{"id":7553,"date":"2020-05-20T13:18:37","date_gmt":"2020-05-20T13:18:37","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=7553"},"modified":"2021-08-12T11:26:42","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T11:26:42","slug":"10-cosas-increibles-que-definen-a-una-chica-dura","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/10-cosas-increibles-que-definen-a-una-chica-dura\/","title":{"rendered":"10 cosas incre\u00edbles que definen a una chica dura"},"content":{"rendered":"

In today’s society, it is really hard to be a tough girl because people often misinterpret her tough girl resilience and strength with being full of herself, having impossible standards or being a tomboy.<\/p>\n

la verdad dista mucho de serlo<\/p>\n

After so many years of the ‘damsel in distress’ concept, tough girls have finally taken the throne and showed to the world that they’re perfectly capable of taking care of themselves.<\/strong><\/p>\n

They have shown the world that they don’t need a man to make them happy and that they are not willing to go out of their way for someone to notice them or like them.<\/p>\n

Por supuesto, les gusta llamar la atenci\u00f3n y gustar, pero prefieren que se les quiera por lo que son y no por lo que la sociedad quiere que sean.<\/p>\n

Estas chicas fuertes e independientes son aut\u00e9nticas joyas en un mar de falsos ideales y reglas impuestas por la sociedad.<\/p>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Entonces, \u00bfcu\u00e1les son los rasgos reales y las cosas que definen a una chica dura? \u00bfTiene algo que ver con su aspecto, con su forma de andar o de hablar?<\/strong><\/p>\n

No, el concepto no tiene nada que ver con ser una marimacho, ganar el oro ol\u00edmpico, ser una atleta alborotadora, ser descuidada o tener unos est\u00e1ndares imposibles.<\/p>\n

Una chica dura es una chica fuerte que se sumerge con fiereza y valent\u00eda en aguas desconocidas.<\/p>\n

She’s resilient and she knows how to stand up for herself but at the same time, she’s also sensitive and her heart consists of many fragile parts.<\/strong><\/p>\n

She’s not afraid to walk an arduous road because she believes in herself and she’s never willing to give up at the first obstacle.<\/p>\n

And all of this, she had to learn by herself. Life has taught her the most valuable lessons in the hardest ways possible and she’s grateful for every experience, cada dificultad y cada <\/span>desamor<\/span><\/a>.<\/p>\n

\"hermosa<\/p>\n

Debajo de cada chica dura hay una chica rota que tuvo que aprender a luchar por s\u00ed misma en un mundo lleno de crueldad e injusticia.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

Sheis full of respect but first for herself and then for others. She has big dreams and she’s not afraid to fight for the things she believes in.<\/p>\n

She’s careful with whom she spends her time because she values every second of her life and she doesn’t want to waste any of it on those who don\u2019t deserve it.<\/p>\n

Tough girls are everywhere around us. They are our sisters, girlfriends, our friends, our friend’s girlfriends…<\/p>\n

Pueden parecer chicas normales, pero por dentro son un aut\u00e9ntico milagro y aqu\u00ed tienes una lista de cosas incre\u00edbles que las definen:<\/p>\n

\u00bfQU\u00c9 HACE QUE UNA CHICA DURA SEA TAN INCRE\u00cdBLE?<\/span><\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

Una chica dura s\u00f3lo se derrite en las manos adecuadas<\/h2>\n

\"hombre<\/p>\n

Nunca se desvive por la gente equivocada.<\/p>\n

So far, she’s learned that no matter how much you give to others, if they’re incapable of recognizing the real value of it, they will never be able to reciprocate.<\/p>\n

Y por eso se ha prometido a s\u00ed misma que nunca entregar\u00e1 su coraz\u00f3n a alguien s\u00f3lo para jugar con \u00e9l.<\/p>\n

Ya est\u00e1 harta de todos los juegos y dramas de su vida y definitivamente no tiene tiempo para lidiar con un ej\u00e9rcito de chicos inmaduros, f\u00f3bicos al compromiso o similares.<\/p>\n

Ha decidido esperar pacientemente a que el hombre adecuado<\/b><\/a> el tiempo que haga falta.<\/strong><\/p>\n

