{"id":7430,"date":"2020-10-25T11:28:02","date_gmt":"2020-10-25T11:28:02","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=7430"},"modified":"2022-02-06T17:16:00","modified_gmt":"2022-02-06T17:16:00","slug":"carta-uno-se-escapo","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/carta-uno-se-escapo\/","title":{"rendered":"Carta al que se escap\u00f3"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Hace tiempo que no hablamos. S\u00e9 que despu\u00e9s de todo quer\u00edas ser mi amigo, pero no cre\u00ed que fuera buena idea.<\/p>\n<p>Sabes, es dif\u00edcil ser amigo de alguien a quien quer\u00edas m\u00e1s...<b><i>. <\/i><\/b><b><i>Es como si se te muere el perro y decides qued\u00e1rtelo. Es imposible.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n<p>So don\u2019t cry over spilled milk. You weren\u2019t the right one for me and you told me that in time. Your words about saving me from tears are still echoing around my head.<\/p>\n<p>I remember the day when you came to me and said that you didn\u2019t feel the same way as you used to. You said that you still couldn\u2019t decide if you needed an emotional partner.<\/p>\n<p>You were so confused when you were telling me about it and I saw that you cared about me. Unfortunately, that wasn\u2019t enough for our love to last.<\/p>\n<p><b><i>Sabes, a veces sigo pensando en ti.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-122233\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/thoughtful-young-housewife-sitting-on-couch.jpg\" alt=\"joven ama de casa pensativa sentada en el sof\u00e1\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/thoughtful-young-housewife-sitting-on-couch.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/thoughtful-young-housewife-sitting-on-couch-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/thoughtful-young-housewife-sitting-on-couch-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/thoughtful-young-housewife-sitting-on-couch-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/thoughtful-young-housewife-sitting-on-couch-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/thoughtful-young-housewife-sitting-on-couch-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/thoughtful-young-housewife-sitting-on-couch-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/thoughtful-young-housewife-sitting-on-couch-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Recuerdo todos aquellos d\u00edas que pasamos juntos disfrutando de la vida. Me gusta pensar en todas las cosas bonitas que me ense\u00f1aste a hacer.<\/p>\n<p>Recuerdo que me ense\u00f1aste a pescar y a hacer fuego en el bosque.<\/p>\n<p>Recuerdo que me ense\u00f1aste a conducir un coche con transmisi\u00f3n manual y a escuchar m\u00fasica al mismo tiempo.<\/p>\n<p>Yo tambi\u00e9n soy feliz cuando pienso en todos esos momentos bonitos que te di, porque te quise m\u00e1s de lo que nunca pens\u00e9 que querr\u00eda a alguien.<\/p>\n<p>It is true that I really fell hard for you but I don\u2019t care. Love is not love if it is not complicated. And ours was as complicated as hell.<\/p>\n<p><b><i>As\u00ed que ahora, despu\u00e9s de todo este tiempo sin ti, debo admitir que por fin me siento bien en mi propia piel.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-122234\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/business-woman-looking-away5.jpg\" alt=\"mujer de negocios que mira hacia otro lado\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/business-woman-looking-away5.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/business-woman-looking-away5-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/business-woman-looking-away5-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/business-woman-looking-away5-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/business-woman-looking-away5-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/business-woman-looking-away5-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/business-woman-looking-away5-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/business-woman-looking-away5-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>You see, I am writing this letter while sitting alone in the park and enjoying the sun\u2019s rays. And I don\u2019t need anyone else to be with me, because I can finally get that peace that I deserve so much.<\/p>\n<p>Por fin <a href=\"https:\/\/tinybuddha.com\/blog\/30-ways-to-live-life-to-the-fullest\/\" rel=\"noopener\">vivir mi vida al m\u00e1ximo<\/a> and I don\u2019t feel sorry about my decisions. They were a part of my life and they made me the person I am now.<\/p>\n<p>L\u00e1stima que no est\u00e9s aqu\u00ed para ver en qu\u00e9 clase de persona me he convertido. Pero, debo decir que cuando me dejaste, algo cambi\u00f3 dentro de m\u00ed.<\/p>\n<p>I could have chosen to be a victim, as I had every single reason to do so, but I didn\u2019t. Instead, I decided to fight and to move on with my life.<\/p>\n<p>Because you only have one life and if I don\u2019t care about myself, nobody else will. <b><i>I know you won\u2019t<\/i><\/b>.<\/p>\n<p>In case you sometimes wonder if I would ever accept you back, here is what I would say: \u201cYou lost me the day that you didn\u2019t choose me.\u201d And I was a girl who was so easy to love but unfortunately you couldn\u2019t understand that in time.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-122236\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/portrait-of-a-beautiful-girl.jpg\" alt=\"retrato de una chica guapa\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/portrait-of-a-beautiful-girl.