{"id":74535,"date":"2020-05-22T11:39:02","date_gmt":"2020-05-22T11:39:02","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=74535"},"modified":"2022-09-14T08:41:15","modified_gmt":"2022-09-14T08:41:15","slug":"una-cita-para-tomar-un-cafe-es-la-mejor-idea-para-una-primera-cita","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/una-cita-para-tomar-un-cafe-es-la-mejor-idea-para-una-primera-cita\/","title":{"rendered":"12 razones por las que un caf\u00e9 es la mejor idea para una primera cita"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">As a girl who&#8217;s been on her fair share of (successful and utterly disastrous) dates, I&#8217;ve come to a rather insightful realization. A simple <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">cita para tomar caf\u00e9<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> es el m\u00e1s <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">idea perfecta para la primera cita<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">!<\/span><\/p>\n<p><b>Escucha, <\/b><b>primeras citas<\/b><b> aren&#8217;t supposed to be about grand romance. If we&#8217;re being honest, they&#8217;re sort of like a <\/b><b>entrevista de trabajo<\/b><b> examinar qui\u00e9n merece un <\/b><b>segunda cita<\/b><b> y qui\u00e9n tiene que irse.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">After scouring through a bunch of loud pubs, dive bars, movie nights, and whatnot, it&#8217;s become apparent that if you really want to get to know someone, a <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">cafeter\u00eda<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> \u00a1es el camino a seguir!<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">En <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">primera vez<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> que conozcas a una persona es tu oportunidad de dejar un gran <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">primera impresi\u00f3n<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">. Hacer eso durante un <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">copa de vino<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> (or three) is great \u2013 until you get too tipsy and realize you&#8217;ve totally overshared!<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">A <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">mucha gente<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> S\u00e9 que recurrir a <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">citas en l\u00ednea<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> y <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">aplicaciones de citas<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> como <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Bumble<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> como una forma de eliminar <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">la vida real<\/span> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">torpeza<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">inquisitivo <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">baristas<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">y <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">gente mirando<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> cada uno de tus movimientos.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Pero optar por un <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">taza de caf\u00e9<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> en <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Starbucks<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">pedir su favorito <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">caf\u00e9 con leche<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">y disfrutando de un d\u00eda informal <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">vibe<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> es un <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">bajo riesgo<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> \u00a1opci\u00f3n que todo el mundo tiene que probar!<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">He aqu\u00ed todas las razones por las que creo firmemente que deber\u00edas probarlo cuanto antes.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">V\u00e9ase tambi\u00e9n: <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/relationship\/10-maneras-de-hacer-que-un-chico-se-de-cuenta-de-que-esta-perdiendo\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">How To Make Him Realize He&#8217;s Using You? 10 Ways To Success<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n<h2>\u00bfPor qu\u00e9 deber\u00eda tomar un caf\u00e9 en su primera cita?<\/h2>\n<h2>1. It&#8217;s the most affordable option<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-74557 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/couple-holding-cups-of-coffee.jpg\" alt=\"hombre y mujer sosteniendo tazas de caf\u00e9 en una cafeter\u00eda\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/couple-holding-cups-of-coffee.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/couple-holding-cups-of-coffee-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/couple-holding-cups-of-coffee-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Let&#8217;s start with the obvious. While there are numerous pros to this ultimate dating idea, price has to play a role.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">If you opt for this, you don&#8217;t have to worry about accidentally exceeding your intended budget the way you would at a boozy date. If you ask me \u2013 a major plus.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">There&#8217;s not much I hate more than overspending on a crappy date, knowing I&#8217;ll never see this person again. But grabbing a <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">taza de caf\u00e9<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> is a low investment that you won&#8217;t be sorry you chose.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Sometimes, it&#8217;s better to think practically. You never know how well the date will go, so you might as well ensure not to pay the price (literally and figuratively).