{"id":76697,"date":"2020-06-01T07:20:27","date_gmt":"2020-06-01T07:20:27","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=76697"},"modified":"2022-01-14T11:26:55","modified_gmt":"2022-01-14T11:26:55","slug":"si-te-das-cuenta-de-que-has-perdido-a-la-mujer-de-tu-vida-me-olvidare-de-ti","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/si-te-das-cuenta-de-que-has-perdido-a-la-mujer-de-tu-vida-me-olvidare-de-ti\/","title":{"rendered":"Para cuando te des cuenta de que has perdido a la mujer de tu vida, ya te habr\u00e9 superado"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Es curioso c\u00f3mo los hombres a menudo tienen un per\u00edodo de comportamiento imprudente justo despu\u00e9s de una ruptura. Casi parece que lo celebran.<\/p>\n<p>On the other hand, women are almost always curled up in their bed and sobbing every night&#8230; Well, until they are not.<\/p>\n<p>It seems strangely coincidental that most of the time, that\u2019s probably the time when the man starts to sob and guess what happens to her? She doesn\u2019t care anymore.<\/p>\n<p>Life sure has a distinct sense of humor and in this case, we\u2019re all for it.<\/p>\n<p>This happened to me. I was the late-night sobbing girl. I guess I cried the pain away because one day I just woke up and said, \u201cThat\u2019s enough.\u201d<\/p>\n<p><strong>I didn\u2019t want to do this to myself anymore. I wanted to live my life. I wanted my life to have meaning again.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>So what if a man thought I wasn\u2019t good enough for him. That was the same man who couldn\u2019t provide me with the simplest things\u2014for example, attention and care.<\/p>\n<p><strong>So what if he\u2019d moved on with his life?<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-76699\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/woman-sitting-on-green-grass.jpg\" alt=\"mujer sentada en la hierba verde de los prados mostrando su espalda\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/woman-sitting-on-green-grass.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/woman-sitting-on-green-grass-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/woman-sitting-on-green-grass-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><strong>Bien por \u00e9l, porque lo \u00faltimo que necesitaba era volver a saber de \u00e9l y quedarme atrapada con el mismo comportamiento inmaduro que fue una de las razones por las que rompimos en primer lugar.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Sin embargo, para la mayor\u00eda de las mujeres, lo m\u00e1s probable es que cuando la realidad le golpee por fin, te quiera de vuelta.<\/p>\n<p>That\u2019s because you were everything he needed; he just couldn\u2019t see it.<\/p>\n<p><strong>It\u2019s easy to take all the love and care for granted. The problem is when that turns into abuse and abuse is something that\u2019s unacceptable.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Love should be cherished and praised and it should go both ways. But in your case, he couldn\u2019t see it.<\/p>\n<p>He lost the woman of his life\u2014and that\u2019s his fault, not yours.<\/p>\n<p><strong>All the things you gave him will haunt him because love doesn\u2019t go away.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Cada cosa bonita que vea y toque le recordar\u00e1 a ti y al amor que perdi\u00f3 por su insensatez.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-76702\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/man-smoking-cigarette.png\" alt=\"hombre fumando un cigarrillo y bebiendo vino mientras mira una foto\" width=\"800\" height=\"538\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/man-smoking-cigarette.png 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/man-smoking-cigarette-300x202.png 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/man-smoking-cigarette-768x516.png 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/man-smoking-cigarette-760x510.png 760w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Once he gets it, it\u2019s going to be late. By that time, you will know better.<\/p>\n<p>En ese momento, te dar\u00e1s todo el amor a ti mismo en primer lugar.<\/p>\n<p>Loving yourself is absolutely mandatory. By putting yourself first, you\u2019ll not only get over him but learn to recognize true love from others.<\/p>\n<p><strong>You won\u2019t be played again because once you give yourself the love you give to others, that\u2019s when you will realize how little love they were giving you.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>You\u2019re over him because <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/razones-por-las-que-eres-desgraciado-en-el-amor\/\">he doesn\u2019t match your potential<\/a> m\u00e1s.<\/p>\n<p>Form\u00f3 parte del proceso de aprendizaje por el que tuviste que pasar para estar donde est\u00e1s ahora y por eso, puedes estar agradecido.<\/p>\n<p>Now you know how to approach life from the right side. You know how to react with power and authenticity, you don\u2019t have to wait for someone else.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Te bastas por ti mismo y lo sabes.