{"id":75664,"date":"2020-06-01T10:27:20","date_gmt":"2020-06-01T10:27:20","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=75664"},"modified":"2021-08-12T08:48:49","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T08:48:49","slug":"como-rechazar-a-alguien-de-forma-amable-y-respetuosa","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/como-rechazar-a-alguien-de-forma-amable-y-respetuosa\/","title":{"rendered":"C\u00f3mo rechazar a alguien amable y respetuosamente: 12 textos eficaces"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Cuando se trata de citas, una de las cosas m\u00e1s frustrantes es pensar en c\u00f3mo rechazar a alguien amablemente y de forma <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">manera respetuosa<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">You&#8217;ve been on a couple of dates (or you haven\u2019t even dated) and you\u2019ve realized that you&#8217;re not really interested in further dating (or ever dating).<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">You don&#8217;t want to give them <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">falsas esperanzas<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> y tal vez le gustar\u00eda quedarse <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">s\u00f3lo amigos<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u00bfverdad?<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Ahora bien, \u00bfc\u00f3mo explicar esto a una chica o a un <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">chico amablemente<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">, sin <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">ruptura<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> el contacto por completo o sin parecer el m\u00e1s imb\u00e9cil?<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">You don&#8217;t want to give them a <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">desamor<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> with thoughtless words but you don&#8217;t want them to think there is still hope. You need to be realistic and authentic. Easier said than done, right?<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Te comprendo. Pero, oye, \u00a1no toda la esperanza est\u00e1 perdida!&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Ya sabes lo que dicen: La honestidad es la <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">mejor pol\u00edtica<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u00a1! \u00a1Aqu\u00ed tienes una lista de los textos m\u00e1s eficaces que puedes utilizar en funci\u00f3n de tu situaci\u00f3n!<\/span><\/p>\n<p><b>Nota:<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> No dudes en modificar los textos seg\u00fan tu situaci\u00f3n o estilo. Adem\u00e1s, no te olvides de consultar una lista de consejos esenciales que te ayudar\u00e1n a dominar el arte de rechazar amablemente.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 18pt;\"><strong><em>12 de las mejores plantillas de mensajes para ayudarte a rechazar a alguien amablemente<\/em><\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n<h2>1. &#8220;I&#8217;m not ready yet&#8221;<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-75717 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/couple-talking-at-the-balcony.jpg\" alt=\"mujer y hombre con mochila hablando en el balc\u00f3n\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/couple-talking-at-the-balcony.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/couple-talking-at-the-balcony-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/couple-talking-at-the-balcony-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">&#8220;Hey (someone&#8217;s name). I really enjoyed spending time with you on our <\/span><\/i><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">primera cita<\/span><\/i><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> but I&#8217;m afraid I got some <\/span><\/i><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">malas noticias<\/span><\/i><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">.<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n<p><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">I want you to know that I&#8217;m not ready for <\/span><\/i><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/horoscope\/como-saber-si-tu-relacion-va-en-serio-segun-su-signo-del-zodiaco\/\"><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">a <\/span><\/i><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">relaci\u00f3n rom\u00e1ntica<\/span><\/i><\/a><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> or anything serious yet and that&#8217;s why I think it would be wise to stop dating for the time being.&nbsp;<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n<p><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">I don&#8217;t want you to think that there&#8217;s something wrong with you because there isn&#8217;t. It&#8217;s me.<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n<p><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">I&#8217;ve got some things to sort out in my head and that&#8217;s why I cannot continue dating you. (Once I&#8217;m done with it, I&#8217;ll definitely let you know.)&#8221;<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Esta es una buena manera de rechazar a alguien amablemente porque el acento est\u00e1 en ti y no en ellos.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">La otra persona necesita saber que ella no es el problema (especialmente si es una persona realmente <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">buen chico<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> o chica y quieres seguir en contacto con ellos).&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Adem\u00e1s, este mensaje de texto es ideal para las personas indecisas (como yo), as\u00ed que he puesto la \u00faltima frase entre par\u00e9ntesis con ese fin.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">If you&#8217;re not really sure about rejecting them completely, you can add that last sentence in case you change your mind in the future.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<h2>2. &#8220;I just want to focus on my studies\/work right now&#8221;<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-75742 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/woman-using-laptop-4.jpg\" alt=\"mujer utilizando el ordenador port\u00e1til mientras est\u00e1 sentado en el cristal de la ventana\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/woman-using-laptop-4.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/woman-using-laptop-4-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/woman-using-laptop-4-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">&#8220;Hi (someone&#8217;s name). I&#8217;m sorry to disappoint you but I think you deserve to know that I can&#8217;t really date anyone right now.