{"id":7645,"date":"2019-03-30T09:31:24","date_gmt":"2019-03-30T09:31:24","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=7645"},"modified":"2022-02-26T11:42:08","modified_gmt":"2022-02-26T11:42:08","slug":"nunca-fuiste-mi-persona-para-siempre","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/nunca-fuiste-mi-persona-para-siempre\/","title":{"rendered":"Nunca Fuiste Mi Persona Para Siempre, Fuiste Una Lecci\u00f3n Que Tuve Que Aprender"},"content":{"rendered":"

Suena gracioso ahora que estoy tan por encima de ti que alguna vez pens\u00e9 que nunca llegar\u00eda a este punto. Hasta el punto en que soy indiferente.<\/p>\r\n

I thought the pain would last a lifetime. I thought that I would miss you forever. I thought that this love would never leave my heart. I couldn\u2019t help but feel that way.<\/p>\r\n

It\u2019s like we had our own little world, made for the two of us, and all of a sudden I was standing alone in it. Everything fell apart and I felt dead on the inside. I felt like I would never recover and be myself again.<\/p>\r\n

But I guess deep down I knew that this was bound to happen. Maybe I should have seen this coming. I always felt like I was the one who loved more, the one who gave more without getting the same back. I just didn\u2019t want to face it. I was hoping that I was wrong.<\/p>\r\n

Comet\u00ed un error que toda chica comete cuando est\u00e1 enamorada. Pens\u00e9 que s\u00f3lo necesitabas m\u00e1s tiempo para sentir lo que yo sent\u00eda por ti.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\r\n

I was wrong, I know that now. Time didn\u2019t solve anything\u2013it only made it worse. Your feelings didn\u2019t change. You didn\u2019t change. The only thing that changed was me.<\/p>\r\n

I was never truly happy with you, even though I loved you more than words can say. And I held on to that love for dear life. I couldn\u2019t let it go until I had to, until you left and I was all out of choices.<\/p>\r\n

Pero gracias por hacerlo. Realmente me hiciste un favor. Ahora veo claramente que nunca fuiste mi persona para siempre; s\u00f3lo fuiste una lecci\u00f3n<\/a> Tuve que aprender.<\/p>\r\n

You taught me that time doesn\u2019t change things.<\/h2>\r\n

I know now that when things are bad they will only become worse with time. All my hopes and desires won\u2019t change that. I learned that my time has value and I won\u2019t waste it on someone who doesn\u2019t feel the same.<\/p>\r\n

Me ense\u00f1aste lo que no es el verdadero amor.<\/h2>\r\n

I was one of those girls who would do anything for love and not expect anything in return. I know now, even though I didn\u2019t want to hear it then, that love should be reciprocated in all its forms. You should get what you give and never settle for less.<\/p>\r\n

Me ense\u00f1aste que debo apreciarme a m\u00ed misma y a mi libertad incluso cuando estoy en una relaci\u00f3n.<\/h2>\r\n

We don\u2019t appreciate our freedom nearly enough. We are actually scared to be alone and we shouldn\u2019t be. Being single puts things in a completely new perspective.<\/p>\r\n

I used to put myself last when I was with you. My dreams, my desires, and my life weren\u2019t important anymore. Now I feel more alive than I ever was by your side. Like I got a second chance to-do over my life. I am working on myself for myself. I am constantly finding new ways to make myself happy.<\/p>\r\n

Me empujaste a encontrar la manera de amarme a m\u00ed misma.<\/h2>\r\n

And I thank you for that. I learned to love and appreciate myself more. I learned that I am always stronger than I think. I learned that there is nothing I can\u2019t do. I learned to take life with all that it brings, both good and bad.<\/p>\r\n

You taught me to let go of the things that aren\u2019t right for me.<\/h2>\r\n

I learned that I should let go of everyone who doesn\u2019t want to stay. I learned that somebody better will come along. I learned that I should never beg for love. I learned that I should never stay in a bad relationship and hope that things will change.<\/p>\r\n

I learned that there is no one I can\u2019t get over because I got over you.<\/strong><\/p>\r\n\r\n

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It sounds funny now that I am so over you that I ever actually thought that I would never get to this point. To the point where I am indifferent. I thought the pain would last a lifetime. I thought that I would miss you forever. I thought that this love would never leave my…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":40,"featured_media":30539,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29619],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-7645","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-stories-love"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29619,"label":"stories"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/10\/teddy-kelley-179100-unsplash-1.jpg",800,533,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tara Brown","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/tara-brown\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29619,"name":"stories","slug":"stories-love","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29619,"taxonomy":"category","description":"To all the souls struggling with complicated love experiences: These heartfelt stories about love, heartbreak, and moving on will be your voice of wisdom.","parent":38,"count":424,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29619,"category_count":424,"category_description":"To all the souls struggling with complicated love experiences: These heartfelt stories about love, heartbreak, and moving on will be your voice of wisdom.","cat_name":"stories","category_nicename":"stories-love","category_parent":38}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/7645","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/40"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=7645"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/7645\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/30539"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=7645"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=7645"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=7645"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}