<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">If you have fun, then you may proceed to more elaborate options. But if not, at least you&#8217;ve been financially responsible.<\/span><\/p>\n<h2>2. C\u00f3mo tratan al camarero dice mucho de su car\u00e1cter<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-74569 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/man-talking-to-barista.jpg\" alt=\"hombre hablando con barista sentado a la mesa\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/man-talking-to-barista.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/man-talking-to-barista-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/man-talking-to-barista-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Yo personalmente me alejo de la gente con una personalidad fea y sin modales. Y la forma en que tu cita trata a los <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">barista<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> demostrar\u00e1 lo merecedores que son de su empresa.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u00bfSon demasiado espec\u00edficos con su pedido y exigen la <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">barista<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> to go back and forth three times? Do they complain about the service when there&#8217;s nothing to complain about?<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Pay attention to all of these signs, as they are a reflection of your date&#8217;s true character.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">You want a kind, considerate, and humble person who treats everyone with respect. The moment I see them lashing out at the service staff and acting above them, I&#8217;m out the door.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Nada puede <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">maquillaje<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> \u00a1por una actitud de santidad!<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">V\u00e9ase tambi\u00e9n: <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/love\/cosas-de-las-que-hablar-con-un-chico-para-mantener-su-interes\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">De qu\u00e9 hablar con un chico: 13 formas de mantener su inter\u00e9s<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n<h2>3. It&#8217;s the best way to get to know them without interruptions<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-74575 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/man-drinking-coffee.jpg\" alt=\"hombre bebiendo caf\u00e9 sentado cerca de una mujer\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/man-drinking-coffee.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/man-drinking-coffee-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/man-drinking-coffee-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">As you&#8217;re sitting there, sipping your favorite coffee order, listening to light jazz (or some perfect ambiance music mix) there&#8217;s literally nothing to do other than talk!<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">And isn&#8217;t that the whole point? Talking, sharing, opening up, and getting to know the person you&#8217;re with. While pubs and such can offer a great atmosphere, it&#8217;s almost impossible to hold a conversation.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">And constantly shouting over other people, loud music, and each other is awkward and doesn&#8217;t really scream &#8220;best date ever.&#8221;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Vea ahora c\u00f3mo <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">citas con el caf\u00e9<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> est\u00e1n tan infravalorados? Te dan la oportunidad perfecta para una conversaci\u00f3n ininterrumpida, y no tener que <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">escalofr\u00edos<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> cada dos segundos, sin saber de qu\u00e9 est\u00e1 hablando tu cita.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">There&#8217;s time for these types of dates later once you&#8217;ve become familiar with each other. But grabbing coffee is <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">c\u00f3mo<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> figure out who this person is and if they&#8217;re worth your bother.<\/span><\/p>\n<h2>4. They won&#8217;t meet your drunk alter ego<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-74579 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/couple-holding-cups-of-coffee-1.jpg\" alt=\"mujer con jersey rojo y hombre sosteniendo tazas de caf\u00e9\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/couple-holding-cups-of-coffee-1.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/couple-holding-cups-of-coffee-1-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/couple-holding-cups-of-coffee-1-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">I don&#8217;t know about you, but I am a very loud, talkative drunk.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">There&#8217;s no stopping me when I&#8217;m on my fourth <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">copa de vino<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">. So you might say that there&#8217;s a high risk of oversharing and chasing them away.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Todos tenemos un alter ego borracho. Pero en mi opini\u00f3n, <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">primeras citas<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> no son definitivamente el momento de exponerlo al mundo. Espera al menos hasta la tercera o cuarta cita.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Beber caf\u00e9<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> instead of tequila and there&#8217;s zero chance of having regrets the next day. Your date really doesn&#8217;t have to know about your annoying friend Becky \u2013 or worse off, your cheating ex \u2013 in the first hour of knowing you.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Por ahora, comp\u00f3rtate lo mejor que puedas y, si tu cita demuestra que merece la pena, hazle part\u00edcipe de todos tus rasgos de personalidad m\u00e1s adelante.