{"id":77152,"date":"2020-06-05T13:34:28","date_gmt":"2020-06-05T13:34:28","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=77152"},"modified":"2021-08-12T08:14:53","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T08:14:53","slug":"deja-de-intentar-ser-perfecto","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/deja-de-intentar-ser-perfecto\/","title":{"rendered":"Deja de intentar ser perfecto para hombres imperfectos"},"content":{"rendered":"

Mires donde mires, ver\u00e1s m\u00e1s o menos el mismo mensaje.<\/p>\n

You\u2019ll see magazine covers, TV shows \u2013 the entire media \u2013 telling you how to become more attractive to men, how to look better, how to behave in a relationship, and how to keep a guy.<\/p>\n

B\u00e1sicamente, desde el momento en que eres consciente de ti misma, el mundo te est\u00e1 diciendo c\u00f3mo ser novia y material para esposas<\/a>.<\/strong><\/p>\n

A uno se le perdonar\u00eda pensar que, con el tiempo, las cosas han cambiado y que el mensaje que recibimos ahora es diferente del que promov\u00edan los medios de comunicaci\u00f3n hace unas d\u00e9cadas. .<\/p>\n

However, if you dig a little deeper, you\u2019ll see that we haven\u2019t evolved as much as we think we have.<\/p>\n

The advice may have a different wrapping paper but it\u2019s actually almost the same as it was in the past.<\/p>\n

Mires donde mires, existe una presi\u00f3n incre\u00edble sobre las mujeres.<\/strong><\/p>\n

We have to be good wives, amazing mothers, have a career while maintaining an immaculate household, and be innovative in the bedroom so our partner doesn\u2019t get bored.<\/p>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

We also have to be great cooks and keep on top of our finances \u2013 all while wearing high heels, flawless makeup, and a fabulous hairdo.<\/p>\n

Lo mismo ocurre cuando se trata de contactos<\/a> and romantic relationships. In fact, this is where it\u2019s most expected of women.<\/p>\n

You can\u2019t be too available, right? Otherwise, men will only want to sleep with you and dump you afterwards.<\/p>\n

However, you can\u2019t turn them down too often either. After all, nobody likes an unapproachable girl.<\/p>\n

When you\u2019re married or in a committed relationship, it\u2019s pretty much your duty to make things work. It\u2019s your job to save a broken marriage and to make sure your partner doesn\u2019t walk away from you.<\/p>\n

Despite only being a human being, it appears that you\u2019re not allowed to make mistakes. <\/strong><\/p>\n

Cada movimiento suyo se pone bajo una lupa y es observado atentamente por el mundo entero.<\/strong><\/p>\n

As\u00ed que.., what the world is trying to tell you is that you have to be flawless \u2013 mentally, physically and emotionally<\/strong>.<\/p>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

You\u2019re not allowed to have a bad day, to feel lousy, or to have cellulite, split ends, or be carrying a few extra pounds.<\/p>\n

Si tienes algunas imperfecciones, debes hacer todo lo posible por ocultarlas. Eso si alguna vez quieres que un chico te vea, te escuche y te elija.<\/p>\n

What about those men your world seems to revolve around, though? I don\u2019t see any of them trying to reach perfection, do I now?<\/strong><\/p>\n

Parece que a las chicas se les ha ense\u00f1ado a ser perfectas para los hombres imperfectos desde una edad muy temprana.<\/strong> \u00bfD\u00f3nde est\u00e1 la justicia en eso?<\/p>\n

Most importantly \u2013 what\u2019s the point?<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t get me wrong: no te estoy diciendo que no trabajes en ti mismo. No te estoy desaconsejando la superaci\u00f3n personal.<\/strong><\/p>\n

On the contrary, I\u2019m all for your individual empowerment. I\u2019m rooting for you to become the best possible version of yourself.<\/p>\n

\"joven<\/p>\n

Sin embargo, there is a big difference between making yourself better mentally, emotionally, and physically because you\u2019re the one who wants it and making all of these modifications to be more likeable to the opposite sex.<\/strong><\/p>\n

There is a huge difference between changing some things YOU don\u2019t like about yourself and doing it so you can fit in the box or fulfill society\u2019s unrealistic standards and expectations.<\/p>\n

If you\u2019re doing all of this for yourself, good for you. Carry on with the good work!<\/p>\n

Aunque, incluso si lo eres, I have to disappoint you and tell you that such a thing as perfection doesn\u2019t exist.<\/strong> You can work on yourself but you\u2019ll always have some flaws.<\/p>\n

As\u00ed que.., it\u2019s much better to accept and love those imperfections. After all, they\u2019re all a part of the person you are.<\/strong><\/p>\n

On the other hand, if you\u2019re doing all of this for the sake of one particular imperfect man or to please the entire opposite sex, stop it right there.<\/p>\n

D\u00e9jame contarte un secreto: un chico que se centra en tus defectos y quiere cambiarlos no es el adecuado para ti. De hecho, el hombre adecuado<\/a> nunca te pedir\u00e1 que seas perfecto.<\/strong><\/p>\n

You know what the best part is? He\u2019ll love you just the way you are and you two will be imperfectly perfect together!<\/p>\n

\"Deja<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Wherever you look, you\u2019ll see pretty much the same message. You\u2019ll see magazine covers, TV shows \u2013 the entire media \u2013 telling you how to become more attractive to men, how to look better, how to behave in a relationship, and how to keep a guy. Basically, from the moment you become self-conscious, the world…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":42,"featured_media":77164,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29648],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-77152","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-dating-tips"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29648,"label":"dating tips"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/Stop-Trying-To-Be-Perfect-For-Imperfect-Men.jpg",800,547,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Selma June","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/selmajune\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29648,"name":"dating tips","slug":"dating-tips","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29648,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Learn to date like a pro and avoid making some of the biggest mistakes in texting, flirting, winning a man's heart, and commitment. ","parent":29643,"count":442,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29648,"category_count":442,"category_description":"Learn to date like a pro and avoid making some of the biggest mistakes in texting, flirting, winning a man's heart, and commitment. ","cat_name":"dating tips","category_nicename":"dating-tips","category_parent":29643}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/77152","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/42"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=77152"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/77152\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/77164"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=77152"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=77152"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=77152"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}