{"id":7822,"date":"2020-05-01T12:42:21","date_gmt":"2020-05-01T12:42:21","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=7822"},"modified":"2021-08-11T19:26:53","modified_gmt":"2021-08-11T19:26:53","slug":"prefiero-quedarme-soltera-elegir-conformarme-menos-merecer","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/prefiero-quedarme-soltera-elegir-conformarme-menos-merecer\/","title":{"rendered":"Prefiero seguir soltero a conformarme con menos de lo que merezco"},"content":{"rendered":"

When you\u2019ve been put through hell by different people, when people who should\u2019ve loved you chose not to, when you gave all of yourself to someone but it still didn\u2019t work out, you, too, will be able to observe single life as I do. <\/span><\/p>\n

Ser soltero da miedo y a menudo puede resultar solitario. <\/span><\/p>\n

Being single most definitely isn\u2019t for everyone, but everyone should try to walk alone for a while in life and use that alone time to learn how good it feels to be master of your own life. <\/span><\/p>\n

Todo el mundo deber\u00eda elegir estar soltero durante un breve o largo periodo de tiempo para darse cuenta de su verdadera val\u00eda. <\/span><\/p>\n

A lot of people are too scared to walk through life single. But I\u2019m more scared of falling for someone who doesn\u2019t deserve me. <\/b><\/p>\n

I\u2019m scared to give my best to someone who doesn\u2019t know what to do with it. <\/span><\/p>\n

I\u2019m scared to devote my time or a large period of my life to someone with whom it was never gonna work out. <\/span><\/p>\n

And most of all, I\u2019m scared to love someone who will destroy me. I don\u2019t want to fall for someone who\u2019s toxic and not see it. <\/span><\/p>\n

I\u2019m scared to lose myself to such a person, and that\u2019s why I\u2019d always choose the single life<\/a> over giving myself to someone who doesn\u2019t deserve me. <\/span><\/p>\n

When you choose to be single, when you refuse to give someone else the power to determine your worth, when you truly decide to get on good terms with yourself, only then you\u2019ll be able to feel good in your single skin. <\/span><\/p>\n

Only then you\u2019ll be able to see all the perks of a single life. <\/span><\/p>\n

La vida de soltero es para los que a\u00fan se buscan a s\u00ed mismos. <\/b><\/p>\n

No todas las personas se encuentran a s\u00ed mismas al mismo tiempo que el resto de la generaci\u00f3n a la que pertenecen. Algunos necesitan m\u00e1s tiempo. Yo soy uno de ellos.<\/span><\/p>\n

\"Chica<\/p>\n

Necesito m\u00e1s tiempo. Me niego a estresarme por no saber qu\u00e9 es lo que quiero ser o por no hacerlo tan bien como el resto de mis amigos. <\/span><\/p>\n

My time is yet to come, but I will not miss it because I\u2019m too preoccupied trying to be someone else. <\/span><\/p>\n

I\u2019ll meet it by trying to ser la mejor versi\u00f3n de m\u00ed mismo<\/a> y averiguar qu\u00e9 es lo que quiero en la vida. <\/span><\/p>\n

Una vida de soltero es para aquellos cuyo amor se desgast\u00f3. <\/b>Para la gente como yo. Para los que amaron demasiado y con demasiada fuerza y se rompieron. <\/span><\/p>\n

That\u2019s why I choose to be single. <\/span><\/p>\n

I choose to repair my broken heart on my own. I choose to give myself enough time to process what went wrong and to realize how to love because I\u2019ve been taught how <\/span>no<\/span><\/i> al amor por alguien a quien amaba m\u00e1s. <\/span><\/p>\n

La vida de soltero es para quienes eligen ser ego\u00edstas con quienes acogen en sus vidas. <\/b><\/p>\n

At some point, you\u2019re gonna have to put an end to welcoming toxic people into your life. That\u2019s exactly what I\u2019m doing now. <\/span><\/p>\n

I\u2019m through with giving all of me to those who wouldn’t move their fingers for me. <\/span><\/p>\n

I\u2019m learning how to only give a spot in my life to those people who deserve it. I know this lesson will take some time, but luckily, I have plenty of it.<\/span><\/p>\n

La vida de soltero es para los que saben lo que se merecen.<\/b><\/p>\n

Only then being single make sense. Only then do you have a clear image of what you want\u2014the rest is just wandering around. <\/span><\/p>\n

A single life is for those who know their worth and choose to wait for someone who\u2019ll be able to see it too.<\/span><\/p>\n

I\u2019d rather choose to be single than to settle for less than I deserve. <\/span><\/p>\n

I\u2019d rather choose to spend my nights alone than with someone who doesn\u2019t appreciate me, who treats me less than I am and someone who\u2019s with me just because I\u2019m convenient.<\/span><\/p>\n

Creo sinceramente que las personas merecen ser amadas. <\/b><\/p>\n

I believe we all deserve to have someone who\u2019s gonna kiss us goodnight, someone who\u2019ll ask us how our day was and someone who\u2019ll bring us some chocolate in bed with flowers on the plate when we\u2019re having a bad day. <\/b><\/p>\n

Creo que todos merecemos a alguien que nos cuide, respete y ame de verdad. <\/span><\/p>\n

We all deserve someone who\u2019s gonna invest his time in us, someone who will make it seem that loving us is the easiest thing in this world and someone who\u2019ll make sense out of bad things that happen to us. <\/span><\/p>\n

Cualquier otra cosa es conformarse con menos de lo que merecemos.<\/span><\/p>\n

V\u00e9ase tambi\u00e9n:<\/strong> A todas las chicas que luchan por abrazar la solter\u00eda<\/a><\/p>\n

So, I\u2019ll choose a single life over settling for less any time. <\/span><\/p>\n

I am the only one that can determine my worth and if I don\u2019t do it, there will be someone less competent who hasn\u2019t been there my whole life and has no idea what I\u2019ve been through to do it for me. <\/span><\/p>\n

And that\u2019s something I can\u2019t allow. <\/span><\/p>\n

Dicen que aceptamos el amor que creemos merecer y aqu\u00ed estoy, neg\u00e1ndome a conformarme con menos. <\/b><\/p>\n

Because if I’m going to be a whole human being, that’s exactly what I expect in return. <\/b><\/p>\n

There is no settling for half of a man or someone who doesn’t deserve me.\"Prefiero<\/b><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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