{"id":7613,"date":"2020-10-27T10:49:03","date_gmt":"2020-10-27T10:49:03","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=7613"},"modified":"2021-12-20T18:00:00","modified_gmt":"2021-12-20T18:00:00","slug":"4-firma-el-acuerdo-del-hombre-toxico","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/4-firma-el-acuerdo-del-hombre-toxico\/","title":{"rendered":"4 se\u00f1ales de que est\u00e1s con un hombre t\u00f3xico y c\u00f3mo tratar con \u00e9l"},"content":{"rendered":"

1. Es un maestro de la manipulaci\u00f3n.<\/span><\/h2>\n

Si constantemente tienes la sensaci\u00f3n que usted es el \u00fanico que invierte en su relaci\u00f3n<\/a>entonces lo m\u00e1s probable es que tengas raz\u00f3n. Act\u00faa como si las cosas debieran ser as\u00ed y t\u00fa le debieras algo.<\/p>\n

He\u2019ll make you believe that everything he says is true. He\u2019ll make you feel guilty even if you know you are not the one to blame. He is so good at manipulation you can\u2019t even detect it. And the reason you can\u2019t see it is because you care too much and you are just too close to see the whole picture.<\/p>\n

The first thing you have to realize is that you don\u2019t owe him anything. If you keep some distance even for a while, you will see that he is not the God-sent gift to you and that he is not all-knowing. Don\u2019t let him use the fact that you care about him to manipulate you.<\/em><\/p>\n

2. Tienes que demostrar tu amor.<\/span><\/h2>\n

Constantemente te pone en situaciones en las que tienes que elegir entre \u00e9l y otra persona u otra cosa. Y de alguna manera siempre sentir\u00e1s la necesidad de elegirlo a \u00e9l y eso es exactamente lo que \u00e9l quiere.<\/p>\n

He\u2019ll say things like: \u201cYou don\u2019t really love me if you would rather spend the night with your friends than with me.\u201d \u201cI think you look your best when you wear casual clothes. Who are you dressing up for then? Isn\u2019t my opinion the most important?\u201d<\/p>\n

Everything you do that doesn\u2019t involve him, or is contrary to something he believes, makes him feel bad and insecure. So he constantly seeks proof of your love.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t fall into this trap.<\/a> You have to have things you do for you. You have to have your own friends and spend time with them. You can have a need to dress up and look pretty to make yourself happy. Let him know that you are important too and you don\u2019t have to agree with everything he says.<\/em><\/p>\n

3. Tiene cambios de humor repentinos.<\/span><\/h2>\n

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Tendr\u00e1 momentos en los que sea tan amable y cari\u00f1oso y, en cuesti\u00f3n de segundos, se volver\u00e1 mezquino y desagradable contigo. Un d\u00eda dar\u00e1 lo mejor de s\u00ed mismo, pero al d\u00eda siguiente te preguntar\u00e1s qu\u00e9 has hecho para enfadarle (o qu\u00e9 has hecho para que se enfade). ignorar tus textos<\/a>).<\/p>\n

The usual answer when you ask him what\u2019s wrong will be, \u201cNothing. All good!\u201d and you can feel that it\u2019s everything but good. You\u2019ll know that the behavior is uncalled for but you will justify it anyway and you will do your best to make him feel better.<\/p>\n

Let go of the need to indulge him. He is so used to you trying to cheer him up in these situations. The best thing you can do is go – take a walk and return when things settle. Don\u2019t let him make something out of nothing. If something is really not OK, he should say it aloud like a real man; you are not a mind reader.<\/em><\/p>\n

4. Lo siento no es una palabra de su diccionario.<\/span><\/h2>\n

He\u2019ll make you say, \u201cI am sorry\u201d as many times as necessary, even for something you don\u2019t have to be sorry for. He is good at inflicting guilt. Pero cuando esperas sus disculpas, esperas en vano.<\/a><\/p>\n

His ego doesn\u2019t allow him to apologize or admit that he has done something wrong. He would rather lie and spin the story his way than apologize.<\/p>\n

So, don\u2019t spend your precious energy expecting him to behave differently. Simply move on, but without him. Don\u2019t get too involved in discussions but don\u2019t give up on the truth either. He probably cares more about being right than being happy.<\/em><\/p>\n

Las cosas enumeradas anteriormente son las m\u00e1s comunes que suceden cuando est\u00e1s tratando con un hombre t\u00f3xico. Su arma principal es la manipulaci\u00f3n y puede tener muchas variedades diferentes, as\u00ed que ten cuidado y abre los ojos.<\/p>\n

If he is getting desperate in his manipulations, that\u2019s because he needs something from you and not the other way around. He probably needs to feel your love. He seeks your approval. He needs you so he can feel better about himself.<\/p>\n

You can stay or you can walk away, the decision is up to you; just make sure you don\u2019t regret it. Make sure that you don\u2019t suffer because you love him. The price you pay shouldn\u2019t be too high.<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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