{"id":7378,"date":"2020-03-24T11:04:21","date_gmt":"2020-03-24T11:04:21","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=7378"},"modified":"2021-08-11T12:17:44","modified_gmt":"2021-08-11T12:17:44","slug":"no-falta-izquierda","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/no-falta-izquierda\/","title":{"rendered":"No es culpa tuya que se fuera"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/love\/dentro-de-la-mente-chica-con-el-corazon-roto\/\">You&#8217;re broken<\/a>y s\u00f3lo puedes pensar en todo lo que deber\u00edas haber hecho.<\/p>\n<p>You&#8217;re caught up in all the what ifs and how maybe if you had done this or that then he would still be by your side.<\/p>\n<p>Pero la verdad es que s\u00f3lo quer\u00eda una excusa para irse. Y aunque la verdad te rompa el coraz\u00f3n, no es culpa tuya que se fuera.<\/p>\n<p>You were always the one who was there for him when he needed someone. It didn&#8217;t matter if you\u2019d had a bad day, if you were really busy, or if you had to miss really important things, because he always came first.<\/p>\n<p>And at the time, it wasn&#8217;t a big sacrifice for you to put him first. Until you started to realize that the only time you came first in his mind was when he needed you.<\/p>\n<p>Como novia, te dejaste la piel para ser la mujer que \u00e9l necesitaba, pero tambi\u00e9n la mujer que \u00e9l quer\u00eda. Intentaste morderte siempre el labio cuando dec\u00eda algo malo.<\/p>\n<p>Cuando tu opini\u00f3n difer\u00eda de la suya, hac\u00edas lo posible por cambiar de tema.<\/p>\n<p>Because to you, making him happy was more important than being right, and that&#8217;s <a href=\"https:\/\/www.huffingtonpost.com\/jennifer-twardowski\/10-characteristics-of-a-healthy-relationship_b_8578954.html\" rel=\"noopener\">en qu\u00e9 consiste una relaci\u00f3n sana<\/a>. Excepto que una relaci\u00f3n sana va en ambos sentidos.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-90616\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/sad-woman-hugging-her-boyfriend-outside.jpg\" alt=\"mujer triste abrazando a su novio fuera\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/sad-woman-hugging-her-boyfriend-outside.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/sad-woman-hugging-her-boyfriend-outside-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/sad-woman-hugging-her-boyfriend-outside-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>It&#8217;s not your fault that he didn&#8217;t see your worth. You went out of your way for him every chance you got and he took advantage of that. But don&#8217;t think for one minute that he won&#8217;t miss you.<\/p>\n<p>He will, but he just wanted someone who was easy. Someone who didn&#8217;t have a brain, someone he could make into exactly what he wanted them to be.<\/p>\n<p>But that&#8217;s not you, and do you want to know why? Because you are an intelligent, strong, and independent woman.<\/p>\n<p>You don&#8217;t need a man in your life who sucks everything out of you, a man who is selfish, greedy, and a terrible person. It&#8217;s not your fault that he didn&#8217;t realize how great a woman you are.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.huffingtonpost.com\/amy-chan\/know-your-worth-understan_b_663194.html\" rel=\"noopener\">Sabes lo que vales<\/a> and even though your heart is broken you did everything in your power to be the girl of his dreams. And he just wasn&#8217;t the right man for you.<\/p>\n<p>He didn&#8217;t deserve the way you treated him or the way you always put him first, even when you probably knew it wasn&#8217;t the best idea.<\/p>\n<p>But that&#8217;s the difference between you and him. Things worked out the way they did because he doesn&#8217;t deserve a girlfriend like you.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-90617\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/young-couple-walking-in-silence.jpg\" alt=\"joven pareja caminando en silencio\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/young-couple-walking-in-silence.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/young-couple-walking-in-silence-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/young-couple-walking-in-silence-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>He doesn&#8217;t deserve a woman who understands the meaning of compromise when he doesn&#8217;t.<\/p>\n<p>He shouldn&#8217;t have the right to be with a woman who puts him first while he only thinks about himself.<\/p>\n<p>He left because he doesn&#8217;t deserve you and even though it doesn&#8217;t feel like that right now, one day you will realize it was one of the best things to ever happen to you.<\/p>\n<p>Un d\u00eda encontrar\u00e1s a un hombre que te convierta en su \u00fanica mujer. Un d\u00eda tendr\u00e1s un hombre que te ponga por encima de todo.<\/p>\n<p>Por fin entender\u00e1s lo que se siente cuando alguien te quiere tanto como t\u00fa a esa persona.<\/p>\n<p>And it will be a wake-up call. It will suddenly remind you about every heartbreak you&#8217;ve had in the past and how badly they hurt&#8230;<\/p>\n<p>Pero ser\u00e1 en ese momento cuando te des cuenta de por qu\u00e9 sucedieron y de lo agradecido que est\u00e1s de que sucedieran.<\/p>\n<p>Te hicieron m\u00e1s fuerte, pero tambi\u00e9n te ayudaron a darte cuenta de tu val\u00eda, lo que a su vez, \u00a1te ayud\u00f3 a encontrar al hombre de tus sue\u00f1os!<\/p>\n<p>As\u00ed que antes de empezar a culparte, recuerda que todo ocurre por alguna raz\u00f3n.<\/p>\n<p>And when someone doesn&#8217;t deserve you, them leaving is the best thing that could ever happen to you.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-90614\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/Its-Not-Your-Fault-He-Left-Pinterest.jpg\" alt=\"No es culpa tuya que se fuera\" width=\"735\" height=\"1102\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/Its-Not-Your-Fault-He-Left-Pinterest.jpg 735w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/Its-Not-Your-Fault-He-Left-Pinterest-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/Its-Not-Your-Fault-He-Left-Pinterest-683x1024.jpg 683w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 735px) 100vw, 735px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>You&#8217;re broken, and all you can think about is everything you should have done. You&#8217;re caught up in all the what ifs and how maybe if you had done this or that then he would still be by your side. The truth is, though, he just wanted an excuse to leave. And even though the&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":23,"featured_media":90615,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29631],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-7378","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-getting-over-him"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29631,"label":"getting over him"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/Its-Not-Your-Fault-He-Left.jpg",800,532,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Leah Lee","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/leah\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29631,"name":"getting over him","slug":"getting-over-him","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29631,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Getting over someone you still care about is one of the biggest challenges, but nothing is impossible when you know you're not alone, so check out our brilliant advice.","parent":29627,"count":124,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29631,"category_count":124,"category_description":"Getting over someone you still care about is one of the biggest challenges, but nothing is impossible when you know you're not alone, so check out our brilliant advice.","cat_name":"getting over him","category_nicename":"getting-over-him","category_parent":29627}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/7378","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/23"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=7378"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/7378\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/90615"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=7378"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=7378"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=7378"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}