{"id":72911,"date":"2020-05-19T12:49:26","date_gmt":"2020-05-19T12:49:26","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=72911"},"modified":"2021-11-22T19:24:11","modified_gmt":"2021-11-22T19:24:11","slug":"como-comunicarse-con-los-hombres","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/como-comunicarse-con-los-hombres\/","title":{"rendered":"C\u00f3mo comunicarse con los hombres: 16 formas de mejorar la comunicaci\u00f3n"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Desde el principio de los tiempos, la comunicaci\u00f3n entre hombres y mujeres ha sido un misterio.<\/p>\n<p>Even though guys also try hard to understand girls, the truth is that women are usually the ones wondering how to communicate with men and doing their best to see inside a man&#8217;s brain.<\/p>\n<p>How to be a better communicator? How to be understood and listened to? How to communicate with a man who can\u2019t seem to have a mature conversation?<\/p>\n<p>Well, you&#8217;ve come to the right place because you&#8217;re about to get all the answers you need. Here are 16 tips on how to communicate with men.<\/p>\n<h2>1. Entender que los hombres y las mujeres se comunican de forma diferente<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-72953\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/multiracial-couple-talking.jpg\" alt=\"pareja multirracial conversando sentados uno al lado del otro\" width=\"800\" height=\"507\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/multiracial-couple-talking.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/multiracial-couple-talking-300x190.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/multiracial-couple-talking-768x487.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Most women are wondering how to have better communication with a guy who clearly doesn&#8217;t want to have or is not capable of having an adult conversation which surpasses everyday small talk.<\/p>\n<p>At first glance, it might appear to you that your boyfriend simply doesn\u2019t have the communication skills needed for a mature relationship.<\/p>\n<p>It seems that you&#8217;re a better communicator and that he doesn\u2019t know how to or doesn&#8217;t want to maintain healthy and effective communication.<\/p>\n<p>Well, that\u2019s actually not true. In fact, most miscommunication between couples comes from the fact that a man&#8217;s brain functions differently from a woman&#8217;s.<\/p>\n<p>I\u2019m sure you\u2019ve already heard about the saying that men are from Mars and women are from Venus.<\/p>\n<p>It means that sometimes we\u2019re polar opposites and have little in common when it comes to certain things.<\/p>\n<p>Antes de nada, tienes que tener una cosa clara: en la mayor\u00eda de los casos, las chicas y los chicos piensan de forma diferente, se comportan de forma diferente y, por lo tanto, tambi\u00e9n hablan de forma diferente.<\/p>\n<p>Basically, you can\u2019t expect your man to have the same communication skills and style as you.<\/p>\n<p>For example, us women often talk just for the sake of talking. Yes, we build relationships through communication but there are also cases where our monologues don\u2019t actually have a point.<\/p>\n<p>Por otra parte, la mayor\u00eda de los hombres piensan que la comunicaci\u00f3n sin un prop\u00f3sito claro es absolutamente in\u00fatil.<\/p>\n<p>Also, they\u2019re not as good at reading non-verbal signals as women. Men mostly have an extremely hard time figuring out <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/le\/inside-his-mind\/17-senales-del-lenguaje-corporal-que-le-gustas-en-secreto-y-le-interesas\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">signos del lenguaje corporal<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>Therefore, knowing all of this, you understand why it\u2019s important to stop looking at things from just your point of view when you\u2019re trying to communicate effectively with a guy.<\/p>\n<p>Don\u2019t make any assumptions and instead realize that this man standing in front of you has a different style of communication.<\/p>\n<p>Get it that he probably won\u2019t understand the things you think are implied and that you have to adapt to him in a certain way if you want to be heard.<\/p>\n<h2>2. Ajuste sus estilos de comunicaci\u00f3n<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-72959\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/couple-talking.jpg\" alt=\"pareja hablando mientras el hombre lee el peri\u00f3dico y la mujer bebe caf\u00e9\" width=\"800\" height=\"507\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/couple-talking.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/couple-talking-300x190.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/couple-talking-768x487.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>On the other hand, even though it was already stated that men and women communicate differently, it\u2019s also true that you can\u2019t generalize a person based on their sex.