{"id":7769,"date":"2017-10-31T12:59:35","date_gmt":"2017-10-31T12:59:35","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=7769"},"modified":"2021-08-12T10:33:23","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T10:33:23","slug":"5-maneras-chica-corazon-suave-mente-dura-ama-de-manera-diferente","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/5-maneras-chica-corazon-suave-mente-dura-ama-de-manera-diferente\/","title":{"rendered":"5 maneras de amar de la chica de coraz\u00f3n blando y mente dura"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Tu coraz\u00f3n te dice una cosa y tienes tantas ganas de escucharlo, pero tu mente interfiere y te lo impide. Tu mente es la voz de la raz\u00f3n, la voz de lo que deber\u00eda ser correcto, pero tu coraz\u00f3n quiere hacer las cosas a su manera.<\/p>\n<p>Although you know you should listen to what the reasonable part of you is saying, you can\u2019t help but listen to your emotions, to something you really want to do and not something you should do just because it\u2019s right.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/thoughtcatalog.com\/heidi-priebe\/2014\/09\/the-second-time-you-get-your-heart-broken\/\" rel=\"noopener\">Te rompieron el coraz\u00f3n tantas veces<\/a>, so you built this cold and harsh exterior to prevent that from happening ever again. You\u2019ve become strong and not because you wanted to, but because you had to.<\/p>\n<p>Una vez llevaste tu coraz\u00f3n en la manga. Una vez diste a todos una segunda oportunidad. Una vez, tu suave coraz\u00f3n estaba ah\u00ed fuera para que todo el mundo lo viera. Pero alguien us\u00f3 tu bondad y alguien us\u00f3 tu fr\u00e1gil y amoroso coraz\u00f3n y te hicieron cerrarte y esconderte en tu propio sufrimiento.<\/p>\n<p>Te negabas a que nadie pudiera echar un vistazo a lo que hab\u00eda dentro de ti. Te asustaba mostrar tus sentimientos. Te pusiste en guardia.<\/p>\n<p>Your cold and harsh shell hides your vulnerability. You\u2019ve put it on like a little black dress before going out. That is not you, it\u2019s just how others see you. Yet, underneath that facade, there is still a girl who knows how to love. There is still a warm and caring person with a soft heart, waiting to love someone differently.<\/p>\n<h1><span style=\"font-size: 14pt\"><strong>1. You know how to appreciate happiness because you\u2019ve seen sorrow<\/strong><\/span><\/h1>\n<p>Lo \u00fanico que siempre quisiste hacer es hacer felices a los dem\u00e1s. Quisiste ayudar a los que te necesitaban y siempre te entregaste por completo, porque sab\u00edas que pod\u00edas ayudar. Abriste tu coraz\u00f3n y dejaste entrar a todo el mundo. As\u00ed les alegrabas el d\u00eda y les ayudabas con sus problemas, lo que tambi\u00e9n te hac\u00eda sentir mejor a ti.<\/p>\n<p>Pero muchos de ellos utilizaron tu bondad y tu buen coraz\u00f3n. Muchos de ellos se aprovecharon de ti cuando te necesitaron, y luego te echaron a un lado cuando terminaron. Muchos de ellos rompieron tu fr\u00e1gil corazoncito.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-7776 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/10\/brooke-cagle-21313.jpg\" alt=\"5 maneras de amar de la chica de coraz\u00f3n blando y mente dura\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/10\/brooke-cagle-21313.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/10\/brooke-cagle-21313-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/10\/brooke-cagle-21313-768x512.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/10\/brooke-cagle-21313-180x120.jpg 180w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/10\/brooke-cagle-21313-262x175.jpg 262w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<h1><span style=\"font-size: 14pt\"><strong>2. You\u2019ve built walls around yourself for a reason<\/strong><\/span><\/h1>\n<p>You\u2019re not going to let your guard down so easily now. <a href=\"http:\/\/www.dailymail.co.uk\/health\/article-165247\/10-steps-heal-broken-heart.html\" rel=\"noopener\">You\u2019ve been broken and hurt once<\/a> and that was enough to lock yourself away from the world. It\u2019s easy to act like you don\u2019t have any feelings; it\u2019s easy to pretend like nothing bothers you.<\/p>\n<p>But if someone sticks around long enough, if someone sees right through you and knows you\u2019re the complete opposite on the inside than from what they see on the outside, then your walls will go down. You will tear them down, because you can\u2019t act like something you\u2019re not for too long.<\/p>\n<h1><span style=\"font-size: 14pt\"><strong>3. Utilizas hechos y no palabras<\/strong><\/span><\/h1>\n<p>Words don\u2019t mean anything to you, not anymore. You\u2019ve heard so much, you\u2019ve been promised so much, and none of it came true. You don\u2019t believe what others say to you and you don\u2019t say anything yourself either. Deeds are what count and you know that.<\/p>\n<p>It is hard for you to tell someone how much you love them but that\u2019s why you are going to show it instead now. You will surprise him when he least expects it, you will send him a text out of the blue or you\u2019re going to buy him some candy just because you are thinking of him.<\/p>\n<h1><span style=\"font-size: 14pt\"><strong>4. Eres precavido, pero sigues creyendo en el amor<\/strong><\/span><\/h1>\n<p>It\u2019s not that <a href=\"https:\/\/www.huffingtonpost.com\/katie-tandy\/why-i-never-want-to-fall-in-love-again_b_6135394.html\" rel=\"noopener\">you don\u2019t want to love anyone ever again<\/a>. En secreto, sue\u00f1as con conocer a tu verdadero amor y piensas que los dos encaj\u00e1is a la perfecci\u00f3n. En silencio anhelas el amor, el amor que romper\u00e1 la dureza de tu rostro y dejar\u00e1 que la suavidad de tu coraz\u00f3n se apodere de ti.<\/p>\n<p>Antes estabas rota, pero cuando llegue el hombre adecuado, te entregar\u00e1s a \u00e9l y le demostrar\u00e1s que, bajo ese exterior \u00e1spero, hay un coraz\u00f3n enorme y una belleza que amar.<\/p>\n<h1><span style=\"font-size: 14pt\"><strong>5. Hay mucho m\u00e1s en ti de lo que nadie puede ver<\/strong><\/span><\/h1>\n<p>People misjudge you all the time. As soon as they see you, they say you\u2019re cold-hearted. They say you don\u2019t have any feelings whatsoever. Then, they don\u2019t even care about whether they hurt you or not, because they assume nothing can touch you. They couldn\u2019t be more wrong.<\/p>\n<p>Some people, like you, hide their goodness and softness and that can even be a good thing, because only the right man will figure out that your harsh exterior is just a tool to mask your soft heart. So why bother with the ones who think you\u2019re simply cold and nothing more?<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Your heart tells you one thing and you want to listen to it so badly, but your mind interferes and stops you. Your mind is the voice of reason, the voice of what should be right, but your heart wants to do things on its own terms. 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