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/portrait-of-a-beautiful-girl-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/portrait-of-a-beautiful-girl-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/portrait-of-a-beautiful-girl-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/portrait-of-a-beautiful-girl-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/portrait-of-a-beautiful-girl-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/portrait-of-a-beautiful-girl-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/portrait-of-a-beautiful-girl-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Pensaste que el amor volver\u00eda a sucederte. Me dijiste que me quer\u00edas pero que ten\u00edas que irte y que una vez que me dejaras morir\u00edas.<\/p>\n<p>D\u00e9jame preguntarte algo: <b><i>\u201cIf you said you would die without me, then why are you still breathing?\u201d<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n<p>You didn\u2019t see this one coming, right? Well, that\u2019s who I am now, straight to the point, and I wouldn\u2019t change it for anything in the world.<\/p>\n<p>Now, all those dark things that happened during our relationship don\u2019t look so dark to me now. Because I found my own way and this time it is a way without you.<\/p>\n<p>Fuiste t\u00fa quien se acobard\u00f3. <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/7-maneras-de-superar-al-hombre-que-se-escapo\/\">Decidiste irte<\/a> y d\u00e9jame en paz.<\/p>\n<p>For you, my problems and my feelings didn\u2019t exist because you were so preoccupied with your own problems.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-122237\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/young-woman-sitting-and-thinking-on-bed-in-the-morning.jpg\" alt=\"mujer joven sentada y pensando en la cama por la ma\u00f1ana\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/young-woman-sitting-and-thinking-on-bed-in-the-morning.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/young-woman-sitting-and-thinking-on-bed-in-the-morning-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/young-woman-sitting-and-thinking-on-bed-in-the-morning-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/young-woman-sitting-and-thinking-on-bed-in-the-morning-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/young-woman-sitting-and-thinking-on-bed-in-the-morning-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/young-woman-sitting-and-thinking-on-bed-in-the-morning-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/young-woman-sitting-and-thinking-on-bed-in-the-morning-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/young-woman-sitting-and-thinking-on-bed-in-the-morning-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><b><i>And I wasn\u2019t one of them. I just thank God that He saved me from you<\/i><\/b>.<\/p>\n<p>I can\u2019t tell you how happy I am to be able to meet new people and enjoy life like I deserve. If I had stayed with you, I wouldn\u2019t have had the chance to do all this.<\/p>\n<p>Probablemente seguir\u00edas siendo el centro de mi mundo y la \u00fanica persona con la que hablar\u00eda. Pero de esta manera, <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/love\/realmente-gano-perdiendo\/\">al perderte gan\u00e9 mucho m\u00e1s.<\/a><\/p>\n<p>As\u00ed que, gracias por rendirte conmigo. Me has hecho darme cuenta de lo digna persona que soy.<\/p>\n<p>Gracias a ti, aprend\u00ed a amarme con todo mi coraz\u00f3n y a dejar ir las cosas que me hab\u00edan estado molestando en el pasado. Y esta vez, tambi\u00e9n te dejo ir a ti.<\/p>\n<p><b><i>Si fuiste tan est\u00fapido como para irte, \u00a1yo ser\u00e9 tan inteligente como para dejarte ir!<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-122286\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/A-Letter-To-The-One-Who-Got-Away-pinterest.jpg\" alt=\"Carta al que se escap\u00f3\" width=\"1000\" height=\"1500\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/A-Letter-To-The-One-Who-Got-Away-pinterest.jpg 1000w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/A-Letter-To-The-One-Who-Got-Away-pinterest-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/A-Letter-To-The-One-Who-Got-Away-pinterest-683x1024.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/A-Letter-To-The-One-Who-Got-Away-pinterest-768x1152.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/A-Letter-To-The-One-Who-Got-Away-pinterest-150x225.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1000px) 100vw, 1000px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>It has been a while since we talked. I know that you wanted to be friends with me after all but I didn\u2019t think it would be a good idea. You know, it is difficult to be friends with someone whom you loved the most. It is like your dog dies and you still decide&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":41,"featured_media":122231,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29653],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-7430","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-letters"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29653,"label":"letters"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/A-Letter-To-The-One-Who-Got-Away-1024x684.jpg",1024,684,true],"author_info":{"display_name":"Martha Sullivan","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/martha-sullivan\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29653,"name":"letters","slug":"letters","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29653,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Regardless if you're looking for moving on, romantic, emotional, or open letters on various topics, you can be sure that you'll find it all here. 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