<\/p>\n<p>No todos los hombres tienen el mismo estilo de comunicaci\u00f3n. Seg\u00fan las investigaciones, existen cuatro estilos de comunicaci\u00f3n principales.<\/p>\n<p>When someone has a passive communication style, they usually repress their emotions and even if they\u2019re perfectly aware of them, they\u2019re not likely to openly express them.<\/p>\n<p>Estas personas hacen todo lo posible por evitar el drama y la confrontaci\u00f3n, lo que suele dar lugar a que no sean sinceras sobre sus sentimientos u opiniones.<\/p>\n<p>Por el contrario, existe un estilo de comunicaci\u00f3n agresivo.<\/p>\n<p>People who communicate in this way usually speak loudly, to the extent that it appears like they\u2019re ordering and demanding something from the other person.<\/p>\n<p>Tambi\u00e9n existe la <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/relationship\/signos-relacion-pasiva-agresiva\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">pasivo-agresivo<\/a> estilo de comunicaci\u00f3n. Este estilo consiste en ignorar y dar la callada por respuesta.<\/p>\n<p>Basically, these people won\u2019t directly tell you what\u2019s bothering them.<\/p>\n<p>Sin embargo, a diferencia de los comunicadores pasivos, dejar\u00e1n muy claros sus sentimientos por otras v\u00edas, especialmente a trav\u00e9s de las se\u00f1ales del lenguaje corporal.<\/p>\n<p>Finally, those who have an assertive communication style will speak their mind but will always take other people\u2019s needs into consideration.<\/p>\n<p>Assertive communicators are empaths who don\u2019t have trouble expressing themselves but don\u2019t make the other person the bad guy even when they feel hurt by something they did.<\/p>\n<p>Knowing all of this, now you see why it\u2019s important to have compatible styles of communication with someone you\u2019re talking to, especially if that someone is your romantic partner and the person you share your every day with.<\/p>\n<p>Sin embargo, lo cierto es que todos somos personas diferentes y que es probable que usted y <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/entender-a-un-hombre\/\">tu hombre<\/a> entrar\u00e1n en su relaci\u00f3n con estilos de comunicaci\u00f3n diferentes o incluso opuestos.<\/p>\n<p>En ese caso, es crucial adaptar sus estilos y encontrarse a medio camino.<\/p>\n<p>Vuestra comunicaci\u00f3n nunca ser\u00e1 sana ni productiva si t\u00fa tienes, por ejemplo, un estilo agresivo, mientras que \u00e9l es m\u00e1s bien una persona pasiva.<\/p>\n<p>In this case, you\u2019ll do all the talking, he\u2019ll pretend that he is agreeing with everything you say but will actually be repressing everything.<\/p>\n<p>Ideally, it would be great if you both could adopt assertive communication styles. This way, you\u2019ll be able to express yourself but you\u2019ll avoid unnecessary fights while doing so.<\/p>\n<p>Sin embargo, estas cosas llevan tiempo y mucho trabajo personal.<\/p>\n<p>In the meantime, it will be enough to try and harmonize your communication styles in a manner where you\u2019ll both feel equal to each other.<\/p>\n<h2>3. Intenta ver las cosas desde su perspectiva<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-72965\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/couple-communicating-in-the-living-room.jpg\" alt=\"pareja comunic\u00e1ndose en el sal\u00f3n con el peri\u00f3dico sobre la mesa sostenido por el hombre\" width=\"800\" height=\"507\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/couple-communicating-in-the-living-room.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/couple-communicating-in-the-living-room-300x190.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/couple-communicating-in-the-living-room-768x487.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Toda relaci\u00f3n, incluida la suya, es una calle de doble sentido. Significa que las dos partes implicadas en ella tienen su parte de responsabilidad.<\/p>\n<p>Tambi\u00e9n significa que ambos ten\u00e9is derecho a hablar. El derecho a tener vuestra opini\u00f3n y sentimientos sobre un determinado asunto.<\/p>\n<p>Therefore, if you want to reach a conclusion and have better communication, you have to learn to look at things from your partner\u2019s point of view.<\/p>\n<p>The truth is that all of us think we\u2019re always right. After all, we wouldn\u2019t stand behind what we believed in if we thought it was wrong, would we?<\/p>\n<p>Sin embargo, tambi\u00e9n es cierto que toda moneda tiene dos caras.<\/p>\n<p>So, even when you\u2019re convinced that you\u2019re the only right one and you want to blame your boyfriend or husband for something, take a step back and try looking at the world through his eyes.<\/p>\n<p>Por un momento, intenta ponerte en su lugar. \u00bfC\u00f3mo ve \u00e9l toda esta situaci\u00f3n? \u00bfC\u00f3mo se siente?<\/p>\n<p>Y lo que es m\u00e1s importante: \u00bfQu\u00e9 debes decir para que este hombre te entienda de verdad? \u00bfC\u00f3mo debes actuar para que \u00e9l llegue al fondo de tus palabras y finalmente llegu\u00e9is a un acuerdo?