{"id":7599,"date":"2020-04-27T10:30:30","date_gmt":"2020-04-27T10:30:30","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=7599"},"modified":"2021-08-11T20:51:00","modified_gmt":"2021-08-11T20:51:00","slug":"7-maneras-de-amar-de-las-ninas-narcisistas-rotas","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/7-maneras-de-amar-de-las-ninas-narcisistas-rotas\/","title":{"rendered":"7 Maneras en que las ni\u00f1as rotas por narcisistas aman de manera diferente"},"content":{"rendered":"

Apuesto a que pensabas que estabas en el la historia de amor m\u00e1s rom\u00e1ntica de tu vida<\/a> cuando lo conociste.<\/p>\n

Te roz\u00f3 y congeniaste o te bes\u00f3 y tu mundo dio un vuelco en un santiam\u00e9n.<\/p>\n

Ca\u00edste bajo su control. Eras suyo.<\/p>\n

But that love story didn\u2019t last for long and it most certainly didn\u2019t have a happy ending.<\/p>\n

It took him a long time to lose the mask he put on for his one-man show to impress you, or maybe it\u2019s better to say for his hunt where he captured you in his cruel trap.<\/p>\n

\"hombre<\/p>\n

He was so addictive. You even knew he wasn\u2019t good for you, but you couldn\u2019t stop. You needed a fix of him and you kept coming back.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Era tan absorbente y convincente. Sus mentiras eran tan buenas que rozaban la fantas\u00eda.<\/p>\n

His story of his \u2018crazy\u2019 ex-girlfriend was so real that you believed every part of it until you later found out that she was only a victim the same as you were.<\/p>\n

Te consumi\u00f3 lentamente. Lentamente prepar\u00f3 la escena como le conven\u00eda. Necesitaba que las cosas fueran a su manera antes de atacar.<\/p>\n

Fingi\u00f3 inter\u00e9s por ti y, a pesar de su egocentrismo, fingi\u00f3 que te hab\u00eda convertido en el centro de su mundo.<\/p>\n

Quer\u00eda que sintieras que significabas el mundo para \u00e9l, as\u00ed que empezaste a confiar en \u00e9l.<\/p>\n

\"pareja<\/p>\n

Una vez que confiabas en \u00e9l, el resto era un juego f\u00e1cil. Te ten\u00eda en sus garras. Eras impotente.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Te aisl\u00f3 de tus amigos y de tu familia porque te convenci\u00f3 de que \u00e9l era lo \u00fanico que necesitabas y quer\u00edas en tu vida.<\/p>\n

Cuando por fin consigui\u00f3 que te sintieras solo en este mundo, atac\u00f3.<\/p>\n

The mask was off and suddenly this nightmare of yours became real. A little part of your hell became your reality and you couldn\u2019t escape it. <\/strong><\/p>\n

You couldn\u2019t just wake up. It was real – it was happening.<\/strong><\/p>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

These things became your everyday life. You couldn\u2019t escape it. He assured you that you were the crazy one.<\/p>\n

Torci\u00f3 tu memoria, tu identidad y borr\u00f3 tu autoestima. Eras una chica vac\u00eda a la que \u00e9l hab\u00eda alimentado con su retorcida versi\u00f3n de lo que era correcto. Y t\u00fa le cre\u00edste.<\/p>\n

But everything has an expiration date, and so does this nightmare. So many lies got to you in one place in a short period of time and they left a huge impact – they made a huge BOOM!<\/p>\n

Te quedaste roto y solo<\/a>, but finally free. You are now the girl who still knows how to love but you love differently\u2026<\/p>\n

No tienes ni idea de lo que es el verdadero amor<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Tal vez tuvo una visi\u00f3n de lo que deber\u00eda haber sido al principio. Hizo lo correcto al principio, pero todo era mentira.<\/p>\n

It wasn\u2019t because he loved you, it was because he wanted to lure you, to imprison you and destroy you. You never felt real love with him.<\/p>\n

Now that you have met the right man, you don\u2019t know how to act around him. You doubt him and this unknown love you\u2019re receiving.<\/p>\n

Crees que todo es una gran farsa, una mentira que te costar\u00e1 m\u00e1s tarde. Su amor te confunde y tardas en relajarte y abrirte a aceptar algo que te merec\u00edas desde el principio.<\/a><\/p>\n

Tiene problemas de confianza<\/h2>\n

\"pareja<\/p>\n

You didn\u2019t have a voice of your own in your previous relationship. You were just an outline and he held the brush to fill you in with the colors he chose.<\/p>\n

