{"id":7540,"date":"2020-05-26T13:00:53","date_gmt":"2020-05-26T13:00:53","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=7540"},"modified":"2021-08-12T10:22:51","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T10:22:51","slug":"establecer-limites-como-mujer-de-alto-valor","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/establecer-limites-como-mujer-de-alto-valor\/","title":{"rendered":"C\u00f3mo poner l\u00edmites como una mujer valiosa"},"content":{"rendered":"

Puede que te hayan dicho que en el amor no hay que tener l\u00edmites.<\/p>\n

Esto se debe a las nociones rom\u00e1nticas sobre el amor, a tus buenas intenciones y al sentimiento de desinter\u00e9s. Pero eso, por supuesto, no es cierto.<\/p>\n

Nada bueno saldr\u00e1 de un amor sin l\u00edmites.<\/a> Si no respetamos nuestros l\u00edmites en una relaci\u00f3n sentimental, acabaremos agotados y nos costar\u00e1 tomar decisiones o concentrarnos.<\/p>\n

A high-value woman will always have high self-respect, and that\u2019s why it\u2019s critical to set boundaries.<\/p>\n

No s\u00f3lo estar\u00e1s ense\u00f1ando a un hombre c\u00f3mo debe tratarte, sino que tambi\u00e9n recuperar\u00e1s tu autoestima y te sentir\u00e1s bien contigo misma.<\/p>\n

Boundaries are so powerful that when set and enforced, they will help you create the love you desire\u2014the love you deserve. Here are five specific ways to create boundaries.<\/p>\n

Separar el comportamiento de la persona<\/h2>\n

\"hombre<\/p>\n

Esto suele pasarse por alto, pero es muy importante. Muchas veces te encuentras en una situaci\u00f3n en la que tu pareja ha hecho algo mal.<\/p>\n

En otras palabras, era un gilipollas. Ahora, antes de decidir si le perdonas o no, piensa en lo siguiente: \u00bfes un buen tipo que se comporta como un gilipollas o simplemente un gilipollas que hace lo que mejor saben hacer los gilipollas?<\/p>\n

Entonces, puedes decidir si cabrearte por el comportamiento y no por el chico O cabrearte por todo el asunto.<\/p>\n

Esto es fundamental para poder compartir con la persona c\u00f3mo hacer las cosas de un modo que te satisfaga sin cortarle e irse porque se ha pasado de la raya.<\/p>\n

El sexo no es tu moneda<\/h2>\n

\"foto<\/p>\n

If you think it\u2019s still too early, or you just don\u2019t feel like having sex<\/a>...debes establecer tus l\u00edmites.<\/p>\n

Make it very clear what you want and when you want it. Just because he took you on a nice date, paid for dinner or bought you a gift, doesn\u2019t mean you owe him sex.<\/p>\n

A high-value woman will set the boundaries and won\u2019t get sexually intimate with a man before committing to a relationship that suits her needs.<\/p>\n

If you like the guy but think it\u2019s still too early for intercourse, then set the boundaries in a way which lets him know that you find him very attractive, but you are still not ready to get intimate with him.<\/p>\n

If he likes you too, this won\u2019t bother him, and he will wait until you get comfortable enough to make that move.<\/p>\n

Don’t be afraid to say out loud what it is that you want\/desire<\/h2>\n

\"pareja<\/p>\n

Con un hombre, debes ir directa y sin rodeos. \u00bfPor qu\u00e9? Porque, en su mayor\u00eda, los hombres hablan entre s\u00ed de esa manera.<\/p>\n

They are used to be told directly what it is that they need to do, what it is that the other person needs, and what\u2019s their responsibility.<\/p>\n

That\u2019s exactly what you should do\u2014especially in the beginning of a relationship.<\/p>\n

If you set your boundaries and tell him what you expect and require from him right away, you\u2019re not only setting boundaries for yourself, but you\u2019re also letting him know what his responsibilities are going to be and thus making it easier for him to understand.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t be afraid of maybe intimidating him too much and scaring him off because if he does flinch away, then you know he was not able to fulfill your needs anyway.<\/p>\n

El mundo digital<\/h2>\n

\"Pareja<\/p>\n

Hoy en d\u00eda, gran parte de nuestra vida privada, incluidas nuestras relaciones se presenta en las redes sociales.<\/a> Ahora bien, este es tambi\u00e9n uno de los l\u00edmites que deben abordarse aqu\u00ed.<\/p>\n

\u00bfQu\u00e9 parte de tu vida privada quieres que se comparta en Facebook, Instagram o Twitter?<\/p>\n

Haz saber a tu pareja desde el principio lo que piensas de las redes sociales y cu\u00e1les son tus l\u00edmites al respecto. \u00bfTe parece bien cambiar el estado de la relaci\u00f3n?<\/p>\n

Is it ok for you to follow each other\u2019s friends? Is it ok to post anything about your relationship?<\/p>\n

Necesitas sentirte segura en la relaci\u00f3n con tu nuevo chico y \u00e9l tambi\u00e9n.<\/p>\n

Establecer l\u00edmites desde el principio es la forma en que una mujer de alto valor destaca entre la multitud.<\/p>\n

Haga respetar sus l\u00edmites<\/h2>\n

\"pareja<\/p>\n

No basta con establecer los l\u00edmites, tambi\u00e9n hay que hacerlos cumplir.<\/p>\n

Telling a guy that you don\u2019t want sex but continuing to make out is not really giving the right picture to him.<\/p>\n

Haz valer lo que has creado y se abrir\u00e1 la puerta para que el amor llegue a ti.<\/p>\n

Si impones tus l\u00edmites como t\u00fa quieres, le ense\u00f1ar\u00e1s al chico c\u00f3mo debe tratarte y, al respetar tus l\u00edmites, los dem\u00e1s tambi\u00e9n lo har\u00e1n.<\/p>\n

Focus on what you want and need, and be ready to even walk away if things are deal breakers for you or the guy is just unable to rise up to your expectations\u2014like not giving you enough respect, time or space that you need.<\/p>\n

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You might have been told that in love you should not have any boundaries. This is because of the romantic notions about love, because of your good intentions, and because of the feeling of selflessness. But that is, of course, not true. Nothing good will come out of love without boundaries. When not honoring your…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":22,"featured_media":84777,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29644],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-7540","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-self-love"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29644,"label":"self-love"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/How-To-Set-Boundaries-Like-A-High-Value-Woman.jpg",800,533,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tina Navarro","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/tatiana\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29644,"name":"self-love","slug":"self-love","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29644,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Self-love is not an option but a necessity. Boost your self-confidence, learn to love yourself and ditch toxicity because you deserve to be happy.","parent":29643,"count":290,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29644,"category_count":290,"category_description":"Self-love is not an option but a necessity. Boost your self-confidence, learn to love yourself and ditch toxicity because you deserve to be happy.","cat_name":"self-love","category_nicename":"self-love","category_parent":29643}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/7540","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/22"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=7540"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/7540\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/84777"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=7540"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=7540"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=7540"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}