<\/span><\/p>\n<h2>5. You can easily get out if the date&#8217;s a snoozefest<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-74585 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/couple-talking-.jpg\" alt=\"mujer y hombre hablando en un cafe\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/couple-talking-.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/couple-talking--300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/couple-talking--768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Here&#8217;s an awesome thing about a <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">cita para tomar caf\u00e9<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">. Puede ser rom\u00e1ntico, divertido, emocionante y ofrecerte una gran oportunidad de conocer a alguien.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">On the other hand, it can prove to be such a snoozefest that you can&#8217;t get out of there soon enough. And when that happens, it&#8217;s so easy to get out!<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">You can order a small coffee until you figure out if you want to stay, and if you don&#8217;t, you can just say you&#8217;re in a hurry and you have to go. Simple as that.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">But if they prove to be interesting, you can get your favorite order and enjoy their company. Your options are wide open. Nobody expects you to sit there for three hours if you&#8217;re bored.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">But in case it goes well, you totally can. That&#8217;s why this is the <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">los mejores consejos para ligar<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> you&#8217;ll hear today. From now on, I&#8217;m having all of my <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">primeras citas<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> en <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Starbucks<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">. \u00bfQui\u00e9n tiene tiempo que perder hoy en d\u00eda?<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">V\u00e9ase tambi\u00e9n: <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/life\/como-encontrar-el-poder-femenino\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Poder femenino: c\u00f3mo encontrarlo, abrazarlo, difundirlo y utilizarlo<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n<h2>6. Coffee&#8217;s actually really good for your system<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-74589 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/woman-holding-cup-of-coffee.jpg\" alt=\"mujer sosteniendo una taza blanca de caf\u00e9 en un caf\u00e9\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/woman-holding-cup-of-coffee.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/woman-holding-cup-of-coffee-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/woman-holding-cup-of-coffee-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Me sorprendi\u00f3 bastante o\u00edr esto, ya que siempre hab\u00eda cre\u00eddo que el caf\u00e9 ser\u00eda mi muerte (tomo como cinco tazas al d\u00eda). Pero un estudio reciente en <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Nueva York<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> El Centro M\u00e9dico Langone de la Universidad me abri\u00f3 los ojos.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Han descubierto que el caf\u00e9 es extremadamente beneficioso para el organismo. Al parecer, reduce el riesgo de cirrosis, una grave enfermedad hep\u00e1tica que se puede contraer por un exceso de alcohol.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">As\u00ed que tomar caf\u00e9 podr\u00eda salvarle el h\u00edgado tras una noche de copas. Adem\u00e1s, es un dato divertido que puedes compartir con tu cita e impresionarla.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">As\u00ed que s\u00ed, mi punto es: Tomar un caf\u00e9 con tu cita tiene muchas ventajas. Y en mi opini\u00f3n, tu bienestar general est\u00e1 entre las cinco mejores razones para hacerlo.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Conocer gente en <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Tinder<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> y <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">redes sociales<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> es una p\u00e9rdida de tiempo. La gente casi nunca es como se presenta, y cuando te encuentras en <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">la vida real<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">, it&#8217;s like looking at an entirely different person.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Qu\u00e9date con algo seguro, coge un <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">caf\u00e9 con leche<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">y disfruta de su compa\u00f1\u00eda y de la opci\u00f3n de salir si lo deseas.<\/span><\/p>\n<h2>7. No es necesario disfrazarse<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-74592 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/couple-having-coffee.jpg\" alt=\"mujer y hombre sonrientes tomando caf\u00e9 al aire libre\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/couple-having-coffee.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/couple-having-coffee-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/couple-having-coffee-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Acudir a una cita puede ser bastante estresante cuando se trata de tu atuendo. Sobre todo para las chicas.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Should you wear a dress, maybe a skirt, or should you opt for those hot leather pants\u2026? Ugh, it\u2019s so annoying because you want to get it right yet not seem like you tried too hard.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">With this particular date, you don\u2019t have to stress about this! Grabbing coffee is totally casual and stress-free.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Most of the time, it\u2019s during the daytime, so you\u2019ll most likely go straight from work (wearing what you\u2019re actually wearing) and it\u2019ll be totally okay.