And she’s perfectly aware of the difficulty of her choice. It’s not easy\u2014she gets lonely often.<\/p>\n

Pero prefiere ser paciente y esperar lo que quiere y lo que se merece.<\/p>\n

She knows he\u2019ll be worth the wait and wasting her time on casual relationships is just not her thing.<\/p>\n

Es honesta y franca<\/h2>\n

\"mujer
\nBeing totally honest in today’s world equals being one hundred percent vulnerable and ready to be criticized by those who don’t value the real truth.<\/p>\n

Being totally honest is a rare trait to have and that’s why only those brave enough to dare speak the truth have it.<\/p>\n

A tough girl has it too. She is honest and upfront because she can’t stand being fake for selfish reasons or playing any kind of games behind other people’s backs.<\/p>\n

She sees it as the ultimate sign of cowardice and she definitely doesn’t want to be a part of it.<\/p>\n

Ha elegido un camino diferente para s\u00ed misma, un camino en el que la gente podr\u00eda confundir su comportamiento con el de una zorra, descuidada o similar, pero en realidad no es el caso.<\/p>\n

Ha elegido un camino honesto porque odia fingir y todo lo que es falso en las personas.<\/p>\n

She likes to express her own opinions openly, even when people are not quite ready to hear it and that’s why she’s a real gem.<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n

She knows that her friends value her opinions because there is no sugarcoating them and that’s all she needs.<\/p>\n

Se rodea de personas que tienen los mismos valores que ella porque s\u00f3lo ellas son dignas de formar parte de su vida cotidiana.<\/p>\n

She knows that only they understand how hard it is to be honest when everyone around you is doing the exact opposite and that’s why she chooses them to help her write the best stories of the miracle called life.<\/p>\n

Le cuesta abrirse sobre sus sentimientos<\/h2>\n

\"mujer
\nPor algo es dura. De hecho, la vida la hizo as\u00ed y por eso a veces le cuesta abrirse sobre sus sentimientos, lo que en realidad es algo bueno.<\/p>\n

Ha creado este escudo protector alrededor de su coraz\u00f3n que la mantiene a salvo de todo da\u00f1o potencial.<\/p>\n

Es honesta y franca con todo en su vida, excepto cuando est\u00e1 enamorada.<\/strong> <\/em><\/p>\n

Cuando realmente siente algo por alguien, le cuesta admitirlo ante s\u00ed misma, por no hablar de la otra persona implicada.<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n

When she notices that she’s falling hard for someone, she instantly presses the pause button in order to prevent her heart from falling into a trap.<\/p>\n

She might feel more than someone who is forthright in these situations but there’s a valid reason behind her toughness.<\/p>\n

S\u00f3lo es cari\u00f1osa cuando se siente segura. S\u00f3lo puede decir lo que siente a los dem\u00e1s cuando la convencen de que sus motivos son puros.<\/p>\n

En lugar de palabras falsas, en lo \u00fanico que cree es en el esfuerzo.<\/p>\n

Y si ve que no est\u00e1n dispuestos a luchar por ella y a tratarla como a una dama, los borra al instante de su coraz\u00f3n y de su mente.<\/p>\n

En lugar de esperar a que cambien, toma las cosas en sus manos y previene de antemano todo posible da\u00f1o.<\/p>\n

She doesn\u2019t waste time on false friendships<\/h2>\n

\"mujer
\nAlimenta la conexi\u00f3n con sus amigos, su familia y su gente cercana porque son su mayor motivaci\u00f3n y la mayor fuente de su fuerza.<\/p>\n

But she doesn’t nourish just any kind of connection. She only focuses on real friendships and people who are worthy of being in her life.<\/p>\n

As\u00ed que, si alguien la toma por tonta una vez, puede estar seguro de que no tendr\u00e1 la oportunidad de volver a hacerlo.<\/p>\n

Valora la amistad por encima de todo, pero cuando se pierde la confianza, no hay forma de repararla.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

En el pasado, se desviv\u00eda por salvar relaciones que no merec\u00edan ser salvadas y, al hacerlo, se perjudicaba a s\u00ed misma.<\/p>\n