<\/p>\n<h2>4. Hablar con \u00e9l en persona<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-72971\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/couple-talking-in-working-out.jpg\" alt=\"pareja hablando en traje de ejercicio cerca de una pared de escalada cosa\" width=\"800\" height=\"511\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/couple-talking-in-working-out.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/couple-talking-in-working-out-300x192.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/couple-talking-in-working-out-768x491.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>En las citas modernas, todo ha cambiado, incluidas las habilidades de comunicaci\u00f3n. Parece que todo gira en torno a los mensajes de texto, las llamadas telef\u00f3nicas o las redes sociales.<\/p>\n<p>When you want someone to get your message, you\u2019ll probably post a status update or a quote dedicated to them, expecting them to understand what you\u2019re trying to say.<\/p>\n<p>Or you\u2019ll just text them; after all, it\u2019s much easier to write down everything that&#8217;s been bothering you than to say it face to face.<\/p>\n<p>Cuando env\u00edas a alguien un <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/love\/que-escribir-a-un-chico-para-llamar-su-atencion-60-textos-que-funcionan-a-las-mil-maravillas\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">mensaje de texto<\/a>As\u00ed evitar\u00e1s el riesgo de que te interrumpan.<\/p>\n<p>Tienes tiempo suficiente para plasmar tus emociones en palabras de la mejor manera posible, puedes comprobar todo lo que has escrito varias veces y puedes preparar tu redacci\u00f3n durante d\u00edas hasta conseguir la forma perfecta.<\/p>\n<p>Adem\u00e1s, estar\u00e1s a salvo de la posibilidad de que tu nerviosismo lo estropee todo.<\/p>\n<p>The other person won\u2019t hear your voice shaking, you won\u2019t get tongue-tied, they won\u2019t see your palms sweating and you won\u2019t start crying in the middle of making a point.<\/p>\n<p>This is especially the case when it comes to some \u2018difficult\u2019 talks.<\/p>\n<p>You won\u2019t chicken out when you see the other person\u2019s reaction to your words and you won\u2019t give up in the middle of your speech and change your mind about whatever you wanted to say.<\/p>\n<p>S\u00ed, la verdad es que hablar con alguien por tel\u00e9fono o enviarle un mensaje de texto parece m\u00e1s f\u00e1cil. Sin embargo, no es el camino a seguir en las relaciones serias.<\/p>\n<p>Por supuesto, puedes enviarle mensajes de texto a tu novio sobre cosas irrelevantes y tus mensajes pueden contener conversaciones triviales.<\/p>\n<p>Nevertheless, when you want to address an important topic, it\u2019s always best to talk to him in person.<\/p>\n<p>First of all, this way, you\u2019ll show your strength and determination. You\u2019ll show him that you\u2019re not a coward who hides behind the screen of her phone.<\/p>\n<p>Besides, when you\u2019re talking face to face, there is no running away. There is no leaving one another\u2019s text messages on read, turning off your phone or not answering.<\/p>\n<p>No olvides nunca que los dos sois adultos y que deb\u00e9is comportaros en consecuencia.<\/p>\n<h2>5. Ser respetuoso<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-72975\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/two-couples-talking.jpg\" alt=\"dos parejas conversando al aire libre con comida en la mesa central\" width=\"800\" height=\"507\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/two-couples-talking.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/two-couples-talking-300x190.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/two-couples-talking-768x487.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Even when they don\u2019t show it, all men have a fragile ego. The things they hate the most are being insulted, put down, or humiliated.<\/p>\n<p>Esto se aplica especialmente a su masculinidad. A todo hombre le gusta sentir que es lo suficientemente hombre para su mujer y si insultas su masculinidad, todo lo dem\u00e1s se vuelve en vano.<\/p>\n<p>Por lo tanto, la regla n\u00famero uno de una comunicaci\u00f3n sana con tu novio o marido es el respeto.<\/p>\n<p>Trust me\u2014you won\u2019t go anywhere if you show him that you don\u2019t respect him as a person or as your partner.<\/p>\n<p>Por mucho que creas que se equivoca, no deber\u00edan existir los insultos.<\/p>\n<p>Don\u2019t try to ruin his self-esteem and increase <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/relationship\/8-senales-de-que-es-emocionalmente-inseguro-no-te-molestes-en-salir-con-el\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">sus inseguridades<\/a>. Even when you disagree with him, don\u2019t devalue his opinion.<\/p>\n<p>Don\u2019t question his intelligence or wit. This is especially important when you\u2019re communicating in front of others.