{"id":74846,"date":"2020-05-20T11:17:49","date_gmt":"2020-05-20T11:17:49","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=74846"},"modified":"2021-08-12T11:30:11","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T11:30:11","slug":"deja-tus-sentimientos-a-un-lado-y-recuerda-lo-que-te-mereces","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/deja-tus-sentimientos-a-un-lado-y-recuerda-lo-que-te-mereces\/","title":{"rendered":"Es hora de dejar a un lado tus sentimientos y recordar lo que te mereces"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Ya no quiero sentirme triste. He llegado a un punto en el que he decidido que no quiero mirar atr\u00e1s en mi vida y sentirme culpable porque nunca me arriesgu\u00e9.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">I don\u2019t want to throw my life away because of someone who never even cared for me. I\u2019ve had enough. I\u2019m making a fresh start.<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Eliminar\u00e9 todo rastro de \u00e9l y entrenar\u00e9 a mi coraz\u00f3n para que nunca se salte un latido cuando oiga su nombre.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">I will forget everything he promised me and I will forget him: his voice, his smell, his face, his everything until I can\u2019t recall his image in my mind anymore.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Recuerdo que al principio deseaba volver al momento en que lo conoc\u00ed, tomar un camino diferente y ahorrarme tanto dolor, pero en lugar de eso decid\u00ed confiar en Dios.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-72283 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/woman-holding-her-chin.jpg\" alt=\"retrato de mujer con jersey blanco sujet\u00e1ndose la barbilla\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/woman-holding-her-chin.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/woman-holding-her-chin-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/woman-holding-her-chin-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">When God let him into my life, I didn\u2019t know it was a lesson. A lesson to teach me to embrace myself.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">So often in life, we\u2019re blinded by what we feel and what we want in the given moment, so we forget to see things from another perspective.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">I was so lost in loving him that I forgot to love myself. Once he was gone, I needed to find myself again and I didn\u2019t know where to start.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">It\u2019s so hard to accept the fact that the people who once made us feel special are the same people who made us feel worthless in the end.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">It\u2019s so hard to trust after you\u2019ve been lied to so many times \u2013 even yourself \u2013 that\u2019s what <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/life\/gaslighting-8-ejemplos-de-abuso-mental-brutal\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">luz de gas<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> hace a una persona.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Still, that\u2019s how I learned that the only lasting relationship in my life will be the one I have with myself.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Desde ese momento dej\u00e9 de creer que otra persona tiene el poder de salvarme.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">It became clear to me that in order to survive and live a good life I needed to change \u2013 myself, my life, my habits.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">I\u2019ve never believed in prince charming, but deep in my heart I\u2019ve always wanted to have somebody to care for me.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">I still want that \u2013 I still want to have somebody who will cherish me and make me feel safe and happy to be myself.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">La \u00fanica diferencia es que ahora s\u00e9 que puedo cuidar de m\u00ed misma y sentirme segura por m\u00ed misma.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-72292 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/woman-sitting-on-steps-1.jpg\" alt=\"mujer con bufanda gris sentada en unos escalones\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/woman-sitting-on-steps-1.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/woman-sitting-on-steps-1-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/woman-sitting-on-steps-1-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">I don\u2019t depend on anyone\u2019s love but my own, and you know what? I feel better than ever. I feel relieved and happy I can believe in myself.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">I\u2019m proud of giving myself a chance.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">After all those years of telling myself that everything and everyone is better than me, I finally realized that comparing myself to others doesn\u2019t make sense.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">There\u2019s no rule for success but your own happiness and what makes <\/span><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">usted<\/span><\/i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> feliz es diferente de los dem\u00e1s. Haz lo que te haga feliz.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Mereces ser feliz. Mereces tratarte como tratas a los que m\u00e1s quieres.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Leave behind everything that brings you down \u2013 including people. Don\u2019t make excuses. Everything in life happens for a reason, so don\u2019t sabotage your own growth.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Una de las mayores lecciones de esta experiencia fue dejar ir lo que no puedo cambiar. Parece sencillo, pero fue lo m\u00e1s dif\u00edcil de hacer.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Other than letting go I learned that for some people I\u2019ll never be enough as I am, but that it shouldn\u2019t bother me.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Life\u2019s too short for trying to be liked by other people \u2013 in the end, you only have yourself.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">That\u2019s why we have to be strong. We have to build forts out of ourselves, and be self-sufficient but welcoming to everyone who has something valuable to offer. Seek value rather than attention.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Only self-love can break the circle of unfulfilled relationships. When you love yourself, you don\u2019t tolerate disrespect.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Cuando te amas a ti mismo, atraes todo lo que mereces.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-72318 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/Its-Time-To-Put-Your-Feelings-Aside-And-Remember-What-You-Deserve-Pinterest.jpg\" alt=\"Es hora de dejar a un lado tus sentimientos y recordar lo que te mereces\" width=\"1000\" height=\"1500\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/Its-Time-To-Put-Your-Feelings-Aside-And-Remember-What-You-Deserve-Pinterest.jpg 1000w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/Its-Time-To-Put-Your-Feelings-Aside-And-Remember-What-You-Deserve-Pinterest-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/Its-Time-To-Put-Your-Feelings-Aside-And-Remember-What-You-Deserve-Pinterest-683x1024.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/Its-Time-To-Put-Your-Feelings-Aside-And-Remember-What-You-Deserve-Pinterest-768x1152.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1000px) 100vw, 1000px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I don\u2019t want to feel sad anymore. I\u2019ve reached a point where I\u2019ve decided I don\u2019t want to look back at my life and feel guilty because I never took chances. I don\u2019t want to throw my life away because of someone who never even cared for me. I\u2019ve had enough. I\u2019m making a fresh&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":22,"featured_media":72272,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29644],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-74846","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-self-love"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29644,"label":"self-love"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/Its-Time-To-Put-Your-Feelings-Aside-And-Remember-What-You-Deserve.jpg",800,534,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tina Navarro","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/tatiana\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29644,"name":"self-love","slug":"self-love","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29644,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Self-love is not an option but a necessity. 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