{"id":77881,"date":"2020-06-05T13:23:53","date_gmt":"2020-06-05T13:23:53","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=77881"},"modified":"2022-01-10T03:05:49","modified_gmt":"2022-01-10T03:05:49","slug":"estoy-orgulloso-de-mi-mismo-por-ser-lo-suficientemente-fuerte-para-dejarte-ir","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/estoy-orgulloso-de-mi-mismo-por-ser-lo-suficientemente-fuerte-para-dejarte-ir\/","title":{"rendered":"Estoy orgulloso de m\u00ed mismo por ser lo suficientemente fuerte como para dejarte ir"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><b><i>Antes de empezar, quiero hacer un brindis. Por la mujer m\u00e1s valiente, fuerte, testaruda e intr\u00e9pida que conozco. \u00a1Salud por m\u00ed!<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">No, en serio, me lo merezco. He pasado por muchas cosas, pero sigo aqu\u00ed, vivo, con la esperanza de un ma\u00f1ana mejor.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><b>\u00bfEl m\u00e1s valiente?<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> Am\u00e9 a un hombre m\u00e1s de lo que jam\u00e1s hab\u00eda amado a nadie. Demonios, m\u00e1s de lo que nunca me he amado a m\u00ed misma.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Pero, yo <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/deja-tus-sentimientos-a-un-lado-y-recuerda-lo-que-te-mereces\/\">dejar de lado todos esos sentimientos intensos y profundos<\/a> and chose to save myself before it was too late. Yes, as you probably guessed, that man didn&#8217;t love me back.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><b>\u00bfEl m\u00e1s fuerte? <\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">He broke my heart, but I didn&#8217;t allow him to break me. I <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/life\/no-se-puede-nacer-fuerte\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">era lo suficientemente fuerte<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> que decir: <\/span><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">That\u2019s enough<\/span><\/i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">. Soy la mujer m\u00e1s fuerte porque fui capaz de sanar y seguir adelante.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><b>\u00bfTestarudo? <\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Admito que probablemente soy la persona m\u00e1s testaruda que conozco, y doy gracias a Dios por ello. Mi terquedad me ha hecho seguir adelante.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">I promised myself that someday he\u2019d regret treating me badly, and I didn&#8217;t stop until I got what I wanted.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-77886 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/woman-sitting-indoor-1.jpg\" alt=\"mujer con jersey gris sentada en interior\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/woman-sitting-indoor-1.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/woman-sitting-indoor-1-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/woman-sitting-indoor-1-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><b>\u00bfSin miedo? <\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">I also admit that I was afraid sometimes. I was afraid of my loneliness. I was afraid for my mental health. I constantly feared I&#8217;d never be able to heal from this heartbreak completely.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Lo hice. Me cur\u00e9 y segu\u00ed adelante. Continu\u00e9 con mi vida. He vuelto a sonre\u00edr y a divertirme.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">I think I am even able to open the doors to a new love, which I closed a long time ago because I didn&#8217;t want someone to hurt me as you did ever again.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Cuando decid\u00ed que hab\u00eda llegado el momento de dejarte marchar por fin, pas\u00e9 muchos d\u00edas y noches llorando en mi cama, con la ayuda de mi fiel amigo<\/span> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u2013<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> helado.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Entonces decid\u00ed que ten\u00eda que <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/relationship\/7-maneras-de-dejar-de-sentir-lastima-por-ti-misma-despues-de-que-te-deje\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">deja de sentir pena <\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">por m\u00ed misma y cambiar algunas cosas. Salt\u00e9 de la cama, me quit\u00e9 el pijama y me vest\u00ed para triunfar.&nbsp;&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Trabaj\u00e9 duro cada d\u00eda en m\u00ed misma. Mis sue\u00f1os y mis metas. Quer\u00eda que se diera cuenta de que <\/span><b><i>su mayor error en la vida fue darme por sentado y finalmente perderme.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">I admit, there are still some scars on my heart and soul. I\u2019ve decided I won&#8217;t try to heal those. I want to leave them there forever.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">I\u2019ve learned to live with my scars. Now, they serve as a reminder of my past. Each one of my scars serves as a lesson.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">The scar on my soul teaches me that I shouldn&#8217;t trust all people easily. That they should first show me that they&#8217;re trustworthy and earn my trust.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">El de mi coraz\u00f3n me ense\u00f1a que debo tener cuidado la pr\u00f3xima vez que decida dar mi amor a alguien, y que s\u00f3lo debo creer que alguien me ama cuando me lo demuestre con sus actos.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/relationship\/tus-palabras-no-significan-nada-si-no-las-respaldas-con-hechos\/\"><b><i>Las palabras no tienen sentido<\/i><\/b><\/a><b><i> cuando se trata de amor.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Mis cicatrices son una especie de protecci\u00f3n para m\u00ed. Ver\u00e1s, antes de que entraras en mi vida, cre\u00eda sinceramente que todas las personas eran buenas.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-77890 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/woman-sitting-near-plants.jpg\" alt=\"mujer sentada cerca de plantas y valla mirando al mar\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/woman-sitting-near-plants.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/woman-sitting-near-plants-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/woman-sitting-near-plants-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">I was just a silly and naive young girl. I thought that I didn\u2019t need to be careful with men or protect myself from being hurt.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">After you, I put my guard very high up. I stopped needing people. I didn&#8217;t want to let anyone in my life again.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Nuestra relaci\u00f3n t\u00f3xica me ha ense\u00f1ado algunas cosas despu\u00e9s de todo. <\/span><b><i>It\u2019s taught me that it&#8217;s time to put myself on the throne of my life.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">I am the only person I can always rely on. I am the only person that\u2019s helped me and been there with me when no one else was.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Me llev\u00f3 alg\u00fan tiempo y un terrible desenga\u00f1o, pero fui capaz de dejarte de una vez por todas, y luego hacer que te dieras cuenta de que yo era una chica de una vez en la vida y te arrepintieras de perderme.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><b><i>Estoy seguro de que el <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/ser-la-mujer-que-necesitabas\/\">la versi\u00f3n futura de m\u00ed est\u00e1 orgullosa de la mujer en la que esa ni\u00f1a tonta se est\u00e1 convirtiendo<\/a>.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-77913 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/Im-Proud-Of-Myself-For-Being-Strong-Enough-To-Let-You-Go-Pinterest.jpg\" alt=\"Estoy orgulloso de m\u00ed mismo por ser lo suficientemente fuerte como para dejarte ir\" width=\"1000\" height=\"1500\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/Im-Proud-Of-Myself-For-Being-Strong-Enough-To-Let-You-Go-Pinterest.jpg 1000w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/Im-Proud-Of-Myself-For-Being-Strong-Enough-To-Let-You-Go-Pinterest-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/Im-Proud-Of-Myself-For-Being-Strong-Enough-To-Let-You-Go-Pinterest-683x1024.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/Im-Proud-Of-Myself-For-Being-Strong-Enough-To-Let-You-Go-Pinterest-768x1152.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1000px) 100vw, 1000px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Before I get started, I want to make a toast. Here is to the bravest, strongest, most stubborn and fearless woman I know. Cheers to me! No really, I deserve it. I went through so much but I am still here, still alive, still hoping for a better tomorrow. Bravest? I loved a man more&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":22,"featured_media":77883,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29644],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-77881","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-self-love"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29644,"label":"self-love"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/Im-Proud-Of-Myself-For-Being-Strong-Enough-To-Let-You-Go.jpg",800,534,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tina Navarro","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/tatiana\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29644,"name":"self-love","slug":"self-love","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29644,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Self-love is not an option but a necessity. 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