{"id":76196,"date":"2020-06-01T10:32:03","date_gmt":"2020-06-01T10:32:03","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=76196"},"modified":"2022-04-01T10:22:05","modified_gmt":"2022-04-01T10:22:05","slug":"estas-exactamente-donde-necesitas-estar-ahora-mismo","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/estas-exactamente-donde-necesitas-estar-ahora-mismo\/","title":{"rendered":"Conf\u00eda en m\u00ed, est\u00e1s exactamente donde necesitas estar ahora mismo"},"content":{"rendered":"

Puede que en este momento te sientas confuso, perdido o infeliz, pero cr\u00e9eme en una cosa: \u00a1est\u00e1s exactamente donde tienes que estar ahora mismo! <\/span><\/p>\n

You are the result of four billion years of evolutionary success. You spent nine months in your mother’s womb, you gave your parents teenage nightmares, you cried, you laughed, you loved, you lived. <\/span><\/p>\n

Cuando se combinan, todos esos momentos crean un bello cuadro llamado vida.<\/span><\/p>\n

Life is a mosaic of moments and paths. Every moment you have experienced and every path you’ve chosen taught you <\/i><\/b>valiosas lecciones<\/i><\/b><\/a>. <\/i><\/b>And that’s how you got here. <\/span><\/p>\n

Eres el resultado de altibajos, un <\/span>serie de acontecimientos<\/span> y experiencias que han dado forma a su <\/span>estado de \u00e1nimo<\/span>. Eres el resultado de tu propio y \u00fanico viaje llamado VIDA.<\/span><\/p>\n

Everything you’ve been through has shaped you into the person you’re ought to become and brought you where you need to be right now!<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

A menudo olvidamos que la vida no son s\u00f3lo momentos felices que compartimos con nuestros <\/span>seres queridos<\/span>. La vida es mucho m\u00e1s que eso; es tanto momentos felices como <\/span>tiempos oscuros<\/span>. <\/span><\/p>\n

The reason why we often think that we’re not where we’re supposed to be at the moment is that we don’t want to accept the other, darker, more challenging side of our life. <\/span><\/p>\n

Cuando encontramos el trabajo perfecto, pensamos: <\/span>This is exactly where I’m supposed to be at the moment.<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n

Pero si nos despiden, pensamos: <\/span>I’m doing something wrong. This cannot be something I’m supposed to be experiencing at the moment. <\/span><\/i><\/p>\n

When we meet the love of our life, we’re excited, grateful and happy. But when we break up with someone, we’re hurt, bitter and <\/span>infeliz<\/span><\/a>. <\/span><\/p>\n

We get convinced that whenever something bad happens, it’s definitely not something that should be happening to us. We start thinking that we’re on the wrong track and nothing will ever be the same for us.<\/span><\/p>\n

Sin embargo, lo que olvidamos es lo siguiente: <\/span>Los retos y las dificultades nos hacen m\u00e1s fuertes, m\u00e1s audaces y m\u00e1s resistentes. <\/b>Olvidamos que si queremos ver el arco iris, tenemos que aguantar la lluvia.<\/span><\/p>\n

Every single challenge or hardship you’re going through right now will help you grow into who you are meant to be!<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Si hace poco que has roto con alguien, puede que sientas que se te ha acabado el mundo (sobre todo si a\u00fan sientes algo por esa persona). La raz\u00f3n por la que puedes sentirte as\u00ed es la comparaci\u00f3n.<\/span><\/p>\n

When we meet someone special and start dating them, our life becomes a few shades brighter and we’re feeling like: <\/span>This is it! I’m totally happy and I don’t want this to ever end. <\/span><\/i><\/p>\n

We start believing that we’re exactly where we need to be. <\/span><\/p>\n

However, when we break up with someone, we instantly see it as a mistake, as something that shouldn’t have happened. Just because we’re unhappy at the moment, we start believing that we’re not where we need to be. <\/span><\/p>\n

Como se ha dicho, esto ocurre por comparaci\u00f3n. Tendemos a comparar nuestro pasado feliz con el <\/span>momento presente<\/span> where we’re feeling unhappy.<\/span><\/p>\n

We start feeling like our world has just ended because we’re not in the same state as we used to be.<\/span><\/p>\n