<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n<p><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">I just want to focus on my studies\/work at the moment, so I don&#8217;t really have time for anything else, which includes dating.<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n<p><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">I don&#8217;t want to waste your time and that&#8217;s why I&#8217;m telling you all this in advance. I hope you understand.&#8221;<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">If you&#8217;re busy with other things at the moment and you don&#8217;t have time for dating or a relationship, you should accentuate that and add that the reason why you&#8217;re telling them is that you don&#8217;t want to waste their time.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">This will show them how considerate and polite you truly are, because you care about other people&#8217;s time and feelings.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Tambi\u00e9n puedes a\u00f1adir esto al final del mensaje si te apetece: <\/span><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">I&#8217;ve got your <\/span><\/i><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">n\u00famero de tel\u00e9fono<\/span><\/i><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">, so I&#8217;ll make sure to contact you once I free myself from the shackles of obligations.<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n<h2>3. &#8220;I&#8217;m not the right girl for you&#8221;<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-75749 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/couple-sitting-on-dock.jpg\" alt=\"hombre y mujer sentados en el muelle mirando el agua\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/couple-sitting-on-dock.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/couple-sitting-on-dock-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/couple-sitting-on-dock-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">&#8220;I&#8217;ve been thinking about telling you this for days and whenever I gathered the courage to do it, something stopped me. So, I&#8217;ll be as firm as possible. I just want you to know that I&#8217;m not the right girl for you.&nbsp;<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n<p><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">At times, I can be really annoying or needy and sometimes I&#8217;m also overly excited about stupid things. There are also days when I can&#8217;t control myself and I do things on impulse.<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n<p><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Creo que deber\u00edas saber todo esto antes de que las cosas se pongan serias.<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n<p><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">You might not understand it now but trust me, you&#8217;ll thank me later.&#8221;<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Esta es la forma perfecta de dec\u00edrselo a la otra persona: <\/span><b>It&#8217;s not you, it&#8217;s me.<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> By adding all those silly things like being annoying or excited about stupid things, you&#8217;re making it less serious and therefore, less painful.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">El mensaje es pegadizo y juguet\u00f3n y, lo que es m\u00e1s importante, honesto hasta la m\u00e9dula.<\/span><\/p>\n<h2>4. &#8220;I don&#8217;t think we&#8217;re<a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/relationship\/7-signos-reveladores-pareja-perfecta\/\"> un buen partido<\/a>&#8220;<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-75767 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/couple-sitting-on-bench-8.jpg\" alt=\"hombre y mujer sentados en un banco mirando el agua\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/couple-sitting-on-bench-8.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/couple-sitting-on-bench-8-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/couple-sitting-on-bench-8-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">&#8220;Hi (someone&#8217;s name). Lately, I&#8217;ve been thinking a lot about the two of us and I concluded that we&#8217;re not really a good match. I&#8217;m into rock music, you&#8217;re into country. I&#8217;m an introvert and you&#8217;re an extrovert.&nbsp;<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n<p><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">There are plenty of other things we discussed which made me realize that we&#8217;re two extremes.<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n<p><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">I think you deserve to know how I feel about the whole thing, so I&#8217;m letting you know because I don&#8217;t want to give you <\/span><\/i><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">falsas esperanzas<\/span><\/i><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">.&#8221;<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">There will be times when you&#8217;ll meet someone who is the total opposite of you and when that happens, you shouldn&#8217;t pretend you&#8217;re okay with it (if you&#8217;re not).<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">If that is the case with you, the best way to reject them nicely is by saying that you&#8217;re not a good match.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">It&#8217;s objective and it&#8217;s your personal opinion and they cannot judge you for that or get insulted. They can only appreciate you being honest about it.<\/span><\/p>\n<h2>5. &#8220;Obligations, obligations&#8230;&#8221;<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-75770 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/woman-leaning-on-table-2.jpg\" alt=\"mujer apoyada en una mesa con libros abiertos\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/woman-leaning-on-table-2.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/woman-leaning-on-table-2-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/woman-leaning-on-table-2-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">&#8220;Hey (someone&#8217;s name). As I&#8217;m writing to you, I&#8217;m thinking about all the deadlines I need to meet this next month, my two jobs, little sister, pet, you name it.&nbsp;<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n<p><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">As you can see, I don&#8217;t have time to breathe, let alone spend some quality time with someone and I&#8217;m truly sorry for that.<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n<p><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Mi tiempo libre consiste en una o dos horas por la noche, cuando enciendo la televisi\u00f3n e intento no dormirme mientras veo algo.