{"id":7641,"date":"2020-10-30T09:05:19","date_gmt":"2020-10-30T09:05:19","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=7641"},"modified":"2022-01-20T11:28:05","modified_gmt":"2022-01-20T11:28:05","slug":"casi-novio-un-dia-lo-lamentaras","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/casi-novio-un-dia-lo-lamentaras\/","title":{"rendered":"A mi casi novio: Un D\u00eda Lo Lamentar\u00e1s"},"content":{"rendered":"

Querido \"T\u00fa\",<\/i><\/p>\n

Thank you for being my \u2018Almost Failure\u2019. Thank you for saving me from the biggest mistake of my life. Thank you for placing me last every time.<\/p>\n

Thank you for being hot \u2019n\u2019 cold. Thank you for saving me from all the pain I could have felt.  <\/p>\n

If you hadn\u2019t been my \u2018Almost Failure\u2019, I would han experimentado esta casi relaci\u00f3n<\/a> and this letter wouldn\u2019t be a letter full of pride and joy for dodging the bullet, but a letter of the sorrow and pain of a heartbreak. <\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

Now when I look back, I see it wasn\u2019t all just your fault. I was purposely blind because I didn\u2019t want to admit that we aren\u2019t supposed to be together.<\/a><\/p>\n

You dragged me along, even though you knew you didn\u2019t like me that much, but at that moment I was convenient, so you said, \u201cWhat the Hell!\u201d<\/p>\n

I was there for you to kill some time. We went to the movies, to dinner, on dates – all of which I initiated.<\/p>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

In this relationship where you dragged me along, promising me everything and giving me nothing, I dragged you to things you didn\u2019t want to do – at least not with me.<\/p>\n

Nunca reaccionaste a ninguna de esas cosas. Nunca supe qu\u00e9 pensabas exactamente.<\/p>\n

That\u2019s where I made my biggest mistake – Rellen\u00e9 los espacios en blanco con mis propios pensamientos y palabras y me enga\u00f1\u00e9 a m\u00ed misma haci\u00e9ndome creer que era verdad. <\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

Quer\u00eda que fuera verdad. Lo deseaba con todas mis fuerzas. Pero, por supuesto, era imposible.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

However, this is my excuse and I think it\u2019s a pretty good one. I was in love with you and I couldn\u2019t accept that you weren\u2019t in love with me.<\/p>\n

What\u2019s your excuse for making me look like a complete fool?<\/p>\n

\u00bfPor qu\u00e9 me hiciste tu \u00bfCasi novia?<\/a> Podr\u00edamos habernos llevado bien. Podr\u00edamos haber compartido intereses. Podr\u00edamos haber elegido pel\u00edculas para ver juntos.<\/p>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Podr\u00edas haber hablado m\u00e1s. Podr\u00edas haber dicho lo que pensabas y c\u00f3mo te sent\u00edas.<\/p>\n

Podr\u00edas haber puesto m\u00e1s empe\u00f1o en intentar amarme. Podr\u00edamos haberlo tenido todo. <\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

Pero, por un momento, olvid\u00e9 que esta no es una carta de desamor. Esta es una carta feliz, una nota de agradecimiento.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

I know I\u2019m not an almost girlfriend<\/i><\/b> because I would fight for my man with everything I have. I\u2019m the kind of girl any man would be lucky enough to have, to fight for.<\/p>\n

No one would be that stupid to miss out on this. You know why? Because when I love, I love with all of my heart and never with \u2018almost\u2019 my whole heart.<\/p>\n

Nunca lo has conseguido y te agradezco que ni siquiera lo hayas intentado. <\/i><\/p>\n

I know I\u2019m not an almost girlfriend<\/i><\/b> porque llamaba a mi hombre cada vez que le echaba de menos. Le enviaba mensajes de texto por la ma\u00f1ana porque quer\u00eda alegrarle el d\u00eda.<\/p>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

And he would open the text and he would feel better because he loved me and my \u2018I love you\u2019 would mean the world to him.<\/p>\n

Gracias por ser todo lo contrario. Gracias por evitarme las mentiras disfrazadas de amor. Gracias por ni siquiera intentarlo.<\/i><\/p>\n

I know I\u2019m not an almost girlfriend<\/i><\/b> porque aprovechar\u00eda cada momento para demostrarle y decirle a mi hombre lo mucho que significa para m\u00ed. Ser\u00eda la persona m\u00e1s feliz del mundo.<\/p>\n

