{"id":72474,"date":"2020-05-20T11:24:50","date_gmt":"2020-05-20T11:24:50","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=72474"},"modified":"2021-08-31T07:06:47","modified_gmt":"2021-08-31T07:06:47","slug":"se-que-soy-un-guardian","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/se-que-soy-un-guardian\/","title":{"rendered":"S\u00e9 que soy un guardi\u00e1n, s\u00f3lo necesito que me quieran de otra manera"},"content":{"rendered":"

Soy alguien a quien han hecho da\u00f1o. Le pasa a mucha gente, pero no todo el mundo decide enfrentarse a su miedo y volver a darle una oportunidad al amor.<\/span><\/p>\n

After being manipulated, rejected, and lied to, I wanted to give up on love. But I didn\u2019t.<\/span><\/p>\n

As crazy as it seems, all those negative experiences have made me believe there\u2019s more to life than pain. Through every painful situation, I\u2019ve grown stronger.<\/span><\/p>\n

Muchas veces me convenc\u00ed de que algo era lo mejor para m\u00ed, pero luego descubr\u00ed que era algo que quer\u00eda por razones equivocadas y que en realidad nunca necesit\u00e9.<\/span><\/p>\n

I\u2019m proud of my ability to learn from my mistakes. I\u2019m proud of myself for never giving up on people despite the things they did to me. Including my past lovers.<\/span><\/p>\n

I don\u2019t want to let it break me. I want to stay vulnerable and love again because I know I deserve love.<\/span><\/p>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

I know how much I can love somebody else too. All this pain has made me understand every little thing in life even more. I don\u2019t want to let my love go to waste.<\/span><\/p>\n

The only thing is \u2013 I will need a special person who will understand me and have the patience I need.<\/span><\/p>\n

So how does one go about loving a person that\u2019s been hurt? There are a few things to keep in mind.<\/span><\/p>\n

Perm\u00edteme tiempo suficiente para sanar. <\/b>Healing is a process, and for most people, it doesn\u2019t end in a moment.<\/span><\/p>\n

Sometimes it takes years, but that doesn\u2019t mean it should make our relationship any worse.<\/span><\/p>\n

The process of healing is great for knowing each other on a deep level. When you\u2019re faced with a person\u2019s deepest fears and accept them nevertheless, that\u2019s when you know you love them for real.<\/span><\/p>\n

Hazme saber que me escuchas. <\/b>Escuchar es tan importante para las personas que han sido menospreciadas constantemente. Necesito saber que te importo.<\/span><\/p>\n

That\u2019s one of the easiest ways to show a person you care for them \u2013 just listen to them.<\/span><\/p>\n

\"hombre<\/p>\n

S\u00e9 sincero conmigo. <\/b>Anyone who\u2019s been lied to knows the struggle of trusting again. I promise I won\u2019t compare you to him, just be honest with me at all times.<\/span><\/p>\n

There\u2019s no need for white lies either, everything can be understood when said with respect.<\/span><\/p>\n

Dime a menudo las cosas que te gustan de m\u00ed. <\/b>I don\u2019t want to come off as needy, but just saying out loud what you already think will make a big difference.<\/span><\/p>\n

I will feel safer and happier. Talking about feelings isn\u2019t going to make you seem weak. On the contrary, it will make you more attractive. There\u2019s nothing more attractive than a guy who openly loves his girl.<\/span><\/p>\n

Necesito que seas paciente. Prometo que valdr\u00e1 la pena. <\/b>If you see me going through some tough period, don\u2019t run away. That\u2019s the time I need you the most.<\/span><\/p>\n

If you stick with me when I\u2019m going through my worst, I will stick with you forever.<\/span><\/p>\n

\"hombre<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t try to make me be something I\u2019m not.<\/b> Ac\u00e9ptame como soy. Desordenada, emocional, a veces asustada, pero siempre dispuesta a amar.<\/span><\/p>\n

No matter what happens, I will always love being human \u2013 that means I will allow myself to feel everything I need to feel.<\/span><\/p>\n

Siempre dejar\u00e9 que t\u00fa tambi\u00e9n seas todo lo que necesites ser. Juntos podemos atravesar todos los miedos y luchas que tengamos y hacer que nuestro v\u00ednculo sea tan fuerte que dure para siempre.<\/span><\/p>\n

Aceptar mi pasado y dejarlo donde est\u00e1.<\/b> I\u2019m content with my past and I don\u2019t want to change it. You shouldn\u2019t be upset with it either.<\/span><\/p>\n

Every day is a new day, and we\u2019re changing and evolving all the time. That\u2019s why we should focus on our future.<\/span><\/p>\n

What I want is the purest and deepest kind of love you can only find in girls who suffered the most \u2013 girls like me.<\/span><\/p>\n

Ahora quiero ser la chica que m\u00e1s ama. Quiero ser la que conserves para siempre.<\/span><\/p>\n

\"S\u00e9<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

I\u2019m someone who\u2019s been hurt. It happens to a lot of people, but not everybody decides to face their fear and give love a chance again. After being manipulated, rejected, and lied to, I wanted to give up on love. But I didn\u2019t. As crazy as it seems, all those negative experiences have made me…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":40,"featured_media":72491,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29619],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-72474","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-stories-love"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29619,"label":"stories"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/I-Know-Im-A-Keeper-I-Just-Need-To-Be-Loved-A-Little-Differently.jpg",800,534,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tara Brown","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/tara-brown\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29619,"name":"stories","slug":"stories-love","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29619,"taxonomy":"category","description":"To all the souls struggling with complicated love experiences: These heartfelt stories about love, heartbreak, and moving on will be your voice of wisdom.","parent":38,"count":424,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29619,"category_count":424,"category_description":"To all the souls struggling with complicated love experiences: These heartfelt stories about love, heartbreak, and moving on will be your voice of wisdom.","cat_name":"stories","category_nicename":"stories-love","category_parent":38}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/72474","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/40"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=72474"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/72474\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/72491"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=72474"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=72474"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=72474"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}