<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n<p><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">I wish we had met earlier or sometime in the near future when I will potentially have more free time but that&#8217;s just how things are at the moment.&#8221;<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">If the reason for rejecting someone is your tons of obligation at the moment but you&#8217;re interested in hanging out with them at some point in the near future, it&#8217;s important you tell them that.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">You need to accentuate the fact that you&#8217;re interested in hanging out but prevented from doing so at the moment.<\/span><\/p>\n<h2>6. &#8220;Broken-hearted girl\/guy&#8221;<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-75772 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/woman-sitting-outdoor-2.jpg\" alt=\"mujer con pelo rizado sentada al aire libre\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\"><\/p>\n<p><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">&#8220;I want you to know I have really enjoyed every second of your company but there&#8217;s something you need to know about me.<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n<p><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">I&#8217;m not ready for anything romantic yet because I need more time to heal my wounds from my previous <\/span><\/i><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">ruptura<\/span><\/i><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">.&nbsp;<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n<p><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">I could have continued dating you without telling you anything about it but it wouldn&#8217;t be fair toward you. <\/span><\/i><\/p>\n<p><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">That&#8217;s why I&#8217;m telling you honestly that I need more time and space to absorb and accept everything that happened in the past.&#8221;<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Rupturas<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> are tough and it&#8217;s always wise to take some time for yourself and heal before jumping into a new relationship.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Also, the other person deserves to know the truth in case they&#8217;ve already developed romantic feelings for you.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">V\u00e9ase tambi\u00e9n: <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/love\/20-cosas-que-debes-saber-para-ayudarte-a-curar-un-corazon-roto\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">20 cosas que debes saber para curar un coraz\u00f3n roto<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n<h2>7. &#8220;I&#8217;m only interested in friendship&#8221;<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-75773 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/couple-on-bench-2.jpg\" alt=\"hombre y mujer sentados en un banco de madera en el bosque\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\"><\/p>\n<p><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">&#8220;Hey (someone&#8217;s name). I was thinking about telling you this earlier but I waited to be sure about it.<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n<p><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">I want you to know that I really like you as a person and I&#8217;m interested in being friends with you but nothing more than that.&nbsp;<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n<p><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Creo sinceramente que tenemos potencial para ser <\/span><\/i><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">buenos amigos<\/span><\/i><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> but if this is something that&#8217;s too hard for you, I totally understand and respect that.&#8221;<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Esto se explica por s\u00ed mismo.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<h2>8. &#8220;Lack of chemistry or attraction&#8221;<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-75775 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/woman-standing-beside-man.jpg\" alt=\"mujer de pie junto a hombre con sombrero negro\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\"><\/p>\n<p><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">&#8220;(Someone&#8217;s name), you&#8217;re an awesome person and I&#8217;m sure you already know that. You&#8217;re kind, you&#8217;re supportive and you&#8217;re fun to hang out with.<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n<p><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">However, I&#8217;m afraid there&#8217;s no <\/span><\/i><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/love\/poderosos-signos-de-quimica\/\"><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">qu\u00edmica real<\/span><\/i><\/a><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\/attraction between us, which is the essence of every relationship. It would be awesome if we could stay friends though!&#8221;<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">If you notice a lack of chemistry or attraction, this is a serious red flag that they&#8217;re probably not a potential partner but just a potential friend.<\/span><\/p>\n<h2>9. &#8220;Travel girl\/guy&#8221;<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-75776 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/woman-standing-on-top-of-canyon.jpg\" alt=\"mujer con mochila de pie en la cima del ca\u00f1\u00f3n\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\"><\/p>\n<p><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">&#8220;Hey (someone&#8217;s name). I&#8217;m going on a trip tomorrow\/<\/span><\/i><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">pr\u00f3xima semana<\/span><\/i><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">, so I&#8217;m afraid I&#8217;ll be too busy to hang out.<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n<p><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">I guess I&#8217;m an adventure-seeker and traveling is in my blood (well, my mom told me that), so I hope you understand that and hear from you soon.&#8221;<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">This one&#8217;s my favorite. I mean, who could get mad for being rejected by a passionate traveler?