{"id":78269,"date":"2020-06-05T13:41:45","date_gmt":"2020-06-05T13:41:45","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=78269"},"modified":"2021-08-12T08:13:14","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T08:13:14","slug":"empieza-por-salir-contigo-mismo","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/empieza-por-salir-contigo-mismo\/","title":{"rendered":"Empieza por salir contigo mismo, porque todo comienza con el amor propio"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>The worst thing you can do is let your feelings for a guy control you. It&#8217;s like a special, magical eraser of your self-worth and self-love.<\/p>\n<p>He told you your hair was too long, so you cut it short, your glasses were making you look nerdy, so you put in lenses (suffering in the process of course but he would like it more), your bestie was too \u2018childish\u2019 so you stopped hanging out with her.<\/p>\n<p>\u00bfPOR QU\u00c9 CHICA, POR QU\u00c9? \u00bfRealmente vale la pena? \u00bfVale la pena perder lo que eres para hacerle feliz?<\/p>\n<p>What kind of man is he if he can&#8217;t love you the way you are but the way he shapes you to be??! You&#8217;re not a cake to be molded, you are a human being, A WOMAN!<\/p>\n<p><strong><em>As\u00ed que, MUJER, debes saber que, vayas donde vayas en este mundo, hagas lo que hagas, en alg\u00fan momento acaba contigo buscando el amor.<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Lo que a menudo olvidamos es que el amor est\u00e1 aqu\u00ed todo el tiempo. El amor m\u00e1s hermoso est\u00e1 dentro de nosotros; el amor por uno mismo.<\/p>\n<p>Todos, absolutamente todos, digan lo que digan, necesitan amor, al igual que t\u00fa, y muy a menudo, incluso con demasiada frecuencia, lo buscas en otras personas, pensando que son ellas las que pueden d\u00e1rtelo.<\/p>\n<p>In this process of seeking, you seem to forget one important thing: You are also giving lots of love. So what, you&#8217;ll ask. \u201cWhat is the point?\u201d<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-78272\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/backview-of-a-woman.jpg\" alt=\"vista trasera de una mujer contemplando el paisaje de pie en el interior con cortinas a su lado\" width=\"800\" height=\"529\"><\/p>\n<p><strong><em>Well, my dear, the point is, never but absolutely never give more love than you receive; otherwise, you&#8217;ll end up losing yourself in the worst way possible.<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n<p>You&#8217;ll end up leaving little pieces of yourself around, not knowing where they are and not being able to put them together ever again.<\/p>\n<p>Toda relaci\u00f3n sana se basa en dos personas que se quieren y que se quieren a s\u00ed mismas.<\/p>\n<p>You show others how they&#8217;ll treat you by how you treat yourself. You cannot expect love and respect from others if you don&#8217;t give yourself either.<\/p>\n<p>Los hombres ir\u00e1n y vendr\u00e1n en tu vida, pero t\u00fa siempre estar\u00e1s ah\u00ed. Esa es la raz\u00f3n principal por la que necesitas salir contigo misma antes de empezar a salir con nadie m\u00e1s.<\/p>\n<p>No importa c\u00f3mo evolucione tu relaci\u00f3n, si rompes o te casas, <strong><em>NUNCA SE PUEDE ROMPER<\/em> <em>CONTIGO<\/em>.<\/strong> You&#8217;re stuck with yourself forever.<\/p>\n<p>Tienes que ser tu prioridad n\u00famero uno, chica.<\/p>\n<p>In any case, you might end up being someone&#8217;s backup plan, their punching bag or the place where they go when no one else is around and they know you&#8217;ll give them love again, even if they betrayed you before.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-78273\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/couple-with-relationship-problem.jpg\" alt=\"pareja con problemas de relaci\u00f3n sentados en el sof\u00e1 con el hombre mensajes de texto en el tel\u00e9fono con la mujer a su lado\" width=\"800\" height=\"529\"><\/p>\n<p>\u00bfPor qu\u00e9 te quedar\u00edas con alguien que te enga\u00f1\u00f3, que te humill\u00f3 cada vez que pudo y que al final, de alguna manera, te hizo sentir que todo era culpa tuya?<\/p>\n<p>You must know, it is not. It is him who chooses to hurt you and that&#8217;s why you have to be your own number one.<\/p>\n<p>Do not get me wrong, if you want to receive love, you have to give love, it&#8217;s unavoidable, but it mustn&#8217;t be blindly giving and never receiving any.<\/p>\n<p>Nunca debes perseguir el amor a toda costa y descuidar cualquier otra parte de ti s\u00f3lo para que alguien te quiera.<\/p>\n<p>Business success, family, friends, even pets should not be suffering because you are fighting for someone who won&#8217;t fight back for you with the same strength as you do for them.<\/p>\n<p>No desprecies todas las partes de tu vida anterior para crear esta nueva, ya que podr\u00eda no merecer la pena en absoluto.<\/p>\n<p><em><strong>A veces, ser ego\u00edsta no est\u00e1 del todo mal.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n<p>No en el sentido de hacer da\u00f1o a otra persona para conseguir lo que quieres, sino en el sentido de que tus prioridades deben establecerse de forma que sepas lo que quieres y que nunca te doblegues por nadie.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-78274\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/woman-in-dawn-or-sunset.jpg\" alt=\"mujer al amanecer o al atardecer levantando los brazos para sentir la libertad cerca de la playa en silueta\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\"><\/p>\n<p>Y no lo digo en el sentido bueno y divertido de doblegar, sino de doblegar mentalmente.<\/p>\n<p>When you let a man get into your head and heart so much that you think you cannot live without him, you are being unfair to yourself. Then you&#8217;re saying that he is more important than you.<\/p>\n<p>Puedes vivir sin \u00e9l, sin ning\u00fan hombre en realidad, as\u00ed que haz la pregunta sobre si quieres, no sobre si puedes.<\/p>\n<p>Pero la verdad es que claro que puedes.<\/p>\n<p><strong><em>You&#8217;re a woman, you can do anything.<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Nunca en tu vida, repito, NUNCA, entregues todo tu poder a un hombre.<\/p>\n<p>Do not let him think he can treat you poorly and that you&#8217;ll stick around no matter what. That is not love, that is him being aware that you love him more and using it.<\/p>\n<p>Don&#8217;t wait for a second longer. Start the most beautiful relationship in your life. Start dating yourself. You are the only person you can fall in love with blindly.<\/p>\n<p>Acu\u00e9rdate, <strong><em>the more you love yourself, the less nonsense you&#8217;ll tolerate.<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-78277\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/Start-By-Dating-Yourself-Because-It-All-Starts-With-Self-Love-Pinterest.jpg\" alt=\"Empieza por salir contigo mismo, porque todo comienza con el amor propio\" width=\"1000\" height=\"1500\"><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>The worst thing you can do is let your feelings for a guy control you. It&#8217;s like a special, magical eraser of your self-worth and self-love. He told you your hair was too long, so you cut it short, your glasses were making you look nerdy, so you put in lenses (suffering in the process&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":22,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29644],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-78269","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-self-love"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29644,"label":"self-love"}]},"featured_image_src_large":false,"author_info":{"display_name":"Tina Navarro","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/tatiana\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29644,"name":"self-love","slug":"self-love","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29644,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Self-love is not an option but a necessity. 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