{"id":76114,"date":"2020-06-01T10:30:12","date_gmt":"2020-06-01T10:30:12","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=76114"},"modified":"2021-08-30T13:57:27","modified_gmt":"2021-08-30T13:57:27","slug":"esperaba-el-mismo-amor-que-di","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/esperaba-el-mismo-amor-que-di\/","title":{"rendered":"Esperaba el mismo amor que daba y ah\u00ed me equivoqu\u00e9"},"content":{"rendered":"

Me and my expectations. I swear one of these days, they are going to kill me. My expectations already hurt me so many times but I still don’t know how to let them go.<\/span><\/p>\n

Tengo que aprender a dejar de esperar que los dem\u00e1s me quieran como yo a ellos. Tengo que dejar de esperar que los dem\u00e1s hagan por m\u00ed lo que yo hago por ellos.<\/b><\/p>\n

El dolor despu\u00e9s de perderte era tan profundo, pero el dolor de la esperanza rota de las expectativas era a\u00fan m\u00e1s profundo. <\/span><\/p>\n

That’s why I don’t blame you for my broken heart anymore. I blame <\/span>mis propias expectativas<\/span><\/a>. Me culpo a m\u00ed misma. Esperaba que me quisieras tanto como yo a ti.<\/span><\/p>\n

He aprendido que debo ir a por todas sin ning\u00fan apego al resultado. Algunas cosas simplemente tienen que ser.<\/span><\/p>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

No matter how much I hope for something else and something better to happen, the outcome won\u2019t change.<\/span><\/p>\n

Una de esas cosas era nuestra relaci\u00f3n. Yo era el que siempre amaba m\u00e1s en nuestra relaci\u00f3n.<\/span><\/p>\n

That’s why I was always at greater risk of getting hurt. That’s why I was the one who ended up with a broken heart.  <\/b><\/p>\n

Siempre esper\u00e9 que <\/span>it\u2019d change<\/span><\/a>. That you\u2019d understand what kind of a woman you had by your side and that you\u2019d be scared to lose me. The truth is that you can\u2019t change someone’s feelings by loving them harder. <\/span><\/p>\n

Realmente pens\u00e9 que mi amor ser\u00eda una buena raz\u00f3n para que cambiaras. Ahora, me culpo por creer que un hombre como t\u00fa podr\u00eda cambiar. Que un inmaduro como t\u00fa estaba listo para comprometerse y sentar cabeza.<\/span><\/p>\n

I loved you with all my heart but unfortunately, our hearts weren\u2019t the same and you couldn’t reciprocate such strong and deep feelings.<\/b><\/p>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

You weren’t ready for that kind of love and it seems like I couldn’t come to terms with it for a long time. I wanted you to love me as much as I loved you but that was impossible.<\/span><\/p>\n

Sab\u00eda qui\u00e9n eras cuando me enamor\u00e9 de ti. Que hicieras bromas y parecieras tan infantil todo el tiempo, que fueras tan ingenuo y puro fue lo que me atrajo en primer lugar.<\/span><\/p>\n

Con el tiempo, quise algo m\u00e1s. Algo m\u00e1s serio.<\/span><\/p>\n

Quer\u00eda que me demostraras que ten\u00edas algunos objetivos en la vida y que sab\u00edas lo que quer\u00edas de la vida; al menos, que me dijeras que me quer\u00edas en tu vida.<\/b><\/p>\n

Cuando me di cuenta de que estaba lista para algo m\u00e1s serio, te pregunt\u00e9 cu\u00e1les eran tus intenciones, d\u00f3nde nos ve\u00edas. Dijiste que estabas disfrutando de mi compa\u00f1\u00eda.<\/span><\/p>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

ENJOYING MY COMPANY? That’s all?<\/span><\/p>\n

Me decepcionaste. Su respuesta me destroz\u00f3. <\/span><\/p>\n

You didn’t even bother to ask me the same question back, to ask me how I felt about you. <\/span>Claro, yo tambi\u00e9n disfrutaba de tu compa\u00f1\u00eda, pero hab\u00eda algo m\u00e1s.<\/span><\/p>\n

Mis sentimientos eran profundos y los tuyos nunca pasaron de la fase de gustar. <\/span>I loved you more than you’ll ever know.<\/span><\/p>\n

From that point on, I had to learn to let go of the idea that you and I had a future. That your, \u201cI enjoy your company,\u201d line was the wake-up call I needed to snap out of my fantasies about our future. <\/span><\/p>\n

Aprend\u00ed por las malas que era mejor preguntar que suponer. Supongo que me equivoqu\u00e9<\/span> por querer que me quisieras tanto como yo a ti.<\/span><\/p>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

True love is selfless. True love doesn\u2019t really need reciprocation. It needs acceptance. I will never again love somebody and hope that I’ll get the same love in return. <\/span><\/p>\n

Tengo que aprender a tener cero expectativas, porque cero expectativas equivale a cero decepciones.<\/b><\/p>\n

I’ll have to work on <\/span>mis expectativas<\/span><\/a> antes de seguir adelante. Tengo que estar lista para el pr\u00f3ximo chico que entre en mi vida. <\/span><\/p>\n

I’ll learn how to let it go. I won’t let my expectations break my heart ever again. From now on, I’ll believe in fate and the universe only.<\/b><\/p>\n

What\u2019s meant to be will be and whatever we do, we can never change it.<\/b><\/p>\n

\"Esperaba<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Me and my expectations. I swear one of these days, they are going to kill me. My expectations already hurt me so many times but I still don’t know how to let them go. I really have to learn to stop expecting other people to love me like I do them. I have to stop…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":40,"featured_media":76115,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29619],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-76114","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-stories-love"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29619,"label":"stories"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/I-Expected-The-Same-Love-I-Gave-And-Thats-Where-I-Went-Wrong.jpg",800,534,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tara Brown","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/tara-brown\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29619,"name":"stories","slug":"stories-love","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29619,"taxonomy":"category","description":"To all the souls struggling with complicated love experiences: These heartfelt stories about love, heartbreak, and moving on will be your voice of wisdom.","parent":38,"count":424,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29619,"category_count":424,"category_description":"To all the souls struggling with complicated love experiences: These heartfelt stories about love, heartbreak, and moving on will be your voice of wisdom.","cat_name":"stories","category_nicename":"stories-love","category_parent":38}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/76114","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/40"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=76114"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/76114\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/76115"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=76114"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=76114"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=76114"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}