&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<h2>10. &#8220;Already dating someone else&#8221;<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-75777 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/couple-sitting-at-table.jpg\" alt=\"hombre y mujer sentados a la mesa tomando caf\u00e9\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\"><\/p>\n<p><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">&#8220;I think you&#8217;re a really nice person but I&#8217;ll be straightforward with you: I&#8217;m already dating someone else. However, we could definitely stay in touch!<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n<p><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">I&#8217;m just telling you this because I don&#8217;t want to <\/span><\/i><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/fake-love\/toxic-relationship\/3-juegos-mentales-que-practican-todas-las-personas-toxicas\/\"><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">jugar<\/span><\/i><\/a><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> with you. I respect you and I think you deserve to know the truth.&#8221;<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Remember to always tell the other person if you&#8217;re already dating someone else because if you don&#8217;t, you could risk experiencing some seriously awkward situations (not to mention a broken heart).&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<h2>11. &#8220;I don&#8217;t feel the same way&#8221;<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-75778 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/man-looking-at-woman-4.jpg\" alt=\"hombre mirando a mujer sentado en un banco\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\"><\/p>\n<p><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">&#8220;You&#8217;re a really cool guy\/girl and I have enjoyed texting with you\/hanging out with you but I need to tell you that I don&#8217;t feel the same way about this whole thing.&nbsp;<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n<p><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">I rather see you as my big brother\/sister\/friend and I think you should know that, so that we can avoid any potential awkward situations or disappointments.&#8221;&nbsp;<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">By telling the other person that you don&#8217;t feel the same way, you are letting them know that things are not the way they seem.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Sometimes, people tend to overthink and misinterpret some clues, so it&#8217;s important to let them know how things stand.<\/span><\/p>\n<h2>12. &#8220;I want you to respect my feelings like I respect yours&#8221;<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-75779 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/man-sitting-beside-woman-2.jpg\" alt=\"hombre con chaqueta negra sentado junto a una mujer mirando al puente\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\"><\/p>\n<p><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">&#8220;Hey (someone&#8217;s name). I realize that you like me a lot because of all those grand gestures and the way you treat me is truly impressive. I respect your feelings but I need you to respect mine, too.<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n<p><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Pensaba que ser\u00eda capaz de corresponderte, pero cuanto m\u00e1s tiempo he pasado contigo, m\u00e1s raro me he sentido con todo este asunto.<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n<p><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">I think you&#8217;re a great person and I&#8217;m grateful for everything you&#8217;ve done for me. I respect your feelings and I hope you&#8217;ll respect mine as well.&#8221;<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">El respeto mutuo es una de las cosas m\u00e1s poderosas cuando se trata de amistades, relaciones o citas. Buscarlo en la otra persona es una de las mejores formas de rechazar a alguien de forma amable y educada.<\/span><\/p>\n<h2>C\u00f3mo rechazar a alguien amablemente: 6 consejos esenciales<\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Porque no basta con elegir al azar una plantilla de mensaje. He aqu\u00ed algunas cosas a las que debes prestar atenci\u00f3n y que te ayudar\u00e1n a rechazar a alguien en un <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">manera educada<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">:<\/span><\/p>\n<h2>1. S\u00e9 sincero contigo mismo (y con ellos)<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-75780 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/woman-sitting-at-table.jpg\" alt=\"mujer con chaqueta vaquera sentada a la mesa y pensando\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\"><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Antes de decidirte a rechazar a alguien, te sugiero que primero te preguntes si es exactamente lo que quieres en este momento.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Hacer algo por impulso es el mayor atajo para arrepentirse, as\u00ed que tienes que ser completamente sincero contigo mismo antes de decidir hacer algo al respecto.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Piensa en todos los pros y los contras de salir con ellos (o de estar con ellos en una relaci\u00f3n). Esto te ayudar\u00e1 a ver el panorama completo y a averiguar qu\u00e9 es lo que realmente quieres.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Escribe tus pensamientos en un papel para plasmarlos de forma tangible y que queden m\u00e1s claros.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">If you still want to reject that someone after you&#8217;ve done all that, then keep in mind that you should be honest with them about the real reason why you don&#8217;t want to date\/continue dating them or be with them.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">En otras palabras: S\u00f3lo <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">decir la verdad<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> pero en un bonito, <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">manera educada<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Adem\u00e1s, tenga en cuenta que el <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">lo peor<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> que podr\u00edas hacer es <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">romper<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> con alguien o dejar de salir con \u00e9l sin ninguna raz\u00f3n espec\u00edfica, s\u00f3lo para descubrir que cometiste un error.<\/span><\/p>\n<h2>2. Prep\u00e1rate para todos los resultados posibles<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-75781 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/man-looking-at-woman-5.jpg\" alt=\"hombre enfadado con camisa blanca mirando a una mujer\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\"><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">La esencia de aprender a rechazar a alguien amablemente reside en la capacidad de prepararse para todos los resultados posibles. Por resultado me refiero a su reacci\u00f3n a tu declaraci\u00f3n.