{"id":73239,"date":"2020-05-22T11:24:25","date_gmt":"2020-05-22T11:24:25","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=73239"},"modified":"2021-08-12T10:58:20","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T10:58:20","slug":"no-puedes-controlar-a-quien-echas-de-menos","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/no-puedes-controlar-a-quien-echas-de-menos\/","title":{"rendered":"No puedes controlar a qui\u00e9n echas de menos, pero puedes controlar qui\u00e9n est\u00e1 en tu vida"},"content":{"rendered":"

Cuando <\/span>miss someone you know you shouldn\u2019t<\/span><\/a>, you can\u2019t help but feel guilty.<\/span><\/p>\n

After everything this person has done to you and after all the pain they\u2019ve caused you, it\u2019s natural that you want them out of your life and system as soon as possible.<\/span><\/p>\n

Esto vale para todos los que te han abandonado y especialmente para tus ex novios. Al fin y al cabo, eran los hombres con los que quer\u00edas compartir tu vida y a los que m\u00e1s quer\u00edas.<\/span><\/p>\n

Esto va por todos esos tipos que te rompieron el coraz\u00f3n, que te enga\u00f1aron o que se alejaron de ti sin mirar atr\u00e1s.<\/span><\/p>\n

For all the guys who didn\u2019t want to label your relationship, who ghosted you, and who left you hanging.<\/span><\/p>\n

Or are we talking about a specific man? A man you can\u2019t get out of your head, as much as you try?<\/span><\/p>\n

En cualquier caso, el resultado final es el mismo: <\/span>You feel like by missing him, you\u2019re betraying yourself.<\/b><\/p>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

You\u2019re giving him even more power over your heart and soul. You\u2019re giving him meaning and purpose.<\/span><\/p>\n

After all, you\u2019ve kicked him out of your life, so why can\u2019t he be gone from your heart, as well?<\/span><\/p>\n

Are you that weak that you don\u2019t have the ability to see things clearly and to stop missing someone who doesn\u2019t deserve your attention?<\/b><\/p>\n

Bueno, la respuesta es: s\u00ed. En realidad, todos lo somos.<\/b><\/p>\n

No hay persona viva que pueda controlar a qui\u00e9n ama y a qui\u00e9n echa de menos. Quien diga lo contrario miente.<\/span><\/p>\n

So, you\u2019re not an exception. Remember: <\/span>you\u2019re a human being made of flesh and blood \u2013 not a robot who can be programmed and whose emotions can be switched off and on.<\/b><\/p>\n

Therefore, it\u2019s perfectly natural that you can\u2019t control your thoughts and feelings and that you don\u2019t have the capacity to order your heart and mind around. <\/span><\/p>\n

Sin embargo, lo que s\u00ed puedes controlar es qui\u00e9n entra en tu vida. Puedes controlar qui\u00e9n tiene acceso a ti y qui\u00e9n se siente honrado con tu presencia. <\/span><\/p>\n

Puedes controlar a qui\u00e9n dedicas tu tiempo, tu energ\u00eda, tu paciencia.<\/span><\/p>\n

B\u00e1sicamente, <\/span>what I\u2019m trying to say is that you should stop blaming yourself for <\/b>echar de menos a alguien<\/b><\/a>.<\/b> <\/span><\/p>\n

I know that sometimes you feel crazy and you can\u2019t believe that you still have feelings for the man who has hurt you so much.<\/span><\/p>\n

However, it\u2019s completely normal to feel this way. In fact, most women go through the same thing after a devastating breakup.<\/span><\/p>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Cr\u00e9eme cuando te digo que todo esto forma parte de tu recuperaci\u00f3n. Es solo una fase del proceso de superaci\u00f3n.<\/span><\/p>\n

So, don\u2019t put yourself down for all the overwhelming emotions you feel. Don\u2019t burden yourself for feeling the way you do. <\/span><\/p>\n

Instead of seeing yourself as a weak woman, be proud of your strength. Be proud that you have the power to resist your urges, instincts, and heart\u2019s desires.<\/b><\/p>\n

After all, you\u2019re not allowing this man back in your life, despite the fact that you miss him, are you? You\u2019re not giving him a second chance, even though there are times when you feel like you\u2019ll die without him by your side. <\/span><\/p>\n

You\u2019re not on this man\u2019s doorstep, begging him to come back, despite the devastating pain that\u2019s been killing you from the inside.<\/span><\/p>\n

You\u2019re not letting him see what an <\/span>naufragio emocional<\/span><\/a> y no le das la satisfacci\u00f3n de saber que a\u00fan sientes algo por \u00e9l.<\/span><\/p>\n

En eso consiste la valent\u00eda. Eso es lo que significa la fuerza interior: luchar contigo mismo cada d\u00eda y ganar cada una de esas dif\u00edciles batallas. <\/b><\/p>\n

So, keep on missing him \u2013 nobody can deny you that right. Miss the man and love him for as long as you want.<\/span><\/p>\n

Don\u2019t repress your emotions and don\u2019t pretend that they don\u2019t exist. <\/span><\/p>\n

Aprende a vivir con ellos y en cuanto lo hagas, te prometo que se ir\u00e1n. En cuanto dejes de huir de tus demonios, te prometo que dejar\u00e1n de perseguirte.<\/span><\/p>\n

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