{"id":7849,"date":"2017-11-01T14:24:29","date_gmt":"2017-11-01T14:24:29","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=7849"},"modified":"2022-02-27T02:05:32","modified_gmt":"2022-02-27T02:05:32","slug":"enamorarse-persona-equivocada-algo-necesita-menos","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/enamorarse-persona-equivocada-algo-necesita-menos\/","title":{"rendered":"Por qu\u00e9 enamorarse de la persona equivocada es algo que debes hacer al menos una vez"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Cuando termina una mala relaci\u00f3n, estamos tan agotados y tan exhaustos que no queremos saber nada del amor. Juramos por todo lo sagrado que no volveremos a enamorarnos.<a href=\"https:\/\/www.huffingtonpost.com\/mo-seetubtim\/7-valuable-life-lessons-from-a-failed-relationship_b_5538960.html\" rel=\"noopener\"> Una mala relaci\u00f3n fue una lecci\u00f3n aprendida<\/a> but we don\u2019t want to hear it at the time. So, we build walls around our hearts so high that no one could climb them.<\/p>\n<p>We look at broken relationships like they\u2019re the end of the world as we know it. They\u2019re bad. Ugly. It hurts. It\u2019s all but pretty. They leave us in mess and feeling like a walking disaster.<\/p>\n<p>Nos olvidamos del significado del tiempo en nuestras vidas. El tiempo es la cura m\u00e1s significativa para todo. El tiempo nos hace ver las cosas desde otra perspectiva. Cuando nos distanciamos de la negatividad que causaron las personas equivocadas, somos capaces de ver por qu\u00e9 un<br \/>\nun coraz\u00f3n roto podr\u00eda ser lo mejor que nos ha pasado.<\/p>\n<p>En primer lugar, hemos aprendido la lecci\u00f3n. Puede que no queramos darnos cuenta, pero lo hicimos. Nunca aprendemos nada en la vida cuando todo es arco iris y sol. Aprendemos de las lluvias y las tormentas. <a href=\"https:\/\/www.elitedaily.com\/life\/why-you-need-to-learn-from-your-mistakes\" rel=\"noopener\">Aprendemos de nuestros errores.<\/a> We learn where we went wrong so we don\u2019t make the same mistakes next time.<\/p>\n<p><em>Of course, there will always be mistakes that we will make three, four, five times just to make sure they are really mistakes. That\u2019s also something we shouldn\u2019t regret. We behaved as we felt at the time and we stayed true to our hearts.<\/em><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-7853 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/11\/allef-vinicius-398284.jpg\" alt=\"Por qu\u00e9 enamorarse de la persona equivocada es algo que debes hacer al menos una vez \" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/11\/allef-vinicius-398284.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/11\/allef-vinicius-398284-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/11\/allef-vinicius-398284-768x512.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/11\/allef-vinicius-398284-180x120.jpg 180w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/11\/allef-vinicius-398284-262x175.jpg 262w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>A veces tardamos m\u00e1s en darnos cuenta de que estamos metidos en algo malo. A veces estamos demasiado cerca para ver que alguien no nos conviene.<\/p>\n<p>The biggest lesson we learned here that is that sometimes we can\u2019t trust our hearts to make decisions\u2014we have to take our brain with us, too. Because the heart can mislead. It makes us look at things through rose-colored glasses. It makes us forgive when things can\u2019t be forgiven. It makes us forget the unforgettable.<\/p>\n<p>But when we distance ourselves from the wrong person, only then we can see where we went wrong. That\u2019s when we can see clearly. That\u2019s when everything starts making sense.<\/p>\n<p>Nunca deber\u00edamos arrepentirnos. Todas las l\u00e1grimas, el sudor y la sangre que derramamos todas las veces que fracasamos valieron la pena. Lo intentamos. El chico equivocado estaba ah\u00ed para hacernos ver lo que no es el amor.<br \/>\n<a href=\"https:\/\/thoughtcatalog.com\/lauren-jarvis-gibson\/2016\/09\/youre-not-in-love-with-him-youre-in-love-with-what-you-had\/\" rel=\"noopener\">Love isn\u2019t what you had with him.<\/a> Love isn\u2019t one-sided. Love is hard work but not constant sacrifice. Love isn\u2019t supposed to hurt\u2014love should be kind. Love isn\u2019t what somebody says, it is what somebody does.<\/p>\n<p><strong>With the wrong person, the timing will always be wrong. It will always be too soon for certain things. He won\u2019t ever be ready. He won\u2019t be ready to give his all. He won\u2019t be ready to commit. When he comes to his senses, it will be too late for you. It will always be too late for him to change. Because you will be someone else without him.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Don\u2019t let one bad relationship close your heart. Take down those walls you built because of the wrong guy. <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/no-dejes-que-la-persona-que-no-amas-mantenga-una-voluntad\/\">Don\u2019t let him keep you away from the right one<\/a>. Don\u2019t let him influence your life.<\/p>\n<p>Ten en cuenta que una mala relaci\u00f3n era inevitable. Hay algo gratificante en aprender sobre ti mismo a trav\u00e9s del dolor que te caus\u00f3 la persona equivocada. Agradece que ocurriera porque aprendiste. Da gracias por haberte librado de \u00e9l a tiempo.<\/p>\n<p><strong><em>Ten\u00edas que estar con el tipo equivocado para poder reconocer al correcto cuando apareciera. Tuviste que estar con el tipo equivocado para no tener dudas cuando se te presente el correcto.<\/em><\/strong><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>When a bad relationship ends, we are so drained and so exhausted that we don\u2019t want to know anything about love. We swear by everything that is holy we will never fall in love again. A bad relationship was a lesson learned but we don\u2019t want to hear it at the time. So, we build&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":53,"featured_media":7854,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29614],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-7849","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-love-talks"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29614,"label":"love talks"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/11\/pablo-varela-311608-1.jpg",800,599,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Ariel Quinn","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/ariel\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29614,"name":"love talks","slug":"love-talks","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29614,"taxonomy":"category","description":"What is love? 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