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">No todos somos tan buenos aceptando el rechazo. Algunas personas se ofenden aunque las rechaces de la forma m\u00e1s negativa. <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">manera educada<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> possible and there&#8217;s nothing you can do about it.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">So, the best thing to do is prepare yourself for such a situation and think in advance about how you&#8217;re going to react if something like that happens.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">You don&#8217;t want to lose your cool and start saying things you don&#8217;t really mean just because their reaction forces you to do so (and you don&#8217;t want to involve their friends or <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">familiares<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> en \u00e9l<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">).<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Quiere evitar cualquier posible <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">torpeza<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> y quieres hacer lo de rechazar en un <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">bonita manera<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">. So, no matter what happens, don&#8217;t overreact or overthink. Stay polite and stick to what you really want and mean.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Adem\u00e1s, recuerde que incluso el peor resultado sigue siendo mejor que <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/relationship\/6-metodos-infalibles-para-hacer-frente-al-ghosting\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">fantasma<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">.<\/span><\/p>\n<h2>3. Hazlo en persona (si puedes)<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-75783 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/couple-walking-in-the-winter.jpg\" alt=\"hombre con chaqueta amarilla y mujer caminando en invierno\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/couple-walking-in-the-winter.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/couple-walking-in-the-winter-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/couple-walking-in-the-winter-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">If there&#8217;s one thing I hate most about these modern times, it&#8217;s a lack of face-to-face communication; we do everything via <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">redes sociales<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> y los mensajes de texto.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Honestly, I am waiting for the day when being \u2018in a social<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> medios de comunicaci\u00f3n<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> relationship\u2019 will become legit.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">As\u00ed que, por favor, haz lo del rechazo en persona (si puedes, claro). Si no, entonces env\u00edalo como un mensaje de texto.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">The reason why it&#8217;s better to do it face-to-face is because the other person can see your genuine facial expressions and see whether you&#8217;re being honest with them. That effect is hard to achieve via a text message. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">People tend to overthink things because they can&#8217;t hear the tone of your voice and they can&#8217;t see your face and therefore they cannot know for sure whether you&#8217;re being honest with them.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">I understand that doing it in person requires more courage than doing it via text message but the effect is not the same and that&#8217;s a fact.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<h2>4. Evitar culpar a la otra persona<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-75792 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/couple-making-eye-contact-7.jpg\" alt=\"hombre y mujer haciendo contacto visual sentados en un banco\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/couple-making-eye-contact-7.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/couple-making-eye-contact-7-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/couple-making-eye-contact-7-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">If there&#8217;s one thing you should definitely avoid doing, it&#8217;s putting blame on the other person, like with something like this: <\/span><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">I don&#8217;t want to date you because you drink\/curse too much.<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Este tipo de afirmaci\u00f3n es un ataque directo a una persona y deber\u00edas evitarlo a toda costa.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">You don&#8217;t want to make the <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">persona sentir<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> bad about the whole thing. You want them to understand what you&#8217;re trying to say to them and how you feel about it instead of blaming them for it.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Just imagine if someone told you that they didn\u2019t want to date you because you drink too much. You would instantly feel insulted and start thinking that it&#8217;s none of their business if you drink too much, right?<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Juzgar y cotillear son dos de las cosas m\u00e1s t\u00f3xicas del mundo y nunca tienen un resultado positivo.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Now imagine that someone said to you they don&#8217;t want to date you because they don&#8217;t think you&#8217;re a good match.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">It&#8217;s neutral, polite and it&#8217;s really hard to get offended by a statement like that. And that&#8217;s the effect you need to achieve when rejecting someone nicely!<\/span><\/p>\n<h2>5. Don&#8217;t wait for a right time to do it<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-75795 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/couple-standing-outdoor-7.jpg\" alt=\"hombre con chaqueta amarilla y mujer de pie al aire libre\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/couple-standing-outdoor-7.