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Nobody expects you to get dressed to the nines when you\u2019re meeting for coffee. And this is one of the many pros of a <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">cita para tomar caf\u00e9<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">. Una cosa menos de la que preocuparse.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">You just have to sit in the comfy recliner, order a huge caf\u00e9 macchiato, relax, and enjoy the conversation!<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Your date is most likely to be on the casual side as well. That way, it\u2019ll feel even comfier, and you\u2019ll be much more likely to have a good time.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">V\u00e9ase tambi\u00e9n: <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/life\/que-quieren-los-chicos-cualidades-atractivas-que-ansian\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Lo que quieren los chicos: 10 cualidades atractivas que todos anhelan en secreto<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n<h2>8. It\u2019s an endless source of conversation material<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-74595 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/woman-smiling-1.jpg\" alt=\"mujer sonriente mirando a un hombre mientras sostiene una taza de caf\u00e9\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/woman-smiling-1.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/woman-smiling-1-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/woman-smiling-1-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">I\u2019m all about brutal honesty here. And the honest-to-God truth is that <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">primeras citas<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> puede ser extremadamente abrumador.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">You can be the funniest, most talkative, and open-minded person ever, but being faced with that cute person you\u2019ve been DYING to meet for weeks and stressing over the right thing to say can be a LOT.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Todos tendemos a quedarnos en blanco y mirar sin que nos salgan palabras de la boca. Me ha pasado a m\u00ed, a tu madre, a tu mejor amigo y a tu vecino de al lado.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Nadie est\u00e1 exento de la desastrosa <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">torpeza<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> de <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">primeras citas<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">. So don\u2019t worry, it really doesn\u2019t matter, as the other person feels exactly the same as you.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Pero lo incre\u00edble de reunirse en un <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">cafeter\u00eda<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> es que dispones de un amplio abanico de personas y situaciones que pueden inspirar una buena conversaci\u00f3n.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Basta con mirar a tu alrededor: seguro que alguien est\u00e1 haciendo algo vergonzoso, divertido o sorprendentemente valiente.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Esto puede ser lo que relaje tu estado de \u00e1nimo y provoque algunas reacciones genuinas que marcar\u00e1n el tono de la conversaci\u00f3n posterior.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Tal vez el <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">barista<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> just dropped the tray, or somebody is getting proposed to, or there\u2019s somebody talking <\/span><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">realmente <\/span><\/i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">fuerte.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">R\u00edete (pero no de forma grosera). Unas sonrisas genuinas te ayudar\u00e1n a estrechar lazos.<\/span><\/p>\n<h2>9. Puedes incorporarlo f\u00e1cilmente a tu horario<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-74599 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/couple-holding-mugs.jpg\" alt=\"hombre y mujer sosteniendo tazas de cer\u00e1mica con caf\u00e9\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/couple-holding-mugs.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/couple-holding-mugs-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/couple-holding-mugs-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">A <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">cita para tomar caf\u00e9<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> es muy f\u00e1cil de organizar. Puedes ir directamente desde el trabajo (los dos), quedar durante las pausas para comer o elegir un s\u00e1bado soleado por la tarde.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Firstly, since it\u2019s just coffee, you don\u2019t have to worry about being hungover for work the next day (if it\u2019s mid-week).<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">And it\u2019s during the daytime, so you\u2019re more likely to be free and still go about your evening plans if you had any.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Secondly, they don\u2019t have to last long (unless you want them to be) so there\u2019s much less pressure when fitting them into your day.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Todos estamos tan ocupados que encontrar aunque s\u00f3lo sea una hora o dos puede ser bastante dif\u00edcil.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">And meeting for coffee is so laid back that you\u2019re both totally okay with not having an entire day.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">For me, I much prefer meeting someone straight from work as it\u2019s the most seamless option \u2013 I\u2019m already decently dressed and my face doesn\u2019t look like I just woke up.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Significa que paso menos tiempo poni\u00e9ndome guapa y m\u00e1s disfrutando del tiempo que tengo para conocer al chico. Para m\u00ed, esto marca la diferencia.