However, maybe that’s exactly where you NEED to be!<\/b><\/p>\n

Imagina una vida sin dolor, l\u00e1grimas o cualquier otro <\/span>emoci\u00f3n negativa<\/span><\/a>. Si vivi\u00e9ramos en un mundo tan perfecto, \u00bfser\u00edamos capaces de diferenciar entre lo positivo y lo negativo? \u00bfEntre la felicidad y la tristeza?<\/span><\/p>\n

I don’t think so. <\/span><\/p>\n

Si todo en nuestra vida fuera como la seda, nunca sabr\u00edamos lo que se siente cuando el mundo se desmorona. Y lo peor de todo, nunca tendr\u00edamos la oportunidad de aprender de nuestros errores y elecciones. <\/span><\/p>\n

If we lived in the promised land of milk and honey, we would never be able to appreciate any of it. We would take it for granted and see it as something that’s supposed to be so. <\/span><\/p>\n

However, when life surprises us from time to time with challenges and battles, we’re always ready. We don’t live with a stagnant <\/span>estado de \u00e1nimo<\/span> but an active one! And that’s the real beauty of it.<\/span><\/p>\n

La vida es una batalla eterna y nosotros somos un soldado que lucha por su propia felicidad.<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Cada d\u00eda se compone de miles de momentos que moldean y desaf\u00edan nuestra forma de pensar, nuestros principios y nuestras creencias. Esos d\u00edas se convierten en meses, los meses en a\u00f1os y los a\u00f1os en el viaje llamado vida.<\/span><\/p>\n

En el proceso de todo eso, est\u00e1s exactamente donde tienes que estar cada segundo, cada d\u00eda. Y s\u00e9 que uno de los <\/span>lo m\u00e1s dif\u00edcil<\/span> \u00a1en la vida es cre\u00e9rselo!<\/span><\/p>\n

I used to believe that I was not on the right track because my life was falling apart before my own eyes (or that’s what I thought). I felt helpless, hurt and broken. <\/span><\/p>\n

I was stuck in a toxic relationship for years and I’ve been fighting anxiety ever since and experiencing severe panic attacks on a daily basis. In between all that, I was trying to finish college and stay sane, at least partially.<\/span><\/p>\n

I was convinced that this was redemption for the sins of my ancestors because I can’t remember a single time I did something terribly wrong to someone to be punished that way. And the key word is: <\/span>CASTIGADO.<\/b><\/p>\n

Todas esas cosas por las que estaba pasando en ese momento, las ve\u00eda como un castigo. En general, todo lo malo que me ha pasado lo catalogar\u00eda como un castigo por algo. \u00bfPero por qu\u00e9? Exactamente. <\/span><\/p>\n

No me di cuenta de que mi hip\u00f3tesis era totalmente err\u00f3nea porque estaba demasiado ocupada en arreglar las cosas y preocuparme por qu\u00e9 me pasaban a m\u00ed que no me di cuenta de que en realidad ten\u00eda un <\/span>buena vida<\/span>. <\/span><\/p>\n

Ten\u00eda gente que se preocupaba por m\u00ed, ten\u00eda casa y comida y, en general, estaba sano (si excluimos la ansiedad, claro).<\/span><\/p>\n

No me di cuenta de que estaba en el camino del autodescubrimiento y el desarrollo personal.<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Tard\u00e9 un tiempo en darme cuenta de las dos cosas siguientes: Vemos lo que queremos ver y creemos lo que queremos creer. <\/span><\/p>\n

I believed that I wasn’t exactly where I was supposed to be at that moment because I couldn’t find any single silver lining. Ve\u00eda mi relaci\u00f3n t\u00f3xica y la ansiedad como cosas \u00fanicamente destructivas<\/a>.<\/span><\/p>\n

And do you know what I think of that today? Today, I’ve realized that all this time I was exactly where I needed to be.<\/span><\/p>\n

Cambi\u00e9 mi perspectiva y empec\u00e9 a ver las cosas desde una perspectiva diferente y m\u00e1s brillante. Por fin comprend\u00ed que mi relaci\u00f3n t\u00f3xica era para m\u00ed la mayor lecci\u00f3n que ten\u00eda que aprender para ser m\u00e1s sabia en el futuro. <\/span><\/p>\n