You hated those colors, but you couldn\u2019t erase them until you took control, until you took the brush and repainted yourself.<\/p>\n

Segu\u00edas temiendo que te obligaran a revivirlo todo desde el principio.<\/p>\n

No hab\u00eda confianza. Tu \u00faltima relaci\u00f3n se bas\u00f3 en mentiras.<\/p>\n

It will take time for you to trust someone again, but your new man knows that. That\u2019s why he gives you all the space you need.<\/p>\n

That\u2019s why he doesn\u2019t want to be hurt by the things you do out of fear. He knows you need time to heal and he will be there for you. He will wait for you because he loves you.<\/p>\n

Este es el cap\u00edtulo de mi new book “On getting over a narcissist “<\/a> disponible en Amazon aqu\u00ed<\/a> .<\/div>\n

You want to destroy everything that\u2019s good<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

You subconsciously destroy your chance of happiness. You try to sabotage the only real relationship you\u2019ve ever had.<\/p>\n

Intentas ahuyentar al \u00fanico hombre que te ha amado de verdad.<\/p>\n

The fact he seems perfect scares you because the narcissistic bastard was also perfect, even too perfect, and you ended up in the lowest pit of your life\u2019s journey.<\/p>\n

You try to ruin your relationship now because you can\u2019t accept the fact that something good is happening to you.<\/p>\n

You were poisoned for too long and you are unable to accept that there\u2019s a clean and healthy life waiting for you.<\/p>\n

Te disculpas por todo<\/h2>\n

\"la<\/p>\n

Estabas acostumbrado a llevar todo el peso de la relaci\u00f3n. Estabas acostumbrado a ser el culpable todo el tiempo.<\/p>\n

You actually thought everything was your fault. You were in dead-end situations, where you didn\u2019t know how to react properly, so you reached for an apology every time.<\/p>\n

Era lo \u00fanico que sab\u00edas que aceptar\u00eda.<\/p>\n

The man who truly loves you doesn\u2019t let you apologize all the time. The man who\u2019s trying to show you real love is ready to confess when he is wrong. He is ready to say, \u201cI\u2019m sorry.\u201d<\/p>\n

You\u2019re distant<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Te llevar\u00e1 tiempo dejarte llevar y confiar en alguien.<\/a> Mantendr\u00e1s las distancias porque a\u00fan est\u00e1s dolida y no est\u00e1s segura de que ese chico sea el adecuado.<\/p>\n

You\u2019ve been beaten and you still ache. You don\u2019t want to ache any more.<\/p>\n

Your heart is telling you it\u2019s okay and that you should allow him to get near you, but your mind keeps running away.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t worry. That period won\u2019t last forever. He won\u2019t let it last.<\/p>\n

He will fight with everything he\u2019s got to prove himself and to gain your trust. He will tie you gently with his love and you won\u2019t be able to escape. He won\u2019t let you.<\/p>\n

You are waiting for a \u2018boom\u2019<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

There won\u2019t be any. You are insecure because things are running smoothly.<\/p>\n

He is the most wonderful man you\u2019ve ever met and he keeps showering you with all the love and attention you deserve.<\/p>\n

Nunca se detiene. S\u00f3lo est\u00e1s esperando que las mentiras reboten hacia ti. Est\u00e1s esperando un tsunami de mentiras malvadas y manipuladoras, pero no hay ning\u00fan tsunami frente a ti.<\/p>\n

Todo lo que ves es un cielo despejado y un mar en calma.<\/p>\n

You keep your guard up because you are careful and scared. You\u2019ve built a wall around you, which he will tear down with his love to find you to cherish and nourish back to health.<\/p>\n

Este es el cap\u00edtulo de mi new book “On getting over a narcissist “<\/a> disponible en Amazon aqu\u00ed<\/a> .<\/p>\n

Necesitas sentirte seguro<\/h2>\n

\"hombre<\/p>\n

Necesitas una promesa de que todo va a ir bien.<\/p>\n

You need him to make you believe that and it\u2019s hard because you have difficulties believing and you know it\u2019s not easy for him either.<\/p>\n

Necesitas un lugar seguro donde te quieran y donde finalmente puedas corresponder al amor.<\/p>\n

Le necesitas porque tienes todo ese amor que dar. Le necesitas para espantar el miedo y, con tu ayuda, abrir un nuevo cap\u00edtulo de tu vida y de vuestra vida en com\u00fan.<\/p>\n

He knows you love differently, that\u2019s why he loves you even more. You might have been broken when he met you, but you won\u2019t be for much longer.<\/em><\/p>\n

\"7<\/p>\n

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