{"id":7402,"date":"2020-09-01T12:48:07","date_gmt":"2020-09-01T12:48:07","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=7402"},"modified":"2022-02-14T23:53:52","modified_gmt":"2022-02-14T23:53:52","slug":"merecen-alguien-no-puede-hacer-mente","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/merecen-alguien-no-puede-hacer-mente\/","title":{"rendered":"Te mereces m\u00e1s que a alguien que no puede decidirse por ti"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Quiero que sepas que te entiendo perfectamente cuando dices que est\u00e1s perdidamente enamorada de \u00e9l.<\/p>\n<p>Lo entiendo; es guapo, despreocupado y tiene \u00e9xito en lo que hace para ganarse la vida. S\u00e9 que te gusta pasar tiempo con \u00e9l.<\/p>\n<p><em><strong>En esos momentos que pas\u00e1is juntos, hay mucha qu\u00edmica en el aire.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n<p>And that\u2019s why I don\u2019t blame you for being <a href=\"http:\/\/www.businessinsider.com\/how-to-be-happier-according-to-matthieu-ricard-the-worlds-happiest-man-2016-1\" rel=\"noopener\">la persona m\u00e1s feliz de la tierra cuando est\u00e1s con \u00e9l<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>Pero, s\u00f3lo quiero que sepas algo: todo ese brillo en tus ojos acabar\u00e1 desapareciendo y lo \u00fanico que quedar\u00e1 ser\u00e1 tu amor por \u00e9l.<\/p>\n<p>As\u00ed que, frena lo que est\u00e9s haciendo ahora. S\u00e9 que piensas que \u00e9l es un chico incre\u00edble, pero t\u00fa tambi\u00e9n eres una chica incre\u00edble.<\/p>\n<p><em><strong>Entonces, \u00bfpor qu\u00e9 te conformas con menos de lo que mereces?<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n<p>You see, you don\u2019t deserve a guy who can\u2019t decide what he wants in his life.<\/p>\n<p>If he wants to be with you then he has to make up his mind about you. Otherwise, it doesn\u2019t make any sense. I am telling you all this because I can see that you are overwhelmed by everything that is happening to you.<\/p>\n<p>You don\u2019t think straight when you are in his company and he pretends that he is having a hard time because he needs to make a decision.<\/p>\n<p>\u00bfSabes una cosa?<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-107302\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/a-frustrated-woman-looks-at-an-angry-man-after-an-argument.jpg\" alt=\"una mujer frustrada mira a un hombre enfadado tras una discusi\u00f3n\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/a-frustrated-woman-looks-at-an-angry-man-after-an-argument.jpg 1000w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/a-frustrated-woman-looks-at-an-angry-man-after-an-argument-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/a-frustrated-woman-looks-at-an-angry-man-after-an-argument-768x512.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/a-frustrated-woman-looks-at-an-angry-man-after-an-argument-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/a-frustrated-woman-looks-at-an-angry-man-after-an-argument-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><em><strong>Choosing you shouldn\u2019t be a decision. It should be as normal as breathing.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n<p>No es m\u00e1s que otro imb\u00e9cil que te enga\u00f1a y te cuenta dulces historias... <a href=\"https:\/\/thoughtcatalog.com\/erin-cossetta\/2017\/05\/heres-how-people-try-to-take-advantage-of-you-based-on-your-zodiac-sign\/\" rel=\"noopener\">para aprovecharse de ti<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>So, don\u2019t be crazy enough to let him get away with this.<\/p>\n<p>Deja de esperarle. Su indecisi\u00f3n es una decisi\u00f3n.<\/p>\n<p>He made up his mind a long time ago but you just don\u2019t get it yet.<\/p>\n<p>He lost you the day that he didn\u2019t choose you. So, don\u2019t be stupid and stick with him.<\/p>\n<p>You have so much to offer to the right one and the right one will know how to make you happy. So, by leaving him, don\u2019t think that you will miss something.<\/p>\n<p>You are just saving yourself from tears. Trust me, because I\u2019ve been there.<\/p>\n<p>Si te quedas, s\u00f3lo conseguir\u00e1s que tu agon\u00eda dure m\u00e1s de lo debido.<\/p>\n<p><em><strong>Te est\u00e1s haciendo da\u00f1o deliberadamente <a href=\"https:\/\/www.huffingtonpost.com\/christine-hassler\/you-cant-change-him-so-st_b_927558.html\" rel=\"noopener\">porque crees que cambiar\u00e1.<\/a><\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-107303\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/a-sad-girl-looks-out-the-window.jpg\" alt=\"una chica triste mira por la ventana\" width=\"800\" height=\"535\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/a-sad-girl-looks-out-the-window.jpg 1000w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/a-sad-girl-looks-out-the-window-300x201.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/a-sad-girl-looks-out-the-window-768x514.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/a-sad-girl-looks-out-the-window-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/a-sad-girl-looks-out-the-window-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Tiene la seguridad de que su enorme amor por \u00e9l le convertir\u00e1 en una persona mejor.<\/p>\n<p>\u00a1Incorrecto!<\/p>\n<p>It won\u2019t, because he is not ready for change.