The reason why I was stuck in such a relationship was that I was living in a delusional world, thinking that I didn’t deserve anything better. Once I decided to <\/span>avanzar<\/span>Finalmente encontr\u00e9 mi <\/span>verdadero yo<\/span>!<\/span><\/p>\n

Para el <\/span>primera vez<\/span> in my life, I realized that all that time, I had been taking myself for granted and if it weren’t for that toxic relationship, I would probably be continuing to live in my own bubble. <\/span><\/p>\n

No me di cuenta de que estaba en el camino de descubrir la autoestima y <\/i><\/b>amor propio<\/i><\/b><\/a>.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

Regarding my anxiety, you’re probably wondering how I can justify that. Where is the silver lining in being an anxious human being? <\/span><\/p>\n

Well, there is. And it’s right in front of you. My anxious <\/span>estado de \u00e1nimo<\/span> ha cambiado mucho mi perspectiva de las cosas y me ha ayudado a evolucionar como escritor y artista abstracto. <\/span><\/p>\n

So, instead of cursing my destiny and begging to be a regular human being without any flaws, I’m actually grateful for it.<\/span><\/p>\n

Because I know I’m exactly where I need to be right now. I know if I hadn’t gone through all those things in the past, I wouldn’t have become who I am today. <\/span><\/p>\n

Life is never black or white. It’s always in a thousand shades of gray.<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

La vida es un proceso. La vida no consiste en tenerlo todo bajo control, ser feliz 24\/7, tener un sueldo de seis cifras, un coche caro, lo que sea. <\/span><\/p>\n

Life is what happens in the process of all that. If we focus on only one thing and that is buying that one expensive car, we’ll start living in our own artificial bubble, ignoring everything else around us. <\/span><\/p>\n

When we realize that we can’t afford that car anytime soon, we’ll start feeling like we aren’t where we’re supposed to be at the moment. <\/span><\/p>\n

When we put our happiness in other people’s hands or in the hands of things that are supposed to make us happy, we unwittingly start making ourself unhappy.<\/span><\/p>\n

Porque la vida nunca es blanca o negra. La vida no consiste en poseer cosas, tener un cuerpo o un pelo perfectos, tener perfiles perfectos en <\/span>redes sociales<\/span> etc.<\/span><\/p>\n

Just because you don’t have everything you always wanted at the moment, this doesn’t mean you’re not where you need to be. <\/span><\/p>\n

La vida es un proceso. Nunca est\u00e1 estancada. Si tuvieras la oportunidad de conseguir todas y cada una de las cosas que sue\u00f1as tener, \u00bfcrees que estar\u00edas exactamente donde tienes que estar?<\/span><\/p>\n

Tus l\u00e1grimas corriendo por tu cara, tu sonrisa, tus esperanzas y tus sue\u00f1os forman parte de TI y forman parte del AHORA. <\/b><\/p>\n

No matter how hard it is to believe that you are exactly where you need to be right now, trust me, you are. \u2018After every storm comes a rainbow\u2019. And that’s the real beauty of the process called life.<\/span><\/p>\n

Lo bonito es que el a\u00f1o que viene, por estas mismas fechas, ser\u00e1s completamente diferente (mental y f\u00edsicamente).<\/span><\/p>\n

Puede que haya dejado su trabajo actual y haya encontrado algo m\u00e1s satisfactorio, puede que haya encontrado una nueva afici\u00f3n que le da muchas alegr\u00edas.<\/span><\/p>\n

Puede que hayas conocido a un nuevo novio o novia que ser\u00e1 perfecto para ti. Puede que hayas hecho del mundo un lugar mejor con un invento inspirador que mejorar\u00e1 nuestras vidas. <\/span><\/p>\n

Puede que se haya convertido en padre o madre, que haya planeado su boda con su <\/span>fianc\u00e9<\/span> o puede que hayas roto con alguien con quien est\u00e1s ahora mismo. Y a\u00fan as\u00ed, estar\u00e1s exactamente donde necesitas estar. \u00bfPor qu\u00e9? <\/span><\/p>\n

Because life is never black or white. It’s always in a thousand shades of gray that are meant to be praised and discovered.<\/span><\/p>\n