<\/p>\n<p>Of course, respecting your man doesn\u2019t have to include you nodding your head and agreeing with everything he has to say just not to hurt his feelings.<\/p>\n<p>Becoming a better communicator doesn\u2019t include you being a <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/life\/8-senales-de-que-te-gusta-agradar-a-la-gente\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">complaciente<\/a> just to boost your guy\u2019s ego.<\/p>\n<p>De hecho, tienes todo el derecho a reprocharle sus acciones o a decirle que se equivoca. Sin embargo, la clave est\u00e1 en la forma de hacerlo.<\/p>\n<h2>6. Utilizar afirmaciones positivas<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-72977\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/couple-on-the-bed.jpg\" alt=\"pareja en el hombre que habla vestido con top y pantalones negros \" width=\"800\" height=\"502\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/couple-on-the-bed.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/couple-on-the-bed-300x188.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/couple-on-the-bed-768x482.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>If you\u2019re wondering how to communicate with men, the important thing is not to be negative while trying to make a point. Instead, try using positive statements while talking to your guy.<\/p>\n<p>\u00bfQu\u00e9 son las afirmaciones positivas y en qu\u00e9 se diferencian de las negativas?<\/p>\n<p>Well, for example, let\u2019s say that you want to tell your partner that you\u2019re bothered by the amount of time you two spend together.<\/p>\n<p>You feel emotionally neglected and think that he isn\u2019t giving you enough of his attention.<\/p>\n<p>Your first impulse will probably be to attack him. It\u2019s to tell him that everyone and everything seems to be more important than you and to accuse him of not loving you enough.<\/p>\n<p>Aqu\u00ed es donde te equivocar\u00edas. Cada una de estas frases es una afirmaci\u00f3n negativa y tiene el potencial de convertirse en una pelea innecesaria, en lugar de darte lo que quieres.<\/p>\n<p>Therefore, it\u2019s time to change your ways of communicating. Instead of telling your partner any of the things mentioned above, try using a different approach.<\/p>\n<p>Por ejemplo, d\u00edgale cu\u00e1nto <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/life\/despues-de-todo-este-tiempo-te-sigo-echando-de-menos\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">lo echas de menos<\/a> y que te gustar\u00eda pasar m\u00e1s tiempo con \u00e9l. Proponle una actividad que os venga bien a los dos.<\/p>\n<p>Also, tell him that you\u2019re aware of all the good things he does for your relationship. State that you\u2019re not criticizing him and that you\u2019re only looking for ways to improve things between you two.<\/p>\n<h2>7. Elija el lugar y el momento adecuados<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-72989\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/curly-haired-woman.jpg\" alt=\"mujer de pelo rizado que sostiene el tel\u00e9fono m\u00f3vil y el proyecto de ley sentado mientras habla con una persona\" width=\"800\" height=\"507\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/curly-haired-woman.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/curly-haired-woman-300x190.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/curly-haired-woman-768x487.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>When you\u2019re trying to figure out how to communicate with men and become a better communicator, two more important aspects are the time and place of your talks.<\/p>\n<p>Don\u2019t start some important topics while you two are in a crowded place or with friends. First and foremost, you can\u2019t hear each other properly this way, let alone have healthy communication.<\/p>\n<p>Don\u2019t do it while he\u2019s busy and in the middle of something. This way, your man won\u2019t be able to give you his full attention and completely focus on your discussion.<\/p>\n<p>When it comes to choosing the place for your communication, make sure it\u2019s somewhere where you both feel safe and comfortable. If you two live together, the best place is your home.<\/p>\n<p>On the other hand, if you\u2019re dating and still haven\u2019t moved in together, try choosing a neutral place.<\/p>\n<p>Don\u2019t do the talking in your home because he might feel like you could kick him out if things get nasty and don\u2019t do it in his either because that is his space and you\u2019ll feel like you\u2019re being rude for calling him out on something in his own home.<\/p>\n<p>Adem\u00e1s, los biorritmos de ambos son importantes. Algunas personas se ponen de mal humor al levantarse, as\u00ed que quiz\u00e1 no quieras empezar temas serios antes de tomarte el primer caf\u00e9 de la ma\u00f1ana.<\/p>\n<p>On the other hand, some don\u2019t function well at night after a long day so if you\u2019re one of those couples, avoid discussions before bedtime.