<\/strong> S\u00f3lo eso ya te convierte en una mujer poderosa.<\/p>\n<p><strong>There\u2019s no force in the universe that can stop a woman who knows herself, who appreciates her own unique beauty, respects her mind and chooses to choose love over anything.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-76701\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/positive-woman-smiling.jpg\" alt=\"mujer positiva sonriendo y mirando hacia arriba fuera de un edificio \" width=\"800\" height=\"542\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/positive-woman-smiling.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/positive-woman-smiling-300x203.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/positive-woman-smiling-768x520.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>This time it\u2019s the love for herself.&nbsp;If a man can\u2019t recognize those things within her, he\u2019s not the one.<\/p>\n<p>That\u2019s why you don\u2019t settle for someone who is just there. Someone who thinks that their physical presence is enough to make the relationship work.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Piensa y sue\u00f1a a lo grande. Date lo que quieres porque puedes hacerlo.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>If that\u2019s a man, believe he exists. If that\u2019s living on your own and feeling happy, that also exists.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>S\u00f3lo tienes que acceder a tu propio poder y hacer que suceda.<\/p>\n<p><strong>\u00bfY sabes qu\u00e9? Tienes ese poder dentro de ti, igual que tuviste el poder de seguir adelante incluso cuando dol\u00eda como el infierno.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Don\u2019t wait for things to happen\u2014just take your first step and watch things fall into place.<\/p>\n<p>And most importantly\u2014never forget that you\u2019re the woman of your own life.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-76704\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/By-The-Time-You-Realize-You-Lost-The-Woman-Of-Your-Life-I\u2019ll-Be-Over-You-Pinterest.jpg\" alt=\"Para cuando te des cuenta de que has perdido a la mujer de tu vida, ya te habr\u00e9 superado\" width=\"1000\" height=\"1500\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/By-The-Time-You-Realize-You-Lost-The-Woman-Of-Your-Life-I\u2019ll-Be-Over-You-Pinterest.jpg 1000w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/By-The-Time-You-Realize-You-Lost-The-Woman-Of-Your-Life-I\u2019ll-Be-Over-You-Pinterest-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/By-The-Time-You-Realize-You-Lost-The-Woman-Of-Your-Life-I\u2019ll-Be-Over-You-Pinterest-683x1024.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/By-The-Time-You-Realize-You-Lost-The-Woman-Of-Your-Life-I\u2019ll-Be-Over-You-Pinterest-768x1152.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1000px) 100vw, 1000px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>It\u2019s funny how men often have a period of reckless behavior right after a break-up. It almost seems like they\u2019re celebrating it. On the other hand, women are almost always curled up in their bed and sobbing every night&#8230; Well, until they are not. It seems strangely coincidental that most of the time, that\u2019s probably&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":40,"featured_media":76703,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29618],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-76697","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-moving-on"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29618,"label":"moving on"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/By-The-Time-You-Realize-You-Lost-The-Woman-Of-Your-Life-I\u2019ll-Be-Over-You.jpg",800,533,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tara Brown","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/tara-brown\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29618,"name":"moving on","slug":"moving-on","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29618,"taxonomy":"category","description":"When nothing else works - inspiring stories about moving on are bound to help you let go of people and situations you never thought you could live without.\r\n","parent":38,"count":200,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29618,"category_count":200,"category_description":"When nothing else works - inspiring stories about moving on are bound to help you let go of people and situations you never thought you could live without.\r\n","cat_name":"moving on","category_nicename":"moving-on","category_parent":38}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/76697","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/40"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=76697"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/76697\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/76703"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=76697"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=76697"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=76697"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}