{"id":7880,"date":"2020-11-02T11:37:52","date_gmt":"2020-11-02T11:37:52","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=7880"},"modified":"2022-01-24T16:09:00","modified_gmt":"2022-01-24T16:09:00","slug":"carta-chica-finalmente-se-alejo","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/carta-chica-finalmente-se-alejo\/","title":{"rendered":"Carta a la chica que finalmente se march\u00f3"},"content":{"rendered":"

Queridos valientes,<\/p>\n

Let me tell you something you won’t feel comfortable to hear.<\/strong> Aunque ahora te cueste creerlo, hiciste lo correcto.<\/p>\n

Hay que tener mucho valor para alejarse de alguien a quien se amaba. Pero alejarse de algo que una vez fue amor (pero ya no lo es) es lo \u00fanico correcto.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t hold on to something that no longer serves you. The only correct thing to do when the person you love stops appreciating you is to walk away. Hiciste lo correcto.<\/a><\/p>\n

El amor que hubo una vez hace tiempo que desapareci\u00f3.<\/strong> The thing you had before faded away. But please, don\u2019t blame yourself. You gave it your best. You did everything you could.<\/p>\n

Your efforts were honest and sometimes even desperate, but they were there. You tried\u2014you tried so hard before you gave up. But you couldn\u2019t\u2019ve made it work out on your own.<\/p>\n

Tu historia estaba condenada a terminar sin final feliz en el momento en que la otra parte se rindiera.<\/strong> Because no matter how hard you try, if you are the only one fighting for both of you, it\u2019s in vain.<\/p>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Puede que consiguierais daros uno o dos kil\u00f3metros m\u00e1s en vuestro viaje conjunto, pero ese camino ten\u00eda un callej\u00f3n sin salida en cualquier caso.<\/p>\n

\u00bfPor qu\u00e9 tienes que seguir luchando?<\/strong> I admire your passion and your faith that you could make things better, but it didn\u2019t work, did it?<\/p>\n

At what point of being the only one that\u2019s trying did you realize that it was in vain?<\/p>\n

At what point did you realize that you\u2019re breaking a sweat over someone who wouldn\u2019t even lift a finger for you? You did a good thing by giving up.<\/p>\n

El amor que una vez signific\u00f3 el mundo para ti se convirti\u00f3 en nada m\u00e1s que consuelo para ti.<\/strong> Era acogedor y ligeramente c\u00e1lido, pero ya no hab\u00eda pasi\u00f3n<\/a>\u2014the fire got burned out.<\/p>\n

Ya no hab\u00eda chispas en los ojos. La admiraci\u00f3n mutua se desvaneci\u00f3 y lo \u00fanico que quedaba y os manten\u00eda unidos eran los recuerdos de los viejos tiempos.<\/p>\n

But that\u2019s not how you live and that\u2019s not how you love.<\/p>\n

Lo peor de la vida es encontrarte al final de la lista a alguien a quien sigues poniendo como prioridad.<\/strong><\/p>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

The worst feeling is when you\u2019d swim the oceans for someone who keeps finding excuses when you need him. I swear it\u2019s the ugliest feeling there is, but you know that too well, don\u2019t you?<\/p>\n

A una chica como t\u00fa debe ser apreciada<\/a>no darlo por sentado.<\/strong> Because you\u2019re so selfless with your love and your kindness.<\/p>\n

And if that\u2019s not worth the fight, if you\u2019re not worth the fight, I have no idea who is.<\/p>\n

Precisamente por tu amabilidad, te cuesta dejar a la gente.<\/strong> Te cuesta alejarte y dejar solos a quienes te importan, independientemente de c\u00f3mo te traten.<\/p>\n

Pero a veces, s\u00f3lo tienes que ser amable contigo mismo, eligiendo quererte y valorarte cuando no hay nadie m\u00e1s dispuesto a notar tus esfuerzos. Hiciste lo correcto al alejarte.<\/p>\n

S\u00e9 que alejarse fue duro.<\/strong><\/a> S\u00e9 que renunciar a todo aquello en lo que crees te quebr\u00f3. S\u00e9 que fue doloroso tener que hacerlo aunque no te quedara otra opci\u00f3n.<\/p>\n

S\u00e9 que lloraste y sentiste que algo faltaba en tu vida y en tu coraz\u00f3n aunque hiciste lo \u00fanico que era correcto hacer.<\/p>\n

Because of the person you are, you can\u2019t help but stop wondering if there is something else, something more you could\u2019ve done to make things better.<\/strong><\/p>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

But you gave your all\u2014there wasn\u2019t anything else to give anymore. So, stop second-guessing your decision.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Ya est\u00e1 bien.<\/strong> The pain you feel now will eventually go away. The feeling you\u2019re the one that betrayed someone will fade away. Because it\u2019s not real.<\/p>\n

You didn\u2019t betray anyone\u2014you just saved yourself when there was nobody else to take care of you.<\/p>\n

Sometimes, you\u2019re bound to do the right thing even though it hurts like hell.<\/strong> A veces hay que romperse para poder seguir adelante.<\/p>\n

By walking away you get to be broken only once by doing the right thing. To stay would mean you\u2019re choosing to let someone keep breaking you over and over again just because you love him.<\/p>\n

Hiciste lo correcto cuando finalmente reuniste el valor para alejarte.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Atentamente,<\/p>\n

Alguien que ya estaba all\u00ed<\/p>\n

\"Carta<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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