She was only focused on other people’s feelings instead of her own and she can no longer let that happen.<\/p>\n

No puede seguir luchando por las personas equivocadas para verse rodeada de su energ\u00eda negativa, sus mentiras y sus enga\u00f1os.<\/p>\n

Le llev\u00f3 mucho tiempo aprender que las amistades se basan en la confianza y que una vez que se pierde esa confianza, no hay vuelta atr\u00e1s.<\/p>\n

V\u00e9ase tambi\u00e9n: 8 cosas que pasan cuando haces da\u00f1o a una chica fuerte<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n

Es confiada y ambiciosa<\/h2>\n

\"mujer
\nInstead of wasting her time on her browsing history, she’s fully devoted to the present and the upcoming future.<\/p>\n

Est\u00e1 ah\u00ed para conquistar el mundo. Tiene su propia lista de deseos y objetivos que cumplir, y lo intentar\u00e1 una y otra vez hasta que lo consiga.<\/p>\n

Tiene planes para conseguirlo. Est\u00e1 muy motivada y le apasionan su carrera y sus aficiones, las cosas que la inspiran y significan mucho para ella.<\/p>\n

En lugar de poner excusas como la mayor\u00eda de la civilizaci\u00f3n, da lo mejor de s\u00ed misma para esforzarse y luchar por sus sue\u00f1os.<\/p>\n

And even when things don\u2019t go smoothly and she gets sidetracked, she finds her way back. She believes in herself.<\/p>\n

Sabe que ser persistente es la \u00fanica manera de salir adelante.<\/p>\n

Sabe que la clave del \u00e9xito es seguir avanzando por muy lejos que est\u00e9 la l\u00ednea de meta y por muy duro que sea seguir andando, corriendo, tropezando y volviendo a andar.<\/p>\n

Y cuando sea mayor, contar\u00e1 con orgullo y alegr\u00eda a sus nietos la historia de su largo camino por esa ardua senda; la historia de su entrenamiento atl\u00e9tico en el viaje llamado vida.<\/p>\n

Les mostrar\u00e1 un podcast de sus bellos recuerdos creados por su confianza y su ambici\u00f3n pura.<\/p>\n

Tiene un exterior duro pero un interior suave<\/h2>\n

\"hermosa
\nPuede que al principio no parezca del tipo cari\u00f1oso, pero siente m\u00e1s profundamente que nadie con quien te puedas cruzar.<\/p>\n

She is not without emotions (like some zodiac signs out there); she simply doesn\u2019t show them much in order to protect herself.<\/p>\n

Una chica dura ha pasado por muchos desenga\u00f1os en su pasado y esa es la raz\u00f3n principal por la que ha cambiado.<\/p>\n

She’s no longer the same innocent girl she used to be. People used her good heart in the past but there is no way that they will do it again.<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n

People expected her to be there for them even when they didn’t deserve any of it but there’s no way they will do it again.<\/p>\n

Ahora lo sabe mejor. Su pasado le ha ense\u00f1ado c\u00f3mo luchar por s\u00ed misma, c\u00f3mo proteger su felicidad<\/span><\/a> y c\u00f3mo contraatacar.<\/p>\n

Sus batallas le han aportado fuerza, sabidur\u00eda y nuevas perspectivas.<\/p>\n

She decided to replace all of her bad stories with the best stories that life can give. From an innocent girl, she’s become a rambunctious athlete\u2014unstoppable, motivated and devoted.<\/p>\n

She wasn\u2019t born tough\u2014life made her tough. But one thing is for sure, she is the best and most loving person you will ever meet!<\/p>\n

Conf\u00eda en su instinto<\/h2>\n

\"mujer
\nOur gut is that little voice in our head telling us when something’s right or wrong, when we should do something and when we should retreat.<\/p>\n

It takes a lot of courage to listen to one’s gut and that’s exactly what a tough girl does.<\/p>\n

Conf\u00eda en esa vocecita en su cabeza, que es su principal br\u00fajula cuando se trata de su vida amorosa, y de todos los dem\u00e1s retos de la vida.<\/p>\n

