{"id":7509,"date":"2020-10-26T08:37:01","date_gmt":"2020-10-26T08:37:01","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=7509"},"modified":"2021-08-24T12:27:30","modified_gmt":"2021-08-24T12:27:30","slug":"estoy-aprendiendo-poco-a-poco-a-no-reaccionar-las-cosas-molestan","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/estoy-aprendiendo-poco-a-poco-a-no-reaccionar-las-cosas-molestan\/","title":{"rendered":"Estoy aprendiendo poco a poco que no tengo por qu\u00e9 reaccionar ante todas las cosas que me molestan"},"content":{"rendered":"

\u201cThink once before you act, twice before you speak, and three times before you post on Facebook.\u201d<\/i> P.C. Brunson<\/b><\/p><\/blockquote>\n

I really don\u2019t live by this quote, except maybe just the part related to Facebook.<\/p>\n

I say the first thing that comes to my mind. Sometimes my mouth runs faster than my brain and I say something I definitely shouldn’t. <\/p>\n

Mis amigos siempre dicen, \u201cYou have to learn to count to ten when in these situations,\u201d <\/i>lo que significa que tengo que aprender a controlarme.<\/p>\n

I can\u2019t say the first thing that pops into my mind when I am in the middle of some kind of discussion, because I usually unintentionally hurt the people involved.<\/p>\n

Aunque soy un bocazas, nunca quiero hacer da\u00f1o a nadie y la gente que me conoce bien sabe eso de m\u00ed.<\/em><\/p>\n

Ahora que lo pienso, probablemente soy as\u00ed porque me hicieron da\u00f1o demasiadas veces.<\/p>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

La gente sol\u00eda aprovecharse del hecho de que yo era b\u00e1sicamente una buena persona, de las que llevan el coraz\u00f3n en la manga.<\/p>\n

I was really losing sleep thinking about why someone would be so mean to me or why someone is treating me like I’m not good enough.<\/p>\n

Lo \u00fanico que sab\u00eda era que ten\u00eda que aprender a defenderme. La gente me hizo da\u00f1o tantas veces que supongo que mis reacciones eran inevitables.<\/p>\n

The problem now is that I tend to overreact at times. I think that people have bad intentions even when they don\u2019t.<\/p>\n

And that’s something I need to change about myself when I take a step back and look at the whole picture it only drains my energy and brings me stress that I don\u2019t really need.<\/p>\n

That\u2019s why I am slowly learning not to act on all the things that bother me.<\/p>\n

Estoy aprendiendo que no todo necesita mi reacci\u00f3n. Estoy dominando el arte del autocontrol. Intento ser mejor persona.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

\"silueta<\/p>\n

It doesn\u2019t mean that I agree with everything people say or do, it just means that I am choosing to rise above it.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

Ignorar suele ser la mejor cura para cualquier situaci\u00f3n. Discutir sobre cosas irrelevantes es una p\u00e9rdida de tiempo. <\/p>\n

Arguing drains your energy and it doesn\u2019t solve anything; you are trying to make a point, the other person is trying to make theirs and nobody manages to hear anything.<\/p>\n

That\u2019s why, sometimes, ignoring the whole situation is the best thing you can do. You actually say a lot when you don\u2019t say anything at all. <\/b><\/p>\n

I am becoming aware that self-control is the best thing you can master. It\u2019s all about you and within you.<\/p>\n

You can\u2019t control what other people say or how they act but you can control yourself.<\/p>\n

Cuando te limitas a observar la situaci\u00f3n en la que te encuentras, aprendes m\u00e1s que cuando reaccionas ante ella.<\/p>\n

\"chica<\/p>\n

En realidad, no actuar es la mejor reacci\u00f3n que se puede tener en una discusi\u00f3n. <\/b><\/p>\n

Dejar\u00e1s a la gente pregunt\u00e1ndose qu\u00e9 ha pasado aqu\u00ed. Hay gente que est\u00e1 esperando a que act\u00faes de cualquier manera para ver que se te puede controlar.<\/p>\n

That\u2019s why I am refusing to give them control over me.<\/p>\n

V\u00e9ase tambi\u00e9n:<\/strong> Pretendo que soy fuerte porque en secreto odio lo sensible que soy<\/a><\/p>\n

I am starting to see that in the end, it\u2019s all about me.  <\/b>I have to be OK with myself. I won\u2019t change anybody\u2019s mind with my reaction.<\/p>\n

Everybody will stick to their beliefs no matter what I say. My opinion won\u2019t make them change theirs. It won’t make them treat me better or with greater respect. <\/p>\n

That’s why I am learning to stay silent.<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

I am starting to see that other people’s behavior has more to do with the relationship they have with themselves than the one they have with me. <\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n

I don’t have to react to everything that’s getting on my nerves. I don’t have to turn every wrong to right. I have my own opinions and beliefs. <\/p>\n

Tambi\u00e9n estoy dispuesto a escuchar las de otras personas. Quiz\u00e1 pueda aprender algo. Quiz\u00e1 ellos puedan aprender algo de m\u00ed si tambi\u00e9n est\u00e1n dispuestos a escucharme.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s never about other people \u2013 let them go. It\u2019s not about seeking explanations \u2013 some things are better left unsaid.  <\/p>\n

It\u2019s not about who is right or wrong \u2013 sometimes there are no rights or wrongs. Sometimes it is what it is and nothing more.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s always about being satisfied with yourself. It\u2019s about something priceless like inner peace. It\u2019s about the fact that happiness is a state of mind. <\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

As\u00ed que s\u00e9 feliz y recuerda que a veces no reaccionar es la mejor acci\u00f3n que puedes emprender.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

\"Estoy<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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