<\/p>\n<h2>8. Cuidado con el tono de voz<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-73005\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/serious-couple-talking.jpg\" alt=\"pareja seria hablando mujer con top azul con libros entre ellos\" width=\"800\" height=\"507\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/serious-couple-talking.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/serious-couple-talking-300x190.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/serious-couple-talking-768x487.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Muchas personas elevan el tono de voz para dar a entender algo. En la mayor\u00eda de los casos, ni siquiera somos conscientes de hacerlo y estamos convencidos de que nuestro tono es completamente normal.<\/p>\n<p>Este tipo de reacci\u00f3n es completamente natural.<\/p>\n<p>You want to be heard and understood so desperately that you subconsciously start raising the tone of your voice in order for the other person to really get what you\u2019re trying to tell them.<\/p>\n<p>However, this approach will bring you more bad than good. Your partner will feel that you\u2019re attacking him and he won\u2019t listen to your point.<\/p>\n<p>Instead, he\u2019ll only hear you yelling at him and disregard the bottom line of what you\u2019re trying to tell him.<\/p>\n<p>Consequently, he\u2019ll feel the need to defend himself and you two will just end up fighting, without reaching any kind of conclusion.<\/p>\n<p>On the other hand, you shouldn\u2019t be too quiet either. This way, you\u2019ll just appear as being too scared to speak your mind and to say what you want.<\/p>\n<p>Instead, do your best to find the perfect balance while choosing the right words. Be certain about what you\u2019re saying without shouting and screaming.<\/p>\n<p>Try hard to remain as calm as possible and don&#8217;t raise your tone of voice. Don\u2019t lose your patience and don\u2019t let this conversation turn into a yelling competition.<\/p>\n<h2>9. Conseguir que se concentre<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-72999\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/woman-standing-in-front.jpg\" alt=\"mujer frente a hombre con chaqueta de cuero\" width=\"800\" height=\"511\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/woman-standing-in-front.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/woman-standing-in-front-300x192.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/woman-standing-in-front-768x491.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Las mujeres nacen multitarea. Por el contrario, no es una cualidad que posean la mayor\u00eda de los hombres, y \u00e9se es tambi\u00e9n uno de los problemas m\u00e1s comunes en la comunicaci\u00f3n hombre-mujer.<\/p>\n<p>Therefore, it\u2019s crucial for your guy to be completely concentrated on what you\u2019re saying. If you want to have a successful conversation, you simply have to find a way to get him to focus on it.<\/p>\n<p>Esto significa que debe deshacerse de todas las distracciones posibles. Dile que quieres hablar con \u00e9l de algo importante y p\u00eddele toda su atenci\u00f3n.<\/p>\n<p>Aseg\u00farese de mantener <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/life\/5-cosas-que-intenta-decir-utilizando-el-contacto-visual-prolongado\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">contacto visual<\/a> y que tus expresiones faciales muestren tu seriedad.<\/p>\n<p>Don&#8217;t look away while you two are talking and don&#8217;t turn your conversation into background noise while you&#8217;re busy making lunch or doing something else.<\/p>\n<p>I know that sometimes you don\u2019t want to make a big deal about the things you want to say so you just casually mention them and expect your partner to listen to you and understand what you are trying to tell him.<\/p>\n<p>However, I\u2019ll have to burst your bubble and tell you that this is not likely to happen.<\/p>\n<p>Si quieres que <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/relationship\/8-razones-por-las-que-tu-hombre-no-te-toma-nada-en-serio\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">tomarte en serio<\/a>Para ello, tienes que asegurarte de que tienes toda su atenci\u00f3n y de que se est\u00e1 concentrando en vuestra conversaci\u00f3n.<\/p>\n<h2>10. Sea concreto y directo<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-73017\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/couple-communicating-in-cafe.jpg\" alt=\"pareja comunicandose en un cafe con el hombre sosteniendo una taza y la mujer riendo\" width=\"800\" height=\"507\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/couple-communicating-in-cafe.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/couple-communicating-in-cafe-300x190.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/couple-communicating-in-cafe-768x487.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Here is the tough part\u2014whenever you\u2019re communicating with men, you have to be concrete and direct.