{"id":7421,"date":"2020-07-25T10:56:52","date_gmt":"2020-07-25T10:56:52","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=7421"},"modified":"2021-08-12T09:29:06","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T09:29:06","slug":"ya-no-espero-ser-alguien-para-ti","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/ya-no-espero-ser-alguien-para-ti\/","title":{"rendered":"Ya No Espero Ser \"Alguien\" Para Ti"},"content":{"rendered":"

Lo peor de la vida es esperar. Lo mejor de la vida es tener a alguien a quien merezca la pena esperar. <\/i><\/p><\/blockquote>\n

Mi Querido Alguien,<\/p>\n

Nunca fui una chica que apresurara las cosas. Segu\u00eda creyendo que las cosas buenas llevaban su tiempo.<\/p>\n

Sab\u00eda que las cosas por las que esperas mucho tiempo acaban siendo las m\u00e1s preciadas. Supongo que la espera las hizo especiales y preciosas en primer lugar.<\/p>\n

Nunca tuve miedo de esperar. Cre\u00eda en la belleza detr\u00e1s de la espera. <\/b><\/p>\n

Hasta que me di cuenta de que podr\u00eda ser esperando a alguien y algo que muy probablemente nunca suceder\u00eda.<\/a> <\/b><\/p>\n

Y no hay nada hermoso en esperar algo que nunca se dirigi\u00f3 hacia ti.  <\/b>I\u2019m sorry, but giving me just your crumbs wouldn\u2019t cut it.<\/p>\n

I am not the type of girl who is satisfied with the bare minimum. If I am ready to give you all of me, I\u2019d expect nothing less in return.<\/p>\n

\"chica<\/p>\n

Y aunque contigo siempre llevaba el coraz\u00f3n en la manga y t\u00fa sab\u00edas a qu\u00e9 atenerte conmigo, yo nunca supe a qu\u00e9 atenerme contigo.<\/p>\n

Cuando amas, debes asegurarte de que la otra persona sabe las cosas que quieres y que est\u00e1n en lo m\u00e1s alto de tu lista de prioridades. <\/b><\/p>\n

Unfortunately, I don\u2019t think I ever made it to your list to begin with.<\/b><\/p>\n

You held me at arm\u2019s length and that\u2019s exactly where you wanted me to be. Just close enough for you to reach me when you needed me and far enough for me to not be able to get too close to you.<\/p>\n

\u00bfVes el problema ahora?<\/p>\n

If by now you can\u2019t wrap your mind around what you did wrong, then I have no problem pointing out the obvious:<\/p>\n

Quer\u00eda que me eligieras.<\/b><\/a> I had no desire to be \u2018another fish in the sea\u2019. I didn\u2019t want to be anybody, En realidad quer\u00eda ser alguien para ti.<\/b><\/p>\n

Esper\u00e9 y esper\u00e9 a que hicieras un esfuerzo, a que me demostraras que me ve\u00edas tal como era y esper\u00e9 a que me eligieras. Como si estuviera esperando a Godot.<\/p>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

No matter how much I was told waiting for you was in vain, I wasn\u2019t gonna listen. <\/b><\/p>\n

I guess I wasn\u2019t ready to let you go. I wasn\u2019t ready to free myself from the idea of what we could\u2019ve been. <\/b><\/p>\n

Hab\u00eda esculpido en mi mente esta idea de t\u00fa y yo juntos y este perfecto t\u00fa realmente quer\u00edas que yo fuera alguien para ti.<\/b><\/p>\n

Pero como ya he dicho, s\u00f3lo era yo imagin\u00e1ndote idealmente.<\/p>\n

And I kept waiting for the ideal you to choose me. My dreams shattered when I realized that you weren\u2019t perfect at all, it was me who made you that way.<\/p>\n

See, this perfect you would never have led me on. This perfect you wouldn\u2019t have given me just enough attention so I\u2019d believe you were into me.<\/p>\n

This perfect you would never have used me the way you used me. It didn\u2019t just occur to me that we could have been something more, you actually made me believe it.<\/p>\n

And right when I got my hopes up, you pulled back. You decided I\u2019d gotten enough love from you and that you now had me for a lifetime.<\/p>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

When I started doubting us, you’d do your magic and I’d fall again for you again.<\/p>\n

I was hooked, truth be told. The naive side of me believed in this dream that I\u2019d finally found someone who cared for me and wanted me.<\/p>\n

El lado que hab\u00eda pasado por muchas situaciones infernales en la vida lo sab\u00eda mejor. Y finalmente dej\u00e9 que el otro lado se encargara de esas cosas.<\/p>\n

Hoy, decid\u00ed que esto iba a ser el d\u00eda que dej\u00e9 de esperar.<\/a> <\/b><\/p>\n

Hoy iba a ser el d\u00eda en que dejara de pasar ni un minuto de mi tiempo pensando en ti. <\/b><\/p>\n

I don\u2019t want to think about the things we might\u2019ve been when you never actually believed we could be a thing in the first place. <\/b><\/p>\n

I won\u2019t beg someone to love me. I won\u2019t beg you to love me.<\/b> Aprend\u00ed hace mucho tiempo que de nada sirven los planes desesperados de intentar que alguien se quede.<\/p>\n

I am too valuable to chase someone who doesn\u2019t know my worth and to keep waiting for someone who doesn\u2019t acknowledge my value.<\/p>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

I want to be loved unconditionally and I shouldn\u2019t have to fight so hard for it.  <\/b>Valgo m\u00e1s que eso.<\/b><\/p>\n

Just so you know, whether this was your intention or not, you didn\u2019t get the best of me. You were pretty close, but I got out just in time.<\/p>\n

Waiting for you didn\u2019t leave me broken at the end, but it did teach me a valuable lesson.<\/p>\n

As a matter of fact, I still believe that good things take time. I\u2019m as naive as I was at the beginning of the story, you know.<\/p>\n

I choose to believe in love and in the existence of someone out there who won\u2019t have to think twice before choosing me. I believe there is someone who won\u2019t make love feel so hard.<\/p>\n

I believe there is someone who\u2019ll see my worth and acknowledge my value on his own. <\/b><\/p>\n

I believe that there is someone to whom I won\u2019t be just anybody but who\u2019ll want me to be his everything. That someone is worth the wait. You are not. <\/b><\/p>\n

I still believe good things take time. It\u2019s just that I have come to realize that you\u2019re not really a good thing for me.<\/p>\n

As\u00ed que, Adi\u00f3s Mi Alguien,<\/p>\n

La chica que merec\u00eda mucho m\u00e1s<\/p>\n

\"Ya<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

The worst part of life is waiting. The best part of life is having someone worth waiting for. My Dear Someone, I was never a girl who rushed things. I kept believing that good things took time. I knew that the things you waited a long time for ended up being the most precious ones….<\/p>","protected":false},"author":40,"featured_media":116453,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29618],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-7421","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-moving-on"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29618,"label":"moving on"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/Im-Done-Waiting-To-Be-Someone-To-You-1024x684.jpg",1024,684,true],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tara Brown","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/tara-brown\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29618,"name":"moving on","slug":"moving-on","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29618,"taxonomy":"category","description":"When nothing else works - inspiring stories about moving on are bound to help you let go of people and situations you never thought you could live without.\r\n","parent":38,"count":200,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29618,"category_count":200,"category_description":"When nothing else works - inspiring stories about moving on are bound to help you let go of people and situations you never thought you could live without.\r\n","cat_name":"moving on","category_nicename":"moving-on","category_parent":38}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/7421","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/40"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=7421"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/7421\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/116453"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=7421"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=7421"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=7421"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}