Those shades are what make you who you are and there’s only one YOU in the whole wide world. Therefore, you are special and unique and you are exactly where you need to be!<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

If all of your friends are married or in a relationship and you’re still single, this doesn’t mean that you’re doing something wrong. If all of your close friends have jobs and you still don’t, this doesn’t mean you never will.<\/span><\/p>\n

Everyone’s path is different. Some people find their soulmate earlier than others and this doesn’t mean they’re on the right or wrong path.<\/span><\/p>\n

Algunas personas maduran antes y otras necesitan m\u00e1s tiempo, lecciones y experiencia. Lo que importa es el proceso y no el resultado final. <\/span><\/p>\n

What matters is the fact that you’re trying your best every single day and that you’re converting all the negativity into something meaningful and positive.<\/span><\/p>\n

Lo que importa es su optimismo y su determinaci\u00f3n para <\/b>nunca te rindas, pase lo que pase<\/b><\/a>.<\/b><\/p>\n

\u2018Cuando la vida te da limones, haz limonada<\/a>!\u2019 When you live each day as if it is your last helping those in need and making your <\/span>seres queridos<\/span> smile, then you know you’re doing your best.<\/span><\/p>\n

Entonces sabr\u00e1s que est\u00e1s exactamente donde tienes que estar. Un abrazo c\u00e1lido, una palabra amable y una mentalidad positiva son lo que da sentido a tu vida y la enriquece. <\/span><\/p>\n

No matter what you’re going through at the moment, there is always something positive in every situation. Your life is not a collection of ups and downs; it is a process that has brought you where you are.<\/span><\/p>\n

S\u00ed, podr\u00edas haber hecho las cosas de otra manera, podr\u00edas haber evitado decir ciertas palabras a los dem\u00e1s o podr\u00edas haber encontrado el valor para afrontar y hacer las cosas que te daban miedo. <\/span><\/p>\n

But there are reasons why you didn’t. There’s a reason behind your every thought, word and action and that reason is what makes you <\/span>qui\u00e9n eres<\/span>.<\/span><\/p>\n

There’s a reason why you’re exactly where you are right now and not someplace else!<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Tus elecciones, tus pensamientos y tus acciones te han llevado exactamente a donde necesitas estar ahora. Si miras hacia atr\u00e1s en la cadena de todos los acontecimientos anteriores, \u00a1tambi\u00e9n te dar\u00e1s cuenta!<\/span><\/p>\n

I know that if I hadn\u2019t been in a toxic relationship, I wouldn’t have become who I am today and I wouldn’t appreciate a healthy relationship after that toxic one.<\/span><\/p>\n

I know that if I hadn\u2019t made an effort in life, I wouldn’t be where I am today.<\/span><\/p>\n

And I know that if I hadn\u2019t turned up late for a lecture, I wouldn’t have accidentally sat next to a guy who would become a special person in my life. <\/span><\/p>\n

What’s interesting is that the only seat that was free was next to him so I had no choice. I had to sit next to him. Now, you can call it a coincidence or rather a <\/span>serie de acontecimientos<\/span> que me trajo exactamente donde necesito estar hoy.<\/span><\/p>\n

So, yes, everything happens for a reason and there’s a reason or a series of reasons why you’re exactly where you are right now.<\/span><\/p>\n

Esas razones son sus respuestas a cada pregunta que comienza con las palabras <\/b>\u00bfY si<\/i><\/b> o <\/b>por qu\u00e9<\/i><\/b>.<\/b><\/p>\n

If you’ve seen that brilliant movie <\/span>Sr. Nadie<\/span><\/i>, then you understand what I’m talking about. Each thought and choice creates different chains of events\u2014different outcomes. And none of those outcomes are wrong or right… <\/span><\/p>\n

That\u2019s because you are the result of four billion years of evolutionary success. You spent nine months in your mother’s womb, you gave your parents teenage nightmares, you cried, you laughed, you loved, you lived. <\/span><\/i><\/p>\n

You read the entire article and absorbed my humble thoughts when you could have been someplace else absorbing someone else’s thoughts. So, trust me, you are exactly where you need to be right now.<\/span><\/p>\n

V\u00e9ase tambi\u00e9n: <\/span>Here’s Why Change Is Necessary For <\/span>Desarrollo personal<\/span> Y Crecimiento<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n

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