{"id":76724,"date":"2020-06-05T13:33:26","date_gmt":"2020-06-05T13:33:26","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=76724"},"modified":"2022-08-18T11:54:15","modified_gmt":"2022-08-18T11:54:15","slug":"cosas-que-una-mujer-fuerte-te-dira","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/cosas-que-una-mujer-fuerte-te-dira\/","title":{"rendered":"5 cosas que una mujer fuerte te dir\u00e1 cuando le pidas una segunda oportunidad"},"content":{"rendered":"

En la mayor\u00eda de los casos, cuando vienes a pedir una segunda oportunidad a una chica a la que ya rompiste el coraz\u00f3n una vez, las cosas van sobre ruedas.<\/p>\n

Haces todo lo posible por convencerla de que has cambiado y de que nunca repetir\u00edas tus errores, as\u00ed que, al cabo de un tiempo, acaba perdon\u00e1ndote.<\/p>\n

Sin embargo, las cosas son diferentes cuando se trata de una mujer realmente fuerte. De hecho, aqu\u00ed tienes 5 cosas que este tipo de chica te dir\u00e1 cuando vengas a pedirle otra oportunidad.<\/p>\n

1. I\u2019m not your safety net<\/h2>\n

\"joven<\/p>\n

Cuando dejaste a esta chica, estabas tan lleno de ti mismo. Pensaste que podr\u00edas salir y encontrar a alguien mucho mejor que ella en un instante.<\/p>\n

Te cansaste de tener una relaci\u00f3n seria, as\u00ed que pensaste que estar\u00eda bien probar la vida de soltero.<\/p>\n

However, not one of your plans worked out. In fact, you realized that she was nowhere to be found and you can\u2019t replace her as easily as you were convinced you would.<\/p>\n

Todas esas chicas y falsos amigos que le pon\u00edas delante acabaron d\u00e1ndote la espalda. Nadie estaba ah\u00ed para ayudarte y, una a una, acabaron por abandonarte.<\/p>\n

So, now, when you have no one else to turn to, you assumed that you could come crawling back to her. Well, I hate to break it to you, but this girl will just tell you that she won\u2019t be your safety net.<\/p>\n

She is not your back up plan \u2013 someone who will always wait for you with her arms and doors wide open. She is nobody\u2019s segunda opci\u00f3n<\/a> y especialmente no la tuya.<\/p>\n

2. I\u2019ve outgrown you<\/h2>\n

\"joven<\/p>\n

Cuando sal\u00edais juntos, esta mujer nunca te vio con claridad. Al fin y al cabo, estaba tan locamente enamorada de ti que te idealiz\u00f3 e idealiz\u00f3 vuestra relaci\u00f3n.<\/p>\n

Ella pensaba que eras el mejor hombre que jam\u00e1s podr\u00eda conocer. Eras el t\u00edo m\u00e1s listo, guapo, divertido e interesante del mundo.<\/p>\n

Sin embargo, cuando te alejaste de ella, consigui\u00f3 quitarse las gafas de color de rosa. Por fin vio tu verdadera cara.<\/p>\n

Now this girl realizes that you are not worthy. You\u2019re not the guy she thought you were and she can definitely do much better.<\/p>\n

So, if you appear on her doorstep, begging for a second chance, I guarantee you that she\u2019ll tell you that she\u2019s outgrown you.<\/p>\n

No, she won\u2019t utter these words to humiliate you or destroy your ego, she will tell you this since it\u2019s merely the truth.<\/p>\n

3. I\u2019m not giving you the green light to keep on hurting me<\/h2>\n

\"foto<\/p>\n

Todas las chicas fuertes saben muy bien una cosa: Dar a alguien otra oportunidad<\/a> es igual a darle permiso para seguir trat\u00e1ndote como un felpudo.<\/p>\n

Significa darle luz verde para que le rompa el coraz\u00f3n una vez m\u00e1s.<\/p>\n

The same is with this girl. She doesn\u2019t fool herself by believing that you won\u2019t repeat your mistakes.<\/p>\n

De hecho, ella sabe que los hombres t\u00f3xicos como t\u00fa nunca cambian. As\u00ed que, \u00bfpor qu\u00e9 exactamente te dejar\u00eda entrar en su vida, s\u00f3lo para que puedas destruirla de nuevo y hacer de ella una ruina?<\/p>\n

You see, for a woman like her, one strike is more than enough. The last thing she needs is reassurance that you\u2019re the same douchebag you\u2019ve already proven to be.<\/p>\n

Besides, she doesn\u2019t want to turn your relationship into you leaving her and coming back whenever you please. She respects herself more than that!<\/p>\n

4. Deber\u00edas haber pensado en todo esto a tiempo<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

When you repent for your bad deeds, you usually start acting like you\u2019ve finally seen the light after spending most of your life in darkness.<\/p>\n

Therefore, when you come asking for a second chance, you\u2019ll probably tell your girl that you\u2019ve realized everything.<\/p>\n

You\u2019ll pedirle perd\u00f3n<\/a> y tratar de convencerla de que s\u00f3lo ahora ves lo incre\u00edble mujer que es.<\/p>\n

You\u2019ve experienced life without her and it\u2019s made you realize she is the only one you could ever love, the only one you can see yourself next to.<\/p>\n

Bueno, una vez una mujer fuerte<\/a> hears all this, she\u2019ll just tell you that you should have thought of your actions while you were doing them.<\/p>\n

This might sound brutal, but it\u2019s pretty realistic since now it\u2019s too late to make any difference.<\/p>\n

5. Te quer\u00eda pero ya no<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Let me put it straight. Despite everything you did to this girl, she\u2019ll never try annulling your relationship.<\/p>\n

Despite the outcome of your romance and the way it ended, she won\u2019t try to diminish it and represent it as completely irrelevant.<\/p>\n

Therefore, she won\u2019t do her best to convince you that she never loved you. She did care for you very much and she doesn\u2019t have trouble admitting that.<\/p>\n

However, she doesn\u2019t love you anymore and would never be with a man she has no feelings for.<\/p>\n

After all, you killed all the emotions she had, so there you go: now you\u2019re just enjoying the product of your own doing!<\/p>\n

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