{"id":7522,"date":"2020-09-26T11:45:35","date_gmt":"2020-09-26T11:45:35","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=7522"},"modified":"2021-08-11T13:31:06","modified_gmt":"2021-08-11T13:31:06","slug":"carta-abierta-casi-novio-2","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/carta-abierta-casi-novio-2\/","title":{"rendered":"Carta abierta a mi casi novio"},"content":{"rendered":"

\u00bfHay alguna palabra m\u00e1s triste para describir el amor que \u2018almost\u2019 <\/i> ?<\/p>\n

Casi est\u00e1bamos juntos. Casi nos am\u00e1bamos. Casi ten\u00edamos algo especial. Casi \u00e9ramos felices.<\/p>\n

I think about you a lot, probably more than I should. I can\u2019t really put my finger on when it all finished. I think it happened gradually. A goodbye without a proper goodbye just sneaked up on me and I didn\u2019t even see it coming.<\/p>\n

Lo pasamos muy bien juntos. Pod\u00edamos hablar de cualquier cosa. Era tan f\u00e1cil estar contigo, hablar contigo, y parec\u00eda que nos conoci\u00e9ramos de toda la vida.<\/p>\n

Nunca me hab\u00eda abierto a nadie como lo hice contigo. Todos mis muros se derrumbaron, por eso ahora me duele tanto.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Compartimos tantos buenos recuerdos juntos.<\/p>\n

I think my favorite one is that summer night. You know I am not a romantic type; I like to keep things real. That\u2019s why it\u2019s funny that this one is my favorite one. But that night was so romantic, in our own style, and it meant so much.<\/p>\n

\u00bfTe acuerdas de nosotros dos tumbados en la playa, mirando las estrellas fugaces? Bes\u00e1ndonos. Ri\u00e9ndonos. Disfrutando. Pidiendo deseos.<\/p>\n

Maybe I should\u2019ve made a wish right then and there for us to be together. But, I didn\u2019t. I thought I had you already. I guess I thought wrong.<\/strong><\/p>\n

\"una<\/p>\n

I am not writing this to make you feel bad or to reminisce. I don\u2019t even know if you will find yourself in these words, even though I hope you will, just so you can remember too.<\/p>\n

Estoy escribiendo esto para ayudarme a m\u00ed misma a dejarte ir. Quiz\u00e1 si lo dejo salir todo, si lo escribo todo, me ayude a sanar y a seguir adelante.<\/p>\n

I can\u2019t figure out why you left. I know that we had it good. I hadn\u2019t seen anything that would indicate that you were leaving. We were so close and then you suddenly empez\u00f3 a retroceder.<\/a><\/p>\n

I guess you were scared of something. Maybe we were moving too fast. Maybe I wasn\u2019t the right girl for you. Maybe it wasn\u2019t meant to be. Maybe\u2026<\/i><\/strong><\/p>\n

Todav\u00eda me pregunto si podr\u00eda haber hecho algo diferente. \u00bfHabr\u00eda cambiado el resultado? \u00bfY si hubiera mirado m\u00e1s de cerca? \u00bfHabr\u00eda visto que te ibas? \u00bfHabr\u00eda podido decirte algo para hacerte cambiar de opini\u00f3n? \u00bfY si hubiera estado menos enamorado de ti, habr\u00eda hecho que te quedaras? \u00bfY si simplemente hubieras hablado conmigo? What if\u2026 <\/i><\/p>\n

So many maybes and so many more what ifs. I can\u2019t really figure out which ones hurt more. <\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

I guess it\u2019s like that with uncertainty – it hurts more than concreteness. I just know for a fact that you were somebody that I used to know; somebody I shared everything with; somebody who made a great impact on me. You were somebody who was entirely mine but never truly mine.<\/p>\n

Now all my maybes and what ifs are going to stay unanswered. And you know what? That\u2019s OK.<\/p>\n

Porque despu\u00e9s de hacerme estas preguntas, despu\u00e9s de escribir esto, me doy cuenta de que la \u00fanica respuesta es que te fuiste. Y al irte me demostraste que merezco algo mejor. Merezco a alguien que no tenga miedo de sentir. Alguien que sea todo y no tenga miedo a comprometerse.<\/p>\n

Merezco el tipo de amor que permanece para siempre. Merezco m\u00e1s que casi. Para ser honesto cari\u00f1o me merezco a alguien mejor que t\u00fa.  <\/p>\n

\"Carta<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Is there any sadder word to describe love than \u2018almost\u2019 ? We were almost together. We almost loved each other. We almost had something special. We were almost happy. I think about you a lot, probably more than I should. I can\u2019t really put my finger on when it all finished. I think it happened…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":41,"featured_media":118263,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29653],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-7522","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-letters"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29653,"label":"letters"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/10\/An-Open-Letter-To-My-Almost-Boyfriend-1024x684.jpg",1024,684,true],"author_info":{"display_name":"Martha Sullivan","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/martha-sullivan\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29653,"name":"letters","slug":"letters","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29653,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Regardless if you're looking for moving on, romantic, emotional, or open letters on various topics, you can be sure that you'll find it all here. ","parent":29651,"count":207,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29653,"category_count":207,"category_description":"Regardless if you're looking for moving on, romantic, emotional, or open letters on various topics, you can be sure that you'll find it all here. ","cat_name":"letters","category_nicename":"letters","category_parent":29651}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/7522","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/41"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=7522"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/7522\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/118263"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=7522"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=7522"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=7522"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}