Nunca habr\u00eda experimentado caminar sola con la cara mir\u00e1ndome a los pies.<\/p>\n

I would never have enjoyed the cold and gray concrete which matched my heart and mind then – all because of you and your almost love.<\/p>\n

Thank you for making me walk those cold streets, dwelling over what I did wrong, because I finally understood that it wasn\u2019t me.<\/p>\n

T\u00fa eras el problema. Gracias por ni siquiera intentarlo.<\/i><\/a><\/p>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

I know I\u2019m not an almost girlfriend<\/i><\/b> porque nunca necesitar\u00eda inventar excusas est\u00fapidas. Nunca mentir\u00eda a mi hombre ni le har\u00eda sentir como una mierda.<\/p>\n

Nunca lo arrastrar\u00eda. Si yo fuera como t\u00fa, nunca le habr\u00eda dado la hora del d\u00eda. Gracias por darme ese tiempo libre que ten\u00edas para matar.<\/p>\n

Gracias por hacerme darme cuenta de todas las cosas que nunca habr\u00eda hecho. Gracias por ni siquiera intentarlo. <\/i><\/p>\n

I know I\u2019m not an almost girlfriend<\/i><\/b> porque desafiar\u00eda a mi hombre. Habr\u00eda intentado hacerle mejor porque sabr\u00eda que podr\u00eda ser mejor.<\/p>\n

Habr\u00eda sabido que era un diamante en bruto y que s\u00f3lo necesitaba el roce de mi mano, una mirada profunda a sus ojos, para romper sus l\u00edmites. Nunca viste ning\u00fan potencial en m\u00ed.<\/p>\n

S\u00f3lo viste a una chica tan corriente como cualquier otra. El hombre que me amar\u00e1 me ver\u00e1 como su todo, no como algo que lleg\u00f3 por el camino.<\/p>\n

Nunca te import\u00f3, as\u00ed que gracias por eso. Gracias por ni siquiera intentarlo.<\/i><\/p>\n

I know I\u2019m not an almost girlfriend<\/i><\/b> porque nunca pondr\u00eda en \u00faltimo lugar a alguien que amo. Le habr\u00eda elegido a \u00e9l por encima de cualquier cosa.<\/p>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

I couldn\u2019t do differently because I just couldn\u2019t. He would have been my whole world, he would have been someone I wanted to wake up next to every day for the rest of my life.<\/p>\n

Why would I neglect him and put him last? Have you ever thought of me that way? Of course you haven\u2019t so thank you for that.<\/p>\n

Gracias por no darme la hora. Gracias por ni siquiera intentarlo.<\/i><\/p>\n

Esta no es realmente una carta escrita en un teclado empapado de l\u00e1grimas.<\/p>\n

Esta es una carta escrita con ojos sonrientes y un coraz\u00f3n lleno de deseo e ilusi\u00f3n por conocer a quien ser\u00e1 tu completo opuesto.<\/p>\n

Thank you for showing me what I don\u2019t want. <\/i><\/p>\n

Gracias por salvarme del dolor. <\/i><\/p>\n

Gracias por salvarme de ti mismo. <\/i><\/p>\n

Gracias por ni siquiera intentarlo.<\/i><\/p>\n

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Dear \u2018You\u2019, Thank you for being my \u2018Almost Failure\u2019. Thank you for saving me from the biggest mistake of my life. Thank you for placing me last every time. Thank you for being hot \u2019n\u2019 cold. Thank you for saving me from all the pain I could have felt.   If you hadn\u2019t been my…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":40,"featured_media":118538,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29619],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-7641","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-stories-love"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29619,"label":"stories"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/10\/To-My-Almost-Boyfriend-One-Day-Youll-Be-Sorry-1024x684.jpg",1024,684,true],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tara Brown","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/tara-brown\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29619,"name":"stories","slug":"stories-love","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29619,"taxonomy":"category","description":"To all the souls struggling with complicated love experiences: These heartfelt stories about love, heartbreak, and moving on will be your voice of wisdom.","parent":38,"count":424,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29619,"category_count":424,"category_description":"To all the souls struggling with complicated love experiences: These heartfelt stories about love, heartbreak, and moving on will be your voice of wisdom.","cat_name":"stories","category_nicename":"stories-love","category_parent":38}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/7641","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/40"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=7641"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/7641\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/118538"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=7641"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=7641"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=7641"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}