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">V\u00e9ase tambi\u00e9n: <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/life\/frases-para-ligar-en-cumpleanos\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">M\u00e1s de 90 frases para ligar en cumplea\u00f1os: Deseos de cumplea\u00f1os con un toque coqueto<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n<h2>10. You won\u2019t get tired mid-day<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-74614 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/man-talking-to-woman.jpg\" alt=\"hombre con chaqueta verde y mujer hablando mientras toman caf\u00e9\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/man-talking-to-woman.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/man-talking-to-woman-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/man-talking-to-woman-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Mi ajetreado horario de trabajo, un mont\u00f3n de aficiones y tratar de mantenerme activa en mi vida social realmente me pasan factura a veces.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Don\u2019t get me wrong! I love having a fulfilled life! But sometimes, all I want to do (and all I <\/span><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">puede <\/span><\/i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">hacer) es tumbarme en el sof\u00e1, bajo una manta, acurrucarme con mi perro, ver una pel\u00edcula y dormitar.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">You see where this is going, right? Long dates at night make me fight to stay awake sometimes. And when I\u2019m tired, I\u2019m not nearly as charming as I am on my full strength.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">That\u2019s where a <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">cita para tomar caf\u00e9<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> comes in! Coffee itself makes you feel refreshed and energized (major plus!) AND it\u2019s not late, so you\u2019re not going to be too tired too soon.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Your date will get to see the most charming version of you (at least more charming than the tired one) and you\u2019ll know you made the right call.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Let\u2019s not pretend that we don\u2019t all get tired at surprisingly early hours of the evening at times. There\u2019s nothing wrong with that though.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Ensure you\u2019re wide awake and go grab that coffee. Easy peasy.<\/span><\/p>\n<h2>11. Si va bien, pod\u00e9is dar un paseo rom\u00e1ntico despu\u00e9s<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-74620 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/couple-sitting-on-rock-2.jpg\" alt=\"hombre y mujer sentados en una roca mirando al mar\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/couple-sitting-on-rock-2.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/couple-sitting-on-rock-2-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/couple-sitting-on-rock-2-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Puntos extra si vives en un lugar pintoresco. Imag\u00ednatelo.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">You meet this great guy (or girl), you both realize you\u2019re (a bit too) obsessed with coffee, your taste in music is the same, and you both enjoy the weirdest things no one really gets!<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Hours go by that seem like minutes and you suddenly realize you\u2019re already on your third large coffee (uh-oh).<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">As\u00ed que en lugar de ir a por el cuarto, uno de vosotros propone dar un agradable paseo, os par\u00e1is en alg\u00fan sitio a disfrutar de la puesta de sol y de repente os dais cuenta de lo a gusto que os sent\u00eds.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">La sencillez de una conversaci\u00f3n interesante a trav\u00e9s de un <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">taza de caf\u00e9<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">un agradable paseo por alg\u00fan lugar pintoresco, y una oportunidad adicional para estrechar a\u00fan m\u00e1s los lazos.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u00a1Todo esto puede ser una realidad! Despu\u00e9s de tomar un caf\u00e9, puedes prolongar la cita y hacerla a\u00fan m\u00e1s rom\u00e1ntica y divertida.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Esto puede equivaler a <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">las mejores primeras citas<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> que hayas tenido, y todo porque lo hiciste durante el d\u00eda tomando un caf\u00e9, lo que te dio la opci\u00f3n de dar un paseo al atardecer.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Dates don\u2019t get much better than this. Simple, yet so cute, romantic, and full of possibilities. What\u2019s not to love?<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">V\u00e9ase tambi\u00e9n: <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/life\/como-ser-guapa-habitos-de-las-mujeres\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">C\u00f3mo ser guapa: H\u00e1bitos De Las Mujeres Que Siempre Se Mantienen Atractivas<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n<h2>12. \u2026and if it doesn\u2019t, you can say it was just coffee and move on!<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-74658 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/couple-sitting-outdoor-2.jpg\" alt=\"hombre y mujer sentados al aire libre tomando cafe\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/couple-sitting-outdoor-2.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/couple-sitting-outdoor-2-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/couple-sitting-outdoor-2-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Sometimes dates just don\u2019t pan out. It\u2019s not you, it\u2019s not them, the chemistry just isn\u2019t right.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">That\u2019s okay! You have to give it a chance before you decide against it. So even if it doesn\u2019t work out, you\u2019ll know you tried.