<\/p>\n<p>Tienes que verbalizar tus emociones y pensamientos con detalle si quieres que te comprendan de la manera adecuada.<\/p>\n<p>The truth which most women fail to accept is that men don\u2019t take hints.<\/p>\n<p>They don\u2019t understand mixed signals, have zero capacity for reading between the lines and, most importantly, they\u2019re not mind readers.<\/p>\n<p>Therefore, if you expect your partner to know that he\u2019s been doing something wrong just because it is clear and logical for you, think again.<\/p>\n<p>Si esperas que se d\u00e9 cuenta de que <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/love\/carta-abierta-hombre-herido\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">he\u2019s been hurting you<\/a> with a certain behavior without you pointing out his mistake, you\u2019ll be disappointed.<\/p>\n<p>Si esperas que cambie siendo pasivo-agresivo o d\u00e1ndole la <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/relationship\/7-formas-de-reaccionar-ante-el-silencio-en-tu-relacion-de-pareja\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">tratamiento silencioso<\/a>, trust me that you\u2019ll be waiting for ages but nothing will happen.<\/p>\n<p>If you want him to magically know how you feel and what you think, you\u2019ll get nowhere.<\/p>\n<p>All of this means just one thing\u2014when it comes to men, there is no beating around the bush. Instead, if you expect success, explain to your guy in detail everything you want to say.<\/p>\n<h2>11. Alcanzar la igualdad<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-73019\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/happy-couple-talking.jpg\" alt=\"feliz pareja hablando en las escaleras del parque con un mont\u00f3n de hojas secas en el suelo\" width=\"800\" height=\"502\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/happy-couple-talking.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/happy-couple-talking-300x188.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/happy-couple-talking-768x482.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Como ya hemos dicho, una relaci\u00f3n es cosa de dos.<\/p>\n<p>Among other things, that also means that you\u2019re both equal partners and that one person should never be dominant over the other when it comes to open communication and problem solving, among other things.<\/p>\n<p>Esto es especialmente importante cuando se trata de comunicaci\u00f3n, si quieres que sea sana. Ambos ten\u00e9is el mismo derecho a hablar, a opinar y a sentir lo que quer\u00e1is.<\/p>\n<p>So, please, make sure you don\u2019t fall into a trap many women sadly get themselves into. Don\u2019t act like your partner is a little child.<\/p>\n<p>You\u2019re <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/relationship\/5-senales-de-que-eres-madre-y-no-novia\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">no su madre<\/a> or his teacher and you\u2019re not there to parent him.<\/p>\n<p>You\u2019re not there to show him how to live his life or teach him anything so there is absolutely no need to use a condescending tone or any words which will make him feel inferior.<\/p>\n<p>Of course, this goes both ways as well. Don\u2019t allow him to treat you like he is above you either.<\/p>\n<p>Remember that you can\u2019t have healthy communication as long as one of you is afraid of the other in any way. I\u2019m not talking about the possibility of actual <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/relationship\/los-hombres-de-verdad-protegen-a-sus-mujeres-no-abusan-de-ellas\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">abuso<\/a> de ning\u00fan tipo aqu\u00ed.<\/p>\n<p>I\u2019m talking about the fact that you\u2019re, for example, scared of your boyfriend\u2019s reaction if you tell him something he doesn\u2019t agree with or if you avoid going against the grain just not to provoke an argument or you even think that he might leave you if you tell him something he doesn\u2019t like.<\/p>\n<p>En este escenario, nunca podr\u00e1s ser sincero o abierto con tu pareja. Naturalmente, esto trae mucha insatisfacci\u00f3n y problemas en el futuro.<\/p>\n<h2>12. Ser lo m\u00e1s r\u00e1pido posible<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-73021\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/couple-harvesting-vegetables.jpg\" alt=\"Una pareja recoge verduras en un huerto comunitario\" width=\"800\" height=\"511\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/couple-harvesting-vegetables.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/couple-harvesting-vegetables-300x192.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/couple-harvesting-vegetables-768x491.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>When you were told to tell your partner how you feel and what you think in detail, it doesn\u2019t mean that your conversations should last an entire day.