{"id":7843,"date":"2020-08-01T13:30:35","date_gmt":"2020-08-01T13:30:35","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=7843"},"modified":"2021-08-12T08:30:40","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T08:30:40","slug":"dating-girl-experienced-domestic-violence-know","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/dating-girl-experienced-domestic-violence-know\/","title":{"rendered":"Antes de salir con una chica que ha sufrido violencia dom\u00e9stica, debes saber esto"},"content":{"rendered":"

Una chica as\u00ed ha pasado por muchas cosas en su vida y todo lo que le ha ocurrido siempre formar\u00e1 parte de ella. Eso significa que necesita un hombre que est\u00e9 a su lado.<\/p>\n

Necesita a alguien que luche por ella y no con ella. Necesita un hombre que por fin sea su puerto seguro al que siempre pueda acudir cuando se sienta mal.<\/p>\n

Y, sobre todo, necesita que le demuestres tu amor y tu afecto.<\/p>\n

Por lo tanto, si quieres salir con una chica que ha sufrido violencia dom\u00e9stica, hay cosas que debes saber para para que tu relaci\u00f3n funcione.<\/a><\/p>\n

1. She can\u2019t run away from her past<\/span><\/h2>\n

Even if she wants to forget her past, she can\u2019t. There are some awful things that happened to her with her ex but all those things made her the person she is today\u2014strong, independent and the one who finally loves herself.<\/p>\n

Su pasado es s\u00f3lo una lecci\u00f3n que aprendi\u00f3 de forma dura, pero al menos sabe que nunca se conformar\u00e1 con menos de lo que merece.<\/p>\n

So, if you really care about her and if you want to make a nice story with her, try to embrace her with all her imperfections. And keep in mind that she wasn\u2019t guilty of the things that happened to her.<\/p>\n

S\u00f3lo ha tenido mala suerte en el amor, as\u00ed que aseg\u00farate de ense\u00f1arle lo que es el amor de verdad.<\/p>\n

2. El contacto f\u00edsico no le resulta f\u00e1cil<\/span><\/h2>\n

Tienes que entender que dej\u00f3 una relaci\u00f3n abusiva<\/a> en la que su pareja era f\u00edsicamente violenta y en la que ella sufri\u00f3 mucho.<\/p>\n

That\u2019s why she won\u2019t feel so comfortable for you to touch her at the beginning and you will have to gain her trust so she can properly relax and do the first move.<\/p>\n

Tiene traumas de su pasado, por lo que significar\u00eda mucho para ella si pudieras entender c\u00f3mo se siente y su decisi\u00f3n de que quiere tom\u00e1rselo todo con calma.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t think that she doesn\u2019t want you to hug her or touch her, because she wants it all but when it is the right time.<\/p>\n

3. Se siente vac\u00eda y perdida<\/span><\/h2>\n

Even if she escaped her abusive relationship, she still didn\u2019t gain trust in herself.<\/p>\n

She is still quite empty and lost, and she doesn\u2019t know where the right path is for her. That\u2019s why she needs a man who will be her leader and who will know what is best for her.<\/p>\n

Necesita a alguien a quien sentirse segura para contarle todas las cosas horribles que le han pasado con la esperanza de que un hombre as\u00ed la ayude a superar sus problemas.<\/p>\n

4. Necesita que seas paciente<\/span><\/h2>\n

Todo hombre quiere saber qu\u00e9 le pas\u00f3 a su pareja en una relaci\u00f3n anterior a la suya, sobre todo si fue abusiva. Sabe que quieres conocer todos los detalles, pero tambi\u00e9n necesita algo de tiempo para abrirse a ti.<\/p>\n

You were never in her shoes and you don\u2019t know what it feels like when a man you love the most hits you or belittles you.<\/p>\n

When she is ready to tell you all about her experience, she will open up to you but until that happens, just be patient and don\u2019t force her to anything.<\/p>\n

5. Necesita tu apoyo<\/span><\/h2>\n

When she finally gets the courage to sit down and to talk to you, don\u2019t make her feel bad by feeling sorry for what happened to her. She doesn\u2019t need that. She doesn\u2019t need you to look at her like at the victim.<\/p>\n

Quiere que le digas que es fuerte. Quiere o\u00edr que est\u00e1s orgulloso de ella y de todo lo que ha hecho para librarse de un compa\u00f1ero maltratador.<\/p>\n

Tell her all that she wants to hear and whatever you do, don\u2019t forget to tell her that you love her\u2014porque eso es lo que m\u00e1s importa.<\/a><\/p>\n

6. Se merece algo mejor y lo sabe<\/span><\/h2>\n

Esta es una mujer que ha pasado por m\u00e1s mierda en su vida de la que puedas imaginar.<\/p>\n

Es una persona que sabe lo que se siente al ser feliz, pero tambi\u00e9n lo que se siente al ser golpeado hasta la muerte emocional.<\/p>\n

Ahora, cuando se ha librado de esa situaci\u00f3n, es consciente de que se merece unas circunstancias mucho mejores que en las que ha estado y est\u00e1 dispuesta a hacer lo que sea para sentirse por fin satisfecha y feliz.<\/p>\n

Espero que le demuestres lo que es el amor de verdad y que seas el alma gemela que ella ha deseado durante tanto tiempo.<\/p>\n

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