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Y con un <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">cita para tomar caf\u00e9<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">, it doesn\u2019t even feel like a date if it proves to be a disaster. You met up, had a <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">caf\u00e9 con leche<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">, tried to have a convo, but it just didn\u2019t amount to much. It happens, no big deal, finish your coffee and off you go.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">You won\u2019t feel like a failure because it technically wasn\u2019t a grand romantic date, and you\u2019ll be less likely to be discouraged from trying again.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Pueden ser el preludio perfecto para la <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">segunda cita<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">, but some things are just not meant to be and there\u2019s not much you can do but shrug it off, hug it out, and move on.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Significa menos <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">torpeza<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> y m\u00e1s esperanza. Te gastaste cinco pavos, no perdiste m\u00e1s de media hora de tu tiempo y llegaste a casa a tiempo para llamar a tu mejor amiga y contarle todo.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Of all the bad date possibilities, this is by far the safest, most painless route that nobody will dwell over the day after. Don\u2019t you agree?<\/span><\/p>\n<p><strong>V\u00e9ase tambi\u00e9n:<a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/ideas-para-salir-por-la-manana\/\"> 30 ideas de citas matutinas para despertar el romanticismo<\/a><\/strong><\/p>\n<h2><b>En conclusi\u00f3n<\/b><\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-74663 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/couple-sitting-on-chairs-1.jpg\" alt=\"hombre y mujer sentados en sillas tomando caf\u00e9\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\"><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">A <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">cita para tomar caf\u00e9<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> no s\u00f3lo es genial, est\u00e1 muy infravalorada y llena de oportunidades, sino que tambi\u00e9n hace que una mala cita no parezca gran cosa.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">And in my book \u2013 that counts as a major win. Aren\u2019t you tired of those typical movie and dinner scenarios when everything is practically already planned out?<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Making sure to eat slowly and politely when you\u2019re <\/span><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">hambriento <\/span><\/i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">and wondering if you\u2019re dressed well enough for that fancy restaurant you\u2019ve never been to.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Life\u2019s too short to limit yourself. Go grab some coffee, lounge comfortably in the leather recliner, wear your favorite jeans, and enjoy the idyllic setlist for midday chit chat!<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">It\u2019s relaxing, stress-free, and well within your budget. You can get to know this person properly and be able to make a sound decision about seeing them again without wasting five hours of your night.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Give it a go and I promise all you&#8217;ll be able to think about is why on earth you didn&#8217;t think of this sooner!<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">V\u00e9ase tambi\u00e9n: <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/love\/que-significa-el-amor\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u00bfQu\u00e9 significa el amor? Todo lo que debe saber sobre esta m\u00e1gica emoci\u00f3n<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-74668 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/12-Reasons-Why-A-Coffee-Date-Is-Actually-The-BEST-First-Date-Idea-Pinterest.jpg\" alt=\"12 razones por las que un caf\u00e9 es la mejor idea para una primera cita\" width=\"1000\" height=\"1500\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/12-Reasons-Why-A-Coffee-Date-Is-Actually-The-BEST-First-Date-Idea-Pinterest.jpg 1000w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/12-Reasons-Why-A-Coffee-Date-Is-Actually-The-BEST-First-Date-Idea-Pinterest-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/12-Reasons-Why-A-Coffee-Date-Is-Actually-The-BEST-First-Date-Idea-Pinterest-683x1024.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/12-Reasons-Why-A-Coffee-Date-Is-Actually-The-BEST-First-Date-Idea-Pinterest-768x1152.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1000px) 100vw, 1000px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>As a girl who&#8217;s been on her fair share of (successful and utterly disastrous) dates, I&#8217;ve come to a rather insightful realization. A simple coffee date is the most perfect first date idea! Listen, first dates aren&#8217;t supposed to be about grand romance. If we&#8217;re being honest, they&#8217;re sort of like a job interview to&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":53,"featured_media":74552,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29614],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-74535","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-love-talks"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29614,"label":"love talks"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/12-Reasons-Why-A-Coffee-Date-Is-Actually-The-BEST-First-Date-Idea.jpg",800,534,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Ariel Quinn","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/ariel\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29614,"name":"love talks","slug":"love-talks","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29614,"taxonomy":"category","description":"What is love? 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