m\u00e1s convincentes que utiliz\u00f3.<\/span><\/p>\n

Pon\u00eda peque\u00f1as fracciones de verdad en grandes mentiras y me hac\u00eda creer cada palabra. Me hac\u00eda cuestionar mi propia cordura, acus\u00e1ndome de cosas que nunca hice.<\/span><\/p>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

En lugar de protegerme, se convirti\u00f3 en algo a lo que yo tem\u00eda.<\/span><\/p>\n

No matter how bad my experiences were, I still think about him because I can\u2019t wrap my head around the fact that what I thought of him and what he really is isn\u2019t the same person.<\/span><\/p>\n

I can\u2019t help but feel sad over losing something that, in reality, never existed.<\/span><\/p>\n

Cuando me di cuenta de lo que pasaba, ya era demasiado tarde. Estaba lo suficientemente enamorado como para que me rompieran el coraz\u00f3n.<\/span><\/p>\n

Me romp\u00ed el coraz\u00f3n creyendo en alguien<\/a> who didn\u2019t care. I gave my everything to a person who never even wanted to stick around.<\/span><\/p>\n

Quiero sanar mi coraz\u00f3n y seguir adelante con mi vida. Quiero volver a creer que los hombres buenos y honestos existen.<\/span><\/p>\n

Quiero encontrar a un hombre que me demuestre que todo lo que me pas\u00f3 fue s\u00f3lo una prueba y una lecci\u00f3n.<\/span><\/p>\n

Alg\u00fan d\u00eda estar\u00e9 en paz con todo lo que me ha pasado. S\u00e9 que todo lo que pas\u00f3 tendr\u00e1 sentido.<\/span><\/p>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

I don\u2019t want to become one of those people who closes their heart forever after a heartbreak.<\/span><\/p>\n

I don\u2019t want to give up on myself because I deserve better. I deserve to be loved by someone who will accept me as I am and build his life on trust in his partner.<\/span><\/p>\n

I deserve to be loved by the right person who won\u2019t make me feel smaller.<\/span><\/p>\n

Sobre todo, merezco ser amada por m\u00ed misma. Quiero volver a ser yo misma. Quiero que viva su vida sin miedo, especialmente cerca de las personas que ama.<\/span><\/p>\n

Life should be big, bold, and beautiful and there\u2019s no way of getting that without letting go of all the past hurt.<\/span><\/p>\n

Let go of everything that made you think you\u2019re not worthy of a good life and start believing in yourself.<\/span><\/p>\n

Embrace the pain that led you to growth and start your life over, knowing you\u2019ll win every struggle life puts you through because you\u2019ve got nothing to lose once you finally have yourself.<\/span><\/p>\n

\"Result\u00f3<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

When you\u2019re a person who gives their all to the person they love, you know how painful it is to lose that person because of broken trust. A relationship is about working on something together. That\u2019s the only thing I wanted. Someone I could count on to have my back and make me feel safe…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":40,"featured_media":72363,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29617],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-72353","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-heartbreak"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29617,"label":"heartbreak"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/He-Turned-Out-To-Be-Everything-He-Said-He-Wouldnt-Be.jpg",800,534,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tara Brown","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/tara-brown\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29617,"name":"heartbreak","slug":"heartbreak","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29617,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Recovering after having your heart broken is tough. That's why I've decided to collect different stories of heartbreak - to help everyone going through the same.","parent":38,"count":146,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29617,"category_count":146,"category_description":"Recovering after having your heart broken is tough. That's why I've decided to collect different stories of heartbreak - to help everyone going through the same.","cat_name":"heartbreak","category_nicename":"heartbreak","category_parent":38}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/72353","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/40"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=72353"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/72353\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/72363"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=72353"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=72353"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=72353"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}