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/couple-standing-outdoor-7-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/couple-standing-outdoor-7-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Entiendo que tendr\u00e1 un <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">mal rato<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> reunir el valor para rechazarlos, pero nunca es el momento adecuado para <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">acabar con las cosas<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> con alguien.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Podr\u00edas pensar que si lo dejas para ma\u00f1ana, <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">pr\u00f3xima semana<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> or next month, things will be different. But they won&#8217;t.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">The longer you wait to do something, the more you&#8217;re <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/relationship\/7-cosas-que-pasan-cuando-rompes-el-corazon-de-una-chica-ansiosa\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">ansioso<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> about doing it (definitely speaking from experience). So, don&#8217;t wait for a right time to do it because the right time doesn&#8217;t exist.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">The right time is now. You can never know what&#8217;s going on in that person&#8217;s life at the moment, so how can you know when it is the right time for them? You cannot know, right?<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">As\u00ed, uno de los mejores <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">consejos de expertos<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> es la siguiente: Esperar el momento oportuno para hacer algo s\u00f3lo servir\u00e1 para prolongarlo.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Y prolongarlo significa darles <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">falsas esperanzas<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> when they could&#8217;ve started dating someone else instead and moved on.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Don&#8217;t wait for the right time to do it but just do it! (As Nike would say.)&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<h2>6. Don&#8217;t sugar-coat it<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-75991 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/woman-talking-to-man-1.jpg\" alt=\"mujer hablando con hombre sentada cerca del agua\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/woman-talking-to-man-1.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/woman-talking-to-man-1-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/woman-talking-to-man-1-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">If you&#8217;re one hundred percent sure about rejecting them, then don&#8217;t <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">recubrir de az\u00facar<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> cosas, es decir, d\u00e1ndoles <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">falsas esperanzas<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">If you know that you don&#8217;t want to date them ever again, don&#8217;t make them think that you might reach out to them at some point in the near future.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Merecen que se les diga la verdad en un <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">bonita manera<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">. Debes evitar los juegos mentales con ellos porque, si lo haces, seguir\u00e1n viviendo en una ilusi\u00f3n, pensando todav\u00eda que las cosas van bien.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">En lugar de eso, deber\u00edas aprender a rechazar a alguien de forma amable y honesta.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<h2>Como ya se ha dicho: La honestidad es la mejor pol\u00edtica<\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Rejecting someone is one of the hardest things to do but it&#8217;s necessary for both your happiness and the other person&#8217;s. If you feel like it&#8217;s something you should do, you shouldn&#8217;t prolong it any further.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Decirles c\u00f3mo te sientes sobre todo el asunto te har\u00e1 sentir mejor y ser\u00e1 beneficioso para ambos a largo plazo. Todo el mundo merece ser feliz y, a veces, el rechazo es el primer paso para conseguirlo.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">V\u00e9ase tambi\u00e9n: <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/relationship\/9-signos-le-gusta-el-rechazo-miedo\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">9 se\u00f1ales de que le gustas (pero tiene miedo al rechazo)<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-75989 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/How-To-Reject-Someone-Nicely-And-Respectfully-12-Effective-Texts-Pinterest.jpg\" alt=\"C\u00f3mo rechazar a alguien de forma amable y respetuosa 12 textos eficaces\" width=\"1000\" height=\"1500\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/How-To-Reject-Someone-Nicely-And-Respectfully-12-Effective-Texts-Pinterest.jpg 1000w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/How-To-Reject-Someone-Nicely-And-Respectfully-12-Effective-Texts-Pinterest-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/How-To-Reject-Someone-Nicely-And-Respectfully-12-Effective-Texts-Pinterest-683x1024.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/How-To-Reject-Someone-Nicely-And-Respectfully-12-Effective-Texts-Pinterest-768x1152.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1000px) 100vw, 1000px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>When it comes to dating, one of the most frustrating things is thinking about how to reject someone nicely and in a respectful way.&nbsp; You&#8217;ve been on a couple of dates (or you haven\u2019t even dated) and you\u2019ve realized that you&#8217;re not really interested in further dating (or ever dating). You don&#8217;t want to give&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":53,"featured_media":75707,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29614],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-75664","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-love-talks"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29614,"label":"love talks"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/How-To-Reject-Someone-Nicely-And-Respectfully-12-Effective-Texts.jpg",800,534,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Ariel Quinn","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/ariel\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29614,"name":"love talks","slug":"love-talks","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29614,"taxonomy":"category","description":"What is love? 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