She always relies on her gut no matter what because she knows that it’s her soul giving her a message when something’s right or wrong.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

She relies on her gut until people win her trust and that is how she knows who’s worthy of her time and who is definitely not.<\/p>\n

Est\u00e1 en sinton\u00eda con su yo interior y sabe exactamente c\u00f3mo debe actuar y qu\u00e9 palabras debe decir.<\/p>\n

Conf\u00eda en todos sus sentidos porque sabe que son un regalo de Dios y, a veces, sus \u00fanicos verdaderos amigos.<\/p>\n

Nunca se conforma con menos<\/h2>\n

\"bella
\nIf her feelings are not being reciprocated and she doesn’t get the same treatment she’s giving others, she simply walks away.<\/p>\n

She doesn’t waste a second of her time waiting for someone to change and start treating her the way she deserves.<\/p>\n

Una chica dura prefiere quedarse soltera a conformarse con menos.<\/p>\n

She can’t stand mediocrity, lack of effort, laziness or excuses. She believes in mutual reciprocity, mutual respect and mutual affection.<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n

She’s ready to treat everyone with the same amount of respect and that is why she expects the same thing in return.<\/p>\n

Ella nunca se conforma con menos<\/span><\/a> porque sabe que se merece lo mejor. Ha trabajado duro para convertirse en la persona que es hoy.<\/p>\n

That\u2019s why she will never give all of herself to someone who is not capable of being there for her and loving her the way she loves.<\/p>\n

She’s patient<\/h2>\n

\"foto
\nA strong girl is determined, resilient and sometimes a little bit stubborn but she’s also patient.<\/p>\n

She gives everyone enough time to prove themselves and if they don’t capture her attention, she just continues living her life without ever bothering about things like, \u201cWhat if\u201d and, \u201cI should’ve\u201d.<\/p>\n

She knows that she’s fair to everyone and it’s up to them whether they’re going to win her trust or lose it.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

She’s patient enough to wait for the things she deserves instead of settling for less.<\/p>\n

She knows that it takes time to find someone special and to build something special and that’s why she’s not in a rush.<\/p>\n

Sabe que encontrar\u00e1 al Elegido cuando menos se lo espere y, hasta que eso ocurra, \u00a1seguir\u00e1 disfrutando de su vida al m\u00e1ximo!<\/p>\n

Tough is the only way she knows and it\u2019s not always easy<\/h2>\n

\"una
\nLo malo de ser duro es que la gente espera que lo seas todo el tiempo.<\/p>\n

They expect you to swim in unknown waters for an eternity, as if you’re a part of an Olympic team so you’ll never get tired of it.<\/p>\n

Saben que pueden contar contigo y que siempre eres el fuerte.<\/p>\n

Pero lo cierto es que incluso los m\u00e1s fuertes necesitan un descanso de vez en cuando porque, al fin y al cabo, s\u00f3lo son humanos.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Lo cierto es que incluso las chicas m\u00e1s duras necesitan a veces un tiempo de descanso para recuperar fuerzas y seguir luchando.<\/p>\n

That\u2019s why being tough gets tough at times. She gets tired of it and she sometimes feels lonely.<\/p>\n

Le gustar\u00eda tener a alguien en su vida en quien apoyarse tambi\u00e9n, para variar.<\/p>\n

And even though it’s not easy to be a tough girl, she would never give up on it!<\/strong><\/p>\n

Nunca sustituir\u00eda su fuerza, independencia o sabidur\u00eda por algo falso porque sabe que ha nacido para la grandeza.<\/p>\n

Nunca dejar\u00e1 de luchar hasta alcanzar todas sus metas y sue\u00f1os.<\/p>\n

She will never pretend that she is something that she’s not and the right people will praise this brave trait that only a few have.<\/p>\n

The right people will respect her and appreciate her for who she really is\u2014a tough girl with a lion’s heart that is both strong and sensitive at the same time.<\/p>\n

V\u00e9ase tambi\u00e9n: Cuando salgas con una chica de mente fuerte pero coraz\u00f3n fr\u00e1gil, debes saber esto<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n

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