<\/p>\n<p>In detail means being specific but it doesn\u2019t have to include long conversations.<\/p>\n<p>De hecho, se ha demostrado cient\u00edficamente que la capacidad de atenci\u00f3n de los hombres es menor que la de las mujeres.<\/p>\n<p>Your partner is no exception so it is likely that he\u2019ll lose focus after some time and that he\u2019ll just remain physically present in the room, without actually listening to you.<\/p>\n<p>Well, in order to avoid this, it\u2019s important not to make tiring speeches. Instead, be as quick as possible and get to the point.<\/p>\n<p>Cut to the chase. Don\u2019t make long introductions and conclusions and just speak about what\u2019s important. Instead, split this conversation into a few shorter ones.<\/p>\n<p>On the other hand, if you see that he has stopped listening but you still haven\u2019t finished or you haven\u2019t reached a conclusion, end the conversation.<\/p>\n<p>No tiene sentido hacer mon\u00f3logos sin ning\u00fan tipo de retroalimentaci\u00f3n.<\/p>\n<p>S\u00e9 que quieres terminar el trabajo enseguida, pero cr\u00e9eme que esto tendr\u00e1 un mejor efecto a largo plazo en vuestra relaci\u00f3n.<\/p>\n<h2>13. Be honest about your feelings\u2026<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-73024\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/woman-having-problem.jpg\" alt=\"mujer con problemas mientras el hombre intenta consolarla\" width=\"800\" height=\"502\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/woman-having-problem.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/woman-having-problem-300x188.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/woman-having-problem-768x482.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>La base de toda <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/relationship\/15-characteristics-of-a-healthy-and-mature-relationship\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">relaci\u00f3n sana<\/a> es la comunicaci\u00f3n abierta y la base de toda comunicaci\u00f3n eficaz es la honestidad.<\/p>\n<p>You can\u2019t expect to achieve anything or to reach your goals if you lie to or deceive the person you\u2019re talking to.<\/p>\n<p>Therefore, you simply must be one hundred percent honest about your feelings and thoughts when communicating with your guy and this can\u2019t be stressed enough.<\/p>\n<p>En primer lugar, tienes que ser sincero contigo mismo. Tienes que ser capaz de reconocer tus emociones, aceptarlas y, por \u00faltimo, valorarlas antes de present\u00e1rselas a tu pareja.<\/p>\n<p>However, remember that feelings are always subjective. Therefore, you\u2019re not the judge of any conversation.<\/p>\n<p>You have the right to say how things make you feel and how certain events look from your point of view. However, this doesn\u2019t mean that your side of the story is the only real one.<\/p>\n<p>Finally, please don\u2019t be ashamed of your emotions. They don\u2019t make you weak and you won\u2019t appear desperate if you acknowledge them.<\/p>\n<p>En cambio, ser sincero con tus sentimientos y defenderlos es un signo de madurez. En <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/her\/alpha\/vulnerable-rasgo-principal-mujer-fuerte\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">vulnerable es se\u00f1al de una incre\u00edble fuerza interior<\/a> no muchos lo han hecho.<\/p>\n<h2>14. \u2026 but don\u2019t be a drama queen<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-73029\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/woman-crying-and-man-consoling.jpg\" alt=\"mujer llorando y hombre consolandola sujetando sus hombros\" width=\"800\" height=\"507\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/woman-crying-and-man-consoling.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/woman-crying-and-man-consoling-300x190.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/woman-crying-and-man-consoling-768x487.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Nevertheless, it\u2019s crucial not to behave like a drama queen while you\u2019re trying to argue or just communicate with your forever person.<\/p>\n<p>Don\u2019t be a spoiled brat and stop thinking that the earth revolves around you because guess what? It\u2019s not.<\/p>\n<p>In fact, don\u2019t even talk to your partner unless you calm yourself down first. Sometimes it\u2019s better to cool down and let time be your ally before saying or doing some things you might regret later on.<\/p>\n<p>Por lo tanto, si su pareja hizo algo que le hiri\u00f3 pero usted sabe que <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/relationship\/al-tipo-que-hirio-a-la-chica-buena-mientras-le-dolia\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">te sientes demasiado herido<\/a> now to talk to him calmly, leave this topic for tomorrow. Sleep it off and don\u2019t react impulsively.<\/p>\n<p>There is no point in making a big fuss about everything. Men don\u2019t like arguing and will mostly react negatively to constant drama, fights and scandals.