<\/p>\n<p>\u00c9l cambiar\u00e1 cuando est\u00e9 preparado para ello, no cuando t\u00fa quieras. Entonces, \u00bfpor qu\u00e9 cambiar\u00edas t\u00fa por \u00e9l?<\/p>\n<p>No es alguien que merezca eso.<\/p>\n<p>You are special and unique just the way you are and you shouldn\u2019t change for anyone but yourself.<\/p>\n<p>Don\u2019t you see that you deserve so much more than he can give to you?<\/p>\n<p><em><strong>Don\u2019t you see that a man like that actually doesn\u2019t know what he wants in his life?<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n<p>En un momento te desea y al siguiente siente que es demasiado complicado para \u00e9l tener una relaci\u00f3n.<\/p>\n<p>Come on, you don\u2019t need to put up with all that crap. You deserve someone who will choose you every single day.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-107304\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/a-portrait-of-a-romantic-loving-couple-outside.jpg\" alt=\"un retrato de una rom\u00e1ntica pareja de enamorados al aire libre\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/a-portrait-of-a-romantic-loving-couple-outside.jpg 1000w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/a-portrait-of-a-romantic-loving-couple-outside-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/a-portrait-of-a-romantic-loving-couple-outside-768x512.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/a-portrait-of-a-romantic-loving-couple-outside-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/a-portrait-of-a-romantic-loving-couple-outside-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Te mereces <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/en-el-mundo-de-todo-al-instante-quiero-un-amor-que-dure\/\">un amor que dura<\/a> and the one your whole world makes sense in. Because in the end, love is not so complicated. You love or don\u2019t love. As simple as that.<\/p>\n<p>I don\u2019t want you to hate me for opening your eyes now. You will thank me later. I am just saving you from a bad and miserable life with a man who will never love you like you deserve.<\/p>\n<p>S\u00f3lo intento ayudarte para que finalmente consigas todo lo que te mereces.<\/p>\n<p><em><strong>Porque, francamente hablando, <a href=\"https:\/\/www.theodysseyonline.com\/you-deserve-someone-better\" rel=\"noopener\">eres mucho mejor persona que \u00e9l.<\/a><\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n<p>S\u00e9 que nunca le har\u00edas esto a alguien en tu vida. S\u00e9 que nunca enga\u00f1ar\u00edas a un hombre jugando al fr\u00edo y al calor con \u00e9l.<\/p>\n<p>S\u00e9 que eres directa y esa caracter\u00edstica te hace una clase por encima de todas las dem\u00e1s mujeres que he conocido en mi vida.<\/p>\n<p>As\u00ed que, por favor, \u00e9chale de tu vida. Demu\u00e9strale que el amor no es una calle de sentido \u00fanico.<\/p>\n<p>Tell him that he doesn\u2019t deserve a woman like you, because you are stronger than him, and you could eventually make him feel scared of you.<\/p>\n<p>Y cuando por fin le dejes marchar, sal a celebrarlo.<\/p>\n<p><em><strong>Porque la noche en que le dejes marchar ser\u00e1 el siguiente cap\u00edtulo de tu vida. S\u00f3lo que esta vez espero que sea con alguien que merezca la pena esperar.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-107305 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/You-Deserve-More-Than-Someone-Who-Cant-Make-Up-His-Mind-About-You-Pinterest.jpg\" alt=\"Te mereces m\u00e1s que a alguien que no puede decidirse por ti\" width=\"1000\" height=\"1500\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/You-Deserve-More-Than-Someone-Who-Cant-Make-Up-His-Mind-About-You-Pinterest.jpg 1000w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/You-Deserve-More-Than-Someone-Who-Cant-Make-Up-His-Mind-About-You-Pinterest-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/You-Deserve-More-Than-Someone-Who-Cant-Make-Up-His-Mind-About-You-Pinterest-683x1024.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/You-Deserve-More-Than-Someone-Who-Cant-Make-Up-His-Mind-About-You-Pinterest-768x1152.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/You-Deserve-More-Than-Someone-Who-Cant-Make-Up-His-Mind-About-You-Pinterest-150x225.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1000px) 100vw, 1000px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I want you to know that I completely understand you when you say that you are head over heels in love with him. I get it; he is handsome, easygoing and successful in what he does for a living. I know how you like to spend time with him. In those moments the two of&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":42,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29648],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-7402","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-dating-tips"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29648,"label":"dating tips"}]},"featured_image_src_large":false,"author_info":{"display_name":"Selma June","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/selmajune\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29648,"name":"dating tips","slug":"dating-tips","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29648,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Learn to date like a pro and avoid making some of the biggest mistakes in texting, flirting, winning a man's heart, and commitment. 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