<\/p>\n<h2>15. Don\u2019t be accusatory<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-73035\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/couple-arguing-on-sofa.jpg\" alt=\"pareja discutiendo en el sof\u00e1 mientras la mujer sostiene un tel\u00e9fono m\u00f3vil\" width=\"800\" height=\"502\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/couple-arguing-on-sofa.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/couple-arguing-on-sofa-300x188.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/couple-arguing-on-sofa-768x482.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Whether we like to admit this or not, every couple fights. Arguments and miscommunication are a part of all relationships and there don\u2019t exist two people who never had the slightest disagreement.<\/p>\n<p>Por lo tanto, parece que las peleas ocasionales forman parte de la comunicaci\u00f3n. Todos querr\u00edamos evitarlas, pero son expectativas poco realistas.<\/p>\n<p>However, arguments don\u2019t have to be bad for a relationship. In fact, they can actually help you on your path toward healthier communication.<\/p>\n<p>Ver\u00e1, lo m\u00e1s importante <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/relationship\/consejos-de-pareja-para-mujeres-12-cosas-que-debes-saber-para-empoderarte\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">consejos sobre relaciones<\/a> here is to understand this: You two are not fighting with each other, you\u2019re fighting against the problem you\u2019re dealing with.<\/p>\n<p>At least, that\u2019s how things should be; you two should work together toward problem solving.<\/p>\n<p>Therefore, there is absolutely no point in engaging in different blame games. You\u2019ll get nowhere if you keep on accusing each other and trying to put the blame on one person only.<\/p>\n<p>Take over your share of the responsibility, be open about everything that\u2019s been bothering you and work united toward a solution.<\/p>\n<h2>16. Evitar suposiciones<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-73046\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/couple-arguing-outdoors.jpg\" alt=\"pareja discutiendo al aire libre con mujer con top gris \" width=\"800\" height=\"511\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/couple-arguing-outdoors.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/couple-arguing-outdoors-300x192.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/couple-arguing-outdoors-768x491.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>If you\u2019re trying to figure out how to communicate with men in the best way possible, one of the things you have to do is get rid of all possible assumptions you might have.<\/p>\n<p>Don\u2019t make conclusions on your own and don\u2019t create different scenarios in your head, which probably have nothing to do with reality and are only based on fragments of truth.<\/p>\n<p>Here is what I\u2019m talking about; if, for example, you suspect that your <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/relationship\/coquetear-es-enganar-7-maneras-de-ser-infiel-sin-saberlo\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">el novio esta siendo infiel<\/a>Confr\u00f3ntalo.<\/p>\n<p>Don\u2019t spend days or weeks imagining different scenarios and reaching your own conclusion before even discussing things with him.<\/p>\n<p>S\u00ed, este ejemplo puede sonar demasiado brutal, pero la conclusi\u00f3n es pr\u00e1cticamente la misma en todas las situaciones.<\/p>\n<p>Si tienes alguna pregunta para tu novio o c\u00f3nyuge, \u00e9l es el \u00fanico que puede darte las respuestas que necesitas.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-73320\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/How-To-Communicate-With-Men_-16-Ways-To-Have-Better-Communication-Pinterest..jpg\" alt=\"C\u00f3mo comunicarse con los hombres: 16 formas de mejorar la comunicaci\u00f3n\" width=\"1000\" height=\"1500\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/How-To-Communicate-With-Men_-16-Ways-To-Have-Better-Communication-Pinterest..jpg 1000w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/How-To-Communicate-With-Men_-16-Ways-To-Have-Better-Communication-Pinterest.-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/How-To-Communicate-With-Men_-16-Ways-To-Have-Better-Communication-Pinterest.-683x1024.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/How-To-Communicate-With-Men_-16-Ways-To-Have-Better-Communication-Pinterest.-768x1152.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1000px) 100vw, 1000px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>From the beginning of time, male-female communication has been a mystery. Even though guys also try hard to understand girls, the truth is that women are usually the ones wondering how to communicate with men and doing their best to see inside a man&#8217;s brain. How to be a better communicator? 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